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pathetic-tboy · 4 months

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I started following your blog and I see you post a lot of T4T so I'm just curious like what makes someone a chaser. Like I'm a cis bi/pan guy and I don't really care much who I'm hooking up with but I've found my experiences with trans men and women generally just a lot better than with cis guys or girls. Like I find these days when I'm dating and someone is trans it appeals to me more because if those connections but I don't want to come off as some chaser that just wants to fetishize trans people but I do still seem to just like them more on a personal level. And my last few long term dating were with trans guys. Like I see a lot of your posts and stuff and things like a trans boy puppy and stuff I find hot because like I used to date one but I feel worried reblogging a lot of that stuff and appearing as a chaser. Is this something that's ever come up with you before with cis friends or relationships in the past, and do you have any advice I guess.

Also feel free to just ignore this message if it's TMI or whatever. I just find myself back at dating again and trying to like work it all out ig

totally fine question

everyone has different ideas of what a chaser is, some are more bad faith than others, MY general idea is someone who fetishizes transness and trans bodies

however, some people who also say this also include people who are just attracted to their trans partners/are t4t. so my idea of a fetishist is in a very negative way

what actions i would consider from a fetishist are wanting to control your partners transition, wanting your partner to halt their transition for sexual reasons regardless of what they themselves want, largely doesnt consider their trans partners human on the basis that they're fetishizing them. what this means is that a chaser may consider their partners wellbeing, consent, and opinions secondary to them and/or their fetish

what i DONT believe a chaser is is any person who has a history of dating mostly trans people (or even preferring to date trans people) for any other reason. theres lots of reasons someone may prefer to date trans people, im t4t for safety and comfort reasons

in my idea of what a chaser is, trans people are not excluded from that definition. my nonbinary ex guilted me into not getting top surgery or binding for their sexual fetish of transmasc bodies, and as a result, i lost a lot of my personal identity and my grasp of who i was. however, some people dont believe trans people can be chasers

and, noteably, you can have your preferences in partners influenced by past partners. my first serious trans ex made me realize im really into dominant women who are a little taller than me, for example. its very reasonable that, if you have had very good relationships with trans people, you might want to continue that streak.

also, ignore this bit if its out of pocket, but honestly if you find that you connect more with trans people than cis people, it might be worth exploring your gender a little bit. birds of a feather and all that jazz, yknow?

all in all, i consider a chaser to be inherently in bad faith. if you happen to have a trans partner or even just think trans dudes are hot (we are) then dw about reblogging my stuff! honestly i think with the way social media is right now with everyone assuming bad faith, anyone who even dates a trans person is usually gonna get called a chaser at least once. i've gotten called a chaser so many times, like yall my girlfriend is way worse of a chaser than i am lol

#not gonna tag this bc its not nsft stuff

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myorgansaremelting · 3 months

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you said someone was sending you porn* sorry in your bio you have a location "Plus i don’t think it’s illegal? Like if it was Wattpad or ao3 would’ve taken it down already…" - those places have no way of telling or not, its very easy to lie, also the law is often rarely followed and not many people actually get caught or given adequate punishments still i'd get out of the tags proship and nsft - what adults are "getting off to" is not your problem

1. Yeah sorry I didn’t explain that thing about porn correctly, my bf sent me porn cause he was like “oh wow you’ve really never watched porn” and sent me some stupid porn thing I didn’t like and kinda scared me bcs like it does not look fun but I told him I didn’t really like it so we’re on okay terms now

2. North East USA is SUCH A BIG PLACE

3. If I’m not gonna get punished for it why should I care?? Cheating on tests at my school is against the rules but I’m not gonna get caught so why should I care? Ppl are dying yall have WAY bigger problems to worry about

4. I understand what you mean with getting out of the tags and I understand that I have NO say in what anyone gets off too but that goes for you, you have no business in what I write or what I get off to!

5. Also I’m using those tags bcs I know some mutuals of mine have those blocked and I don’t wanna show them stuff they go out of their way to not see

#Tw nsft #nsft #proship #Tw proship #ask

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fun-mad-ochouse · 7 months

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Hi lol

You may know me from my main blog! If not, that's okay. I have been a creator (writer and artist) and OC enthusiast for roughly 8 years. I have a 'meet the artist' thing, but technically it's outdated (I am older now, the art is older and I look slightly different) so you can have my sona instead!

Its a puppet named Morgan. (It/it's and it/he pronouns!)

((Link to the picrew:

Morgan speaks through that parrot, named Bestie, and bc I have multiple other sonas, Morgan is kinda like the main one, has all the others inside of itself! He's got lore of his own, so he technically can and probably will be included in OC stuff here.

Speaking of OC stuff,

I have a kind of ludicrous number of OCs, who rotate and take turns consuming my attention. You can ask about ANY OC at ANY time, but I do have a few favorite favorites who I will list below, and the blog description will be updated to include whoever is on my mind at the current present!

Consistent Favorite Faves:

Jesse

Peek

Marvin

Friday

Robin

Reaper

Anything involving these guys will all have the tag '#top 6'. If the list ever changes, it'll stay consistent! As for other tags:

Genres:

'#whump' this will be anything dark or torturous, often involving physical or psychological abuse. If this isn't something you want to see as a whole, block that tag, but I'll put content warnings on specific subjects as well. Always feel free to ask me to tag something if you feel like I missed it! (Keep in mind that I don't have to say yes. I probably will, but I don't HAVE to.)

'#adventure' this covers journeys mostly. Characters going from one place to another to accomplish something and probably learning a thing or two along the way.

