#former radqueer

[ex-radqueer-tim]

As an actual punk:

RADQUEERS. STOP. CALLING. YOURSELF. PUNK.

YOU'RE NOT PUNK. YOUR FUCKING WEIRD.

If you support identities like Transnazi or Transcancer or Transabled or whatever the fuck your not punk. Punk is about disability rights, religious rights, anarchy and not being a fucking asshole.

If your going to call yourself Transjapanese because you think its kawaii your not punk, your weird, and you need help.

#anti transabled #anti transx #anti transautistic #anti transage #former radqueer #anti transid #anti radqueer #punk #alternative #plur

[radinclus-not-radqueer]

Supporting mspec lesbians/gays, lesboys/turigirls, and other contradictory identities does not make you radqueer. If you support those things, you are in no way radqueer for it, because those identities are harmless and backed by a lot of history and culture (while radqueer identities aren't). Being inclusive does not make you radqueer. Radqueers are lying when they say no one will accept you, because most people are inclusive and they will all accept you <3

#anti radqueer #anti transid #anti transx #former radqueer #anti transage #anti trace #anti transabled #anti transautistic #ex radqueer #mspec lesbian #pan lesbian #bi lesbian #mspec gay #lesboy #mspec #mspec mono #inclus #rad inclus

[anti--transid]

As a medium supports autistic person who will literally never be able to live without a caretaker,

Transautistic people fucking sicken me , because they only ever want to be the "silly, YIPPEE, tbh creature, very low support needs, 'ideal autistic', able to mask perfectly" autistic person and not the "physically cannot mask, will always need a caregiver, cannot perform basic everyday tasks, requires an aac, ostracized for being autistic, high/medium support needs autistic person, violent when overstimulated"

Transautistic people will ignore us medium/high support needs autistics because they just want the "quirky, silly goofy" parts of autism.

#tw ableism #like. i will never be able to function properly without a caregiver #i literally had to DROP OUT OF SCHOOL because I was so violently overstimulated #and unable to get accomidations that I had a mental breakdown #☕{not the host}. #☕{vent}. #anti radqueer #anti ship #anti trace #anti transage #anti transabled #anti transid #anti transx #anti transautistic #former radqueer #actually autistic

[mlp-friendship-isnt-magic]

PSA to aplatonics from an aplatonic former radqueer: Just because the radqueer community accepts you in ways that a lot of queer spaces and even aspec spaces often don’t doesn’t excuse everything wrong with their community. It doesn’t excuse condoning child rape by providing a space for pro-contact pedophilies. It doesn’t excuse people “identifying” as nazis and abusers and racists and saying that it’s okay because you’re not “actually” those things, you’re “trans” those things (but also trans men and women are totally real men and women). It doesn’t excuse the inherent ableism in being “transdepressed” or “transADHD”. I know it’s hard being called sociopaths and armchair diagnosed with every disorder under the sun. It’s hard being considered the “dirty little secret” of the aspec community, and being called amatonormative simply for living without friendship. But you don’t need to cling to radqueers to be accepted. There are other spaces that want you. You are wanted.

#aplatonic #aplspec #anti radqueer #anti prat #fuck radqueers #fuck prats #ex radqueer #former radqueer #tw amisia #tw aplmisia #tw radqueer #tw pedophila mention #tw ableism

[para-normalcanine]

(plain text under cut) I RAN ACROSS A RADQUEER POST TALKING ABOUT HOW THERE ISN'T A NEED FOR ANTI-RQS TO COIN TERMS LIKE CHRONOISAN AND ARISSO- TERMS BECAUSE "THE TERM(S) LIST SOME OF THE MOST COMMON REASONS FOR TRANSIDENTIFICATION." I'D JUST LIKE TO SAY THIS IS BULLSHIT. WE ARE EX-RADQUEER, WE HAVE SEEN THIS FIRST HAND - TRANS-IDS LEAVE ROOM FOR FETISHIZATION/GLORIFCATION. WHILE WE WERE IN THE COMMUNITY WE SAW *SEVERAL* POSTIVITY POSTS ABOUT HOW IT'S OKAY TO BE TRANSHARM, TRANSRACE, ECT, FOR FUN. WE SAW SEVERAL PEOPLE ACTUALLY USING THE TERMS JUST FOR FUN (AN EXAMPLE BEING SOMEONE WHO WAS TRANSNAZI JUST BECAUSE THEY THOUGHT IT WAS FUN). NOT EVERYONE WHO USED TRANS-IDS DID IT JUST FOR SHITS AND GIGGLES, I'M NOT SAYING THAT. I'M SAYING THAT IT WAS JUST AS COMMON AS PEOPLE USING IT FOR SERIOUS REASONS. IT WASN'T SOME ONCE-IN-A-BLUE-MOON THING LIKE RADQUEERS MAKE IT OUT TO BE WHENEVER THEY SHIT ON ANTI-RQ ATYPICAL DYSPHORIA TERMS.

