#cw wilbur soot

[thund3randrain]

real footage of me when even more of the people who defined my childhood/early teens turn out to be shitheads

#yeah this is about wilbur #holy fuckballs #mcyts dont be awful challenge #id watch that shit #wilbur soot #wilbur soot situation #cw wilbur soot #fuck wilbur soot #cw abuse

[chayannesegg]

honestly I think it’s kinda interesting how phil’s relationships with wilbur, tallulah, chayanne & tubbo are all reflecting back into his view of sunny tbh. like he has such complex delicate interwoven dynamics with all of them and it all gets thrown onto sunny, this poor kid who he loves in theory, but in practice is a stranger to him. 

like wilbur left tallulah in phil’s care and didn’t come back. even now way after he was initially supposed to, wilbur hasn’t returned (that one day aside). and phil, who had already taken on a big commitment watching tallulah, has been left permanently with two eggs in his sole care. and even though he loves tallulah and wil, and won’t want them out of his life, this is a stress for him. it’s a big undertaking for anyone, to care for two kids alone, but especially since tallulah required a lot of changes in his life.

for better or worse, in many ways phil sees chayanne as an extension of himself. they’re similar in a lot of ways, and often on the same page, and it means phil often struggles to catch up when chayanne’s emotions aren’t on the same page as him. we’ve seen this week, phil having such a hard time understanding the depth and breadth of chayanne’s grief. when he catches on, he usually does a good job empathising and talking it through, but when he doesn’t, he really doesn’t and it can be hard to watch. 

the same is NOT true for tallulah. he has, through hard work and practice, learnt how to identify her emotions. he had to. she needed it. she would have been miserable otherwise. she desperately needed asked for the emotional care and birthdays and consideration that chayanne would never ask for. and he’s good at it—tracking her moods, knowing what upsets her & what she cares about in a way that doesn’t come as naturally with chayanne (or sunny or tubbo or anyone else really expect maybe wilbur). but that took A LOT of time and effort, months of work, and I do think he’s a bit wary of the idea of having to do that again, even when it comes to people he loves like chayanne (or god forbid tubbo).

now tubbo is not wil. tubbo is not phil's son. but he’s still not dissimilar to wil in phil’s mind. whatever the backstory is, phil introduces tubbo to tallulah as an old friend of him and wil’s. he makes tubbo his kids’ godfather. he calls tubbo his boy. he looks out for him. but past those first few weeks, their relationship doesn’t progress. they mean a lot to each other bc of their pasts, but they don’t put any work into upkeeping their relationship and phil in particular doesn’t reflect at all on what how that changes their dynamic. and it does change it—this is clear in purgatory, with phil having zero trust in tubbo to protect chayanne and tallulah, and after, with tubbo endlessly poking at phil’s sore spots trying to illicit a reaction he’ll never receive. 

it's also clear in the way phil has no understanding of what’s going on with tubbo. if he’s struggling to grasp chay’s emotions, he’s not even touching what’s going on in tubbo’s head. tubbo’s death makes no sense to him. it’s sudden. it’s random. it’s illogical. it’s stupid. he wasn’t joking about having two lives? he still took a death bet with richas? he’s not come back? he can’t come back? he’s left phil with distraught kids for no reason with no warning. he doesn’t see the erratic suicidal behaviour, the unending depression, the desperation to be loved. he doesn’t want to see it. he doesn’t want something to be wrong with tubbo, but he also doesn’t even know how to see what’s wrong. he’s annoyed he’s having to deal with it and he desperately desperately wants to believe this is all happening for no reason.

bc at the forefront of phil’s mind is still his love for tubbo. of course, phil would drop everything to help tubbo (if he could recognize something was wrong). of course, he would care for sunny as his own. of course, he would make the same sacrifices he’s made for wil. and he assumes he’ll have to. he thought that sunny would now be under his care. that he’d have to figure out the logistics of a third egg to care for. with wilbur, phil was the only person who could ever have taken care of tallulah. the only person he trusted, the only person who knew tallulah enough. now this isn’t true for tubbo. it’s a genuinely illogical assumption for phil to make: three eggs would be a genuine burden on him; they've never spoken about it; there’s a long list of people who would tubbo expects for sunny before; and he doesn’t even know sunny well enough to name these people for her as comfort.

but still in the moment, alone with tubbo’s eggs and dealing with everything he left behind, phil can only think that the exact same thing that happened before will happen: he alone will be left to care for another scared hurt kid of someone he loves.

and here we come to sunny. a kid whose dad he loves. a kid whose dad he doesn’t understand. a kid whose dad is suddenly gone like his son is gone. a kid who would need him like his daughter needs him. a kid who his son needs to protect. a kid he cares for. a kid he can’t afford to care for, a kid he wasn’t expecting to care for, a kid he doesn’t know how to care for, a kid he would care for if he needed to, a kid he doesn’t know why he’s been left to care for. a kid who is somehow a reflection of all these people he loves but not someone he knows at all.

idk i think this tension comes out in the a lot of the comments phil makes of and to sunny. he doesn't know them well enough to distinguish them from his relationships with other people. and as long as no one challenges him on that, we'll continue to hear these misplaced comments from him, that come across so insensitively, even as he tries his best to genuinely help them and their dad.

