#i dont wanna engage so im not saying this in a reblog

[killapunk]

i very much doubt that the religious extremist thing is true lol and the sooner we stop acting like ao3 is the last bastion for lgbt artistic expression the more bearable the internet will become. websites fall. posts get deleted. but stories can be told over and over again. it’ll be a huge blow, make no mistake. i’m an author too! but sites can be rebuilt. fics can be reuploaded. blaming stuff like this on ‘antis’ and fundamentalist groups is childish and just incites discourse and division, which may just be the end goal. let the people have their ‘ao3 going down is good actually’ wank and don’t pay it any mind, at the end of the day they have 0 power to stop you from writing and posting whatever you want elsewhere if the site does go down

#i dont wanna engage so im not saying this in a reblog #but. yeah #ao3 #like do you not think i'll be beside myself if my fics get wiped off the face of the earth? of course #but come on now

[skitskatdacat63]

you don’t have to post this but i just want you to know i totally relate i rbed an ask game post today and got no asks :/ it sucks even if it’s just a silly little tumblr game

Yeahhhhh :(( I'm glad I'm not alone, anon. This made me feel a bit better, so thank you <3

#I feel pretty lonely in general atm #and it's not fun when you try to make an attempt to get out of your shell and it just. Doesn't do anything. #I already feel weirdly desperate for attention when I reblog those #like it's one of those things that still make me feel weird for some reason #And it doesn't help when you feel like you don't get acknowledged #again im probably being super whiney rn but #i feel like im having trouble attracting interest? is that bad to say? idk :/ #i just wanna talk about anything and i just have trouble finding ways to get people to engage ig #thats not to blame anyone at all. i just dont know how to get that :') #its just a weird thing to kinda feel like youre losing your footing like this #ughhhh sry i sound so insecure #but idk. i wanna talk about art and such. or get peoples opinions or questions. #but I just dont even want to reblog them bcs it makes me feel emptier than not reblogging #and you see other people's blogs and theyre getting a lot of asks and idk what to do in that situation #they deserve those asks and im very glad for them but like. am i doing smth wrong :/ #my constant insecurity is that im being annoying. and unfortunately things like this just make me feel like people are fed up w me ig #SORRY AGAIN. its my blog i can complain ik that. but still. am i being whiney idk #catie.asks.

[thunderboltage]

unpopular opinion (apparently): i love all of the attention and love my writing gets and could never really be bothered much that it only gets likes or that people comment what they wanna?

#i do wanna point out that i get it - its always to have people reblog your stuff cause it definitely helps with visibility and such #but i cannot find it within myself to tell people DONT BOTHER because they dont?? #im blessed to even get 1 like on the silly stuff i put out there lol #i just find it so rude and a good way to dissuade people from wanting to engage at all #im doing better when it comes to commenting - whether here or ao3 - but sometimes likes/kudos are kinda just themost convenient atm #until i can find that one post addressing this i just felt the need to say it here - but i def wanna reblog it over yonder as well #its just like...man..yeah validation is nice but do you for YOU #i personally enjoy constructive criticism so yes please tell me how to improve but i also enjoy knowing you simply liked what you read <3 #something something algorithm something something empty accounts - cant really do anything about them and they dont bother me lol #i just felt the need to vent a lil bit about this - i get what people are saying but whoa it comes across very rude and mean #and now i dont want to even interact with you lol because you came across waaaay to strongly about something that wasn't that deep #anyways i should go to bed its 6 am #ami sez

[goqmir]

been seeing a lot of the standard leftist voting debate recently and ive seen mutuals reblogging some shit i dont really vibe with so i just wanna say i think that if theres a guy running for president whos stated goal is "use this plan thats written and published on the internet for anyone to see which outlines the steps to kill me and all of my friends" and another guy whos stated goal is not that thing im going to cast a ballot for the guy that doesnt openly want to use the government to genocide me and all the queer people i love. maybe for engaging in a corrupt system im an imperialist or whatever and feel free to unfollow me if u think so. idk man. shit is getting scary here in the US as a trans person and voting against the guy who wants to make it 10x scarier is a pretty easy choice. im not gonna engage with the discourse any more after this post but i think i just needed to get that out there

[lalacatland]

