#clean your living space

[cannibalgh0st]

Clean bed sheets and just showered🫧🧼✨️💖

#clean #fresh #nice and clean #shower #bed #clean bedroom #grateful #happy #clean your living space #feeling fresh #cleancore #2023 #july #summer

[pallanophblargh]

It's nice to have salvaged "Mirrorsight" cover art. By which I mean I re-scanned it after giving the original a much needed facelift.

It's definitely one of my favorites from the series.

#illustration #crosshatching #graphite #horse #equine #cover art #fantasy art #pegasus #black and white #traditional art #this one made me so sad when I first found it again #i know that makes it not the original anymore but I would rather be happy with an updated piece #it's mild differences in cleaning up the hatching and adjusting tone/outline #it just makes for a better final product #“you can't make a living drawing horses” #“okay” #funny how things work out #anyway I should have prints available of all cover illustrations by the end of the month #so if that's your thing watch this space

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

whyyyyy are dog people so obsessed with their pet taking a shit...

#im. Confused. bc seriously why! what is it! #we have had this dog for One Full Day and the amount of times #that my stepdad has felt the need to regale me with her using the bathroom on a walk #is. well frankly its Insufferable and i Want It To Stop #like respectfully! affectionately! I Do Not Care! Hush! Cease! Good For Her! None Of My Business! #i am learning so quickly that im solidly a cat person #i do not enjoy having a Wet Beast! dogs are fine when they're not in my house! #me and my cats are like... living in my room now #i almost said Our room. well. that wouldnt be wrong at this point #absolutely unprompted #i can live with snakes i can live with lizards i can live with birds #but dogs? theyre just so much... too much... #sensory nightmares! big and loud and smelly and slobbery and their fur feels weird and theyre so Pushy- #i could handle it if it was a uh... a Sensible dog! #but this is a golden retriever mixed with a samoyed i believe! #that is not a sensible dog thats a 'i will force myself into your personal space' dog #sorry. sorry. im just not very happy with this development lmao #but its not my house not my decision and my stepdad needed an affectionate furry friend #he's happy! good! i can keep my mouth shut about my deep displeasure! #cats are so neat and clean and just sweet little packages of delight... i need to be in a room full of kittens STAT

[maevefinnartist]

sorry but as someone who *had to* live in a van I will never understand all these trust fund kids who *choose to* live in a van

#it sucks. especially if you live in a van WITH someone. they will get on your every last nerve because youre sharing such a small space #shit will go missing that you need #it will never be as clean or organized as it was when you took those aesthetic pictures #and the amount of $ youll spend on gas for your not-at-all-fuel-efficient conversion van is astronomical #nasty people who hate the homeless bc theyre edgelords or far right will slash your tires and smash your windows #actually probably not if your van home is ☆aesthetic☆ vs literally homeless tbh #sorry i just fucking hate how homelessness is getting gentrified and trendy when actual homeless people are suffering

[brehaaorgana]

People joke about ADHD all the time, even swear up and down they totally think they also have it, but then if you ask for an accommodation, to please please please provide things in fucking writing, EXACTLY what they want and need, you will even work it out WITH them, like they promised they would do — repeatedly over and over, and then you don't get it people really will fucking be like:

I am using the incorrect bathroom (TM) to place my shelving and store my things. Homegirl literally removed various sundries and toiletries from a CLOSED CABINET and SHELF because she's interested in boundaries and accountability for my mess.

I said months ago I wanted to improve things for her comfort level and needed a written list of what precisely that fucking looked like in order to achieve it and not miss anything she deemed important. I explained how ADHD works, why I needed a written reference. Why I had to have it laid out, and if something needed changing we needed to write it all out. I would've made the list myself, but they said they would make it for the whole house to hold up their end of things. And, thinking this was a very reasonable adult solution to keeping the house in good shape, I said okay, come up with the list of expectations and what is needed and that way we can update how we handle chores. Awesome. I will do that to uphold my end.