#qsmp #qsmp philza #qsmp sunny #suicide #philza neg #qphil neg #i guess i'll tag out of an abundance of caution even if i don't intend this analysis meanly #that said he is absolutely being unfair to sunny and hurting her bc of this and he doesn't even realize #and won't realize unless someone else talks to him about it #lest sunny just snap at him some day which i do think is what we're currently headed to #fun fact: i intended to do more analysis of his actual comments but it got too long so instead you just get this :) #even tho i think this covers too much in too little time and could reference more canon events lmao #but it's already a behemoth #oh well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #also nothing is ever going to justify the 'maybe i won't look for your dad as hard' comment fuck him fr for that #cw wilbur soot #won't delete this but warning he's mentioned here

[crystalsandbubbletea]

You know you're a very shitty person when even DREAM calls you out for it.

And apparently he also INTENTIONALLY hurt Technoblade during his last months of living!?

For those wondering if the Wilbur intentionally hurting Technoblade was real or not:

#cw wilbur #tw wilbur #cw wilbur soot #tw wilbur soot #cw dream #tw dream #wilbur soot #wilbur situation #wilbur has dug his grave through the center of the earth and made it reach hell

[genevawren38]

Probably the only thing I will say on the problems surrounding Wilbur and the CC himself atm, its a litte raw coming from someone who mained SBI for nearly two years.

That character is one I took for myself, DSMP in a lot of ways was built on fan content made canon, leaving a lot of open room for changes.

Hell I had a whole non canon pantheon and various powers I gave different characters in the ways I chose to portray them.

I am very upset about how it all went down but am using the energy to push towards my original writing and less online time.

I will still talk about fandom related things! You know I will, I've been loving my time on this platform. Its a lot more chill than others like a certain birb app.

These past 2 years I have been finally addressing a lot of my mental health concerns and done some self-evaluation, escapism is a bad habit of mine I am working on dialing back.

I am still very passionate about my writing.

I enjoy writing fanfic still because I picked it up as practice and it helped me immensely find a footing in my style once more.

I just needed to get this off my chest.

Thank you all for sticking with me through these changes. <3

#qsmp #wrenrambles #dsmp #wilbur soot #wilbur soot fanfiction #sbi #discourse #wilbur soot /neg #cw wilbur soot #qsmp wilbur soot #dsmp wilbur soot

[arctasy]

what is going on over there 😭😭😭😭

#highkey pissing me off #like be serious for 1 second #but then again what do i expect from twitter #discourse #cw wilbur soot

[hermitcraftx]

yall will really do anything for a boring ass whiteboy lmfao

also in no way shape or form am i defending wilbur fucking soot but what is with the differences here. were they not both abusive and shitty to women like george fucking sexually assaulted someone. can youtube stop putting this shit in my fucking recommended im sick of seeing abuser sympathy for george and clout chasing wilbur. copying blood into his mouth and using shelby being abused for clout is DISGUSTING. the differences??? between the situations?? actually making me see red rn But whatever ive hated george for years. jesus christ

#jamies bad posts #jamies serious posts #wilbur situation #cw gnf #cw wilbur soot #cw abuse #cw sa mention

[radio-and-the-dirt]

Support Shelby Shubble!!!!

I hope she, and anyone else affected by all of this are ok, and have the space, resources, and support systems to recover from and move past this. If you are able to, please go support her.

if you aren't and/or if this is triggering or painful for you please go take a break, its alright to disengage or take a few steps back from this. block the tags if that's what's healthy for you right now. I hope everyone's doing ok and if you aren't I hope your days get better.

if you still support wilbur soot please refrain from interacting with this blog or any other blogs that I may own.

#Shelby #shubble #support shubble #support shelby #shubblesupportsquad #shubble support squad #please support her any way you can #I hope you guys (anyone seeing this or hurt by the situation) are doing well #I will add the next few tags so that people can filter mentions of him easier but I do not think he deserves any fucking attention #wilbur soot #tw wilbur soot #cw wilbur soot #fuck wilbur soot #if anyone wants anything else tagged please let me know 👍

[stewpid-soup]

RANT!! CW: WILBUR SOOT

so fucking upset about the bullshit that wilbur put shelby through

she deserves so much better and i hope she never has to be put into a situation like this again. fuck wilbur and his self centered apology. watch SHELBY’S VOD for more info

to make it clear: i do not support wilbur anymore, and i have removed all of his music and lovejoy’s music from spotify and anywhere else i followed or listened to them on. i enjoyed his content for a long time, and he was one of my biggest comfort streamers throughout covid and i always enjoyed his music, but i’m not going to support a domestic abuser. and his apology just- it wasn’t even a fucking apology. he didn’t talk about anything aside from the biting, and even then he didn’t bring up the fact that he ignored the safe word! there is so much shit that shelby put up with and he didn’t bother bringing it up so that he could get out a half assed apology to try and save his career.

stay safe everyone and take care of yourselves. i understand that wilbur and lovejoy may have been a comfort, but that’s not a reason to support a domestic abuser. i know i made a rant last night about how sad i am about not being able to just enjoy things, but i still have my morals and beliefs. Always support the victim before anything, even if it ends up being debunked. That isn’t to say that you should go harass the person who was accused, but just stop supporting them. stop interacting with their content. easier said than done, especially if they were a comfort or a hyperfixation, but there’s a point where you have to stop showing them support. i don’t have words to properly explain how im feeling, but im so upset and angry at wilbur. He hurt Sheby, and also many of his friends. that’s not the kind of person i want to support, or interact with.

take care of yourselves and don’t forget to take breaks from looking at this stuff, it can get overwhelming very quickly. it’s important to be educated but you won’t be able to learn much if you’re too overwhelmed to process it.