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[blamemma]

what you said about maxiel fanfics with endgame lest4ppen, yes, I agree. someone mentioned this before, but maxiel is slowly dying on ao3 while it seems to be thriving more and more on tumblr.

for me it's 50/50 because I don't mind where I'm reading, but here we have more one-shots and pieces of WIPs (which is good because it means authors don't feel the pressure to turn everything into a 50k story, so they can just post their ideas even if it's incomplete), but I personally LOVE longer stories, so I would love to read more and more about every single one of them.

and personally I just don't like lest4ppen at all. I understand the need to tag maxiel because daniel is the bad guy and the "shitty boyfriend" or whatever, but I just don't like seeing those stories 😬

will always preface asks like this by saying people can like what they like and find joy in whatever, i ain't gunna turn my nose up at anyone or anything, lestappen just doesn't make sense to meeee personally, but honestly whatever butters ur bread!!!

as someone who has dabbled here and there in this writing lark, for me there is a distinct difference in ao3 posting and tumblr posting....ao3 to me is formal, ur presenting something perfect, a fully-fledged story, a beginning a middle and an end (not in all cases but i just mean in general). most stuff i read on ao3 is fully-fledged nuanced ideas that the author has obviously spent hours of time crafting and experimenting with.

tumblr fic is inherently fun and blase and easier to throw out there into the ether and forget about really. tumblr fic doesn't need to follow grammatical rules or structure etc etc....it can just be a fun prompt game response or a quick lil fic that you had fun writing and wanna share with ur people?? both have purposes and both are enjoyable to write imo, just depends on what ur feeling and how much u want to expand on said idea??

when it comes to the maxiel of it all....idk how rude or pointed i can get here without getting into shit....so i'll try and word this gently....you have to keep the eco-system alive....i think comments and kudos are GREAT but honestly, if someone reblogs my fic with a fun few tags, i love that more, because in a selfish way, i might get 1 or 2 more readers from that because its going out to an even wider audience?? but its more than that!! engage with ur writers, message them on here and shout at them about their ideas, send them prompts, recommend their fic to ur friends...but i will stand by i think one of the best things you can do, if they make a fun lil post or graphic for their fic...reblog it...ur not only spreading the maxiel gospel, but ur also supporting that writer?? too many times on here i see people's fic graphics flop yet big blogs are leaving them comments on ao3 and look, EACH TO THEIR OWN and also i can sometimes be a bad reblogger dont get me wrong, but LIKE, there are some wildly talented authors on here who just need to be pushed into the limelight a little bit more??? idk if im wording this correctly, but sometimes there are fics that fall through the cracks because no one engages with them, and if ur an author who has put blood sweat and tears into that fic, ur not exactly going to be motivated to post another maxiel fic if u dont think ur going to get engagement from it (again, fic writing isn't necessarily about engagement or response, but let me tell u when i get a fun little comment or someone messages me about a fic i published, it inspires me to write more????)

maxiel is definitely alive and kicking, i follow some stunningly good maxiel authors, but at the same time, its about pushing forward those smaller writers as well and not thinking ur too cool for them???????????????

and so with that, this flufftober, kinktober, spooktober or whatever tober u are a part of, reblog the fic, talk about the fic and enjoy the fic

#if u can understand what i am trying to say here then well done cause i dont think i even do #mean thats a lie i do know what im trying to say but i know a lot of people would hate me if i said what i actually wanted to say :)) #anon #asks

[himbos-hotline]

Wdym treating it like tik tok /gen

very simply. Reblogs are what keep this website alive, there are no rules to reblogging things. You can reblog things from mutuals, not mutals, you can talk in the tags. whatever you wanna do, as long as you reblog. that completely fine, thats what tumblr was made for. Whereas social medias [and I refer to tumblr as social media super loosely here] nowadays rely on likes as engagement. Liking things on tumblr is used for posts such as vents or stuff like that. Not for things that people make. I'm not calling it content, we arent getting paid for what we make we are not content creators. we are artists. No matter what thing we use to make our art- if youre a writer, painter, digital artist, photographer, whatever!

