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sjoongki · 1 year

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ramadan mubarak to all those who are observing. may this holy month soothe all of the aches lingering in your heart, wash away whatever burdens that may be weighing you down, reward you for all of the sacrifices that you have had to make in order to survive, shine light through whatever darkness that has made you doubt your place in this world, and grant you the inner peace, genuine happiness, and relief that you have been praying so patiently for.

#tbd #ramadan #ramadan mubarak #ramadan kareem #رمضان #muslim tag #may all of your fasts and prayers be accepted insha'Allah <3 #non-muslims feel free to reblog too ^^

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enden-k · 1 month

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glowy eyes bfs

#forgor this #bro ratio stepping out of the shadow is still the hottest thing ive seen its just *incoherent screaming*#aventio #hsr tag #tbd

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queenlydweeb · 2 years

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*reads a post about fatherly love* don’t get jealous don’t get jealous don’t

#TEARING AND MAIMING #no I’m so happy for op tho #tag: tbd

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inkskinned · 2 years

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it is hard to explain without sounding vain or stupid - but the more attractive others find you, the more you're allowed to do. the easier your life is.

i have been on both sides of this. i am queer and cuban. i grew up poor. for a long time i didn't know "how" to dress - and i still don't. i make my sister pick out any important outfits. i have adhd in spades: i was never "cool and quiet", i was the weird kid who didn't understand how "normal" people behave. i was bullied so hard that the "social outcasts" wouldn't even talk to me.

i got my teeth straightened. i cut my hair and learned how to style it. i got into makeup. it didn't matter, at first, if i actually liked what i was doing - it mattered how people responded to it. like a magic trick; the right dress and winged eyeliner and suddenly i was no longer too weird for all of it. i could wear the ugly pokemon shirt and it was just "ironic" or a "cute interest."

when i am seen as pretty, people listen. they laugh at my jokes. they allow me to be weird and a little spacey. i can trust that if i need something, people will generally help me. privilege suddenly rushes in: pretty does buy things. pretty people get treated more gently.

i am the same ugly little girl, is the thing. still odd. still not-quite-fitting-in. still scrambling. still angry and afraid and full of bad things. of course it became my obsession. of course i stopped eating. i had seen, in real time, the exact way it could change my life - simply always be perfect, and things can be easy. people will "overlook" all the other things. i used to have panic attacks at the idea others would see me without makeup - what would they think? even for a simple friend hangout, i'd spend a few hours getting ready. after all, it seemed so obvious to me: these people liked me because i was pretty.

i worry about how much i'm being a bad activist: i understand that "pretty" is determined by white, het, cis, able-bodied hegemonies. if i was really an ally, wouldn't i rally against all of this? recently there's been a "clean girl" trend which copies latinx aesthetics: dark slicked-back hair, hoop earrings. i almost never wear my hair like that; i can hear the middle school guidance counsellor advising me that i might fare better if i toned it down on the culture.

the problem is that i can take pretty on and off. that i have seen how different my life is on a day where i try and a day where i don't. i told my therapist i want to believe the difference is confidence, but it's not. and when you have seen it, you can't unsee it. it lives inside your brain. it rots there; taunting. i get rewarded for following the rules. i am punished for breaking them. end of story.

pretty people can get what they want. pretty people can feel confident without others asking where they got their nerve from. pretty people can be weird and different. pretty people get to have emotions; it's different when they get aggressive, it's pretty when they cry with frustration.

of course people care about this. of course it has crawled into you. of course you want to be seen as attractive. it's not vanity: it's self-preservation.

#pretty in this post is a stand in for . literally all forms of normativity #warm up #tbd maybe idk #ps! hi!! i'm queer!!!!!!!!! it is how i identify! if you tag this 'q slur' i will fight you!!!#i am using it here in the EXACT way it is NOT a slur !! i am identifying as a queer person!#this is EXACTLY how people reclaim it !!!#it's like practically ACADEMIC in this usage!!#please do any reading into what the fuck the history of the word ''queer'' is before telling me #as someone identifying as queer #that i'm a slur. that the place i find comfort in is a slur #''well it makes me uncomfortable if people use it for me''#im sorry to hear that dude. that sucks. i hope things get easier for you soon #but you don't get to take it from ME #in case you can't tell by the REST of this piece #i DID hear queer used as slur against me. i DID get bullied with it. i DID hear a lot of shit said #i also heard it about lesbians #about ''being gay''#about pretty much any fucking term that could describe me.#i like queer. i like how it feels. and it's mine.#you don't get to undo the work i've done personally because it makes u uncomfortable #it's ahistoric to pretend like there are ''safe'' ways to identitfy if ur queer.#none exist. it has never been safe to be like this.

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mysterycitrus · 5 months

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also sorry ill shut up about this in a minute but — writing from jason’s perspective about dick (in post-crisis canon) is fun because like…….. dick is a very very intimidating person. often not outwardly! he’s generally pretty easy going, he’s very good at talking to people, putting people at ease, etc

but if we’re talking soft + hard power, dick outstrips jason in about every metric like 10-1. in non violent interactions with dick, jason has everything to lose — he might have to put himself at dick’s mercy to get what he wants. it’s not like an oft discussed point in canon but think about the fire power jason has in gotham vs what dick is packing (haha). literally coughing baby vs hydrogen bomb. one guys desert eagle vs the full concentrated power of the sun

once jason would have been able to rely on dick’s loyalty no matter what, the same way that tim and babs and damian and cass and steph and the titans do. but now he’s lost that privilege. he’s on the other side of the fence, second guessing everything dick does as an act to put him at easy before striking. is dick being genuinely friendly or playing 5D chess? probably both if we’re being honest

#dick grayson #LET HIM BE SCARY!#dc comics #nightwing #spokes #tbd #persephone tag #im shouting into a pit until this fiv is done

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orpheuslament · 9 months

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starting a collection

#found the post alex was talking about & the tags r so funny. this website is truly something #also youre all so weak god bless #tbd

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ex0rin · 9 months

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Jack Quaid as Boimler | Strange New Worlds: Those Old Scientists

#those sparkly fanboy eyes have bewitched me #i need to see him cry #ANYWAY #cara gifs #bradward boimler #jack quaid #lower decks #strange new worlds #those old scientists #that one piece of hair out of place is so perfect #how dare they #his little excited bounce???#i mean cmon #[some thirsty tag tbd]#baby boims

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dominicsorel · 3 months

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They couldn't have taken away your heart. Only because it pines for another.

#soriku #by god once we have her name we'll have a tag #kingdom hearts #kh ns #kh riku #nameless star #riku #duo tag tbd

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scoobydoodean · 4 days

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Sam and Cas simply lying to Dean about Sam tricking Cas into showing up and being a HUGE bitch to get his way while Dean is surprised and pleased thinking Cas is actually just free to hang out for once sgdgdhhdhdhdjd

#pk rewatches spn number ?#6.10 #season 6 #sam and cas tag tbd #and cas is my best friend

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galedekarios · 1 month

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love how ppl constantly invalidate gale's bisexuality

#first thing i see in the tags and it's biphobia #he loves men and nbs #can ppl stop talking exclusively abt 'ladies' when speaking abt non-specific tavs/ocs #also love how you get multiple posts with thousands of notes when ppl complain abt m/f being invalidated #but it's crickets when it concerns m/m or m/nb #i'm so Tired lmao #ch: gale dekarios #vg: baldur's gate 3 #series: baldur's gate #text: personal #fandom critical #biphobia cw #tbd

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endenope · 2 months

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