#this whole ask was me going Women

[lyxchen]

I have another question because i have been confused about this for Years. What is considered short hair for women? Because I keep seeing videos like "haistyles for women with short hair" or "i finally cut my hair short" and then the hair is shoulder length, which in my opinion isn't really that short. This might just be because I have generally pretty short hair so shoulder length is actually the longest my hair ever gets but it's still weird for me to hear others call that short. So I'm making a poll:

And by "short" I really mean the term 'short' and not just a general description

#i love polls cause i can ask the most random questions #but really this does bother me for some reason #like i get that women who have like hair that goes down their whole back will consider getting shoulder length hair as short #because compared to their hair before cutting it that is short #but whenever i see a hair transition video of a woman cutting her hair 'short' and then it's just shoulder legth it does disappoint me a bit #i don't know why #just like #go all the way girl i promise it looks good!!! #anyways #that's it #polls #lea's random thoughts

[sailforvalinor]

Val Is Pretty Sure She Might Be Losing Her Mind, more at 11

#okay so y’all. do you happen to remember Alcott Boy? the guy I had a crush on from school last year (or really the whole time I’ve been in #college honestly) who had Opinions on Little Women #yeah him. anyway I thought I was over my crush on him but GUESS WHAT it’s back and worse than ever #like I only have one class with him that’s once a week but guys guys I feel like I’m LOSING MY MIND like. I’ve never felt the urge to #actually go up to a guy and say ‘hey do you wanna go out with me?’!! like I would never actually do that but the urge is most definitely #there??? and it’s not even that he’s cute (although I mean I think he’s cute) but he’s really really intelligent and funny and very notably #always willing to bring up his faith in class discussions (and this isn’t really the campus for that) and I’ve always admired him for that #(this is also the boy that looked at something I wrote in fiction class and said ‘that’s it that’s what love is supposed to be like!!’ LIKE #) and I genuinely don’t know what to do #like should I be concerned that I feel this strongly so soon after The Boy?? should I be concerned that this might just be limerance??? #my roommate has been offering to talk to him for me and ask if he’s single and is it insane that I’m actually considering it??? #like if I’m going to now is the ideal time—I’ve already had my class with him this week and spring break is next week #and I’m certain he would never make me feel bad if he didn’t feel the same. but if he did wouldn’t he have said something by now? I don’t #know I don’t know I don’t knooowww #but I graduate in two months and I don’t want to regret it for the rest of my life

[softshuji]

Any men out there wanna pretend to be my bf to get my parents off my case about marriage? I am so so serious right now.

#my mom gave me a really really lonf lecture and upset me because her and my dad want me to start thinking about settling down ans getting #married. again. cos this comes up all the time. ans I reiterated that i do wanna marry and have kids. i know im 26 years old why do they' #think im also not aware of this??? like i suddenly forgot my own age and have my head in the clouds all the time. and i got so heated cos i #said they only believe in that in theory. in reality neither of them have accepted the idea od my leaving home or the idea of mw being with #a man. and they start freaking out if they even find out i talk to them so to say they want me to get married is so fucking naive #ans when i mentioned this and that they're more than ok w mt brothers talking tp women she said that if i wanted to settle down she could #talk to dad and they could “go about finding someone for me” and I've never been so pissed #i got so upset. why does everyone keep saying this to me. as if anyone my dad knows could ever be a half decent man #and the truth is they don't care if im in a happy marriage they've accepted that i won't be they only care that im gone and saving face in #front of family. that's all. it's always reputation it's always “what will people say?” #not once did love come up. not once did shw even imply that i should marryfor love #or that they hope i love someone and marry them. because they're more happy with the idea of me marrying for the sake of it than #they are at the idea of me finding genuine lovw #im not a fucking broodmare im not here to push out babies for the sake od reputation. #and then i said nor being married isn't the end of the world and she said “it's important that you settle down” #and i said im unwavering in my principles. she can call mw high maintenance like she loves doing but I'm not wavering on the #kind of man i want to be with and when i do marry him i want it to bw genuine. because be loves me and vice versa not because im ticking off #somethin from a damn checklist to appease them. and if being unwavering on my principles means staying unmarried then so be it. #my obligations are to god and myself and that's it #and y'know what??? i am in love with a boy already #and yet they don't care that i wanna be in love at all. no im just a puppet to follow a certain narrative in life live according to evergone #else has and that's it. #im done. #and then she tried to apologise by getting me a slice of cake and that somehow made me feel worse. #i dont want an apology. i want to be heard and actually listened to for once. i want someone to ask what i want. to actually give a shit #and love me cos it's me. not cos im some thing to further an agenda. or some toy or puppet that does your bidding. #is it so much??? to just want to be loved in return? to marry and live according to how i want to?? ans not want anyone to make these #decision's for me? #ruined my whole day.