People make things for themselves, they share them for other people. You don't make an entire four course meal just for yourself, you dont spend hours making a cake just to leave it sitting on your kitchen table. Likes are not visible on tumblr and if yours are, nobody is going to go into your blog and click on your likes. nobody is doing that, like ever. So you like a bit of fanart and it stays in your likes, unseen forever. Where as with a reblog, you are showing that fanart to other people for them to then show other people. your reblogs are visible because they're visible on your dash.

People who create things, artists on tumblr thrive on reblogs for other people to see their things. Using the analogy of the cake again.

Likes are you putting the cake behind a glass wall and going "thats a nice cake."

Reblogs are you cutting the cake up and sharing it with other people, telling them the recipie.

People thinking that likes do anything other than just, staring at the artist. Reblogs are showing other people going "look at how cool this person is! this is where you can find more cool things!". Tumblr is not tiktok its made for people to reblog things.

your blog is your house, why wouldnt you want to decorate it with things you love? this is not some celebs house with crisp white walls. Have fun! reblog stuff!

Now dear anon, Im gonna adress you and other people reading this directly. Say you spend hours making something that you really love, your bleary eyed, youre tired and hungry and so fucking proud of what you made. So you go and so super excitedly show it to your friends. youre beaming and all wide eyed with joy, you have the joy of creation pulsing through your veins...and they just. stare. they all look at you. Maybe, if youre lucky, one of them will raise a disconnected, bothered lackluster thumbs up. How does that make you feel? Do you feel the joy drain out of your body? do you feel that lack of dopimine in your brain? do you want to pick up your pen again? do you want to put your time and effort into something that you feel like nobody cares about it?

Now, different situation. You spend hours making something that youre proud of, you go running to your friends going "look! look what I did!" and they all irrupt into this joyous laugh, they praise you, people freak out at you, you get affection. you get a reward. You walk into the kitchen the next day and the stuff you made is posted on the fridge along with sticky notes.

Thats how it feels to be a creative nowadays on tumblr. You spend hours working on a fic or a request or gifs or video edits or what have you. And if youre lucky you will get like, 3 reblogs and one of those are you re-reblogging. For example, here are the likes/reblog ratios from my most recent fics

My dead girl adam Cole Au- 4k words for one chapter

An adam sqaured request- 2k words

A hangkenny fic- 4k words

See anything similar? theres more likes than reblogs. People will stop making things if people dont stop treating likes the way they work on tiktok. Your likes are blocking up artists and then people who dont make things, get pissed when people stop.

#tumblr #reblog things

[strawberrycircuits]

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hi hi hello! my name is strawberry (or strawb)! (i also use the name roz sometimes!) im queer, trans, 19, and neurodivergent, and this where i scream about robots and gay little nintendo characters. i use he/him, it/its, ze/zem/zeir/zemself, and co/code/codes/codeself pronouns! itd be so so sooo cool if you could please interchange these. thanks!

i dont know what my gender is and honestly i dont care (and neither should u)! just dont call me 'she' please! if i had to label it id say my gender is whatever the hell nintendo was doing with all those see-through consoles in the 2000s. look at these sexy sexy boys

my art tag is #strawberryscribbles, my tag for cool art made by friends or made for me is #talented ppl tag, and thats about all i consistently tag anymore (aside from content warnings. if you need something content warned, lmk!). my art blog is @strawb-artfolder and my oc blog is @cultivatingyourfuture (though that project is on an indefinite hiatus due to signifigant rewrites, lol). im not great at art but i like growing and improving and showing you all that process, so im going to keep posting it anyhow! cringe culture is dead and its decomposing slowly in my backyard.

heres some things about me!!

my main interests are computers, old electronics, adventure time, portal 2, and nintendo (particularly mario, splatoon, and the legend of zelda!). i also reblog half life, tf2, and mlp stuff from time to time. i am, in fact, critical of all of my media interests. fuck nintendos business practices and fuck the way they fetishize arabic cultures 👎👎👎

send me asks!!!! about whatever!!!! it makes my day every time!!!!!

im not a linked universe fan or a linkverse fan in general. i might engage with that content because i like the designs and want to support artists but dont ask me about it i dont go there lmao (bonus links fucks hard though i will say that)

i dont tag spoilers. sorry! youre free to unfollow or block me at any time :)

wanna know what music ive been listening to? heres my main playlist! maybe youll find something new!!! (and if you shoot me an ask saying u found a new song u like bc of me.... tell me! itll make my day!)

