i taje it back another search said hes from england please this mans origins are unknown
europeans could not be any more fucking confusing i could tell where an american person is from by their accent but i cant tell where this silly minecraft man is from
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Today I am just thinking about painful times. I didnt even live with her in 2016 anymore but dam if she doesn't find a way to transcend all that. I hate how much of my mind she takes up. I want to move on and love myself but at the same time these thoughts are still there!! And now they're more tangled than before because she used to compare me to being gross like a boy AND GUESS WHAT MOM. I AM A BOY. IM A MAN AND I GUESS IM STILL A GROSS DIRTY UGLY GREASY DISAPPOINTING NEVER TRYING HARD ENOUGH DISGUSTING BOY
and it bothers other people to HAVE to LOOK at me. I manage a shower MAYBE once a week because her obsession with how I looked made me feel like I was betraying my natural self by wanting to takw a shower. That's messed up!! Showering is nice! I've got old spice body wash and shampoo now and it makes me smell manly and I love it but it's not enough to tempt me to regularly take care of myself that way because overwhelmingly I think of her berating me until I agreed to let her help me shower as a fucking teenager!! She washed my hair for me, made me take off my shirt for it, always just walked into the bathroom when I was changing to shower, and it makes me feel sick to shower now!! Ehen I locked thr door she got upset with me!! When I protested she guilted and wheedled me into changing my mind. I fucking hate white tile! I hate clear shower curtains! I hate the feelibg of someobe bending over my back and their fingers in my hair and their breath on my fucking neck!!
I hate trying on my appearance because she made me think thst the only way people would like me is if I changed everything abkut how I looked. She told me no one was ever going to wany to TOUCH me, no one was ever going to want to LOOK at me, no one was ever going to want to LOVE me. What the fuck?? She said all this and MORE from at least 2010 to now and that is 10 years of FUCKED UP and I hate her and I hate myself and I hate that I can't get past this.
Why fucking try?? Why shower? Why brush my teeth? Why do ANYTHING if no matter how hard I try or how well I think I've done on my own she swoops in and destroys me for all the choices i made on my own?? "Oh you're wearing THAT" "oh you clearly don't know anything" "are you TRYING to look disgusting? Because that's wht you look like. Everyone will be able to tell." God I fucking hate her
I hate that she'd tell me to taje off my clothes when she 'helped' me wash my hair bc "I'm your mother, it's nothing I havent seen before" well FUCK mom maybe I didn't care when I was 5 but I'm 14 15 16 17. 20 now!! WHY woukd I want to be naked around my mom?? Why did she think it doesn't matter?? Why didnt she want to respect my boundaries?
What the fuck. What the actual fuck. I hate. This. I cant believe her when she says I love u now bc of every ktger thing she has ever said to me. And she doesn't get why I hate her and she gets upset and says she was looking out for me and teaching me how to csre for myself.
Well that fucking backfired. I have to work 10x as hard to take any amount of care for myself now. I barely eat ubless I MAKE myself eat. I shower, on a good month, once a week. I have a daily routine in tge morning and I am slowly finding things that don't mke me hate myself when I use them.
I fucking wish I coukd stop thinking about her. But it bothers her to have to look at me, and it shows.
And I just wanna go
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Are you ever just so exhausted in every capacity that you can't use a straw so you just use your water bottle instead of your glass iced tea thing you bought from a local company to take your nightly meds?
Because i replied my glass tea jar with fresh water, laid down, and was just too exhausted to use a straw. Like nah that shit ain't happenin gimme my water bottle with the skeleton peace sign on it thanks i cant be bothered to take the effort if a straw.
For context it's been a very stressful couple of months, i had a Christmas party and migraine yesterday, can't remember anything i did this morning for the life of me, and had to taje a friend to the ER at a hospital i dont work at, was super anxious there bouncing north legs while crocheting (because i had no part overt patient care couldnt even get the friend a warm blanket, drove to 2 different CVSs because the first one was like "oh you can gp to the one in this city" like bitch this once it's the once in this city fuck you taking about gimme a damn address geez I'm from an entirely different part of the state i can only sometimes find the entrance to the Walmart parking lot first or third try, maybe gone since direction? Then got the friends meds refilled sy the second, the popeye's we went to bless their hearts that whole restraint sounded longer it was the biggest monday of a day for any of them in too damn long, one employee we think said "i wanna go home" which big mood and bless him sounds like he needed to go home too, then we ate and hung out for a while and i walked the doggo and made sure he got some energy pft at the dog park, fed the critters, cuddled and played with the critters cause only one is small enough to not hurt the friend when she lays on her person, and then i gout back and just all m my joints are achey and sore, and i just didn't wanna deal with a straw or pants
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