[kaeyx]

i haven't been reading your blog for long, but your actual adherence to a gender neutral reader feels really nice. i'm not a girl or a woman but i do have the body of one and i do enjoy being feminine, sometimes. but being feminine can feel a bit tiring or overwhelming at times and it's nice that your blog can give me a break from that.

i like that i can relate to the bodily parts and not have to feel weird when the reader is (hyper) feminine, basically.

keep up the great work!

Thank you so much! I'm a bit sick of all the reader inserts being girls myself, even though I know that's just the widest demographic and it makes sense. Lots of blogs have some gender neutral readers but they're always afab and I never know when I'm going to get a "good girl" sprung on me. I love having my own strictly neutral + masc space, because I know there's more people like me out there who want to enjoy xreader content without being called women. I'm glad other trans/nb/gnc people like it!

#my blog title is a nod to this lol #the whole reason i started writing was to make the shit i wanted to see #there's a gap in the market and by god I'm going to fill it #just to be clear women are absolutely allowed to interact with me send asks reblog anything you want #but my reader will never be a woman and this blog will never focus on women #leo.says

[deklo]

got fat shamed by an 80+ year old woman today at an all you can eat pizza night GIRLLLL

#me and my sister two young women with barely any income: gotta get our moneys worth! #the woman: that’s a horrible way to think. i’ve been size two my whole life. i get full so easily. i worked until i was 79 #DIDNT ASK #DONT CARE #great pizza love this place been going since i was a wee baby

[scorpiusmalfoylovesoscarwilde]

I KEEP GETTING RECOMMENDED SO MANY DRAMIONE TWEETS HELP

I don't understand where they're all cOMING FROOMM why do they all HATE ASTORIA WHAT DID MY GIRL DO TO YALL BFFR LEAVE HER ALONE 🗣🗣

#i barely even use twitter man #but i keep getting them pushed towards me WHY #if you ship dramione then good for you idc‼️but i did not ask for all these tweets and why are half of them allergic to respecting astoria😭 #the amount of dramione shippers who make astoria an arranged marriage who dies after giving birth and never mention her again is just 💀💀 #im going to scream put some RESPECT ON MY GIRLS NAME #if youre gonna include scorpius in the fic or headcanon or whatever THE ONLY THING I WILL ACCEPT IS THEY HAD A LOVING MEANINGFUL MARRIAGE #‼️WHICH THEY DID‼️ #and then she dies like canon 🙄🙄 and draco spends ages grieving BUT ALWAYS KEEPS ASTORIA IN THE PICTYRE TALKS ABOUT HER THINKS ABOUT HER #ESPECIALLH AROUND SCORPIUS THAT IS HIS WHOLE MUM OKAY #SHE IS THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE #and then 🙄🙄 i guess 🙄🙄 hes allowed to heal and move on BUT HE STILL BETTER KNOW SHE IS THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE AND SHE WILL BE MENTIONED AT #EVERY POSSIBLE MOMENT 🤺🤺🤺🤺 #i saw one tweet which was like omg arranged marriage astoria she dies rught after giving birth and then HERMIONE SATRTS BABYSITTING!!! 😝😍 #AND THEN SCORPIUS CALLS HER MAMA 🤭🤭🤭 AND DRACOS LIKE OMG SO TRUE SHE BASICALLY IS HIS MOTHERR #when i tell you i felt so much rage #AND ASTORIA WAS NOT MENTIONED AT ALL SINCE THE FIRST PART OF ARRANGED MARRIAGE GAVE BIRTH DIED LIKE EXCUSE ME #SHUT UP???????? #im still mad can you tell #the treatment of women in hp both canon and fanon tbh is my roman empire i will never not be thinking about it #it makes me so so angry #and all the replies to it were like omg so cute 🥺🥺🥺🥺 hermiones his mum now! #dracos in love now!! 🥺🥺🥺 #shut the FUCK UP #i know a lot of it is caused by the fact we know jackshit about astoria because her treatment in canon is not much better but plz 😭😭 #yall made the marauders fandom outta nothing and you cant use a little imagination to make sure astoria isnt just a FUCKING INCUBATOR?? #astoria greengrass you deserve so much better babygirl #astoria greengrass #hpcc #im scared to tag draco malfoy the stans might come for me #i am so god awfully sorry about the amount of tags here oh my days

