#block or unfollow and move on

[kenpachisbrat]

Gonna say this real quick. I don't do drama. Tumblr is supposed to be a safe place for everyone. Not for people to act like they're stuck in fucking highschool.

#get the fuck over yourselves #stop doing stupid shit #and just let people be. #if you dont like a fic #move on #its really simple #if you dont like a person #block or unfollow and move on #also super simple

[infectiouspiss]

hey i know this person used to post a lot of mcr so some of you might still follow them. i think it's time to unfollow.

#don't say anything just unfollow or block and move on #not worth wasting your time on

[romanticatheartt]

TW: mention of r*pe, sl*t-shaming and de*th treats

At this point I want to ask Gwynriels and Eluciens if they really ship these couples because they like them, like the potential they have, how their story can be healing & inspiring to so many OR you're just here to prove E/riels being in the wrong and insist on how they're not endgame?

Your whole blog is for "what that person said", "what the other did", debunk their theories, arguing the same subject all over again every few days...

Don't you get tired? What happened to enjoy your ship? Making headcanon, making meme, writing fanfics, drawing fanarts?

This has nothing to do with being passionate. You can be passionate but try to enjoy your ship. Not arguing all the fkn time that none of the sides would accept the words of the other... WHAT'S THE POINT?

They're insecure enough to come to G and E tags to argue with you but why you bother to even form an answer? If they're here to start a fight with you, just block them! Don't answer them. Leave them hanging. Why do you care what they think? They're in the tags to feel validated for their opinion but we know they're in a wrong place so put them out of their misery and block them... (I can't stress this enough BLOCK THEM. God knows how many I did in the past year and I wasn't even active)

All the G and E tags are about how E/riels won't happen and how they're are rude and disrespectful...

Just leave them alone, let them be in their own delusion bubble and just wait until sjm confirm what the next book is about. If it's as we predicted based on everything we've seen so far that would be an answer enough to all their disrespects, de*th treats, calling us misogynist, sl*t shaming and telling us they hope we get r*pe just like Gwyn did...

And if it's not, if somehow E/riel happened to be endgame, that's not the end of the world. You can still ship them because there's no rule on how you HAVE to ship what the author wrote. Canon is a decision the author takes but you can disagree and write your own version, make your own headcanon. That's the beauty of shipping two imaginary character!!

But IF you actually ship them, not just to prove that side of the fandom wrong...

I think everyone should ask themselves that "will I still ship Gwynriel/Elucien even if they're not endgame?"

Because right now it looks like a competition...

ps: if E/riel is endgame then karma will get to them another way and if it's not that should be a karma enough for all the foul things they called/said to us.

#everybody needs to chill istg #if they're disrespecting you? #the block bottom is there for the very reason #why you bother to answer them if you know you're right #why you have to justify your theory if you're so sure about it? #specially to someone who's here to just disagree with you... #I'm not saying all of them are like this #bc some of them are genuine and I've seen them changing sides #or just politely disagree with you and move on with their lives #but we know the nature of most of them #so why you bother? #I unfollowed the tags a few weeks before hofas bc omg #it was tiring #but some times I check it to see if there's new fanart or fanfic #and all I see is fighting over fictional characters #just stop... #gwynriel #elucien #pro gwynriel #pro elucien

[magioffire]

saw your reply on that one ask post and while i still can't find the account in question to block, thank you for the extra clues on what to look out for!

alright im gonna be real its the blog char/lotte-l/iddel. i commonly do not name drop blogs and was 100 percent prepared to leave this shit behind but....i guess she just keeps wanting to drag everyone back in because every day, its something else. therefore i think its important people know exactly who tf she is so they dont have to walk on eggshells wondering if theres someone in their community that literally holds wrong and bigoted opinions against them for....simply existing? nah. no one should have to deal with that.

