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hugttos · 5 years

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ANOTHER callout for alex @/knfe

others here

this will mostly focus on the massive pile of lies alex has managed to spin up

lying about the whole reason we fell out anyway-

so i dumped alex’s shitty toxic ass once she vagued about me when she knew i was struggling and acted like a piece of shit about it, and then constantly made up reasons as to why it was my fault instead of just. owning up that she was a piece of shit

alex literally never said this happened until months later where its more convenient for her. i guess the fact it was supposedly her grandmas bday makes it a better sob story to buy because she literally Never mentioned this until this post so...whats the truth perhaps

this is again. supposedly. me admitting i knew it wasnt about me. the vague is this

fucking obviously ‘only good for sex’ doesn’t apply to me yet this whole vague mentions like five different things. but alex likes to ignore that and act like she ONLY mentioned being used for sex when its clearly full of umbrella statements. she completely ignores ‘only good for emotional support’ which is literally just the second sentence. this is the part i focus on because alex knew i was still grieving over a SERIOUS trauma that happened to me literally two weeks prior to this

also ‘the very next day’ now alex is lying and painting it as if i rushed her to talk about it when i had PURPOSELY waited until the next day rather than confront her about it when she was obviously still freaking out. but like. again. fuck me for trying to be a considerate friend right alex????

alex also decided to spin up the narrative that i only talked to anthony about it to drive a wedge between them which..isnt true lol.

alex was just a dick to anthony for no reason (as she states above) and apparently i ‘forced it out of her’ by like. simply asking i guess? alex was also being very shitty during this time to so obviously im gonna ask her wtf her problem is but again. alex gets a free pass apparently and im an ass for being worried. also anthony came to ME first because of what you were doing and i was actually the one who had to sort out your stupid ass disagreement despite having my own VERY fresh trauma to work through at the time. alex even said she wasn’t even considering doing anything and just leaving the relationship in tatters bc of her own dumb shit and i had to convince her NOT to do that lmao.

me going to anthony with alex being a piece of shit just to stir up drama is SUCH a fucking reach. anthony even said to me he didn’t want to be friends with someone like alex when i showed him this but they like to conveniently ignore that :)

downplaying showing a minor porn-

they only blocked the channel after i called them out on it btw. so. again. truth is only at alex’s convenience

lying about her abuse-

tim is alex’s abuser, who she sexted with despite knowing he was dating someone else and even blamed her for alex’s own shitty actions (which alex likes to say never happened but theres screenshot proof SO)

again, this is me pointing out how alex is fucking horrible to her friends but also manipulative about doing anything to make herself a victim in any situation. this post is about her abuser who alex would talk about even WHEN WE WERE STILL FRIENDS in the group chat and it was literally always negative. like me wondering what the fuck would compel her to keep hanging out with the dude despite all that makes me victim blaming i guess???? but again alex has been known to befriend her own supposed abusers before so.. go figure i guess

alex me calling you out for being abusive and having tons of proof, but you’re too fucking stupid to actually own up to shit? thats not gaslighting??

alex is the only one who’s actually gone to ppl trying to get them to side with her and i have plenty of ppl who can account to this. and alex is just. endlessly fucking dense and doesn’t understand how hypocritical it is for her to say ‘i was just making posts on my own blog!!’ when she’s been known to flip out when I do the same. even when its not even close to being about her.

and yes uhh i cant believe i have to say this but gloating about ‘healing uwuw’ while you’re abusing someone is uhh. fucking disgusting!

lying about old drama-

alex loves to claim that i was 18 during the old callouts despite having it archived and having the information right in front of her

lying about interacting with abusers (and also making it about her)-

broden is MY abuser too dumbass and (literally by your own admission) i was abused a lot worse by him so shut the fuck up?? broden forced me to do rape rps too, along with guilting me and gaslighting me AND my boyfriend for years. also no alex you unblocked him to ‘prove’ you were underage when you dated when i caught you lying saying it was pedophilic and he dated you when he was in his 20s and you were 16. i outed you that it was actually that you were 17 about to turn 18 and he was barely 19 when you started dating. then you backpedaled and said you forgot which like...having memory issues myself saying you were dating a 20 year old while you’re 16 doesnt sound like a memory thing? sounds more like lying??? also while they were dating alex was cheating on broden with tim but claims she gets a free pass for that bc they’re her abusers. and like. obviously thats not how. shit works.

lying about stalking:

alex likes to move blogs rather than just own up to her shitty behavior and then scream stalking when i out her again. which is perfectly reasonable given she’s still openly abusive.

alex if lurking and vagueing makes someone a stalker then you’re shooting yourself in the foot because you literally do this MORE than i do. and ofc this is followed by screenshots of the most irrelevant text posts including me literally just saying a theme is ugly (which HAS to be about her bc literally everything is apparently

AGAIN, alex moved bc she revived her own kiwifarms thread and acted shocked when they started writing on her text wall thing and went totally fucking rabid about how it was me (it wasnt and more on this later)

i also made it clear that yes im outing alex again for reasons i previously stated

also why does alex act like im a mastermind for finding her new url when she literally reblogged aes posts from her old blog onto her new one. its not fucking rocket science alex

when you’re an active abuser who hasn’t owned up to shit your victim has a fucking right to warn people about you and it doesnt make them a stalker alex!!!

