cant express the overwhelming love i feel for the lesbians and bisexual women of the 20th century. i love you so much
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ray and emma are t4t to ME
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well talking to my mom went well (I just told her I’m really unsure rn. Her first response was ‘oh well what’s the rush, ur not dating rn are u?’ Which. What does that have to do with gender??? It made me stop and laugh at least lmao). Also she suggested I just keep the clothes in a box or smth for a month or two so that if I change my mind abt dresses and skirts I don’t throw them out and regret it. Which was an awesome suggestion bc quite frankly I’m very emotionally attached to my clothes. A lot of the dresses are real vintage or actually worth a lot too and very unique and…a part of me wants to try and rework them and sew them into either shirts or pants bc they’d fuck severely but 1. I don’t have a sewing machine 2. I…feel weird about modifying such old clothes. It feels kind of bad…like what if I fuck them up bc lack of sewing experience!! I’ve only rly done basic mending (…and I guess that Ichigo cosplay years ago but even that didn’t turn out great bc it was my first project. aaa)
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Forrest being classed as a male unit despite being one of the most obviously transfem characters ive ever seen in a game and Soleil not being able to date any of the girl units despite being very openly a lesbian are both genuine crimes BUT it does let them be together despite everything so. yknow . thin ice
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my gender + orientation when combined with my taste in media is so funny. yeah i’m queer genderfluid n i also consider myself a nb sapphic. yeah i do experience attraction to men but it’s rare so i don’t really consider myself a gay dude? i’d also be surprised if a gay guy were into me on the basis of gender. while my gender is almost never strictly male or female i tend to lean a bit more fem i guess??? so i like sapphic :)
“what kind of ships do you tend to like and relate to” Boys Kissing
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Woman thoughts too bc I am feeling gender things /pos
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Optimus in my human au is very important to me bc she's transfem but her gender presentation doesn't always match that. she uses he/they/she pronouns, for example, and likes presenting masculine a lot of the time and doesn't really attempt to pass. she doesn't experience gender dysphoria in relation to her body, but does get dysphoric based off how others treat her.
given how she likes to present, it's very rare for people to even consider her gender identity beyond what they see, and while she hates it, she's found a community with the Autobots and they respect and support her enough to make it more than bearable. she's also only recently started getting more comfortable with presenting feminine, which makes her incredibly happy, though she only reserves it for when she's in private or with people she trusts the most.
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blACK WOMEN 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
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I'll say it because no one else will. Feminism doesn't end where fun ends. Seemingly gender critical but not once considered beyond a single layer of dust's surface, feminist does not make.
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Yall wanna be gnc and androgynous but hate intersex people and the idea of being intersex so much, I remember reading about PCOS potentially being considered an intersex disorder and having 100s of people dismiss it because "we can't just be calling 1 in 10 women intersex" or being in transmasc spaces and constantly being told that bottom growth and T dicks are undesirable and that people find non standard genetalia gross, in a GENDER INCLUSIVE SPACE.
The lgbt Community seriously needs to grapple with its hatred of intersex features and stop seeing androgyny that isn't pretty waify white person. You all love femme presenting androgyny but hate when people are androgynous in a broad or hairy way.
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I love all the dunking on James Somerton but I don’t think we’ve focused enough on all his lesbophobic rhetoric because the things he says are genuinely so astoundingly ahistorical and insensitive and it infuriates me that he was allowed to get away with it so long.
He literally said lesbians didn’t face police violence on the same scale as gay men when that’s just demonstrably untrue. Lesbians, ESPECIALLY butch, GNC, and trans lesbians, faced MASSIVE amounts of police violence AND STILL DO and if he gave a single shit about like. Women as people. Or even just LGBT history in general as he so proclaims to care about, he would know that. I’m going to start beating people to death with copies of Stone Butch Blues until they fucking listen
And I’d really love to know which fucking planet he lives on where lesbians apparently have all this great representation, and where we as lesbians are allowed to write our own stories, because I’m really not seeing that pretty much anywhere in mainstream media. I’m still seeing lesbians portrayed in stereotypical or fetishistic ways, and that’s when I see us portrayed at all. And yes cartoons are great and fine but there is so painfully little lesbian representation written by lesbians geared primarily towards adults.
But at this point, the wider community’s general lack of a reaction to lesbophobia in their ranks disappoints but doesn’t surprise me. It’s sad and somewhat astonishing that he’s escaped accountability for his lesbophobic comments up to this point, but again, not surprising. We need to stop letting our community, especially people like James Somerton who get held up as voices for the community, get away with lesbophobia.
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I love you trans women
I love you aromantic allosexual trans women
I love you asexual alloromantic transwomen
I love you aroace trans women
I love you pretty trans women
I love you ugly trans women
I love you trans women who use xenogenders
I love you disabled trans women
I love you trans women who pass
I love you trans women who don't pass
I love you trans women who are gnc
I love you trans women who fit every girly stereotype ever
I love you skinny trans women
I love you fat trans women
I love you lesbian trans women
I love you straight trans women
I love you trans women who are out
I love you trans women who are in the closet
I love you trans women who are nice
I love you trans women who are mean
I love you trans women of color
I love you trans women
I love all trans women, y'all are incredible and I'm so sorry to see so much hate around y'all recently on this website. You don't deserve that, you deserve the world
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I drew this wayyy earlier in this NaNoWriMo Season. Like November 3rd maybe?
So one of my main complaints with Anne Bronte’s Agnes Grey is actually the portrayal of Rosalie and Matilda Murray (none of my followers/mutuals are probably surprised, I’m sure).