theyve deleted many of their anti-polyam posts to cover their tracks and avoid criticism. but their issues with polyam apparently include: wars have been started as a direct result of polyam relationships apparently (???? girl what. what wars), confusing polyam with forced religious polygamy (and seems to also conveniently forget that people still to this day are forced into monogamous relationships somehow), that only people who are childish, deluded or narcissistic are in polyam relationships, used right-wing talking heads like jor/dan p/eterson, m/att wa/lsh and j/oe ro/gan as 'sources' (as a trans person, even if you do not agree with everything these people say, if you uncritically consume them, i just dont feel safe around you. period.). and yet despite having these opinions she still thought it was okay to be in mutuals with openly polyamorous characters and muns, and follow the blogs of people who had it explicit in their rules that they dont tolerate ANY forms of bigotry or hatred. like, you gotta follow HER rules and respect HER boundaries but apparently everyone else's space and boundaries? free reign for her. she can reap the benefit of consuming our art and writing and being in our spaces while also having such vile opinions, apparently. now shes claiming its just an opinion of her muse, but we all know its just a smoke screen. we arent stupid, we can tell when someone is soapboxing using their character as a shield against criticism. and frankly, its repulsive. in this situation, you can either own up to your mistake, or double down on your bigoted stance and make it abundantly clear that you do not welcome certain groups of people into your space. thats fair. but shes being wishwashy, like many bigots nowadays are. they cannot own up to their biogtry and need a level of plausible deniability to avoid criticism, which...ultimately just means all of us have to walk on egg shells to 'tolerate' their shitty opinions because they 'claim' they arent *actually* hateful, they are just *concerned* or *uncomfortable*. like --

i could go on. but really i think you get it. im really sorry that you, and all of us, who are in this community to find respite from this kind of hate and intolerance, and enjoy eachother's differences, have to deal with this. i am friends with people from all walks of life, many world views, *i always give everyone the benefit of the doubt* but when i witness such blatant misinformation, pettiness and hatred being harbored within the community, i cant keep quiet about it or tolerate it.

ignore the shit out of her. she wants attention. dont give her anymore.

#ooc. #ask. #anon. #ugh this past week has been a mess. #i really do not blame anyone if they need to unfollow for their own sanity if this has been too much #i completely get it #this is NOT what i came to tumblr for either #long post cw #discourse cw #and hopefully this is DEF be the last of it because im honestly sick of this chick trying to pull people back in??? #no? we're done? we established you hate polyam people and likely other people who make you vaguely uncomfortable #and many people in the community have decided they dont vibe with that #over. done. move on. #dont send her messages. dont interact with her. dont try to debate. just block and ignore.

[aptericia]

I followed a bajillion bird blogs recently and now there are SO many birds on my dash. I am greatly enjoying this fact.

🐦🦃🐔🐓🐣🐤🐥🐧🕊️🦅🦆🦢

#over the past few days I've switched out a bunch of fandom blogs I was following for birb blogs #also unfollowed the aromantic and revstar tags and blocked like 15 more ship tags #I actually followed a few more aro and revstar blogs recently as well so now I don't feel like I need to look in the tags to get my fix #I am still learning to use this webbed site! #I am also slowly moving away from being a primarily art blog lol #ramblings

[pinkeoni]

if you don't wanna see st posts on the dash then dont follow st blogs?????

#i mean idc if ppl move on or stop liking something like who cares #but if you wanna keep following those blogs then dont??? complain when they post stuff from that fandom????? #st could be replaced here with anything #yeah yeah ppl should tag their shit or whatever but also if a blog is mostly dedicated to one thing then theres not much of a point #also this isnt about trigger tagging its about. st lol #and you will do no harm by unfollowing #or even blocking #live your life baby

[ivan-fyodorovich-k]

Man if I had a dollar for every time some right wing asshole called me a pseudo intellectual for having degrees and failing to agree with them

I wouldn’t actually have that much money, it doesn’t happen that often. It is annoying, though, is the main thing

#i feel that calling me a pseudo intellectual implies I try harder than I do to cultivate an image of being an intellectual #I just post bullshit #i openly admit i am insane and disconnected from reality all the time #i complain about it regularly #i think most right wing people who dislike me just quietly unfollow or block and move on #i suppose it’s possible they complain about me behind my back but i don’t want to know