ive had people ask me a couple of times, so let me go ahead and say-- i like to refer to characters i have specific pronoun headcanons for WITH those pronouns! i usually garner confusion about this when i talk about oot zelda (he/she), botw link (she/he/they), and oot link (she/her). theres not really a reason, i just like to! (when i talk to people about their specific interpretations, i use whatever hcs theyve assigned them instead). if you wanna know how i hc any other characters, 🔫 me an ask!

im not going to sift through every blog that interacts with me or apply widely misused terminology to give an idea of what i do or dont want in my circle. im just going to say these things outright. i believe in radical queer acceptance (yes, even for whatever "weird" identity youre about to pull out as a gotcha), all transgender people and asexuals and aromantics and xenogenders and neopronouns are all valid, otherkin/therians are cool as hell, objectums are my friends, i want all pedophiles to die by my hand, youre weird as shit if you romanticize incest or pedophilia in any context, and i believe in reclaiming words like queer, fag, dyke, and tranny, which i will not content warn for. ok cool 👍

im a stupid broke college student and i can barely afford to feed myself most days so if you wanna help out heres my CA.

ermm i think thats all. heres a bunch of people i think are so so cool that you should go visit: b0nkcreat down-thedrain seagullcharmer syntheticspades trashedump basillica-gel dykevirgo cherrylavendertea localvoidcat thebleedingeffect gardnwater our-reality mackthecheese angstyvylene-i three-bunnies-in-a-trenchcoat unironicallycringe idiot-synergy michpat6 korokposting effervescentleaf pidgefudge avidcollectorofdust merriclo

#pinned poast

[gadriezmannsgirl]

So im the anon who asked when you'll publish again cuz I missed it and I just wanna say sorry im so late but i jus saw ur post. BESTIE i dont even know where to begin. so first im gonna say i just read the new fermin fic and it was INCREDIBLE. SO CUTE. AND I LOVED IT. second, i want to give you my complete understanding. of course im not a writer but it takes very little empathy to understand why a lack of engagement would make you demotivated to write. im so sorry and im sure others here too that we dont give u the appreciation u deserve. for me personally, its the fact that im afraid to come off on anon and comment with my account, but i realize even i can give feedback through anon. whenever you are ready to come back, even sporadically, i will talk to u more here because u deserve to hear what we think of the fics u so cutely write for us to enjoy. let me just tell you for now that i have never found someone that does non smut in such a mature way. i cant even explain what i am thinking so bare with me i hope you get this. often i just want to read reality and what a real relationship with these boys are like. that's the stuff that makes me kick my feet and giggle fr. but you are one of the only ones that can do that in a way which is perfectly descriptive and realistic. your fic with Gavi for the fight after he waves a sandwich in your face??? BBG. i cant believe i never told u how much i loved that detail. of course it was a shit thing for his character to do but that is the kind of stuff that realistically happens in a relationship fight and leads to a silent treatment and argument -> discussion -> solution like in ur fic. i was reading it with my mouth covered like damn she got it JUST RIGHT. i legit read ur fics over and over they are so SO good and SO well crafted. i really feel like i am in these stories. and i know it wasn't your intent so please dont feel bad for your well deserved post to my anon note, but i feel so embarrassed that i never gave u the credit u deserve. please dont look at this anon and let it pressure u into writing again because that is nowhere near my intention. i just want to say take your time, relax and also GET READY. cz im gonna talk to u more and more like i should and all ur followers should. te queremos!!!!!!!!!!! i even learned some slang from ur culture clash fics

Hello dear anon! I hope you're doing great! :) First of all, I'm truly glad you liked the fermín fic and thank you for taking your time to write this lovely message, it means a lot💖

Thank you for also understanding my point of view, I don't really want to come off as rude or ungrateful, that's not my intention and it will never be. It's just really hard to come, write for hours, wanting to do something enjoyable for others and not get any feedback (I know it is not mandatory but it would be very nice for me and I can take constructive criticism to improve in new writings), but it's also something that it's going to the point where I reblog any ask game or tell you guys that I'm bored and wanna chat with any of you and only two or three asks pop up in my inbox (And I don't even know if those two-three asks are from the same person😭🤷🏻‍♀️) however when I post that my requests are open, I can assure you that my inbox can be 0 but once I come back +20 asks are in there and it makes me kinda feel like I'm just here to write. write. write. write and write😭