'#fluff' cotton candy shit. Gonna be honest you'll probably never see this from me (/hj), I'm not very good at being NICE to my characters. Encouragement is welcome. 💀

'#scifi' easy enough, anything involving futuristic tech, dystopian themes, etc...pretty self explanatory tbh. (Jesse is going to hog this tag /silly)

'#fantasy' also p easy. Backwards instead of forwards in time. Mythical creatures and magic being more prevalent than technology. I surprisingly don't use this a lot.

'#modern magic' I don't think I have a single world without magic, this is gonna be anything set in a modern era with whatever fantasy twist I've applied.

'#multiverse' this covers a LOT of my stories, I work with and within the multiverse a LOT and the lore behind it all is as much my pride and joy as any OC. I will scream for hours about it, please feel free to be curious! It'll come up a lot. ;D

'#nsft' OC stuff that's uhhh 18+. Lol.

Subjects:

'#oc lore' information that is specific to characters and how they respond to their environment!

'#worldbuilding' information that is specific to location (universe, country, city, street, house, etc) and the environment the characters are responding to!

'#story lore' information that is specific to character journeys and, y'know, stories.

'#magic lore' technically this could go under worldbuilding, but a lot of my worlds borrow ideas from each other, and I can talk about magic so much alone that it deserves its own tag!

Post Content:

'#oc game' I'll put this tag on any post I reblog with the intention of talking about OCs. Ask games for others to interact with, but also those "reblog with the OC that...." type things!

'#answered' asks I answer about my characters! Asks about my personal life outside of OCs should be directed to my main, by the by, please and thanks. Asks answered here are going to be solely about characters :]

'#ic' in character responses to asks or posts! These are going to be as frequent as I can manage /lh

'#ooc' out of character responses to asks or posts, or just rambling about OCs.... will probably end up being the majority of my content lol

'#sona stuff' the inclusion of OCs that are also me, lol

'#not mine' the inclusion of other people's OCs-!

'#art' I draw sometimes!! Really hoping to start posting art here, haven't done that on Tumblr in a good several years.

'#writing' same deal as with art, self explanatory really-

'#memes' this will include incorrect quotes, filled out meme templates, some shitpost art, all the sillies!

'#tag updates' for when I add any tags to this post! Mostly for the purpose of keeping track of that.

'#other' general tag for "no existing tag really fits rn so have this". Hopefully this will be sparsely used.

Ho boy, this is getting long.

Last little things you should know about me, boundaries and a DNI.

- I'm an adult

- I love to rp

- I'm in many fandoms, mostly BATIM (for years and years and years now)

- my favorite number is 6

- Boundaries are really no discourse and be respectful lol

- dni is just pro contact paraphiles, radqueer and transid, and other general creeps. I don't give a fuck what you do in your personal life, I don't condone anything that harms other people though! This is a fun space, keep it fun.

That all said:

Enjoy your stay!! Feel free to interact, I don't bite :D

#introductory post #top 6 #oc lore #my ocs #ocs #roleplay #art #artists on tumblr #writeblr #artblr #original character #original art #writers on tumblr #writing #lol hello #tag updates

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bosspigeon · 3 years

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if i believe in something in this doomed little heart of mine

Pairing: Mason/M!Detective Rating: M Words: 1211 Summary: The afterglow following the detective inviting Mason home with him, in an effort to not think about how his ex is currently lying in a hospital bed in a secret government facility, thank you very much.

I needed a break from another thing I’m writing, and got this idea out of the blue. The boys are still learning each other! If Mason thinks he’s the closed-off one here, he’s in for a surprise. Title from “Chance It In The Fire” by Felix Hagan and the family. Is it still cool to do all-lowercase-song-lyrics-titles? Because if not, I'm boned.

Rated M this time, minors DNI! CW for implied sexual content.

The sweat is cooling on his skin, a pleasant soreness radiating through his muscles, his mind sweetly blurry and blessedly quiet. He exhales a long, slow breath and makes a small noise of utter content. He’d honestly forgotten how good an orgasm (or two, or three) could feel when they weren’t self-administered.

The warm hand splayed across his belly starts tracing lines against his skin, lines that feel aimless, and rather nice, until his brain catches up to his body enough to realize the pattern is repetitive. With a low moan, he opens his eyes, blinking until they adjust to the darkness of his bedroom, and they meet a heavy-lidded grey gaze.

A lazy smirk curls Mason’s lips, his long fingers tripping delicately along the bold black lines inked into Chase’s belly. He is loose-limbed and more relaxed than Chase has ever seen him, and he wonders if Mason’s bones feel as syrupy and useless as his own. He thinks if vampires could purr, he would be, and he can’t help but be a bit smug about that.

“What’s on your mind, sweetheart?” Mason drawls, his voice thick and raspy.

“Absolutely fuckall,” Chase hums, letting his eyes flutter blissfully closed again. “For once.” The stroking continues, and the detective absently thinks he could get used to this. It’s easy, and simple, and it just feels good. After all the bullshit he’s been through in the last few months, he’s earned something that just feels good.

Read the rest on AO3!

#pidge writes #the wayhaven chronicles #agent mason #agent m #twc fanfic #uuuuuh fingers crossed tumblr doesn't nuke this #bc it is mildly nsft #we shall see!#arlo's thing is giving me trouble rn so i decided to switch gears and think about chase #also idk if im gonna do the readmore as ao3 links bc its kind of a pain to post on ao3 (im lazy)#but if i write anything M or above i think i will just to avoid the tumblr police booting me from the tag #i just wanted to write some lazy chill chase/mason stuff that turned tense and introspective and emotional fhdkjsahkjghsg #WOMP WOMP

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