So Vicar Hatfield is hitting on 17 year old Rosalie...Yeah, gross. In 1847 when the novel came out, it was acceptable for full grown ass adult men to do that. So instead of maybe demonizing the child (or children in this case because 15 year old Matilda functions as Rosalie’s side kick in Agnes Grey) maybe we should reframe that story in its proper light? Cue Kesha’s “Dinosaur” on full blast.
Yeah, Rosalie is a bit of a Victorian Regina George and Matilda is her rude horse-loving sister (read Victorian gender/sexuality code: a butch lesbian). Basically, they are both supposed to be examples Anne Bronte uses to tell little Victorian girls how not to be. Ouch.
The top panel is Anne Bronte’s versions of Matilda and Rosalie because they’re technically the second arc villains of her text as they are unpleasant to Agnes, the heroine, specifically and everyone else in general.
And the bottom panel is closer to how they are in my NaNo project. I felt bad for both of them in the original book. At the end of the book, Rosalie is in a loveless marriage (not to Hatfield thank God) and the new governess (not Agnes) is trying to break Matilda’s spirit and force her to conform to the ideals of a straight Victorian Lady. :/
So I decided to answer the question of what happens next for Matilda (and other characters though she was my focal character for this project) with my NaNo project. I also explain why Rosalie and Matilda were horrible when Agnes knew them as well as many other things. The Markhams from The Tenant of Wildfell Hall will appear briefly in the story too as well of a boat load of fictional Victorian lesbians and gay men who befriend Matilda as she lives multiple lives across the second half of the 19th century.
I basically reclaimed the Murray girls and rewrote their stories. Is that unhinged of me? Very possibly- especially since they aren’t supposed to be the heroines- but that’s what I’ve been working on this past month along side my grad studies.
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While Megan Thee Stallion and Nicki Minaj are having very public beef and while I really appreciate Megan's talent for what it is I wanna take this time to spotlight my favorite unproblematic female rapper who's been at it 10+ years whose lyrical mastery alone deserves 500% of the fame Megan and Nicki have:
Angel Haze
Who also released new music this week and it's 🔥 as usual
Proudly bisexual but prefers and frequently raps about relationships with women, in a deep and meaningful way. "Back To The Woods" (2015) was written after a public breakup and remains my go to heal from heartbreak album
Proudly GNC and I've seen her up close IRL and can confirm she's hot as sin
Not gonna get too into my issue with dick worship in female rap which Megan though I love her is guilty of but Angel here is the much needed antidote. Zero pandering to sex appeal and constantly shitting on men for being worse than her but more famous (she's right). Like I still don't think I've heard her reference dick even once which is a miracle out here
Proudly Native American (Cherokee) and self taught in Tsalagi language
Took Eminem's "Cleaning Out My Closet" and turned it into a brutally honest manifesto about surviving CSA and religious trauma
Fantastic fine artist and painter (always does the cover art)
Can sing her own hooks and kills them
Chill/normal on social media, minds her own business and great to fans (liked several of the comments I've left her)
I really need more people to get into her music, part of why she won't ever blow up like Megan despite (no disrespect it's just facts) absolutely bodying her lyrically is because she's so GNC
If you have a few minutes check out "Gxmes" 🖤
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i know we joke a lot during misandry hours, but the fact of the matter is men aren't inhuman. they do have convictions and conscience. they do have love and compassion. they are capable of immense kindness, thoughtfulness and empathy. they are very often curious and intelligent.
the difference is they don't think of women as having any of those things hence don't extend the moral consideration they would extend toward "fellow human beings". they genuinely view women as animals. and how do they view animals? as primitive. infantile. not as evolved or cultivated. mostly mindless hence mostly incapable of suffering. they don't have as much mind and their "self" is weak, so there is no memory or centralized experience, no history to the individual woman.
the same way a man can have a dog and slaughter a screaming chicken is the same way he can be a loving husband to his wife and still rape an underage girl. it's how they've all lived for so long that it's not contradictory to their behavior.
so him being nice to "his women" isn't proof you're safe with him. him demonstrating any virtue to others still isn't proof you're safe with him. him being devout to a "kind loving god" is not proof you're safe with him. him humouring you on anything isn't proof you're safe with him. him being gnc is not proof you're safe with him.
his humanity does not mean he sees you as human as well. it is nowhere near a guarantee. please understand this.
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HI UNFRIENDLY REMINDER THAT I AM A TRANSSEXUAL. EVERY POST I MAKE IS TOUCHED BY TRANSSEXUALITY. I LOVE HORMONES AND SURGERY AND NEOPRONOUNS AND TRANS PEOPLE USING BATHROOMS THAT MATCH WITH THEIR SELF IDENTIFIED GENDER. AND I LOVE NON PASSING TRANS PEOPLE AND I LOVE DELIBERATELY GNC TRANS PEOPLE AND I LOVE GENDER CONFORMING TRANS PEOPLE AND I LOVE WEIRD TRANS PEOPLE AND I LOVE OUT AND PROUD TRANS PEOPLE AND I LOVE STEALTH TRANS PEOPLE AND I LOVE CLOSETED TRANS PEOPLE AND I LOVE TRANS WOMEN AND I LOVE TRANS MEN AND I LOVE NONBINARY PEOPLE AND I LOVE TRANS LESBIANS AND GAYS AND I LOVE EVERY TRANS PERSON SO MUCH UNCONDITIONALLY AND I THINK TRANS PEOPLE OF ALL KINDS DESERVE THE WORLD
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