I also understand you, if I wasn't a writer here I would also go to my favorite writers inbox and tell them my thoughts as anon but like you said you're writing on anon, which means I don't know your account (or anyone who writes on anon) you could be also commenting on my post/reblogging/etc and I wouldn't even know it's you! Either way I respect that🙏🏻and I appreciate the fact you'll be on my inbox more often either if it's to rant about your day, talk about a fic or anything, even if I'm not as active with writing as I used to be, you can still sent me an ask and I will gladly answer you!🌻✨

I try my best to do the fics as realistic as possible, obviously I don't know the guys (sadly😭) but I try my best to imagine how they can be outside the pitch and insert that into a real life couple with ups and downs but gurrrllll you even made me go back and read the sandwich fic 😂lol. Anywho, I'm really glad you like my fics and go back to read them again when I'm away for a bit. Slang🇻🇪 is very chevere, hopefully I get to do once again Latina!reader😌 Once again thank you for your message and once more I don't want to be rude or ungrateful. 💜 yu guys too, hope you're having a great day/evening/night!

#gadriezmannsgirl replies #a bit of rant #sorry about it

[abimee]

this is so specific but something that drives me mad is when i go onto someones tumblr and they have a list of their fandoms/media theyre interested in, and me being behind the times i do not know 90% of them and therefore i wanna google them to see what theyre cooking up, and i get bombarded by an endless list of acronyms alongside fully written out video game names and i am expected to just know that the acronyms are

and i dont, so i try googling it, but when your video games acronym is like, TWD, AWG, TROK, AHE, TWS, all google spits back at me is niche computer stuff and random fields of work i never knew existed, and im left shaking my screen going ''WHAT DOES THIS MEAN''

and i think with certain games you can get away with this, you cant really google ''ff14'' and not have the mmo pop up because theres nothing else that cna really have a letter and number acronym and its so goddamn massive that im still seeing people reblog the ardbert x genwol nipple pic unaware theyre reblogging a dude who was once that other dude before being split off into two distinct dudes so one can be used for plot, but when people watch stuff like ''sugar saga epic soundstage'' and shorten it to ''SSES'' i sure as hell will get some random company called Sonic systems Entertainment Superior based out of Idaho that produces household stereo systems and no amount of ''SSES MANGA'' ''SSES GAME'' will help me because here comes some random other bullshit website with this acronym that sells manga and games

and i guess its because theyre so engaged in these fandoms that they dont know that a random passerby will have no clue what the hell theyre talking about, i know this intimately as someone who says things like ''we need a non-raider for prog group for e12s and were stuck on basic relatively'' fully knowing that most of my followers will have no conceptual clue what an e12s is or why im bringing up einstens theory. but i think if youre making a carrd and decide to list your interests no matter how deep into pit you are of it to do a courtesy and type out the name for the random gacha game play. for nosy people like me. cause i wanna know

#kids these days (people my age and older) type in hieroglyphs #also this post is all in good fun i just wanna KNOW. let me INTO YOUR WORLD

[wifiwuxians]

just a random guy who really loves your art. i noticed you made the cute doodle asking peeps to reblog your art and i just wanted to share why i dont? i really love your art and i absolutely wanna reblog it but im a songxue shipper and lowkey you seem kinda grossed out by that ship. which is totally oki, i know its not everyones cup of tea, but sometimes it seems like you'd be offended if a shipper reblogged your art i guess? and i dont rlly wanna bug you, i love your art and i adore your content. i think your likes and dislikes are valid as hell and you're totally allowed to have them. i just wanted to say that i do want to rb your stuff and i do love your stuff and im sorry im not supporting your art in that way, i just really didnt want to cross your boundaries. thank you for sharing your art and drawing so much of the guys (they're my blorbos, thats why i ship them and you're basically the only person who draws them ic imo). you're a wonderful artist and your art regularly impresses the hell out of me. your sense of humor, expressiveness, color pallet, creativity, and just plain Skill are all so freaking amazing and you deserve accolades. im sorry for being a weirdo who likes one of your squick ships but your art is fabulous. maybe i'll make a sideblog where i hide my ship tendencies and just rb you a lot there, you deserve the support :)