[blueskittlesart]

Hi! As someone who now kinda wants to check out Trigun because of the hype, do you recommend that I can start with Stampede? Or do I really need to watch the OG anime first to better understand/enjoy it? Thank you! 🙋🏻‍♀️

you can start with stampede! i'd say knowing the context of the original enhances the experience but isn't necessary to enjoy the show. I would consider stampede more viewer-friendly, especially for those of us who are used to modern storytelling conventions (the original suffers the consequences of general writing trends in anime at the time it was produced and of the fact that it was produced long before the manga was finished, so the story is somewhat disjointed and has a lot of filler which makes it REALLY hard to get into.) if you do end up liking stampede, however, I'd suggest trying out watching at least SOME of the original because it adds a lot of cool nuance and context to the story that stampede tells!

#your only REAL handicap is that you're missing out on references that clue you into the context of the story early on #and quite a few references in the finale. but none of those references are hugely necessary to understand the plot so you should be fine! #i didn't DISLIKE the origial and like i said im glad i watched it first but it was. REALLY hard to get into. #even as someone who understands writing trends & enjoys a lot of older anime trigun is. a product of its time. #there's almost no context given for the story you're witnessing until a good 20 episodes in. #the main villain isn't named at all until halfway through the runtime #and even TWO EPISODES BEFORE THE FINALE i still did not have enough information to fully understand what the hell was going on #vash was going into the final fucking battle and i still didn't know what knives WAS let alone what the fuck he WANTED #not to mention nick was FULLY DEAD and i still didnt know what his deal was. like ok go off king have ur moment bleeding out in the church #but can you EXPLAIN WHATS GOING ON BEFORE YOU SUCCUMB TO THE BLOOD LOSS PLEASEEEEEEEE GOD #stampede does that whole thing WAY better imo. it sprinkles the backstory more naturally throughout the show #again. part of this is 90s writing conventions. but there's only so much i can take fr #it was like comparable to evangelion in terms of LACK OF CONTEXT #anyways. this isnt supposed to be me complaining about the original. it had its moments. i watched 24 episodes of it like it was not BAD #but like. i think the story really benefits from the way that stampede chooses to lay everything out. is what im saying. #tldr watch them in whatever order but if you like stampede try the original #you might not like it more than stampede but you WILL feel cool when you realize how it all relates to stampede #asks #vash is also WAAAAAY sexier in stampede. HOWEVER. the women of the show are like 10 times sexier in the original. so. pick your poison ig

[everythingsinred]

controversial opinion of the year is that i dont think barbie was that great bc its message was all over the place and also they didnt realize they had made kens the women in their story so it just seemed bizarrely misogynistic to me

#little anya things #me mid-movie: ahh i see so the kens are women in this lil scenario #the movie: ACTUALLY no we have no idea what we're doing #before u come at me. 1. 'women view each other as competitors not for jobs or accomplishments #but for the attention of men' #2. the general vibe of condescension towards ken's efforts on beach echoing specific condescension of men towards women's interests #that 'oh u pathetic thing u' vibe was so strong #3. ken being shocked that a woman respected him enough to ask him for the time. an event that HAS NEVER happened to him before #he is so touched by the feeling of respect... 4. nobody knows where the kens even live. #miss representation quote abt how 50% of the population is disinterested in the other half. #5. barbie feels instantly objectified in the real world whereas ken instantly feels respected in a way hed never been #6. they dont even have genitals so ken arent actually men and barbies arent actually women bc thats not how things work in their world #listen the first half of that movie i was like. so kens are women here. #then theres the typical revenge narrative where they start the 'patriarchy' that wasnt rly all that creative but fine #but then they got all confusing and barbies are women and kens are just men who have been rightfully oppressed all along?? even tho #theyve been women-coded this whole time. okay #7. kens go back to having no government representation or right to vote and this is sposed to be funny. i guess? #im not mad at the movie for being misandrist bc it wasnt. it was just trying too hard to do too many things #that it ended up just seeming misogynistic to me #not to mention it was doing the bare minimum and is just step one in a huge capitalist ploy to start making a bunch of toy-related movies #im genuinely shocked i havent seen any criticism abt it on tumblr when its such a sloppy film throwing out a confused message #in order to make money and sell dolls. what exactly am i supposed to take away from this.... it just seems so bizarrely hypocritical #for mattel to make a movie where they feature as side-antagonists who essentially learn nothing... just for mattel irl to make more money #off of everything they mentioned in the movie. like. what changed. #also america ferrera's character existed just to give that speech and otherwise she and her daughter were not relevant to the plot at all #it was funny and aesthetic and all but the more i think abt it the more im not all that impressed. idk. am i missing smth #i dont think so. i disagree w most ppl's analysis praising it. idk idk

