#however you want to take it

[inkskinned]

they want to talk about mental illness and acceptance and how everyone is a little ocd it's cute and quirky and their "intrusive thoughts" are about cutting their hair off and you say yours are about taking a razorblade to your eye and they say ew can you not and everyone is a little adhd sometimes! except if you're late it's a personality flaw and it's because you are careless and cruel (and someone else with adhd mentions they can be on time, so why can't you?) and it's not an eating disorder if it's girl dinner! it's not mania if it's girl math! what do you mean you blew all of your savings on nonrefundable plane tickets for a plane you didn't even end up taking. what do you mean that you are afraid of eating. get over it. they roll their little lips up into a sneer. can you not, like, trauma dump?

they love it on them they like to wear pieces of your suffering like jewels so that it hangs off their tongue in rapiers. they are allowed to arm-chair diagnose and cherrypick their poisons but you can't ever miss too many showers because that's, like, "fuckken gross?" so anyone mean is a narcissist. so anyone with visual tics is clearly faking it and is so cringe. but they get to scream and hit customer service employees because well, i got overwhelmed.

you keep seeing these posts about how people pleasers are "inherently manipulative" and how it's totally unfair behavior. but you are a people pleaser, you have an ingrained fawn response. in the comments, you have typed and deleted the words just because it is technically true does not make it an empathetic or kind reading of the reaction about one million times. it is technically accurate, after all. you think of catholic guilt, how sometimes you feel bad when doing a good deed because the sense of pride you get from acting kind - that pride is a sin. the word "manipulation" is not without bias or stigma attached to it. many people with the fawn response are direct victims of someone who was malignantly manipulative. calling the victims manipulative too is an unfair and unkind reading of the situation. it would be better and more empathetic to say it is safety-seeking or connection-seeking behavior. yes, it can be toxic. no, in general it is not intended to be toxic. there is no reason to make mentally ill people feel worse for what we undergo.

you type why is everyone so quick to turn on someone showing clear signs of trauma but you already know the fucking answer, so what's the point of bothering. you kind of hate those this is what anxiety looks like! infographics because at this point you're so good at white-knuckling through a severe panic attack that people just think you're stoic. even people who know the situation sometimes comment you just don't seem depressed. and you're not a 9 year old white kid so there's no way you're on the spectrum, you're not obsessed with trains and you were never a good mathematician. okay then.

mental illness is trending. in 2012 tumblr said don't romanticize our symptoms but to be fair tiktok didn't exist yet. there's these series of videos where someone pretends to be "the most boring person on earth" and is just being a normal fucking person, which makes your skin crawl, because that probably means you are boring. your friend reads aloud a profile from tinder - no depressed bitches i fucking hate that mental illness crap. your father says that medication never actually works.

you still haven't told your grandmother that you're in therapy. despite everything (and the fact it's helping): you just don't want her to see you differently.

#writeblr #warm up #to be clear let me state again: i think you should id however you fucking want if it helps you seek peace #but there is a HUGE difference between being like '.... im undiagnosed but i think i might be X' #and a person who is like ''omg my intrusive thoughts made me buy a birkin!!!'' #babe mine made me throw up bc they disgusted me so much <3 #mine made me hurt myself evenly. even when i wanted to stop. i have had to put my hand on the stove MULTIPLE TIMES #and again i'd rather have 10000 people get help for something they don't need help for #than have 1 kid NOT get help #but there has GOTTTTT to be a middle ground here #bc at this point it isn't ''raising awareness'' #it's . fucking misinformation. and ''what this picture says about you!!!!!'' #& yes! im mostly talkin about ppl who are actually disgusted and offended by signs of mental illness #but use it to defend THEIR actions #like babe you hate when kids start yelling in the walmart? but you YOuRSELF can yell? #you are depressed so it's fine you were cruel to your spouse? #but if your spouse spends too much time in bed she's a lazy fuck? #your partner needs to do everything for you bc of your history in trauma? but when SHE has needs she's being clingy and gross? #HUGE difference here between whom i think most of my followers are btw. like #all it takes is fucking anyyyy empathy or kindness . like. #anyway it's hard to explain im hoping we all know the person im talking about lol