[spacegoathours]

Thank you for not drawing any Dib x Zim stuff sorry thank you

hm. well. what do i say abt this.

there’s little to no zadr on this blog, my art or others, because it’s simply not my thing. i’m a huge fan of zadf, and i grew up with the idea that it couldn’t be anything but zade.

i’m not gonna sit here and be like… OH YOU’RE WELCOME kind citizen i do what i can to keep zadr off your dashboard NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I HAVE NO BEEF WITH ZADR and my followers need to know this. it’s a massive part of the fandom. it makes up so much of the incredible art we see and the heart-wrenching fanfics we read! when it comes to the media Invader ZIM itself, it’s not integral. when it comes to the fandom, i’m sorry but…it’s definitely integral.

just…this blog is my house and since i am a big fan of zadf, that’s all you see (if i ever draw them which is not often apparently LOL). obviously these two characters are far from what i draw the most BUT i can’t promise you’ll never see them lol

#asks #mina talks #please don’t see this as an attack anon #it’s not #it’s more informative on my end and I WANT to be more transparent about my thoughts on this #so others can curate their own experience and unfollow me if need be #this is a very good site for that! block and move on kinda thing yknow?

[sonego]

i'm not replying to this. i blocked this person. but. i need people to understand that this is so so weird. i was venting about my experience with abuse and it's unsurprisingly not a light and fun topic and i get questioned about it? like what do you get from sending this? jesus

#yes of fucking course i know what gaslighting means you dick lol it's soooo weird to question me about my own trauma!!!!! #idk what's up with the weird anons i've been getting on this blog lately but they're not making this tumblr thing fun #quite the opposite #i might have to go back to talking about personal stuff on main only lol #(also considering remaking this blog bc i feel Weird) #anyway like please don't take time out of your day to do this shit 😭 if you really don't like the way i talk about my life then just #idk unfollow me block me ignore me move on !

[aeide-thea]

still thinking abt the tumblrinx i encountered a while back whose pinned post said they were transmasc… and also demanded that men dni

like—i’m not confused by the convoluted not-like-the-other-boys doublethink that gets you there, i can follow the chain of illogic just fine, but i sure am deeply wearily depressed by it!

#i know plenty of good men—good cis men even! gasp! #and i just think like. if we can’t move away from‚ like‚ cold gender war how the fuck do we move forward #fundamentally like. 100% block people who have behaved towards you in ways you didn't like. #but like. this whole thing where ~afabs~ preemptively self-victimize by conjuring up the creepiest cishet man they can imagine #and self-harm by worrying abt that imaginary guy jacking off to them #is just like. i understand how it happens but it’s like. you’re actively doing negative visualization #and‚ like‚ preemptively self-victimizing #ime it feels a lot better to move through the world unworried‚ in the knowledge that if someone says sth gross to you: you can block them! #anyway ultimately i’m pretty clearly making this post bc i'm overdue to unfollow the tirfiest blogger i’m currently following #like. yeah loads of cishet men are shitheads but ~misandry~ is so last decade #and frankly i don’t have a lot more time for the cishet women who have bought into the same system—like i have some sympathy but. #these people all get warped by the system into complementary fucked-up cogs whose teeth bite into one another #and i’m just not interested in biting back—i want to leave all the biting behind in the dust of the junkyard that birthed it #and like. i don’t want to dismiss the oppression that births this sort of rhetoric. it's super real and it's toxic and it fucks people up. #but it’s like. when people have bad dads and then are like Dads R Always Bad!!! #and i’m just over here like. i don’t know how to say this without sounding like i’m invalidating you but my dad was a fucking saint tbh #not perfect dgmw but like. a sweet gentle encouraging man who got ground down by my mother’s toxic heel along with the rest of us #so like. actually not only are you closing yr eyes to a better future‚ yr closing yr eyes to other ppl’s lived realities #like i personally managed to have a totally life-ruining mother without deciding Mothers Are Ontologically Evil Actually! #idk. obviously women remain *enormously* systemically oppressed! but surely we can acknowledge and decry that without #implicitly rhetorically closing off any possibility of a gentler queerer gender dynamic? #anyway none of this is revolutionary i’m just like. i KNOW the fascists want to cut off my toes and force me into the glass slipper #of viciously constrained femininity #that in turn makes itself feel better by sneering at men‚ critiquing other women who Do It Wrong‚ and exerting control over children #so i have strong personal cause to care about misogyny even if i didn’t care about it in the abstract #but i just think like. acting like traditional gender roles and dynamics are a fixed truth we can only bruise ourselves on #instead of a human construction that we can undermine and work to topple #is not actually the path to a healed world in the long run! #anyway. beta edition post (thumbtyped & not reread): may contain bugs.