[vivi-mire]

re: your tags on the "female characters in fandoms" post

as a certified hater bitch lesbian (and as one who does have a fair number of m/m ships so you know I see this shit everywhere) it gets fucking ANNOYING when people relegate female characters to being lesbians literally only to get them out of the way of a ship--and the problem isn't that they are GAY, but that there's never any thought put into them being gay!! fans treat it like the whole identity is just a write-off to move them into a little box away from the dudes!! far be it from me to go to bat for het ships because I just don't care enough to do that but if people are only gonna be talking about lesbians if it's to surgically remove them from a story then I don't really see it as any more fuckin progressive than putting them with a random side character MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111

FOR REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Whenever there's a female character they get regulated to "snarky lesbian best friend" !!!!! Heaven forbid a female character be the love interest that gets in the way of the m/m ship!! better remove her from the equation!! hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh it is SO annyoying to see. its hard to even articulate how much is wrong with it but the fact that it uses being lesbian as almost a punishment and erases bi people altogether!!! its just used to remove them from the narrative and maybe get them a love interest in the form of another girl they needed out of the way.

#riya speaks #ask #its so hard seeing this all time #and sometimes i feel like no one else sees it!!!! #DJ we are holding hands and spinning #that gif is exactly how it makes me feel #hh theres this one pairing i keep seeing it in. and i wont go into details but this guy had a past relationship with a female character #and people seem to think that you need to remove that in order to write him in a different pairing #like she needs to have been a lesbian this whole time so that the dude never dated a woman before #bi people exist im begging you people. #let her exist without having to erase her impact so that the male character has never dated a yucky woman #the way they treat lesbians as a a tool to remove women from the plot is ATROCIOUS im so sorry lesbians #if you're gonna make a character a lesbian then fucking commit!!!!!!

[lovesickeros]

im pretty adamant on being a genshin only blog atm bc this game has me in a death grip and won't let go for anything but at the same time.....path to nowhere..

#not genshin #this is fem!chief shes the loml and technically the player character but n e way. wife :) #idk what they r feeding their designers but the women go so hard thank u g-d for making me a lesbian #but also thinking abt chief!reader in sagau bc its a mental illness atp. its rotting my brain AND NO ONE. ELSE IS INTO IT #i just think the whole thing w the shackles would be. neat :) (i am going to put everyone thru unbearable agony and angst) #especially in imposter au.... #'but the shackles wouldnt work bc they arent sinners--' IDC. my lore now #mmmmm genshin characters in the ptn verse.......good food actually. #im just trying 2 spread the good word (there r lesbians. its very gay. please play ptn) #thats all im just a woman liker and i make it everyone elses problem gn #i am ignoring that i havent written a fic in a hot minute or answered my asks. i do not see it. i do not perceive it.

[bonesrbleaching]

had the most braindead repetitive conversation/argument with my parents. buzz cuts are too masculine but if you dye a design on it it become effeminate which is bad because then you look weak and if youre weak then society falls apart (all societies ever that have fallen apart for any reason are actually because of feminine men) and we start sacrificing babies. and also all mental illness is invented because only 4 people had anxiety in the 90s and covid was made up so that we would all become gay and trans and then the government can control us better and be joe biden's little sex slaves. and also i need to keep my hair long because my father finds it attractive. what