[attleboy]

thank you for being so nice to my past couple tadc doodle posts... shitpost be upon thee

#this one's not necessarily ship so take it however you want #the amazing digital circus #tadc #pomni #ragatha #i had to do this the she was born in a wet cardboard box all alone is one of my favorite phrases ever #and its perfect for the sad wet cat archetype which is a thing now because i said so! #my art

[unreachedgalaxy]

sorry but modern AUs which depict harrowhark as incredibly goth or punk-looking just completely misunderstand harrow as a character. like, yes, aesthetically in the TLT context harrow has goth-like attributes. skull facepaint, bone earrings, etc, etc, i get it. but that's not counterculture for her! in fact, she dresses exactly how the revered daughter of the ninth house is expected to dress - down to the sacramentally shorn haircut.

which brings me to my main point. harrow's not a goth! she's a nun! she wouldn't be wearing chains and spikes, she would be wearing a full habit and a headscarf! she's a religious nun and she accidentally fell in love with lucifer. that's her aesthetic. she was raised in some deeply catholic cult somewhere in buttfuck nowhere and she carries a rosary everywhere she goes. there's your modern AU.

#don't come at me for this. draw/write harrow however you want. i'm not the harrow police #just my hot take #tlt #the locked tomb #harrowhark nonagesimus #harrow the ninth #harrow feeling exposed and uncomfortable without her robes and paint is exactly how my hijabi friends/relatives feel without their hijab #it's religious wear! it's not goth! #alectopause #gideon the ninth #griddlehark #nona the ninth

[andstuffsketches]

self-indulgent link designs

#link #totk #botw #breath of the wild #tears of the kingdom #zelda #loz #the legend of zelda #legend of zelda #loz link #character design #not sure if i should tag nudity? #trans link #also i wasnt trying to give him the gay earring lmao i forgot he already had them both pierced #but in my version he just keeps getting more earrings lol #the clothes at 23 and 25 are based on his casual clothes from twilight princess and skyward sword #just generally #and the cape is based on zeldas tp cape #implied zelink #but you can take that however you want #2023 #i think post canon link can still shoot a bow with one arm #he uses his teeth like a rito #also hes 5'2". btw

[marikodraws]

equipping Akechi’s tie to fight Shido 👊🚢

#persona 5 #goro akechi #shuake #ren amamiya #akira kurusu #persona 5 spoilers #it's a useless default accessory TO YOU maybe #I however 😢 #I got way too hung up on the design for that necklace #even tho the design of it doesn't matter #i just needed a reason for him to take off his tie lmao #but i wanted it to kinda match robin hood's aesthetic #and in game it's the heavenly necklace #hence wings #but for some reason everything i drew kept looking super yonic? #i was like why is this happening to me lmao #in the group chat at 2 am trying to explain that no i can't just make it a pussy necklace #yeah no i see why you would think that was a positive #we'll save these ones for later maybe #ANYWAY goodnight everyone ❤️ #comics

[raggedy-spaceman]

Someone's jealous

#ofmd #ofmd 2 #ofmd spoilers #our flag means death #ofmd s2 #our flag means death spoilers #our flag means death 2 #our flag means death s2 #con o'neill #izzy hands #tiddy hands more like #stizzy #edizzy #steddyhands #blackbonnet #gentlebeard #however you want to read this #it had to be done ok #he can't take his tiddies out like it was nothing #there were casualties con! #what were you thinking breasting boobily like that #mine

[moeblob]

So does he, Gallagher.