hey now,,, this is very sweet lkdhlkh and i really appreciate it + am glad you enjoy my art so much and think it's in character LOL i know i make things that are completely silly and absurd so it fascinates me (in a good way) that it's still seen as in character

also thank you so much for reaching out, i've been having a really rough time (depression! YAY) and honestly didn't expect anyone to say anything ;; (which is totally fine, people don't need to say anything! but it feels really good to be acknowledged)

i guess i'll take this as an opportunity to address this in general! i don't mind if people ship something i don't like/a notp as long as they're not making me engage with it, i don't track people down at gunpoint like HEY SHIPPER SAW YOU TOUCHED MY ART! no! all i ask is people don't /tag/ my art as whatever if i don't want it tagged as such (and don't ramble on about ship ideas in there either lol please), but i'm making an effort to make that obvious in the body of the post itself :) lots of my friends/followers ship things i don't and we coexist just fine!

but as for your ship, i've made mention to it a few times i think that it doesn't really bother me that much! in fact, the more i draw them together, the more chill i am with people taking away whichever kind of interactions they want from my art of them! they're my blorbos too and i love drawing them together, and although sometimes i am explicit about not wanting them tagged as a ship (so like, if they're drawn as family, xy is a child and sl is not for instance, lol), and sometimes i wish not everything were seen as shippy, it's very unreasonable i think for me to expect people not to see it that way. does that make sense? that's why someone requested i tag it a certain way so they wouldn't have to see it anyway OTL

anyway, you're totally fine! if you want to reblog it go right ahead, and if you wanna slap that tag on it, go ahead too (WITHIN REASON, see above). it's the other ostensibly more popular xue yang ship that i'd rather not get wrapped up in, haha

don't hide who you are! don't try and bottle things up for the sake of making someone else feel better. i've been doing that for too long and regret it immensely. maybe this year i'll finally put that to rest too

#the big secret here is that mostly any negative reaction to it i have is when it feels Mean #i cannot stand people being Mean to song lan that is my man #songxue #for blacklist ily shin mwah mwah #shin dont look

[ask-rw-dark-au]

Hello, you don't really need to answer this ask. I just enjoy your blog and well, idn, I just want to give a little bit of advice/encouragement. I'm bad with words, specially in English, which is not my first language, please don't take this as an insult or offense, I really tried to just come here in friendly terms (terms? That's how you said it? Idn 😅)

What I wanted to say it's, whatever you do in any fandom it's always best to do it for intrinsic motivators, specially if the fandoms are small. Having engament it's great, I'm a fanfic writer, I know that feeling of seeing any comment in my stories, but I learned long ago that I must do things for myself, for my personal enjoyment and fulfilment.

Don't get me wrong, i enjoy your blog, you will probably figure out who I am bc I'm gonna reblog stuff lmao but you know, do this for your own personal happiness, not to seek engament. I have stories from 2013 and even 2015 that to this day have no comments but I'm fine with it. I really enjoyed writing them and I'm proud of them, even if they have almost no engament at all, I wouldn't delete them for any reason <3

What I try to say it's try to not seek motivation in extrinsic motivators like engament and just do it to have fun! Do it for you, not expecting attention, but to just have fun and feel nice inside. Do gender bend, play with sexuality and relationships, explore and come out with new designs and lore, and enjoy it fully. Don't be afraid to take breaks if you need and come back when you feel like yeah, I wanna have fun with this again! I may be shooting myself in the foot since I'm saying dude take a break if you need, that it's totally fine, even tho I wnana see more of your ideas, but seriously, your personal enjoyment comes first :D

So yeah, have fun, ignore the haters and all that people that don't get what Au means can go live under a rock ;v

