#seriously asking

[lauryn-order]

If a guy says they’re taking you to coffee for the first date, you think a cute coffee shop, right?

Not Dunkin Donuts?

And definitely not the drive thru, right?

Or is that just me? Am I crazy?

#seriously asking #my date last Friday #🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ #mine #dating

[desert-fern]

I had a thought about a WWII Rooster oneshot. Don’t ask me how or why, I just did.

Is this something people would read? Or is it going to be another fun ‘just for me’ thing that I write?

#fern rants #bradley bradshaw fic #seriously asking #like I can’t get nurse!reader and Navy man Roo out of my head rn

[kafka-ohdear]

who wants to be the trigger to my meatball.

#seriously asking #meatball #trigger #theyd be good friends #yk #mota #band of brothers #masters of the air #war doggos

[weepylucifer]

wow i love angbang it's my favorite ship!!!!! as long as i do not go into the tag ever

#posts by me #is everyone else who ships this 14?? #seriously asking

[fuckmyskywalker]

Should I get black or lilac nails...

#𓆩ꨄ︎𓆪 anya talks! #seriously asking #while I answer asks

[rinna0017]

in what circumstances can oscar and dr unlap themselves?

#seriously asking

[sprinkleofquirk]

Okay, I’m coming to the internet so that people can tell me things I don’t know because I am SO FED UP trying to figure this out by myself

This all started because I was having a lot of trouble with sensory processing and executive functioning and while I was having progress with my therapist, I was also having trouble letting myself use the tools and strategies that worked best for me because I felt that I didn’t really “need” them- so she suggested I pursue an official ASD diagnosis

Here’s what I’ve got, after two years

✅ I have a neuro developmental disorder

✅ It is characterized by the pink text:

I WAS tested for ASD, but the assessor said that I didn’t fit enough criteria in order to be classified definitively as an autism spectrum disorder and thus would remain “unspecified”

Below is the official document- I retracted my name and the highlights just mark things that I disagree with:

Here is my main question: how can it remain unspecified, when that is the only possible answer left???

I know we don’t have all the answers for the human brain yet, I know there are still probably even more categories and things to be created and rearranged and stuff, but *I feel* like I fit into the ASD category 100%. The more I’ve learned about it, the more I see myself.

I have always seen my anxiety as secondary- caused by something else. Now that I’m older, I’m able to distinguish main triggers- social events, change, and sensory overload. The C-PTSD was caused mostly by my situational mutism and sensory sensitivity during a stressful situation. Both of those things would be explained by an Autism Spectrum Disorder…

I just feel like everything I learn about myself screams “AUTSIM” and this lady was just like “no” because I made eye contact and had good grades in school 🫤

Like I’m seriously asking- because I DO NOT want to take up space that isn’t meant for me but I seriously don’t know if I’m going to be able to accept myself and the things that I need to do for me without someone “officially” telling me it’s okay (and trust me- I KNOW that’s a whole other thing I need to work on and I’m trying but one thing at a time!)

#seriously asking #what’s your take #what do you think? #asking autistics #asking nicely #asking neurodivergent peeps #asking the neurospicy people #help me out #please #help my sanity #actually autistic #neurodiversity #autistic adult #neurodivergent #actually neurodiverse #autistic things #asd #autism #autism diagnosis #autism discourse #late diagnosed autistic #self diagnosed autism #self diagnosis

[blogathan]

Is my shirt too unbuttoned or is it fine?

#seriously asking #selfie #me

[dudefrommywesterns]

serious question: how do you make friends? especially on here?

#typewriter dings #seriously asking

[sage-greenery]

kinda funny that wills love for mike was built up since "it was a seven" and some people act like its impossible for the same to be done with mike mkay

#no cause we were all right abt the subtext and queercoding with will #like that was right there #so why wouldnt be right with mike??? #seriously asking #how come ones confirmed and the other is an impossibility #plus mike has so much balant queercoding #byler #mike wheeler #will byers

[slut4dannywagner]

how are danny antis not embarrassed????????

#seriously asking #how can you love a band and all of their music and absolutely hate one member #one member who is so fucking sweet and brings so much to the band #y’all wanna say light my love is your favorite song?? #guess who the fuck wrote that?? #EMBARRASSING

[moonsnightowl]

Have you ever lived in a haunted house? Or had a paranormal experience of the kind?

#haunted house #seriously asking

[vivaciouscynner]

Do any of you actually stop yourselves from watching a show because you think you're too late to join the fandom?

#seriously asking

[kattitude130]

how do i install an earlier version of an app i just updated discord and had no idea the entire layout changed this is horrendous nope nope nope nope

#seriously asking #my post #that’s not my app.

[lewisbian]

Who wants to be tagged in this f1 voice challenge

#seriously asking #we don’t even have to be mutuals just lmk

[pankowperfection]

How do I politely/sexily ask my boyfriend to pretty please go down on me? Or maybe suggestions on how to find a convincingly just sit on his face? He’s a “when you ask for something I don’t wanna do it” kinda guy

#seriously asking #help help help