I ran across a radqueer post talking about how there isn't a need for anti-rqs to coin terms like chronosian and arisso- term because "the term(s) list some of the most common reasons for transidentification." I'd just like to say this is bullshit. We are ex-radqueer, we have seen this first hand - trans-IDs leave room for fetishization/glorification. While we were in the community we saw *several* positivity posts about how it's okay to be transharm, transrace, ect, for fun. We saw several people actually using the terms just for fun (an example being someone who was transnazi just because they thought it was fun). Not everyone who used trans-IDs did it just for shits and giggles, I'm not saying that. I'm saying that it was just as common as people using it for serious reasons. It wasn't some once-in-a-blue-moon thing like radqueers make it out to be whenever they shit on anti-rq atypical dysphoria terms.

#I'LL PISS IN YOUR LEFT SHOE IF YOU LOOK FOR THE POST I'M TALKING ABOUT TO HARASS THIS PERSON. #IT'S NOT A THREAT IT'S A PROMISE. #former radqueer #ex radqueer #anti rq #anti radqueer #anti prat #pro para #chronosian #arissomei #arissodic #🥩

[goddessanti]

If you are a former radqueer，please know that you are not gross，dirty or anything similar for it．You found the strength to leave that community，and all I have to say is，good job！I am so proud of you．Even if you still have a long way to go in recovering from anything, I have faith that you will make it．My inbox is always open if any being would like to talk or vent，I will not judge you for anything．I promise．You are wanted，and you are loved．♡

#⠀⠀⠀⠀━╂ ྀ ֵ⠀Blessings #former radqueer #ex radqueer #anti radqueer #Positivity

[the-leftist-n-slander-kids]

Shoutout to former radqueers and those recovering from it, I’m so proud that you managed to break away! Remember healing takes time, you’re safe, and loved!

#(🎤🎀) my shit #anti kandiqueer #anti proship #anti proshitter #anti radqueer #anti radqueer safe #anti radshit #anti transage #anti transautistic #anti transid #anti transrace #former radqueer #former Radqueer Safe #recovering radqueer #pro recovery #recovering radqueer safe

[ex-radqueer-tim]

Do not. Feel pressured. To become a radqueer because you have BIID.

No, just because you have a complicated dysphoria disorder does not mean you are inherently radqueer. That's not how it works. You are your own person and you don't need to put yourself through the mental stress and danger the radqueer community will put you through.

My blog, and many other non-radqueer blogs are open to you. You have people who love and respect your disorder, even if I can't personally understand it. Don't lump yourself in with assholes who wish they had cancer for the " aesthetic, " or wish they were nazis because they think its cool.

Your disability is valid.

#BIID #body integrity dysphoria #anti prat #anti transrace #former radqueer #anti transautistic #anti transabled #anti transx #anti radqueer #positivity #pro recovery #biid awareness

[radinclus-not-radqueer]

Radqueers are a cult.

I am a cult survivor, I have been one far before I was in the radqueer community. As a cult survivor, the radqueer community IS a cult. If you've never been in the community, and have only been an outside observer, it's understandable that you wouldn't realize this, but claiming radqueers are "just assholes" is a slap in the face to people like me who have been permanently traumatized by them.

Here is a commonly used model of how cults work:

If you go through every single point in this, the radqueer community checks almost every one of them. People have already pointed this out many times before, however I will explain it again for people who haven't seen those posts.