Have a nice day/night 😘

thank you so much for the ask !!!!! im answering it so other people can see since i think this is a really really good message,,,

i do my best to do things for my own enjoyment, and i do absolutely LOVE this au and i love making it :3333

however, ive always struggled with doing things i enjoy because of how often its ignored by friends, family, ect, so im prone to forgetting even though it was enjoyable

engagement helps me remember it exists, helps me get new ideas, and mostly helps me know that its worth posting to places. i dont enjoy doing things when nobody knows it exists, and although im not sure why, its kinda just how it goes for me idk man SHGSSGD

ive been taking breaks periodically throughout winter break, and thats why i usually answer asks in short bursts since it means they all build up and then i can answer them all at once :3 i get myself hyped to answer and then i can and it works pretty well for me,,,

fr man i think. i think that "au" is a bigpart of the "ask rw dark au"

sure, just about nothing in this au is the same as canon, but thats. thats the point of an au im just silly like that !!!!!!

ive been working on not relying on engagement to enjoy things, ive been getting better about it and i have been able to make things just because i like them

idk if it makes sense or not, but sometimes it feels like i shouldnt enjoy something when nobody else does or seems to, you know? ive struggled with people pleasing for years as well as having problems with adhd / anxiety (unmedicated) making it difficult for me to kinda just. do things guh

im not saying this bc i disagree because i dont at all i completely agree with what youre saying and i do genuinely appreciate this !!!!!

im working on getting better abt it and i think im going to delete the reblog post soon just because i dont really think its worth it, hopefully if i just keep answering asks and making designs and drawing these silly creatures ill be able to get past the worry that people dont like it and just start posting because i like it !!!

thank you so much !!!!!!!

[sufi-catgirl-joy]

please don't interact if you:

are a minor or don't have yr age/age range listed where i can easily find it

a racist, fascist, terf, or swerf

fetishize marginalized groups u aren't part of

don't care abt kink safety and sexual safety

want to be abusive to me

i'm a trans stone butch switch who enjoys feeling genital stimulation (b/c im non-op and have a dick) and certain ways of being touched, but prefers to be the one touching and is only willing to top.

not into men (which i count as anyone identifying primarily or solely w being a man), but anyone can interact as long as they respect that. also, if i reblog any posts saying "men don't interact", please respect that or i will block you.

my dm's are open for sexting & non-sexual chatting, but i don't want men sexting me. if u aren't sure if i would be ok w u sexting me, u can just ask me. my safeword is purple, please respect that and please only sext me if u also have a safeword u want me to use for u. if u don't have a safeword or i don't want to engage for any reason, i will say my safeword and leave it at that.

if u need me to delete a reblog or dont want me following u or interacting with u, lmk. i try my best to make sure im not interacting w anyone who doesnt want me to interact w them.

some of the kinks focused on here:

praise

breeding/creampie

overstimulation

impact play

temperature play

food (as in like, putting whipped cream on someone's tits and licking it all off, not feedee/feeder kink)

bondage

facefucking

free use

gangbang

hair pulling

brat taming

intense nipple play

pet play

biting

fisting

scratching nails on skin

medical fetish

voyeurism

piss play

sometimes feet

exhibitionism

humiliation/embarassment

degradation

orgasm denial/control

punishment/funishment

gagging

soft limits (things i enjoy but feel a lot more sensitive about):

biting

choking

cnc, in some forms only (mainly somnophilia) and only with a extensive discussion abt boundaries, safety measures and safewords (like with everything else obviously, but i have a lot of trauma around cnc so pls be considerate of that).

bruising

eye contact

hard limits (absolutely never ok with):

knife play

blood play (only blood im ok w being on me or interacting with is menstrual blood)

face slapping

scat play

rimming

worship/blasphemy kinks, as i take seriously my belief in Allah being the only One worthy of my worship.

also wanna add that i equally love kinky stuff & vanilla stuff!

[anantaru]

Hii yoru sorry to trouble you! I just wanna say i agree on your last post about some people trying to fish engage when they didn't even try to do it first. But for reblogs i think they might have done it on their sideblog? Still doesn't answer why they didn't follow or like your stuff tho cos following or liking can still only be done on main 😅