No list ever gets made or drafted or anything despite my bringing it up, knowing we need to do it, but I DO get berated for failing to meet expectations and boundaries that were never fucking provided or delivered and include "don't store toiletries in this particular bathroom because I don't like it."

I can't believe I am a goddamn adult who gets treated like an idiot child for expecting adult communication instead of snide ass passive aggressive bullshit and basic respect for my things.

Because when I fucking get home, my shelving has been removed and a cabinet emptied of my things and placed in the "correct" bathroom.

🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃

Oh shit she solved it, this doesn't look cluttered at all!

What a vast improvement to storing things in appropriate storage!

#my mortal sins include a laundry basket in the kitchen which is where the laundry room is #doing something INCOMPREHENSIBLE to work with my adhd like use the downstairs bathroom to get ready in the morning #instead of the upstairs one because that works best for me and keeps me moving in the morning #storing hobby supplies i was using in the living room in a milk crate basket to clear space at night easily #i left an oil painting to dry on a tabletop easel on MY coffee table and she tried to clean it up causing some of the paint to come off #i used to keep an empty up placed on the mat next to the cat water fountain to remind me to fill up often #not a mess of cups not half emptied cups. a dedicated refill cup tucked behind the fountain #when it kept getting removed i switched it up and placed the cup on top of the cat food bin to clearly indicate it was a cat item #no this is UNACCEPTABLE #also all my coats were removed from the coat rack i feel insane #coats GO ON THE COAT RACK #have you ever had someone actively sabotage your tools to manage your adhd bc its not fun lol #'i can understand why it feels shocking now' literally the most vile snide snake shit when you didnt communicate boundaries at all #its not communicating an expectation to gather up my personal belongings and dump them somewhere else and then text me about it during work #this is how you know shes only ever lived with blood relatives before this lol the entitlement #adhd blogging

[newfeeling77]

i get so frustrated with ppl who wont just fucking help themselvessss. obviously theres a spectrum of pain and subsequent ability when it comes to mental illness but ive known so many people specifically gay people who let themselves live in squalor all while going to therapy taking medication and claiming to take care of themselves. thats the thing self care is NOT doing nothing, self care is actually doing the dishes sorry. its taking the trash out. calling the doctor and making an appointment. being an ADULT. i live with two people in their mid to late 20s who only do a chore once every few weeks and if i ever deign to bring it up i get either aggressive or apologetic responses about depression and struggle. as if im not constantly struggling. i force myself to do things bc they make me feel better… me and you are not all that different. ignoring your human life maintenance or outsourcing it to other ppl is the biggest form of self harm thats become normalized in certain communities

#btw if i go to your house n its a fucking mess it’s disrespectful sorry. to me #like again it’s so normalized in gay spaces from my experience. like oh don’t worry abt cleaning the bathroom its just friends from the bar #coming over. #like um no im sorry im not a fucking animallllll #sorry im angry abt chores today n that post set me off. #if everyone in my house did their fair share itd be incredible #its mostly my sister’s boyfriend but atp i cant tell if theyre really struggling or just stupid. its been 3 years living w them. #he straight up just throws his fast food trash on the floor all around him in his office doesnt give a fuck #i cant ask him to do anythinggggg he treats it like a personal attack #like if youre actually this incapable of taking care of yourself you need to go to the psych ward . #its the constant weed smoking like theres not one second of the day they arent high #and they dont shower enough either whole house stinks sometimes. id kill myself but good for them i guess

