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#granted that may have saved her but having to claw yourself back to sanity bc you have to take care of someone else is seriously non-ideal
hussyknee
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Listen I love Ellen and Oscar but
June Claremont-Diaz 🫱🏽🫲🏻 Princess Bea
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✨ Parentification Trauma ✨
#listen I know there's many reasons this happens even with loving parents
#but it's incredibly psychologically damaging to have to fill a parent's shoes for a sibling even if you're legally an adult
#because your brain doesnt give a shit how legal you are
#it just knows you're prioritizing playing a parental role when you need to be focusing on yourself
#my most intense parentification trauma years was between 17–22
#it broke my heart that June left her boyfriend to be with Alex because she knew she's the only one who would prioritise him
#and Bea pumping the brakes on her mental health spiral because her baby brother didnt have a functional parent left
#granted that may have saved her but having to claw yourself back to sanity bc you have to take care of someone else is seriously non-ideal
#and yeah I know that their brothers were worth it and they dont regret it
#but they have so much reason to be burnt out and hold their mothers to account good god
#women arent caretakers and protectors because we're just built naturally kind. it's because we get left to do the nurturing and caretaking
#until it becomes second nature
#for my part being a big sister is fundamental part of me and caretaking and protecting and nurturing is who I am now
#but the inability to ever put myself first and take space when someone needs me
#the inability to turn off the kindness tap even when it's running blood
#the instinct to fix things and take responsibility for everyone
#it's all incredibly damaging in the long run
#''southern goodness'' baby that's the gender conditioning ideal
#do you know how much repressed pain it takes to be that kind and gentle
#firstprince
#june claremont diaz
#bea fox mountchristen windsor
#parentification
#child neglect
#emotional neglect
#feminism
#gender conditioning
#knee of huss
#rwrb
#red white & royal blue
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