#honkai star rail #hsr blade #gallagher #i based this off of how many times i used funny soda man to help be a healer with his poppin soda pop in SU #and then blade constantly just being blade as usual #its normally him saying unnecessary to my actual healer but #i kept forgetting gallagher heals and i kept healing when i didnt even need to so TECHNICALLY yeah it was unnecessary #but the amount of times blade was the recipient...... #i cant use like most of my newer units in story bc i cant ascend or i run out of leveling mats so i just #get them and toss them into simulated universe for funsies cause i can match their levels better #so thats where i tossed gallagher and he is genuinely fun to play as ? like i love his punches and kicks to start the battle #funny soda man is funny (to me) and im really behind in plot still #but last time i tried to play it on my laptop and got a kickass cutscene my laptop lagged and i couldnt even see it RIP to me #so now that its like ... me trying to play it on desktop ? #i mostly get on desktop for comms and if i do much else i feel like im slacking off even if i would take a break anyway #one day i can play more story plot stuff and actually meet the funny guys #also in case you know me for Not Having Boys in HSR i need to point out #i did pull Gallagher however same 10 pull got a 4 star girl copy for someone i never use and she is at e4 now cool #and i didnt even think of the irony as i started this i just like drawing blade and i wanted to draw gallagher #so when i already had the dialogue planned and am drawing i was like OH WAIT haha im funnier than i thought #(no i am not but we can pretend)

[can-a-tuna-fish]

I have something to say about boyf riends being queer platonic but the world isn’t ready

#michael mell #jeremy heere #he’s not really here but the implication is that the glowing spiky star Michael is holding is him #I had two ideas for the situation here #post-play Michael forgiving Jeremy but still feeling that there’s something intrinsically changed about their relationship #or Halloween Michael trying to reach out to Jeremy and realizing that he isn’t really getting through to him #but you can take it however you want :3 #either way something so warm and sad about reconciling a friendship you thought was over #your honor their relationship is something that reaches beyond platonic or romantic #your honor please understand they can never fully remove themselves from each others lives #irreparably is the word I meant. not intrinsically. #michael bmc #jeremy bmc #be more chill #bmc #bmc musical #undescribed #my art

[milkcookiekin]

dogday comfort headcanons

- listen, after you saved him and catnap traumatized him, he definitely needs therapy. but he’s still great at being a therapist himself, believe it or not.

- first, he’ll pat your shoulder a little, but if you need more than that, he’ll hold your hand, and if you’re still not better, he’ll move to snuggling you.

- he’s all for letting you just vent and let out your emotions, and he’s giving you all the validation you need while letting you rest against him.

- if you just want to distract yourself, he’ll help you find a way to do so, usually by cuddling you and letting you rest on top of him.

- he’s probably one of the very few reasons as to why you haven’t lost your mind yet, and you’d like to keep it that way. he’s more than willing to be your therapist and your comfy pillow anyway..

“it’s ok Angel, just let it all out.. you’re allowed to be sad..” he whispers as he gently strokes your hair and gazes down at you with the sweetest, most loving eyes..

#poppy playtime #poppy playtime chapter 3 #poppy playtime x reader #poppy playtime chapter 3 x reader #dogday #dogday x reader #sunnyangel #or maybe not #take it however you want

[toyducks]

adam chicken foot

#hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel adam #hazbin hotel lucifer #lucifer morningstar #adamsapple #i think this count you can take it however you want i suppose but i do like adamsapple smiles #i wanted to draw adam with funny legs/feet as well and so he could match the other two idk why i just think its fun #lucifer would be so enamored with his feet #hazbin hotel fanart

[the-crooked-library]

upon my rewatch of season 6 of BTVS I gotta be real here. say what you will abt Mayor Wilkins but he would NEVER have left his murder daughter to struggle alone with debts and a sister. he’d be like “sweetie you own real estate that people live in, why are you working a minimum wage job?.. come now I am going to teach you the most useful evil skill you’ll ever learn, it’s called Being a Landlord” and then pay all her bills and make her drink her milk bc calcium is important

#buffy the vampire slayer #btvs #BTVS season 6 #it would be So funny but also Buffy deserves to have HELP yknow #mayor Wilkins would probably try to set her up with spike also #spike is a simp from 1854 the mayor would be like ah yes finally a proper gentleman. have her home by 11 she has work in the morning #furthermore: ‘Dawn honey we can’t have you skipping school. education is an investment in your future #however if you do want to learn how to steal properly why don’t I take you to work with me today. we will be doing Fraud’

[fizzytoo]

simblr mutuals i think you guys should indulge in more games (lovingly)