[oatbugs]

idk how to live so im going to talk to myself out loud until i do

#listen. take a deep breath. i know your bpm is high but you need to think with me for a second. #remember that you are paper thin. all your facets are sheets of paper and what you gave her is just another one. #make a new one. you dont need it. you dont need her to see you. i know you think you need her but you will be okay. i know its hard. #you wish you could have shown her how you loved her. listen to yourself. you are made of paper. #she might be concrete or maybe wood or maybe gold. you need to start laying your roots elsewhere. shut that thought down #and blink and listen. the parts you keep thinking of arent lost. they still happened and they are yours to keep. #there is beauty in this loss. tell me about the beauty in this loss. its okay to think about it. you got to see it all and nothing more #and this is great because it would have been bad. you know it would be violent in a way you dont need. you know this to be true. #you are going to look at that empty space in her shape and youre going to fill it with everything that happened when you knew her. #the memories with her but then also the the way your friends talked you through it. the game with the clovers. #your first allergic reaction you almost died and you couldnt stop laughing and you were held so close to their hearts. #learning the names for all the floursecent gene tracking dyes that everyone else knows already. about the exam - listen again. #i know you think if you fail your life is over but you need to try your best. youre not going to get a good grade in a uni test for the fir #youre going to make up for it. youre going to make sure you make up for it. do you understand? i love you. you have to do this. #right now you need to sit up. breathe. i know your heart hurts. go to the living room. grab something to eat. i dont care if you feel full. #youre going to clean your mattress heater. youre going to study a bit longer and then youre going to sleep. youre going to tell your mother #im sorry and i might genuinely fail a test. shes going to tell you its okay. if you do badly in this course you can just become a neurosurg #just agree. dont argue right now. its okay. youre okay. you are paper thin. i know any puncture hurts. #breathe. think of your friends. think of their hands in yours. it isnt eternal.youve lived through worse. the empty sky is still beautiful. #the lack of her is still beautiful

[moinsbienquekaworu]

Housemate is letting one of her rabbits walk around at night again :/

#girl he's cute but that means i gotta leave the lights on #i can guess she's not asleep because there's light in her room and her smart tv was still pinging my phone with the casting notif #but like. you can let your own pet rabbit wander around the house with your door closed! #he's your bunny! you didn't say anything about it! #not even talking about the risk for the lil guy because this is in spirit a student house #like i'm the only full time student but we're all at that student-ish age and living consequently #by which i mean there's lots of crap on the ground that doesn't get cleaned often #the bunny is not safe walking around. he isn't. also i keep almost tripping on him #and it stresses me the fuck out personally to have to keep the lights turned on all night across the house #just because jasper's out and rabbits don't have night vision and i don't want him to be alone in the dark #but also there are for real screws on the floor of the bathroom just hanging out #like. this is not a house that is safe for rabbits to roam free around. it just isn't #and she's filled the only shelf in the bathroom with more hygiene products than anyone else #and and and and. she's a shit housemate i won't miss her when i leave to go back home #man i can't wait for the day i am not sharing living space with her. i like my other housemates! #mostly because they pick up after themselves #and they're aware that when they make a mess they have to take care of it afterwards #she just kinda does stuff and then doesn't think about it #if she lived on her own i would not give a shit but it's impacting my day-to-day life as well! #ARGH #anyway #wow i have a ramble tag now #england adventures

[tactfulsaboteur]

the cold stone gift card i found at the bottom of the junk drawer still has $10 on it certified white folk moment

#and they say cleaning your living space doesn't pay off #ok i don't know if they actually say that or not but it did pay off this time

[notjanine]

i live here with the love of my life or whatever!!! we’ve been watching starstruck and playing BG3. in the past week, i’ve made chocolate chip cookies with pretzel bits, a seedy whole wheat bread, pesto with my own basil, rosemary garlic flatbreads, banana-bread-spice-cake, lemon garlic chicken soup. it might get cool enough to open the windows this week. we’re hosting a board game night with friends in a couple days. we are talking about maybe adopting a wee beastie. this is good. 💗

