#now? i'm Unbothered

[sga-owns-my-soul]

i've found a foolproof way to battle my seasonal depression

country music

so hard to feel depressed when a Funky Little Guy is singing to you about the pretty lady with the ruby red lips blonde hair blue eyes and he's about to bid his heart goodbye

#omg ring of fire by johnny cash came on immediately after #fucking BANGER #literally fighting my seasonal depression with this i'm not even kidding #i'm usually near tears having to take transit home after work #bc it's DARK and COLD and i don't LIKE IT #now? i'm Unbothered #literal life hack guys #50/10 recommend trying #country music slaps so fucking hard #if you don't like hmu i'll find you songs you like #country is SUCH a broad category of music #there's like 85 sub genres #it's so good #i fucking love country music #OH MAN AND COOPER ALAN #BABE YES #god i love this playlist #personal rambles #country music #not stargate

[megalomari]

lae'zel did, in fact, not help her

#Baldur's Gate 3 #BG3 #Astarion #Lae'zel #BG3 Tav #Mari the Tav #unbothered queen!! #i'm guessing it was a bug that i could hear lae'zel in the background in this scene #but now i just headcanon she was present and didn't care LMAO

[killadelphias]

Wasn't sure I was gonna even post these because I was just having fun one night and made these for me. Like, they're a little sloppy BUT I'm pretty pleased. Saw those digital mockups and it was irritating as helllllll that they weren't real for purchase soooo. Arts and crafts created outta spite is always a vibe. 😎✨️⚔️🪄✌️

#mike wheeler #byler #cleradin #will Byers #love that i used bases from things i dislike turned into characters i love #will is a deadpool base 😒 and mike is some GoT base idk lmaooo but it works! #the shield needs remade but its fine for now I'm unbothered #my art #ST

[sysig]

Laptop, now available for 500 pet-tickets (Patreon)

#Doodles #UT #Handplates #Gaster #W. D. Ghoster #It's a fair exchange don't worry about the arcade ticket-counter jacked up prices just go right ahead and buy now pay later #More of this because it's cute lol #I had a few more that were more general thoughts and trying to expand without getting So huge that they were unworkable lol #Striking that balance ✨ Reasonable attainable goals! Probably! Lol #He's just fun to play around with hehe ♪ #I also felt like I was finally starting to fall into a comfortable pattern of drawing him here haha - still no studies but getting happier #Dot eyes are quite cute hehe #He's made up of a lot of elements I've forgotten over time! Smooth round head and no nose bridge exactly - no ears lol #Takes a bit to fall back into the groove but him being cute helps #I do really like the little two-set of him shooing the player's hand away from petting haha #And then being so sassy about remaining unbothered haha - he has a new toy! Stop distracting him! #Yes I spelled gratitude wrong it's fine lol #I'm also quite partial to trying to talk about ukagakas with him and him stubbornly refusing to engage haha #Just a quick fourth wall break that he blatantly ignores hehe #And the final stage - acceptance #Haha ♪

[camellcat]

I'm rewatching s1 again and I think it's so fucking funny how much every other doctor except nine absolutely hates guns. nine is SO excited to shoot that goddamn dalek. he is READY he is DOWN he is soooo for it. he points a gun at rose tyler and doesn't even think about it until she scolds him for it.

and then in bad wolf where he's incredibly comfortable about holding that big ass blaster. never gets onto jack about parading around with them either. just does not bat an eye. in fact he is threatening people with it, even if it is a farce.

the others would NEVER lol

#admittedly I haven't watched thirteen yet but I am assuming she's the same as the rest #and I know about the end of time specials shush I know I watched them #but ten does not have the same casualness. like. at all. in the slightest #I mean it's not that nine LIKES guns. that's not what I'm saying #it's just his attitude and how he treats them compared to every regeneration after him #plus he's so unbothered by having guns pointed at him as well #which I know most aren't too bothered either but he is completely uncaring. finds it a little amusing even #maybe I'm misremembering the rest a little bit since s1 is the only one I've come back to over and over again #but I think this is pretty accurate #and I UNDERSTAND why his attitude is different but I still think it's funny #ninth doctor #doctor who #so I uh just now remembered this but twelve LITERALLY shot a guy. so. maybe HE would #big differences there I suppose with twelve are into the dalek and how he treats danny and other examples I'm sure I forgot #so I still don't think I'm wrong but yeah twelve certainly bends it a bit

[qourmet]

i like to think the lans gave courtesy names with allusions on their most lacking trait until qingheng-jun's kids, in which case they were named after their most prominent traits because lan qiren's sense of benevolence is lost so far into his sense of duty, tho realistically benevolence & duty could be one in the same for him. the lans completely switched it up post-qingheng-jun in an attempt to stop provoking fate

#''embrace benevolence'' lqr do him best but really it only applies to his nephews lbr #for reference i'm playing with qhj's courtesy names & started leaning on a provocative sense of ''be bold'' & started thinking ''he Got bol #& then dared to defy'' & now the clan is just ''yes lxc a good leader yes lets lean into that'' & ''yes lwj is so unbothered by the things #that concern the everyday goings-on of his peers yes lets go with thAt'' #screaming into the void #they're hcs don't @ me