lying about how i ‘befriend freaks’-

Literally None of the links are pornographic btw..and none of them are actually? my posts?

also yes uhh i actually have proof that gideon just dug through archives to pick out things to exaggerate and no its actually not deleted because the proof is right here!

also i should point out its really REALLY hypocritical for alex to freak out over this because i unfollowed these blogs after like. a week? and alex was friends with known pedophile gorecember and also friends with someone who posts irl gore (even posted gore herself) and necrophilia.

alex claims this along with claiming i groom minors just because a mutual of mine got an ask about me and two of her followers were positive about it.

like. ive literally never interacted with these ppl before?? just bc people are nice instead of abusive like alex doesnt mean im friends with them and it doesnt indicate some big fucking conspiracy or whatever??

lying about anons and literally anything she doesnt like-

alex will literally spin the most fucking ridiculous stories to add to her narrative but like....its really simple. that anon isnt me BECAUSE I WAS LITERALLY ASLEEP WHEN THIS HAPPENED...LMAO...

alex has one of those text wall things, and she flipped out after ppl started harassing her on it right after she revived her own dead kiwifarms thread but threw a tantrum that it was me. again. when i wasn’t even online

alex has lots. LOTS.. of weak reasoning

ok so...alex really Cannot get it into her thick fucking head that ppl can fake typing styles. also alex half of these are things YOU say more than i do? or either things that like. Everyone says.

ive OUTED alex for shit before so uhh its not actually stuff only i would know if i posted about it.

this. honestly just speaks for itself.

please distance yourselves from alex, theyre an abuser and very manipulative and constantly gaslight people, pls keep yourself safe thanks

#knfe #callout post #abuse #gaslighting #freak tag #drama #HI RB THIS!!!!! THANKIES

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lesbianuotani · 5 years

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Hey! (This ask will be long, i think i will have to send some asks, im sorry) So a few days ago i was lurking on your blog, & found a post (you answered an ask, i think) that it was about akito & shigure possibly age gap & how that could be problematic. I agree with you. Now that we have seen how shigure looked as a child in the anime, after the dream, i am 99% sure he was 6 about to turn 7, or he was 7 y/o. have seen people thought the youngest he could have been was 4, (+)

(+)but tbh i have a nephew who is turning 4 and shigure looked WAY older than a 4 y/o. Ritsu was too young to remember the dream but we see a shot of him & he looked like he was 2-3 y/o, so to me shigure being younger than 6 seems unlikely. Anyways, is that also the fact that we don’t know akito’s age & we are always mostly speculating how old she is. To me she is 20-22 y/o at most. Imo, akito was 19-20 when met tohru & shigure was 26, so in the end of the series they were 22 & 28 respectively.

(+) there are hints that tell us that there is an age gap (besides the clear confession from a teen to a child akito) and is the one from ch. 115. We see 2 shots of a baby akito, one she clearly looked 1-2 m/o & the other one is when she met the zodiacs for the 1st time and she looked like she was 1-2 y/o. (Side note: isnt weird the zodiac kids met her so much after? Is odd to me considering their spirits are calling for god. And even if she still a baby, she looked older)(+)

(+) when the kids were discussing rens tantrum after they met akito, the kids looked clearly older (maybe 8-9 y/o? Besides kureno who was prob 6) //// i have to go now but ill be back in a few mins/ hour so can you pls wait for me? I still havent finish to send my thoughts! Lol hahah

///Omg youre such a sweetheart... thank you for waiting :”) i am back! Sorry for sending so many asks// Anyways: The confession of shigure to akito it is... a thing. I mean he was older. I do believe he didnt have any “dirty” thoughts about akito though and i dont think he tried anything weird. My problem with this matter is what comes after. Did shigure have sex with akito when she was a teenager? We see she is sexually active with kureno but i highly doubt kureno was her first experience. (+)

(+) We see akito through the manga rejecting her womanhood, so her having sex... is not something that i think it was started by her. I am not trying to say it wasn’t consensual because i honestly believe it was, but the fact that she was a teen & shigure or kureno were adults is my issue. I am certain that shigure was her first experience, and then later seeing how effective sex was for him to keep him close (& because she is genuinely in love with shigure)(+)

(+) All i say above is purely speculation though. In the end we see that their relationship worked out, and in fruits basket: another, we see a kind shiki & characters (children of the sohma zodiacs) saying that shiki’s parents are good people so i do believe they achieved a healthy relationship, there is also in the end of fruits basket we see shigure being really nice to her and genuinely loving her & in the mabudachi special we see him “protecting (?)” her in a comical way from ayame (+)

(+) so i believe they achieved a healthy point. But yeah their backstory is pretty messy. Not to mention shigures plan in treating her coldly (when she is unstable already) + sleeping with ren+ the age gap... i mean yeah. I love them both but sometimes it hurts me how messy this relationship was. This ask turned way longer! Sorry for sending so many, i hope tumblr doesnt eat the asks :) sorry for bringing my thoughts, i am someone too shy to make posts hahaha. Have a nice day! ✨

Ok! first off, sorry for not answering sooner. i didn’t have access to my computer for a while. thanks for sharing your thoughts! i’m not gonna insert my opinion here, just give you some visibility on what you think. followers, feel free to use this post to discuss with anon if you feel so moved!

#lesbianuotani #fruits basket manga spoilers #ask #anon #long post

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