#lolaa.txt #what do i even tag this with . my mother wouldn't let me leave and i kept asking for sources and she kept saying 'i'm your mother!!!' #'i wouldnt lie to you!' #okay. say that to someone maybe who doesnt know you lie to them all the time. #its tiring going around in circles with her.my father is better because at least he admits when he doesnt have a reason for feeling some wa #also what got me. she said 'do you own research if you want!! but im right!!!' #yeahh not seeing anything about anything you just said. i think you made that up. #i have a theory that my mother secretly hates herself because she believes all women are weak and must serve strong men #and my father has so so much trauma and anxiety that he cant be that strong man #so now she feels like shes betraying her very biology when she has to step up. #and also because i am stronger than her now and my hair is long and far far denser than hers and i have a younger face #that she feels that im wasting my precious femininity that she could be using. does that make sense. #shes so miserable trapped in her idea of what makes a man and a woman what they are. once you stop caring about what makes someone somethin #you dont have to worry about anyone else. #im queer because i dont really feel that connection to biological and social ideas of gender that my parents seem to #never really have #im not gonna theorize 'ohh shed be happier nonbinary' or stuff like that because it is up to you and you alone to define who you are #if you spend your whole life trying to fit a box for the sake of fitting the box #then when would you have any space for self discovery #youve invented personality traits to go along with your box. now you can never ever change or grow as a person. congrats #and you know what? one day she will die. and that will be the end of that. #and i will live and i will probably shave my head a thousand times. and come up with new names #and new ways to be a better person that makes me feel happy #and i will dress like a boy because its all made up anyways. who cares. #and if you care? that much about what im wearing or how i look? #then thats your problem and i wont be responsible to maintain your happiness. #SORRY RANT OVER. #im just so flabbergasted. what a sad life someone can lead poisoned by jealously and reactive rhetoric. #tw homophobia #tw transphobes

[mishkakagehishka]

We should all break our phones! Let's all deactivate our photography(selfie)-based social media accounts and break our electronics!

#it is so. fascinating. ''it's normal to want to look pretty and aging is ugly bc it's your body giving up'' m #you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved. the beauty industry has you bitches in a whole stockholm syndrome #you are spending hundreds if not thousands ... to prevent something you cannot prevent.... #and then comparing...... it to exercising....... and eating well......... #but see i bet if i asked them what they mean by eating well they'd go uHm cUtTinG cArBS and FaTS!!!!!! #or whatever. they'd certainly say cutting something nutritious #i shouldn't care this much but it's terrifying bc #it's the way it's pushed. as if it's healthy to bombard your skin with all those products #as if it's normal to be THAT obsessed over not looking your age #to be THAT obsessed with... with what? looking ''pretty''? for who? #what if someone finds acne charming? i find acne charming. so you're not pretty to me. now what? #and the way someone was like ''stop calling old women ugly'' and the reply was ''i said PEOPLE not WOMEN'' #okay. how come men never get advertised skincare #CAN WE FUCKING THINK FOR A SECOND PLEA SE

[leidensygdom]

your women make me feel things, what's your secret?

The secret is none other than loving women.......................

Jokes aside! I think a lot of how I do women is influenced by a bit of frustration with a community/environment I used to dwell in few years ago. I used to get shitty reactions from people who, uh, had a pretty limited view of what was a "woman", and would even purposefully misgender women that didn't fit that narrow idea. It happened with the greenish tiefling there, even though she's cis ^^"

Ever since I realized I was actively not drawing women because posting them there would always get me negative comments, I've strived to get a bit more variety. I think variety is key- I once got an ask telling me I obviously had "something with MILFs" based on the fact I do draw older ladies a bit more often than your average person. I just really enjoy drawing older characters, and it feels strange to limit yourself to drawing 18-25yo gals all the time!

A lot of it also comes from getting frustrated with games like league of legends having about 60-70 same-faced gals in it, all of them with the same exact bodytype and impossible hip-to-waist ratio and so on. Give me a bit more variety, I'm begging you.

But also, yeah. Loving women also helps a lot--

#ask #answer #sorry for rambling I think I just have a whole lot of frustration with how hard is it to find media that has a good diverse amount of gals #It also helps to try to treat women like. people. yknow #Not just pure goddamn fanservice #You can have attractive gals for sure!! But you gotta have more than just that #And you GOTTA treat attractive gals like people too #not just fanservice #Lae is not my character but she's not a character you'll see me drawing in revealing outfits and such because that's really not her style #Despite how she's probably the most ‟regular‟ out of the gals I draw more often #On the contrary you might have gals outside of that standard that DO LIKE being revealing #A lot of artists would benefit from going outside and seeing women of all sorts of ages and bodytypes deciding to wear all sort of clothes #GODS I added more rambling sorry #anyways!! women good!!