Anyways I'm not a genshin writer and i dont write or reblog on my main blog, and I've only recently followed you, so can i ask how much is considered spamming likes? I've been wanting to binge your masterlist but I'm afraid I'd come off as spammy..not to mention i reblog on my sideblog that it might seem like im spamming only likes from my main Dx

hello ! i was pointing towards writers not readers btw if that wasn‘t clear 🤭 (i love all my readers i’d never flame you guys 🧸💗) and those writers who did try this stuff with me don‘t have a side blog or anything of that sorts so yeah, i normally don‘t really give a damn but it literally happened 5+ times already and it just pisses me off because stuff like that is so annoying to me since i only use this app because i‘m bored and just want to write some fics since i love writing 💗🙇🏻‍♀️ also spamliking is 12+ likes in a row without ever reblogging stuff !! 🫣 also i hope you have a great stay on my blog, happy binging !!! 💗

#𖤐 anon' #꒰୨ 𖤐 ୧꒱ answered'

[theunikingdom]

KATTY! she/any pronouns

aroace lesbian, adhd and autistic , 18

my carrd !!!

NOTE: i have taken a long break from tumblr and wont be as active as i was before, but i'll check in sometimes. all of my intro was written before the break and it still stands, but its spoken as if im online frequently, which im not now. not that this account is Abandoned or anything i just use less social media.. ok carry on

im into a ton of different medias! i really like unikitty, splatoon, deltarune, and various animated series and games! i don't post about all of my interests and i avoid the fandom for some (but i might engage in them with mutuals or rb them from people i follow sometimes)

i actually don't post unikitty often cause i mostly reblog stuff and the fandom is DEAD!!!! also sometimes i get kinda gatekeepy and avoid the fandom for a while.... but it is dear to me and i might talk about it if we are friends ^_^

i keep most of my own art, edits, and other creations/interest related stuff to myself.. posting my own stuff wears me out but i still do sometimes

my art tag is #katty art. my other creations usually go under #my stuff . then theres also my art account!! if u wanna follow me for my art but not all the other stuff i rb, go here! @theunikingdomart

u can also read my carrd! some of it overlaps with what ive said here but whatever

DNI prosh1ppers, terfs and all that. also dni nsfw accounts and unifr*wn shippers, or you ship unikitty or puppycorn with eachother or anyone at all. hawkodile and eagleator shippers also gtfo they are brothers. if you ship unikitty from the lego movie with humans. also if youre under 13

i block very liberally

i try to write ids for all the art and images for my own posts! if i did not leave one, i either forgot (you can ask for one) or i did not know how to describe it/didnt have the energy (you can ask me and i will try again!)

REBLOGS > LIKES of my content!!! not to say dont like my art because you can, but reblogs keep me motivated to post so if you like my content and want me to keep posting... reblog!! its very appreciated!!!!

mutuals (17-19) can dm or ask for my discord. ill also join servers if you give me an invite!!!

#u can like to show youve read #not mandatory but appreciated #last edited march 2023. hi

[crazy-lazy-elder-sims]

I've not done a single sim challenge and i dont know how to fucking render but i still did my own fucking thing just whatever i felt like at the moment and now sit at 1k followers some of my edits have 0 notes and some have 5 and some 500 etc i gained followers because i engage with the community and im pretty active (you gessed it by reblogging content i actually like) people follow me to add more sim things to thier dash i've been told also some people follow me because they wanna see what comes next from my cc/personal takes/ edits

its not a single formula that you can follow and boom ur popular i need people to understand this your blog will not grow because of being quick on the trends you have to make people want to actually hear from you

you have to treat other people here as people not just a way for recognition that means you have to genuinely interact...

When i first wanted to start a simblr i literally goggled "how to start a blog for the sims 4" and got a bullet point notice from a sims blog thats long gone now but they really really emphaized that i need to interact and be genuine in my interactions like really emphasized it was 3 bullet points lol

and thats what i've been doing since and now i have so many friends beyond simblr and a cool little blog where i can ramble on and have someone listen and reply to me because they also see me as a real person.

And its also fine to not interact!!

i had a blog befor this that i managed since 2012 and i never spoke to single soul i just rebloged my fandoms no tags even i left it in 2018 with 200 followers and that was fine!!

Its your tumblr blog do whatever you want with it just stop pretending anyone is forcing you to do anything.

I genuinely have no idea how to break it down more for you guys please understand tumblr is different than other social medias and you are interacting with actual people not a mindless algorithm.

Btw im not vague-posting anybody thats just my genuine opinion about this whole discorse and its not the first time i say this exact thing.

#non sims #how simblr works #yet another discorse