#*fizzyspeaks #i mean this in a way like post other games or talk about other games. i'd love to hear your opinion on them or just plain ramble about why #you enjoy it or not #obv you can run your blog however you want. i'd love it regardless #edit: i mentioned this in a most clarifying what i meant - #-but this post was made really with my mutuals in mind. i didn’t expect this to leave my sphere #i enjoy seeing my mutuals talk about other games they enjoy #this wasn’t supposed to come off as a “simmers arent real gamers” take. i don’t mean that

[yangjeongin]

HYUNJIN BIRTHDAY COUNTDOWN (2024):  ↘ D-DAY | HAPPY BIRTHDAY HWANG HYUNJIN❣️

#hwang hyunjin #hyunjin #stray kids #bystay #createskz #flashing tw #a9gifs #*gif #*hyunjin #*ccarly #*carly:hyunjin #*series:hjbday24 #once again i fear we have a whole countdown leading up to this only for it to be lackluster. every year LDJKSSJLKDGLKJSD #sorry if this is a flop finale but i had fun <3 #i hope these are synced too science says they should be but my laptop never loads them all at once akldjfajklsdjglks #anyway this concludes the countdown it went by so fast.....thank u for liking it everyone 🫶 #i will never be doing this again. LKJSDKFLSJKDGLKSDG #maybe a countdown but not 30 sets. i DID IT THOUGH. very proud of myself for being that insane. good times #also happy birthday hyun i love u so so much and hope you have an amazing day :(((( #do something fun...take a nice nap...eat good food...hope u get to celebrate however u want this year

[beanghostprincess]

luffy doesn't get the sexual appeal of bodies. they're just that, right? bodies. muscles. he doesn't really get why sanji gets all annoying when he sees nami in a swimsuit. he doesn't get why franky likes to stare at robin so much when she's sunbathing. he understands they're supposed to be sexy or whatever, but he has never felt the way others do. he doesn't get it, but he doesn't care much about it either.

then he sees zoro covered in blood. bruised, damaged skin under the moonlight. his chest moving up and down because of his deep breathing. red dripping from his swords. his teeth tightly pressing into the hilt of wado.

luffy doesn't know if what he's feeling could be compared to sanji's sudden outbursts of horniness or franky's heart eyed expressions, but he certainly feels something he has never experienced before.

he's aware that he's staring at zoro, lost in thought. lost in his huge hands and wide chest. callused fingers. chapped lips. he wants to trace his nails over his scars. he wants to kiss every part of him. devour him. consume him.

is that what sex is supposed to be? luffy isn't sure. he has always known what it is, but never how it feels like.

usopp makes a joke about him staring, but he doesn't hear him. zoro's smiling. at him. his captain. but right now luffy doesn't know how to tell zoro that he's the one holding his soul. his breathing feels heavy on his chest and throat. he feels warmth overcoming him completely.

"all good, captain?" zoro's still grinning. he looks like the devil himself.

who were they fighting against again?

luffy only nods and his first mate seems to take it as a proper answer.

first mate. for some reason now that title feels more intimate. it makes him choke on his unsaid words.

luffy might not know a lot of things, but he knows he wants zoro in every possible way, and maybe that's more than enough.

#demisexual luffy??? more likely than you think #idk if this is demi tho it's very poetic take it however you want #they're so important to me #then they nasty fuck in a very romantic possessive way #one piece #roronoa zoro #monkey d luffy #zolu

[joyfuladorable]

Mikey and Raph being besties and rassling (From the book Lean, Green Smackdown Machine!)

#tmnt #tmnt 2003 #tmnt mikey #tmnt raph #tmnt 2003 book scans #they're soooooooo <3 <3 <3 #message me if you want the link to the gdrive folder! #I'll be adding more over the next week or so #however long it takes for my requests to be fulfilled #again y'all #libraries fucking ROCK #says I who is biased cuz I work at one lol #also everyone thank battle-nexus for inspiring me and go look at their own scans

[nai-ruto]

Stray Kids - family tree

#stray kids #skz #skz code #skz family #bang chan #changbin #hyunjin #han jisung #lee know #felix #i.n #kim seungmin #PLEASE I SPENT TWO HOURS DOING THIS #do not take this seriously its a joke #do not zoom in on the key lol #use it however you want