[merlinoutofcontext]

Gwen is dead, is temporary, but Arthur and Merlin will be together forever.

you really thought you were doing something by sending this huh

#block unfollow and move on anon!

[peachzin]

every once in a while when I post adasou to twt I get some randos quote retweeting and commenting as if I’ve like come out as adasou shipper and I’ve done this huge betrayal and they can’t believe they were ever following me and it’s like girl my likes r public my media tab has past adasou fanart I’ve done and I have retweeted Several Adasou Pieces throughout my time on twt idk what else to do for u to understand that I might enjoy adasou

#I know I post majority bankita so I understand if u just assume I’m all bankita bc yeah on some degree I am all bankita! I love them #but I also enjoy other ships and other themes and those ships and themes might not be ur taste and that’s fine #just unfollow block if needed and leave #I dont hide the fact I like this ship either #I posted adasou art a while back and it literally triggered my day of reckoning #call out post and all #but I thought we had moved past that like who fuckin cares dawg #also if ur rly out here thinkig I’m making souji have a whole baby at his age in-game #like… hello

[ironwoodcollective]

🎵 We follow too many people. So I've started paring that down. Basically at this point I'm just unfollowing any blog that frequently shows up on our dash with their posts as grey boxes due to blacklisted tags. Right now, we only really have anti-endo tags blacklisted. And yeah, it's easy to end up with a post on your blog that gets flagged for being tagged as anti-endo somewhere in its reblog chain. That's why we're talking frequent occurrences. Because you yourself may not be anti-endo, but you're obviously entirely okay with anti-endos if you're interacting with them that much. And that's something that makes us very uncomfortable.

I'm not condemning folks who aren't anti-endo but interact with anti-endo blogs, it's just something we aren't comfortable with and that's literally the reason the unfollow button exists. So. Anyway, that's where we're starting. This is likely to end up including an array of "anti-[insert whatever]" type tags. Because tbh, a lot of that stuff creates harassment and we're not cool with harassment. "Anti-kin" will probably be the next thing we add to the blacklist for that purpose.

Remember, folks, curating your own online experience is your responsibility, not anyone else's. And that includes liberal use of the blacklist, unfollow, and block features. Make your online spaces comfy and safe for yourself!

#🎵 rowan #journal #adaptive system #plural system #system #endo friendly #Don't harass people. #Just block them and move on. #But also on the endo hate thing. #We're mixed origin. #All the endo hate makes us feel very unsafe in traumagenic spaces and makes us uncomfortable in general. #So we'll be avoiding that. #And this is not a syscourse post. #Do not try to drag this into syscourse. #This is more of a heads up for folks we unfollow. #And it's explicitly not condemning them because we don't follow endo exclusionists in the first place.

[kalicocoa]

An Announcement on the State of Night Rule

So I’ve been struggling with how to say these things and I finally just need to get it off my chest. I think I’ll feel better after finally speaking about things, so here we go!

After today, I will not be participating in the Project SEKAI fanbase outside of finishing my fanfiction, Night Rule!