#it’s a big two bedroom and i had the initially controversial but brilliant idea to #make the ‘living room’ the dining room and the ‘second bedroom’ the den #so the big kitchen table is the hearth of the main living space and movie nights are so so cozy! #and the ‘dining room’/breakfast nook is a reading/study space #it’s such a good setup i love it! #and this apartment is kinda old (but recently renovated) and it’s got so many weird angles and quirks but in a cute charming way #like how in the sims weird shaped spaces improve your sim’s environmental happiness #anyway #eventually we’ll put more stuff on the walls too #there’s also a wet bar. we filled it with board games. #and oh oh the balcony faces southeast so my bbs get SO much sun my malabar spinach is THRIVING 💚 #also also Books is suuuch a good housemate bless #i haven’t had to clean the bathroom once since we’ve been here #also also every friday can be… you know 😌

[pumpking64]

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#Jesus fucking Christ #why do some people just. not see the mess they’re making and acknowledge that it’s their responsibility to clean up after themselves?? #like. you throw your shoes in the entrance exactly where people walk. you let shared loafers stand outside for several hours #you cook the most simple dinner that one time you cook (mind you the other people have equal shares of making food) #and yet you don’t even manage to clean up after neither the cooking NOR taking the food off the table into the fridge so it doesn’t turn bad #you keep on taking the most easy solution that fits you the best without thinking about others. in a space where we all are exhausted #and I’m so done with it for now tbh. how lazy to not care about the bare necessities for others. how rude to admit to it #AND on top of this. you’ll tell stuff about your country that’s *objectively horrifying* and then add on to that that you love your country #it’s just. so many things. are so so so much of what I’d avoid in a person. a few things is fine. no one’s perfect. but damn there’s a limit #SORRY to anyone who’s read this far but I just. had to get it out #this guy is the one I’m working the closest with these two and a half weeks. hes still a kid kind of. I’m not gonna be mean to him #but damn. my patience. is being tested #AHHH I might delete this tbh. I don’t like showing this side of myself. I don’t want to spread this kind of negativity #I’m just so very frustrated. how a human person can come to this place and be here for SO LONG already #and still not have learnt the basics of living and working together #own post #oh. and all the triggering of intrusive thoughts is not helping your case buddy #(which you can’t really know about so it’s kinda fair but also it’s for bad hygiene stuff mostly and that’s. I mean…..)

[cannibalgh0st]

Instead of hiding in a corner and feeling bad- I deep cleaned my house and I took a nice shower after!!!

I also used a home made coffee scrub I made♡

☺️☕️✨️🎑

#cleaning #clean #clean house #deep clean #shower #nice and clean #clean your living space #home #house #shower care #coffee scrub #2022 #December #winter #trying my best

[lunar-wandering]

i seriously need to move out cause my room isn't big enough to hold all of my stuff anymore and it's genuinely causing problems

#like... ive got a lot of merch and books #and lil dolls and notebooks and pencils #and clothes. so many clothes #and i have things crammed into every single shelf in every place that will fit #to the point there is NO more space #so i've had to resort to putting things on the floor #i haven't seen my desk clean in years cause i had to start putting books and drawing materials and cards on top of it #for context: i have the smallest bedroom in the house #my parents kicked me out of my much larger bedroom when my brother was born #and shoved me into what WAS basically an office #im one of those ''there is one clear path in and out of the room'' people #it'd be fine if i was allowed to have my stuff be in other places in the house i think #but if my parents catch even a Single Thing that is not a Family Item or Theirs in the living room #its immediately being yelled at to ''take your shit to your room'' hours #i'd give stuff away but like ive ALREADY given away the stuff im willing to part with #like the stuff i don't get joy from anymore/don't use anymore #i just... need more space #cause literally EVERY part of my room is being used to hold something #if i like... lived in a space where my stuff could be in more than one room #like where i could have MORE SHELVES to spread things out on #this would not be a problem #also the school giving me like a thousand things and no place to put them (i didn't get a locker like everyone else) #DEFINITELY made things worse. 90% of the stuff on my floor rn is school stuff and papers

