#genderposting

[butchmartyr]

it’s fascinating how trans women on here are tokenized to signal people’s comraderie with trans (terfs dni in bio/trans women are loved here), while at the same time we’re also harshly ejected from communities and painted as predators for piecemeal grievances that are handwaved away when done by non trans women. you can say all kinds of nasty stuff about someone, and as long as she’s a trans woman, people will believe it! people love the ideal of a trans woman but haven’t worked on their biases enough to do anything but grow to despise actual trans women

#im still blocked by a bunch of popular tme dyke bloggers despite being a nobody shot poster #just because of stupid callout nonsense #why’s it gotta go on like this #i might be dodging a bullet with people that gullible and shitty blocking me. but nobody else knows about them! #mine #genderposting #okay to rb

[pikslasrce]

*reblogs two guys kissing* me and who *reblogs straight ppl kissing* me and who *reblogs two women kissing* me and who *reblogs cis ppl kissing* me and who *reblogs a t4t couple kissing* me and wh–

#yeau yeah cis and t4t are two guys and women and straight ppl its included in there but also. .. i needed to inflate the post #also me and who in the sense that i am one of the participants hashtag genderfluid or whatever #piksla.txt #genderposting

[sabakos]

Gender: decidedly not a man but holds the belief that anyone who says "I hate men" is rather unlikely to make such a distinction

#genderposting

[danothan]

drawing hal is like “this is a man and a woman” and drawing barry is like “this is a man or a woman” and honestly i think i should be applauded for the 4d gender chess that i’m playing in my brain

#i cannot fucking wait to share my little aus with everyone #atp ive created 3 different t4t aus relating to hal and barry #the main one is my priority ofc but i’m just gonna do them all and let everyone guess which is which #danbles #dc #halbarry #genderposting #hal jordan #barry allen #green lantern #the flash #✈️ #⚡️

[yantao-enthusiast]

hope you’re bisexual for this :) (kisses you genderfluidly)

#i’m having a day today clearly #bisexual #genderfluid #genderposting #bisexuality #bi pride #trans pride #<3

[ren-054]

I wanna be a he/they wife (specifically the title, idc about marriage) is that too much to ask for

#nonbinary #transmasc #genderqueer #lgbtqia #shitpost #genderposting #text post

[alliemcfrog]

i feel like people don’t appreciate the creative freedom i am giving them with my whole “any pronouns” situation

#like literally ANY #u could get crazy with it #u could make up a new one just for fun and try it out on me #trans #nonbinary #genderfluid #genderposting

[maybeestonian]

quantum computers are gender actually

#original #gender #genderposting

[bnyrbt]

this post is me outsourcing my medical choices so yes i am a hypocrite

#op #poll #genderposting #trans #transsexual #androgyne #bi-gender #bisexual #non-binary

[sphericat]

hey guys where do you get all the fancy pronouns I tried buying new ones today but this asshole scammed me and now I'm left with these shitty she/shim pronouns. what the fuck do i do with those

#pronouns #lgbt #sphericat #genderposting #lgbtq #funny #:3

[nonactingspicyperson]

Shoutout to all of the people still discovering their gender and uncovering what they want out of it. As a trans guy who spent a lot of years yearning for some of the things I have easily now, I’d like to say, it is a great day to be a man.

Happy to speak and not worry about the way I sound

Happy to hear the right pronouns out of peoples’ mouths

Mostly happy to be free enough to explore it all

Never taking the shit for granted

#arboristposting #genderposting #transmasc #mlm textpost #genderfluid #getfuckedgenderdysphoria

[butchmartyr]

i especially hate it when shitheads try to paint discussions of intracommunity transmisogyny and the scary alienating situation of another trans person being transphobic to you as “transfems hating all men/transmascs for being transmasc” because aside from their blatant transmisogynistic misreading, there is so much love in my heart for transmascs. i have so many transmasc friends and owe so much of my current understanding of my own gender situation and my gender politics to being able to being able to bounce off and level with them about gender and transness, and id never put any kind of shitty essentialist accusations on their identity because my gender politics have fucking principles.

it boils my blood to see people act like you can’t hold transmisogynists accountable for their bigotry even when they’re trans, while at the same time loving and standing with your community. im sick of it!