(Skipping over ones that don't fully apply or that I haven't personally experienced. Most of these are pretty brief because I don't think anyone will read an entire essay for every point)

Rigid rules - radqueers force you to include everyone and everything, and never question what you're accepting lest you get labeled as "not a real radqueer" and harassed. You must accept any and all predatory relationships, or you'll receive the same treatment as "antis". If that isn't "rigid rules", I don't know what is.

Rewards and punishments - you coin a term people like, or make an "I love pro-cs" post? Everyone likes you, praises you, sends you asks telling you how amazing you are! You dare to question anything about the community? You get cast out, banned from servers, harassed, sent death threats, and doxxed.

Dependence and obedience - radqueers make their victims believe that this is the only community that will accept them. They say that every other community will hate them for their identity, and this is the only "real radinclus" community. This causes people to feel trapped there, or in other words become entirely dependent on the community for validation and support. They convince people that if they leave, or do anything wrong that causes them to be forced out, they'll have nowhere to go. This forces them into obedience for fear of being left all alone and being completely abandoned.

Deception - this one is very, very obvious. There's a reason why radqueers label themselves as "radically inclusive", "pro-consent", "pro-bodily autonomy" - they are not just saying these things because they don't understand what they mean. They're intentionally using uplifting, inclusive language that sounds really great and supportive to deceive people into joining them. This is also why they use emoji codes, so other radqueers will recognize them but people who don't know what radqueers are will be lured into their trap.

Propaganda - pretty similar to the above. They label everything as "radical inclusion" and tell people that they have to support all these things to be "truly inclusive". They make cute flags and emoji codes to make grooming, abuse, racism, ableism, and transphobia seem cool and fun, to further lead people into their trap. By definition, propaganda is "information, especially of a biased or misleading nature, used to promote or publicize a particular political cause or point of view". All these cutesy emojis, symbols, flags, and terms are propaganda.

Discourages access to outside sources of information - radqueers constantly say that all science, psychology, and medical information is "biased" and "bigoted". If you provide them with any information on how what they're doing is wrong, they pull out any number of excuses and then tell their "friends" how bigoted and exclusionist the source is. This makes it seem like radqueers are the only reliable source of information, and anything else is untrustworthy.

Insider/outsider doctrine - this is painfully clear with how they refer to everyone who disagrees with them as "antis". Even if you're just an outside observer, you pick up on this quickly.

All/nothing, good/evil, us/them dogma - once again, they refer to anyone who differs even slightly in opinion as an "anti" or "anti in training", and the second anyone decides to question why they're literally supporting nazis and blackface, they get labeled as an "anti" and "horrible person". They play the victim any time they get told that what they're doing is wrong, while crying and complaining about how much they're harassed and about how "mean" and "rude" anti-radqueers are.

Feeling chosen or special - radqueers very obviously convince themselves that they're so unique and special, which is why terms like transship or transhasapetcat exist. They want to seem really cool and special, and make completely normal things into obscure, "special" identities, like calling yourself translivesintheuk instead of just saying you wanna move to the UK. As someone who's been in their servers, they hoard identities like this because it makes them feel temporarily special and unique, which makes them convinced that what they're doing is right.

Guilt/manipulation - radqueers do this all the time. When someone says they aren't sure if they support something or not, radqueers immediately get all teary-eyed and upset, claiming that the person would be "basically an anti" if they decided not to support it. I've even seem someone cry and complain over being rejected by an anti-transnazi radqueer and claim that it was "ableist" that the person rejected them. Everyone defended and comforted the person who was rejected, immediately siding with them for fear of being "ableist", saying that it was wrong to be against literal nazis. This is very clear manipulation and guilt-tripping.

Phobia indoctrination - phobia indoctrination is where people in the cult make others terrified of leaving for fear of being hurt, killed, etc. As I've explained earlier, radqueers try to scare people into staying by saying that if they leave the community, no one will ever support or love them, and they'll never be accepted outside of it. People who went into the radqueer community after being anti-radqueer know firsthand how awful the harassment, doxxing, and death threats from radqueers are. People in the community who have doubts are very clearly too scared to leave, and people who don't have doubts have been convinced that no one will ever love them except for radqueers.