#wilbur soot #cw wilbur soot #tw wilbur soot #wilbur situation #shelby shubble #cw domestic abuse #tw domestic abuse #cw abuse #tw abuse #lmk if i need to tag any other cw’s or tw’s please #soup rants #soup speaks

[thund3randrain]

i physically can't look at any more stuff on wilbur or im gonna break down

how fucking dare he

of course now is when i get back into mcyt

after the dream stuff i said never again but here i fucking am

everything i find comfort in turns out to be wrong

fuck wilbur and his stupid apology

shubble is so brave for talking about him, especially since wilbur is a much more known person with a much larger fanbase, and im so proud of her

now ive got to explain for the second time to my brother why we cant watch a creator he likes anymore, a creator i introduced him to

whats the point anymore

#i cant take this anymore #im done #jayden rants #anti wilbur soot #fuck wilbur soot #wilbur soot #cw wilbur soot #cw dream mention #wilbur soot situation #shubble #cw abuse mention

[cheesy-eyelash]

very disappointed that w!lbur is trending and Shelby is not. many creators who have responded to his "apology" are trending, but Shelby is not. she is the victim, the attention should be on them and others who have spoken out about being hurt by him. not those who are rightly calling him out. not him. not those who are yet to speak on the situation. Shelby Shubble is who we should be talking about, have her in your thoughts more than him. support victims, give them attention, not perpetrators

#shubble support squad #support shubble #shelby #tw domestic abuse #tw abuse #cw wilbur soot #wilbur

[q-morning-crew]

me, back in October: i don't really like wilbur because he seems to be unable to participate in a situation without taking control of it. idk it's probably just his dominant personality and he does that unintentionally but it just makes me uncomfortable

me, now: fuck

#rose recalls! #cw wilbur soot #<- i guess? #idk how to tag this #this has just been on my mind for a while

[ominousvibez]

i said this in the tags of a post in my queue a few days ago and i. well.

#ominous posts #YOUCH #anyway. hi yall #cw wilbur soot

[formerlyaquapochi]

I turned Sky into a smashed tomato and put him in my pasta and I turned Sal into a slushie just now. *sluurp*

#cw wilbur soot #technically? i guess. #✉️ » asks! #hatsune miku

[bouquetofalliums]

wilbur soot's statement is the furthest it can be from an apology. its vague, baseless, lacks Any sort of accountability, and feels like some shit chatgpt made up. two pages, four paragraphs and... Not a single Im Sorry. and to think i expected any better of him and i REALLY DID. his response to his other mild controversies were genuine and decent at best. this just lacks Everything. i read the first two sentences and my eyes rolled to the back of my fuckin head

disregarding that the way he downplays his own abuse astounds me. because WE KNOW EVERYTHING. we've heard from the victim and there were Witnesses. you say you were snobbish, disrespectful and selfish, but aside from the biting thing; do you ever address that time you pinned her down to claim you were stronger than her although knowing shelby has gone through past sexual assault? how you weaponized her safe word? how you locked her up in your house for days? how you never cleaned up over yourself and made her do all the work? how you gaslit her and her friends and Humiliated her in front of them ????? no amount of therapy or change you've claimed to have gone through can excuse any of your vile behaviours ESPECIALLY when it comes WITHOUT an apology. you cry about how you've changed to us but you don't care at all! because it was all about fame and money to you, right? us and our words mean so little to you, right?

you could've taken more time to polish this and to come from a place of genuinity and none of us would have complained. rather you put out some flat disingenuous slop and expected us to eat it up. No! youve lost your devoted fanbase wilbur. if you didn't want your shitty actions to come out you shouldn't have been a shitty person in the first place.

whatever . i have more to say but i dont want to waste my words on him. im so so fucking disappointed in that man and i hope to never see his face on the internet ever again . to think i spent the last 3 years and more just blindly supporting and loving his music and content without thinking anything else of it .... i feel so sick . I feel so so sick

sending all the love and support to shelby, lexie, rhana, sophie, and to anyone and all who have been deeply hurt by his actions in any way whatsoever

#i want to cry #wilbur soot #discourse #cw abuse #sa mention

[cyani07]

festering

#mcyt #dsmp #dream smp #wilbur soot #cw injury #this started off as vent art and then i got carried away so now we have this #my art

[linktoo-doodles]

There will be no sunrise, not for you.

#wilbur soot #dsmp #dream smp #cw suicide #my art #Linktoo art #comic #disco elysium #lines are all from disco elysium