[thaliagrayce]

。*★.°*:.☆Don't Put Ship Hate In The Ship Tag☆.:*°.★* 。

#mj talks #*whiteknuckling my hands* i am usually better than this but. please. #why is jasico so controversial??? like for real???? #starting to get to the point where i see Adult Women Shouldn't Be In Fandom takes and realize they mean Me #?????????? no interests??????? #i track the tag for silly headcanons and art #i once wrote a fic about jason getting so flustered he couldn't control his whole Flying thing because. get this. #nico just held his hand. depraved. #anyway the post i saw that made me mad asked why all jasico shippers were adults and side eyed us for that #but then seemed annoyed at the answers and their tags blatantly said dont follow me i dont like you #i wanted to answer because i had an answer! i have an answer and that answer is #most jasico shippers are adults because we were a lot closer to the target age range when house of hades came out #and house of hades was The Jasico Book #the year gap between when HoH and BoO was when jasico was at its peak and there was SO MUCH creativity going on #we looked at those characters and read the signs and saw they would be good together! they would complement each other! #recognition of self through the other is what it's all about! #and then nico got a canon boyfriend and most people jumped ship overnight lol #the people left who still ship jasico are here bc we genuinely like Them together and we think about their characters #this is not the roving white boys fandom. there is a different ship for those people. #also we may be older bc ive noticed that a lot of younger fans dont interact w their fandoms in the same way #like. fighting for ships to be canon and getting into vicious online debate about it #and thinking that a ship is a joke/worth nothing if it wasnt canon #*old man on a porch voice* back in my day you shipped characters on your own time and you didn't give a shit about canon #like. does kirk/spock mean nothing to you. how many of the top ao3 pairings are actually canon #talking more specific here but i met a person who liked a lot of the same things i did but when i got into like critique of the piece #or thinking about how i would have told it different or just like brainstorming fun 'what if' scenarioes #she was like. 'oh i like this because its canon. ive never thought about that before' #she was not that much younger than me!!! and she engaged in Zero critical thought or fun nonsense! #THAT'S WHAT FANDOM IS! CRITICAL THOUGHT AND FUN NONSENSE! #huh maybe i was actually annoyed at her the whole time and needed to get it off my chest

[girlscience]

the past few weeks I've been feeling basically zero dysphoria and yet the amount I was thinking about my body didn't decrease even slightly

#imagine not having a constant soundtrack of #'i have boobs. do i hate them? do i like them? what are they feeling? they are moving. nipples. touching things. i hate it. i like it.' #and on and on and on. i do think my dysphoria as a whole has been on a constant decline since I finished puberty #and I really don't know how I feel about that #like technically it should be a good thing... but I don't know how to feel about my body otherwise #and also what does that mean about gender for me. i don't really get the point of being a different gender if i am chill with my body #like..... literally no one is ever going to look at me and not see woman #no matter what i do. #whatever vibe some people have that just makes people know they are somehow different #i do not have that. i get lumped into VERY classic woman no matter what i do #i have chopped all my hair off and don't shave and don't wear makeup and half my clothes are mens and i never wear dresses #it almost makes me want to ask people what i am doing wrong #like i don't think it's bad to be associated with women. i don't hate it #but there are people who are like 'even when i was fully femme other people could tell there was something different about me' #i straight up don't think anyone has ever once thought that about me. i genuinely don't think people even see me as a gnc woman #is it the way i talk? the way i carry myself?? my face????? i don't Know #that was. not at all the point of this post #basically i'm feeling less dysphoria and it is just as discomforting as feeling dysphoria #and i am so tired of constantly being aware of my body #and i wish it would stop but i don't think it ever will and it makes me want to cry

[avinox]

I had to establish an alibi and everything just so my family wouldn't know I went to the Women's Centre for help.

Well. I saw their therapist.

She immediately told me that she specializes in relationship abuse and hard breakups. I told her that's not my problem, my family is. She told me that she's sorry, but she can't help me.

So yeah, as I feared, they just don't care for cases like mine. If it's not my partner who abuses me, they just don't know what to do.

So 👍🏻

#domestic violence who? #legit if my mother went there and asked for help they'd do something because it's her husband #but this same guy who's the main problem for her (even if my whole family in general is fucked up) is my father #and i suffer as well #are you seriously telling me you can do nothing? #i literally think i lost all hope for help the moment i turned 18 #because i would at least be a minor and they help those #they don't help women whose abusers are their family #i really feel nobody cares for us #you either leave or you die here #which is what is going to happen to me