[catastrxblues]

never beating the "only starting on your piles and piles of assignments at 11 pm when you've had your break since 8 knowing they are due tomorrow" allegations

#when taylor swift said “midnights become my afternoon” #i felt that #i'm procrastinating even MORE right now on this web #sometimes even my friends are shocked at how unbothered i am with everything school related now #something happened between that last semester break and now i have changed for the worse #isn't that fun #nadirants

[llycaons]

in basically any major american city your default state will be ignored unless you're being harassed, hungry, and without shelter. streets are absolutely filthy as well

#going through a period of bitterness perhaps related to comparisons to walkable cities in. say portugal #and perhaps spurred on by I cant go anywhere and also I guess my place is easier to rob than I thought #I thought I was basically unbothered but I'm suspicious of everywhere I'm looking at now #and I'm sick of how shitty the infrastructure is and how everything smells and the air is so polluted #but I need to stick it out! I do! #this is why people move to smaller towns...I see it now... #I miss...trees.... #cor.txt

[orangeypopsicle]

Ruminating on the commonly asked question, “Why didn’t Jupe ever go to therapy?” I believe that the question has a variety of possibilities.

A singular event, even one lasting six minutes, can have severely mind-altering effects that may take a long time in therapy to unravel. However, there are many misconceptions about healing from trauma, especially childhood trauma. We don’t know enough about what happened after the Gordy’s Home event or Jupe’s parents, but perhaps he did go to therapy, and it didn’t go on for long enough for it to have a lasting impact. Perhaps therapy sessions were voluntarily cut short by Jupe, who is shown to consistently downplay his trauma. There is a pressure to speed run recovery and get back to “normal” again, perpetuated by even the most well-meaning uninformed person and internalized by the survivor. If one were to reach a more simple conclusion, there also exists the possibility that Jupe simply never went to therapy. We should consider the context of the Gordy’s Home incident happening at the end of the 1990s. The societal attitude surrounding mental health has shifted radically since then, so the stigma surrounding therapy could have been a real issue. Not to mention that his trauma also could’ve been downplayed by other people, potentially overshadowed by the cast members who left with permanent damage, including and especially Mary Jo. For those who are unaware, there is an incredibly informative Fangoria article about Gordy’s Home as a collaboration with Jordan Peele that gives more insight into the chimpanzee attack.

“But wait,” you may ask, “there’s so much work against the stigmatization of therapy in the current day. You’re implying that he went this long without seeking help despite that?” Yes, this is an unfortunately common reality for adult survivors of traumatic childhood events. As you get older, recovery sources for childhood trauma shrink to nothing. I personally have experienced this problem as a person in the recovery process from childhood trauma. Despite the overwhelming concern for children who go through trauma, it goes radio silent when they grow up despite them needing support. There’s this overwhelming feeling of people wanting you to “just get over it” because you’re so much older now, and certainly, you’ve healed mentally after all these years. While seeking to exploit his pain to regain attention from the public and dealing with the mockery of his trauma from the media are contributing factors to Jupe’s dismissal of his trauma, I strongly feel another is that he is now a married adult with three children and the incident happened as a young child. I feel emboldened to write so extensively on Jupe Park because he captures a reality for survivors of childhood trauma that I rarely see. Recovery is a long, complex road, and the processing of trauma, and lack thereof, can oftentimes look unpleasant. It’s why I consider Jupe being more sympathetic in the story as more than other people would. The things he did were wrong, but trauma can make you do really weird and awful shit.

#tw violence #jupe park #nope jordan peele #nope movie #Jupe being like 'I'm totally going to tame what I think are unknown entities in a UFO' #'and show the world that my getting out unscathed from Gordy happened for a reason.' #'I'm so unbothered by the chimp attack right now that I made a museum in my office dedicated to the event random people pay to see.' #'I'm getting an A+ in talking about my trauma. A completely normal thing that people try to achieve!' #Babygirl I love you but please retire from your cowboy theme park and prioritize yourself for a while oh my god

[tired-biscuit]

Imagine just touching and trailing your hand up and down on Tattoo Artist Kiba's muscular arms and admiring his tattoos.... I would melt oi3oonzqonzfonoi3

oh my god, the way he'd be so full of himself.

like, especially if he's bigger than you and you're looking up at him. i think he'd love it if you acted like a little bimbo; giggling and batting your eyelashes as you touch his arm and tell him how strong he is, how the tattoos he has covering his arms look "so sick", and how you're thinking about getting some ink, too.

i feel like he'd be into girls who look sort of innocent and cute because this version of him would definitely have a corruption kink. idk, something about him being your polar opposite - looking so mean and tough and bad with all the ink, leather jacket, boots and the slit in his eyebrow - while you seem to be a perfect little angel, would just spur him on to ruin you.