Anyways, I hope that this clears up how the radqueer community is a cult! Feel free to add on with your own experiences or additions, and please stop invalidating and shaming survivors.

#anti radqueer #anti transabled #anti transid #anti transage #anti trace #anti transx #former radqueer #anti transautistic #ex radqueer #tw discourse #tw cult

[anti--transid]

NO FUCKING WAY I JUST HAD AN ADULT FUCKING RADQUEER SEND ME GORE PORN 😨 "ANTI-HARASSMENT" MY ASS THAT IS ABSOLUTELY HARASSMENT, I AM A *MINOR*, I HAVE SAID IT MULTIPLE TIMES THAT I. AM. A. MINOR. "RADQUEERS DONT HARASS PEOPLE" MY ASS, I HAVE BEEN INSULTED AND SENT LITERAL GORE PORN NOW.

ME MAKING MEMES AND SPREADING AWARENESS DOESNT MEAN RADQUEERS CAN SEND ME FUCKING GORE.

#tw gore mention #tw nsft mention #tw radqueer #tw harassment #🎀 {talking}. #anti radqueer #anti ship #anti trace #anti transage #anti transabled #anti transid #anti transx #anti transautistic #former radqueer

[mlp-friendship-isnt-magic]

I didn’t think I needed to say this. I didn’t want to have a DNI because of the discourse involved in them. But I do not want radqueers interacting with this blog. You are not good. You are not protecting people. I know. I’m an ex-radqueer who fell in because others wouldn’t accept my aplatonicism. But accepting stigmatized valid identities doesn’t excuse accepting literal abusers and Nazis. I’m sorry about the aplatonic radqueers who fell into that cult by accident. I know you need resources to support yourself and accept your aplatonicism. But I also need to keep my blog safe from your dangerous and bigoted ideology. Leave the cult. Then you’ll be welcomed with open arms.

#aplatonic #aplspec #anti radqueer #anti prat #fuck radqueers #fuck prats #ex radqueer #former radqueer #this has been a psa.

[urfavisantiradqueer]

[photo id for left image: Pinkie Pie overtop the anti-radqueer flag, the flag consists of seven stripes in the colors: salmon, pale teal, white and a pale rainbow stripe. /end photo id]

[photo id for left image: Pinkie Pie overtop the former-radqueer flag, the flag consists of nine stripes in the colors: white, pale pink, baby blue and a light pink, light purple, and light blue gradient stripe. /end photo id]

PINKIE PIE from My Little Pony is a former radqueer and is anti radqueer!

#not requested but like.. self indulgent cuz I had a shitty night tonight #🌱: not a request #anti radqueer #anti ship #anti transage #anti transid #anti transabled #anti trace #anti transautistic #former radqueer

[para-normalcanine]

sometimes its difficult to not return to the radqueer community due to how many times "no one will accept you but us" was shoved down our throat. i mean, i'm an openly queer and nonhuman system with several different kinds of atypical dysphoria and 1 of the big 3 paraphilias. yes, i was given the most acceptance i will ever receive while i was in the radqueer community - but i was also taught that being pro-contact was okay, i was taught that racism and ableism is okay, i was taught that using trauma or mental illness can let you get away with everything. i was even encouraged to self-harm and force myself into an eating disorder. we are STILL recovering from the things we were told was right

#paraphiles please interact #proshippers please interact #pro paraphile #pro para #proship #anti radqueer #former radqueer #🥩

[antipratfaves]

@blood-moon-night-coining

Susie Cambell/Twisted Alice from BATIM is Sympathyqueer, Plural, Former RQ

Susie Campbell/Twisted Alice from Bendy and the Ink Machine is sympathyqueer, plural, and a former radqueer!

Billy used the Dark Revival render since the only difference seems to be textures. it hopes thats okay!!

#Proud Hater x Requests Made #should billy tag for body horror? #billy wont unless asked to it feels insensitive to people with facial differences #sympathyqueer #plural #former radqueer #ex radqueer #anti prat #anti radq #anti radqueer #anti rq 🍓🌈 #anti transabled #anti transautistic #anti transid #anti transx #anti radshit #anti rq #anti transage #anti map #anti radpara #anti trace