I’ve had a lot of unsavory experiences with people in this fanbase that were behind closed doors in a way. (Discord Servers, Private Messages, etc.) Making a big stink out of things will only reflect poorly on me as past experience has proven to me, so I’d rather just let sleeping dogs lie and remove myself from the equation without making an enormous post about those things.

I don’t feel very safe when interacting with people anymore and more often than not I’m hurt by unnecessary hostile behavior toward me. Hostility that ranged from disagreeing on meaningless headcanons to straight up bigotry at my expense. (I quite literally watched as some passionate readers of my fic turned on me immediately upon learning I was a person of color. I don’t feel good about this and I never will either.)

However, Night Rule will be completed. I plan to finish it, even if my motivation is practically abysmal lately. I have love for my story and the completed outline I worked so hard on, but I do not feel well writing this story for people that ultimately think little of me as the creator.

That being said, updates will be extremely scarce from this point onward. Hopefully at least once a month, but I can’t promise this due to my current mental health state. You’re getting this fanfiction for free and it’s a work that has brought a lot of aggression toward me as a person, so you can be reasonable and accept that it will update as much as it will on my terms. Hope that’s understood, because if it isn’t, that’s something you’ll have to deal with on your own I’m afraid.

Night Rule was a creation of my own personal passion for Proseka and its cast, fit with my favorite fantasy tropes and ideas I had been dying to use in a story for years. For this reason, it’s much too special to me to abandon and I plan to keep this as a thing for me before I worry about how much people love or hate it.

I recommend that if you only follow me for Project SEKAI, you should probably unfollow me now! I will not be sharing posts of it anymore and the only things related to Proseka that will be posted will be updates on this fic and reblogged fanworks of Night Rule if people continue to make those. I’ll still be playing the game on occasion, but I will not be talking about it on here casually from here on out.

Where I plan to go from here, I’m not really sure. I still have things that I enjoy, so I plan to keep writing and reblogging things that I like. Maybe I’ll move on to the next big interest. Maybe I’ll disappear someday. Who knows. We’ll figure it out when we get there.

But the point remains, this chapter of my life is coming to a close, and the end of Night Rule will be the end of my involvement in this fanbase for good.

Thank you for understanding! See you on the flip side. (❁´◡`❁)

#Proseka Magical Hero AU #Calico Chats #I'm so relieved to get this all out #I'm just really tired and ready to move on #I've woken up daily thinking about how I can't bring myself to work on chapters atm and I feel so sick all the time #But no more. I'm moving on and taking as long as I need on this fic. #If this bums you out sorry? You can unfollow and block me whatever makes you feel good. But I'll be taking it easy from here. #Life is too complicated and much too short for me to be trapped in a cycle like this #I'm not even being paid HAHAHA I will quit for my own health. Thank you #Proseka #WonderShow #Leo/need #MMJ #VBS #N25 #Vocaloid

[faehrys]

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#since today was a little weird idk.. i just wanna make it clear that i do truly love all of dtkq+ and all i’m here for is to support them #and love vlog about them and make my silly little posts and jokes #and if you don’t like me or the things i blog about i am kindly asking you to just unfollow/ block and move on #i also sometimes unfollow people and it is not always with bad intentions i just don’t always wanna see things that make me upset #in other news i’ve been thinking about moving blogs because i truly want my experience on here to be as positive as possible #and i feel like because i have a lot of followers now and anons send me hate unprompted that’s not always possible #i’m very attached to this blog though so we’ll see #anyways lots of love and please try to be kind because we are all dealing with our own shit and this should be our silly little escape to #talk about some silly little guys

[nelsonswilbury]

If someone has blocked you from their story idk just respect their privacy and move on??

#unless they are talking shit about you #or like excluding you from a group activity #its really not your business #yeah keep ur distance from them in the future dont be their friend anymore or whatever but #know that it doesn't make them a bad person #most of the time people block because the other person is too judgemental and they dont feel comfortable sharing their life with you #but are too rude to unfollow #so yeah either way just accept that the person doesn't think of you as their friend and move on with ur life