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[blueraspberrycoke]

TIF is upset she’s not invited to a party she identified herself out of. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

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[vexingwoman]

I'm sorry if this isn't articulated well and is a little rambly, I'm autistic, please take my words with a grain of salt. as a former member of that "whump community" (who's still into that kind of media) I know most of them are tifs, tho I was in it more when most of the popular writers on tumblr were still girls. It's also primarily autistic people from my experience.

you're definitely 100% right that they're not identifying as real men, I'm detrans and i don't even conflate the 2 in my mind which i think is a thing most RFs don't get about yaoi and this kind of thing, i didn't want to be a real guy, fictional men r like their own species lol. they're everything real men could never be. it might be hard to understand if you're less chronically online but I'm sure though not consciously, fictional men aren't even really related to real men in most of these people's minds.

With whump stuff I was always more uncomfortable or uninterested when it was a woman, maybe because women in media being hurt and weak is the norm (and it feels too real seeing a woman getting hurt since there's a closer connection), and it happening to men is an intriguing reversal. More male attracted women (im bi) are into more sensitive guys which sadly mostly exist in media, so it's just escapism.

I think that's also why they identify as trans males, they want to become closer to the fictional ideal of a male who can be soft and sensitive, or possibly being autistic and having trouble separating your special interests and escapist fantasies from every facet of your life.

(For context, this was sent in response to this post)

I think you’re onto something here. Brutality against female people is so common that we’re completely desensitized to it, and consequently, female characters being brutalized doesn’t emotionally move us. Either that, or brutality against female characters is highly sexualized, and further dehumanizes them. 

On the other hand, brutality against a male character is unexpected and unusual. Therefore, we are emotionally moved by it and able to recognize it for the tragedy it is. Indeed, this might explain why the “whump community” almost exclusively romanticizes the torture and anguish of male characters, and why so many of its members identify as trans guys. 

Furthermore, have you noticed that most of the tropes this community romanticizes are things that, at least in real life, female people are primarily the victims of? For example: rape, kidnapping, stalking, being drugged, being sold. It almost feels like an attempt to vicariously garner empathy for female suffering, without the element of being another cliché female victim. I feel like they impose female suffering onto male characters because they know the audience actually empathizes for males and views them as full human beings. 

In the end, I think it all comes down to female people’s desire to be fully humanized and to escape gendered stereotyping. For example, you stated that many trans-identified females “want to become closer to the fictional ideal of a male who can be soft and sensitive.” But why is a soft, sensitive male character so much more charming to them than a soft, sensitive female character? 

Because in their eyes, softness and sensitivity in a male character is seen as authentic; it’s seen as a consequence of his unique personality. But softness and sensitivity in a female character is seen as expected, as stereotypical—it’s seen only a consequence of her gender. This is also why characters who are fathers are adored, while characters who are mothers are overlooked or scrutinized. Because a male character taking care of children is kindhearted, nurturing, selfless, compassionate. But a female character taking care of children is just doing her job.

Basically, I think many trans-identified females would like their softness and sensitivity to be viewed as authentically as we view softness and sensitivity in males. I think many trans-identified females crave for their characteristics to be viewed as consequences of their unique personalities, rather than consequences of their gender. They crave to be seen as human first and female second—not the other way around. 

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[magicalcloudwitchsstuff]

Anyway one day when we were still on speaking terms and I hadn't peaked yet, I was watching Mulan with my TIF sister and she said "Mulan is a trans man" and I said "not every tomboy is a trans man" so she pouted and didn't talk to me for the entire day.

#transgender #gender critical #radfem #feminism #radical feminism #radblr #radicalfeminism #TIF #trans-identified

[radfemfox5]

so, funny story. Miss Italy just banned trans identified males. So to protest that decision, a bunch of trans identified females entered the contest. Admitting they’re woman…what a self own.

ICYMI: on the heels of a TiM winning the Miss Netherlands beauty pageant, the Miss Italy pageant has decided to limit participation to "women from birth."

I hate beauty pageants as much as the next girl, but, I mean, come on. This is a joke. An actual woman who looks like this would never even enter a pageant, let alone win the whole fucking thing. The double standard here is crazy, and I think Italy saw the writing on the wall and decided to get ahead of it. Good on them, honestly.

So to protest that decision, a bunch of trans identified females entered the contest. Admitting they’re woman…what a self own.

Yeah, it's pretty comical.

They're trying to convince the organizers that their definition of woman is inaccurate because these people are female "men." The thing is, paradoxically, they're proving the organizers right, they are nothing like men.

So, they say this, but the featured image of the article is a trans man's application being confirmed.

If anything, she'll be denied later on for being too ugly, not for being a man, as she stated.

It's funny to me how TiFs ardently defend TiMs while TiMs either stay silent or are incredibly aggressive towards TiFs for having "male privilege." It's almost like gendered socialization has a profound impact on you even if you choose to identify as something else.

Where were the TiMs when female reproductive rights were being taken away? Oh right, they were busy calling us "uterus havers." Meanwhile TiFs were offering up their uterus to TiMs. Insanity all around.

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[wolfw33d]

#puppyposting #bruises #bite marks #tif

[happystings]

yeah I'm a "TIF"

a trans inclusive feminist

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[sakamichibeeldarchief]

#長濱ねる #TIF #欅坂46

[sakamichi-steps]

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[bbbhfhjggjf]

Here's how to make TIMs performing in female only sports fair:

Give the second place winner behind the TIM the first place prize, pretend the incel wasn't there to begin with lmao

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[magicalcloudwitchsstuff]

Okay but if you don't disclose to me that you're transgender and we get intimate I am expecting one kind of sex but you're putting me in a situation where there's going to be another kind of sex, therefore infringing on my consent.

If I expect you to have a vagina, the option I'm most likely agreeing to is digital penetration, at best. Maybe I'm not expecting any penetration at all. If you don't disclose you have a penis an option I never consider is now forced upon me. It's no different than men trying to switch to anal sex without asking in hope that you're just going to not react to it because they know that you don't want to have anal sex and if they asked you're going to say no.

And it comes from the same rape-y mentality of putting you in a situation where no is an option but such a hard one that it's easier to have sex with the man than tell him no. Some of us will say no but many, many of us will freeze and not be able to react. You know who does that kind of stuff? The word stars with r and ends with apists.

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[mrwald0]

Fanart for furiousophie thranto fanfiction, Post • mor • tem,😖💕

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Brony Song Tournament

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Broken Wings

Descending Dawn (Meditation Mode)

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