#ok to rb #sasha speaks #transmisogyny #genderposting #meanwhile these fucking scum are like hmm how can i do woke bioessentialism today

[pikslasrce]

something somethign brian molko invented gender something something

#placebo #brian molko #genderposting #oh god now i remembered the brian molko gender interview ough...................... gonna go back to her it did something to me

[sabakos]

I feel like there are trans people who have a "primary sex characteristic" dysphoria, where they feel "wrong" about their body even when they're single-digit aged, and there are trans people who have "secondary sex characteristic" dysphoria where the dysphoria doesn't set in until puberty. The former are much more prominent in the discourse and I think this leads a lot of people in the latter category to feel like they need to claim they "always felt this way" even when that isn't true, and that they won't be taken seriously if they admit that they never had a problem with being a "boy" until that involved growing up into a man, or vice versa.

And this latter case especially becomes complex for nonbinary people such as myself, because there isn't really a legible set of secondary characteristics indicative of age beyond puberty that aren't gendered other than "taller" and so you find yourself saying something like "I used to be a boy, and I feel like that label still fits, but I'm not a man or a woman. Oh and also despite willingly using the label "boy" and no other labels you're familiar with, I'm not a child and don't want to be treated like one." And practically it breaks out that as long as you're not being treated like some kind of predator, being thought immature or unserious isn't even particularly worth fighting over.

#genderposting

[danothan]

[strictly speaking from my personal experiences]

the more i think abt how i've been touch-averse for most of my life, the more i'm realizing how gendered physical touch is

i'm thinking abt how i always let girls hug me or play w my hair bc i thought it was nice for them, but i never cared to initiate that kind of touch myself. and when it came to boys, i loved rough-housing w them, but they never fought back. it confused and frustrated me to the point that i was practically begging them to hit me so we could be even. i didn't rly understand that it wasn’t the same

but that was my way of connecting physically, that was me extending an olive branch for physical affection. i grew up mostly having guy friends, and it's all intricate rituals. they can’t hug or hold hands, but they can hit and push and pull, and you'd know that it was meant with affection. i never asked for hugs, but i did ask for this. but boys aren't allowed to hit girls, so i never got the favor returned to me, and i just internalized the subtext instead

i didn't lack physical affection growing up, but it didn't make it feel any less isolating. i wasn't getting it from my female friends bc i didn't care abt that kind of touch, and i didn't get it from my male friends bc they couldn’t touch me like that. idk why i had this distinction in my head back then tbh

now that i’m older, i understand how girls hug, and how boys fight, and how they overlap and intertwine, and how it’s actually all the same, and how i’ve closed myself off to it all either way bc i can only associate human contact w contamination and invasiveness (thanks a lot, ocd)

we need to make adult recess a thing. i need a reason to hug guys and fight girls (affectionate)

#skill issue i shouldve just fought my female friends #danbles #genderposting #also this is not to say that boys don’t hug ever. obviously #but i do think gender played an obstacle in the kind of physical affection i was willing to receive #man now i’m sad looking back on the amount of miscommunication i had bc i lacked awareness and gender nuance #i’ve been practicing being okay w the physical part (like shaking someone’s hand) #but i think i have to try being okay w the affection part too. ughhhhhh makes my skin crawl just thinking abt it #who wants to hit each other w sticks affectionately

[yantao-enthusiast]

gender is so weird. yeah i’m a girl boy thing. what the fuck do i do with that

#the concept of gender is something i understand very well but also not at all #yay it’s a gender. what now #i dunno boss…. #genderfluid #genderposting #girlboy #multigender #bigender #<3