imagine you're at his apartment when you start touching his arms and fawning over his tattoos... one moment he's smirking, teasing you how he isn't all that sure if you'd be able to handle getting a tattoo from him - being the sweetheart that you are - and the next you're being folded into a tight mating press right there on his couch, with his tongue so deep in your mouth that you can feel the stroke of the piercing residing there.

and it's so ironic; the way he taunts you how you wouldn't be able to handle getting a tattoo from him, when at the same time he makes you handle the entirety of his cock inside your cunt lmfaofjfjdj

#now i'm just picturing him wearing that signature black t-shirt and ur pussy juice covers the hem of it cjdjdjsjsjsjsj #LMFAO HE'D BE SO UNBOTHERED TBH #biscuit mail

[manofmanymons]

Posting this here too because I haven't stopped laughing at it since yesterday

Miu <3

(Truthful route spoilers)

#digimon survive #i think the reason it's so funny right #is literally just miu's reaction #because you'd THINK #she would yell at him for getting overprotective #and being a paranoid loser #and tell him to calm down and leave takuma alone #ESPECIALLY BECAUSE IN CONTEXT SHE'S THE ONE WHO ASKED TAKUMA TO COME AND HANG OUT WITH HER #but she just #awww they're getting along <3 #like a parent watching a couple of kids playing in a sandbox #and not like watching her brother attempt a murder #SHE'S SO UNBOTHERED #sorry I've been spamming the survive tag so much I'm procrastinating on another exam #also I found this scene while making my miu compilation post and laughed at it for like ten hours straight #also Kaito honey you are literally deranged <3 #takuma at several different points in the game by now: i swear on my life i dont want to date your sister #kaito: ARE YOU TRYING TO MARRY MY SISTER YOU PIECE OF SHIT #get therapy #I'm STILL laughing why are they so insane

[honestlyvan]

Something that I struggle with that I also keep running into in fic is that Taion...  really just has a kind of a flat affect! He just is kinda stone-faced, having far more in common with the various kuuderes and emotionless girls than any particular defrosting ice king tsundere genius character from other media. I’ve joked about how Taion being a bitch is just affect, not personality, but he’s really not even that rude or blunt, it’s more just that strong expressions of emotion don’t seem to come to him naturally so he has to be agitated into them.

Which is generally not a problem, when writing Taion POV, the way he performs his feelings for other people is quite clear cut, but when not writing Taion POV, people around him gotta prod deeper, to understand how he’s feeling. It’s not easy for anyone except maybe Eunie to gauge his emotional state, and the degree to which that bothers the others varies from Mio being largely used to it to Lanz who would find it constantly grating, not getting sufficient feedback on how they’re “doing”, basically. He’s kind of exhausting to deal with for people who are very emotionally oriented.

Also, I don’t think Eunie is the exception just for the soulmate reasons, but also because she’d cue pretty easily in on the “oh, if something is actually wrong, he’ll just tell me, it’s fine then” and focus on listening to his words, not his tone. I think a lot of their bickering is... if not performative, then at least the two of them agreeing, on some level, to die by the bit. It’s a lot more fun in mundane AUs where they don’t have magic soulmate mind-reading abilities and kinda just keep doing the thing in public because otherwise they would have to have the Conversation about whether they like each other or are just doing this in the absence of other options.

#Xenoblade Chronicles 3 #he needs like 45% Less Expression than people usually draw him with #and like 60-70% More Implacability than how they write him #IDK I'm just like 'thank god! Resting Bitch Face Representation!' and then people just don't like #remark on that from him T~T) like throw me a bone #I'm caveating this with 'I also don't know how to write him' #like I feel like I make him *too* stable? I make him *too* well in-control and unbothered by people being uncomfortable around him #it's a really hard balance to strike and I don't want to tilt over into insufferable genius #that's just window dressing for the character that's now what he's *like* as a person #fannish

[racingliners]

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#feeling weirdly okay with the fact I turn 27 tomorrow #maybe it's just bc I'm in a better place now than I was this time last year #but I haven't felt this unbothered with the whole aging thing since I turned 24 gixgxoyxogx #I'll still probably have some kind of freakout before I turn 30 though xtxiyxtdx

[rimurutempest]

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This progression of photos in my phone's camera app after Hozier's Meet & Greet in Boston took me out.

#the event started at 4:00 so the timing was a little off but shhh #I'm sorry Andrew. You were lovely! #I promise! (Thank you for indulging my husband!) #no really he was SO sweet #he now has stickers of mine & my husband's fursonas #cracking job really #hozier #andrew hozier byrne #gpoy #sorta #took the pic of the dolls thinking about #Androgynous by The Replacements #just for the record #also for the record #this man is about the same height as my little cousin but like ⅔ his build at best 😂 #i was quite unbothered by his stature but he still seemed to be sort of trying to make himself smaller

[zathechaosgod]

#unbothered #this is a philza hc blog only now /hj #i havent kept up for like a year so i'm just eating popcorn and missing everything