[leatherbookmark]

there was a post on i don't remember where at this point rddt about idols doing grossdisgusting things and it was all shit like "there was footage of X scratching his ass!", or "sooo many times X took a bite/sip of something and then Y drank/ate the rest", or "X's dog licked her mouth/licked into her mouth!", or such stuff, with everyone doing their best to convey just how disgusted they were, full on gagging and heaving, not to mention the charming "it just proves that even your faves are still men, and men will do the most disgusting shit without batting an eye, women aren't like that", and it's like oh boy, i've got bad news to you about the human condition

#PEOPLE... ARE NOT ALWAYS... TV SHOW SQUEAKY CLEAN... #idk maybe that thread was just a gathering of mysophobes and i wasn't aware but idols... live together in very small spaces #they're probably seen each other sick or puking they've Been There when one of them had explosive diarrhea #if you wanna put your shipping goggles on they probably even helped each other get off. what's a wee bit of spit between bros (gn) #(this is going to be hilarious when i post the fic) #like is it gross when someone takes a swig outta the bottle -> spits it back in -> someone else drinks it without knowing? YEAH #but theeeee level of disgust was almost performative. are you good my guys #shrimp thoughts #one person was like 'i work as a veterinarian and it TERRIFIES me how this one idol was basically making out with her dog!' #yeah so this might be difficult but i don't think she's the gross one here.

[mishkakagehishka]

tbf while the overuse of english phrases can be annoying in croatian this isn't necessarily something new - one only need look into the medieval and new age plays to see lingua franca (italian, latin, german, turkish ) seeping into the commoner language is just a thing that happens when you have a foreign language that's as widely used as the native one. we can be morose abt it but ultimately it's a natural aspect of language evolution. we wouldn't have a lot of dialectal vocabulary if it weren't for this kind of mixing.

That is fair, but i feel like there's a difference in not having a choice but to adopt and adapt, and very much having a choice and just kinda rolling over (hence the cuck comparison).

Like, we didn't have a word for a džezva so we borrowed it from Turkish - we don't have a word for "cringe" so go ahead and say "krindž".

I feel the problem comes when you speak Croatian, but 75% of your production is just fully English sentences, which happens. I've unfortunately been subjected to it way too much by now. It's not a case of "A postaj to na story, a ja ću screenshottat i forwardat Marti" <- you can say post, story, screenshot, forward in Croatian, but it's not the end of the world if you say them in English. The problem is when you say, "Super ti je ispala fotka, you should post it" <- conversations where entire clauses are spoken in English between two people whose first language is shared, and not English.

#not a historian so i can only say as much as i learn in linguistic courses #you use italian in maritime business because italian countries were the maritime baddies #so if you were in the business - you spoke italian #a lot of garments' names are borrowed from languages that they originated in #a lot of things that were brought by conquest were given names by the imperialists and taken by the conquered #a lot of the times people mixed and lived in the same areas and languages mixed #(like how it's just that Dalmatians use Venetian - Venetians also use some Croatian whether they know it or not) #no language is clean - God forbid you attempt to say ''pure'' for the ick you'll give me #but the problem is you're not saying memorija for phone storage you're saying memorija for your memories because you forget false friends #with how anglicised your very thought process has become. publika and public patetično and pathetic #and then we open the entire sentences in english #holds your shoulders. never speak to english majors. 80% of them are like that #but yknow. despite history croatian as a language lived on with borrowed words and with loanwords and with adopted wordd #but the youth. is not attempting to borrow cringe or adopt second-hand embarrassment because we don't have it #they are fully speaking in english #like us two rn - with the caveat that english is here used because we're essentially having an open discussion in an english-speaking space #asks

[royalreef]

#Most secret royal advisor || OOC #(( OUGHGHGHH #(( cleaning is miserable my good bitches #(( in case nyall were wondering why im not here #(( (that on top of intermittently being sick + chronic fatigue + busy + just Everything really) #(( on the bright side. cleaning really is easy Happy Chemical #(( or at least rearranging your living space is #(( very nice to get rid of oldass furniture. very nice to get NEW furniture.