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teeth--thief · 3 months
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Hi. Your previous anonymous speaker, again. I’m reading Midnight in Chernobyl, as I’m fortunate enough to have found a copy. Notes? Thoughts? Thank you, again. I liked your last reply much.
- R
Welcome back R, so glad to see you! I'm happy you liked my reply ♡! I shall continue replying for as long as you'll continue asking.
It's probably the best English language book about the disaster out there. As I've mentioned in my previous post, it does a great job showing the people involved as, well, people, which a lot of other books fail to do. It does repeat certain myths and misinformation, though, mainly when the source is Medvedev, so I guess that's on him. Everything is on him. We (me) hate Medvedev in this household.
> One of my least favourite things it repeats is that there was some kind of a disagreement in the control room. There were calm conversations and the closest thing to an "argument" was when, allegedly, Dyatlov snapped and told Akimov to hurry up because he was taking too long looking over the test program during the beginning of the shift. Nobody reported anything else - if they did, it would have most definitely been used against Dyatlov himself during the trial - and yet, seemingly neither Akimov's nor Toptunov's testimonies said anything about being forced to do anything or getting yelled at by the Deputy Chief Engineer.
It is unclear to me why this kind of narrative persisted even after people realised the operators weren't at fault and that Medvedev had it out for Dyatlov for some reason. Drama is what makes things interesting and it's easier to say "oh, well, the operators did not agree to XYZ, actually" when you don't want to blame them, I suppose. But you might as well be perfect obedient and be innocent and the same time - after all, it's not like any of them were exactly planning making the reactor go boom that night...
> It's not clear why there was a power drop to begin with. Higginbotham says that the SIUR "made a mistake", while Dyatlov and a few others say it was an equipment error. RBMK is a beast of a reactor, reportedly hard to control when the power is low and an inexperienced SIUR, which Toptunov was, would probably have problems keeping up with everything. If it was the case of the SIUR messing up, then it's not as simple as the author presents, you don't just miss one step and it all goes to shit, you actively have to not recognise and/or not be fast enough with your actions. But that's nitpicking, it's not that relevant.
> The fuel channel caps never jumped or at least were never actually SEEN by anyone to have been jumping, my god. Perevozchenko was in the control room when it was "going on". That Chernobyl Guy made a really good (and fun!) video on the topic if anyone's interested. Love that guy, he's doing a great job!
> I'm pretty sure that the description of the control rods and the positive scram effect (and the purely technical, nuclear bits) is not that accurate. I'm going to be very careful with both of these because pure physics is outside of my comfort zone and will actually recommend you do your own research on both of these, if you're interested, from the fear that I might start sounding like Medvedev (without proper education)
Other than that, it's really really good! It includes some relevant pictures, which is always nice (I'm looking at you, Kate Brown's book), it covers a great time duration - from before Prypiat to after Chernobyl. And the author interviewed a ton of people, we have to give him that.
All in all, I absolutely need to reread this book again because my memory of it is a little foggy and I'll report back to you in case something of importance will come up!
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jefferythejelly · 1 year
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would you be able to recreate the family picture they took at the streamer awards with the blobs? i know a bunch of the people in that picture don't have a design but maybe with the ones who do?
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this was really cute ty anon :]
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deadduvznap · 11 months
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bro. Sub sapnap trying to suck off m reader but his gag reflex is shit, he keeps trying but he just can’t stop gagging so reader has him jerk him off. Just imagine sapnap having drool all over his face, tears in his eyes bc he wants to please his daddy so badly but he just can’t :(( also can I be 🩻 anon?
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ofc you can !!! welcome to atlas's basement 🩻 nonnie :) and bro okay listen you put so little of ur dick into his mouth and hes alr tearing up cus he has a small mouth and his jaw is already widened so much :((( and when you push ur cock to the back of his mouth he starts full crying and trying to push himself off you :(( sticking ur finger in his mouth next to ur cock and ripping his lip :( getting his blood on ur cock sobbing (hc his lips are chapped as fuck (mine do the same if pulled)) and bro fuck me anyways yeah her had to jerk you off so he can recuperate hes just sitting there sobbing with your cock in his hand and hes hickuping and wiping everything off his face :(( but you tell him not to wnd you smear it all over his face :((( you have to train his throat bcs he wants to please you SO BAD hed do anything for you :( while he jerks you off he just kisses you nd lightly sucks on your cock :((((( ahahshghahvaa hes just so
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spotsupstuff · 9 months
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ur grading people and if they get an f theyre blocked? my main you aint a kindergarten teacher this is a microblogging platform
yeah, that's why there's that function called blocking! :) cuz this is a microblogging site! that's what microblogging platforms have! :) so you don't have to put up with people's shit! :) interesting that kindergarten teachers where you live are capable of blocking people in real life, hope you had fun with that
#spot says stuff#this is the INTERNET You are the one who curates your own fucking experience and if i dont like someones vibes or what theyre saying to me-#-they are going to get blocked! ''grading'' people??? its called judging people and having set boundaries and self respect#im not here to conform to strangers tastes n the need to Watch Me i dont care about that more than i care about myself#i am not a ''content creator'' i am not someone with some power like a ''kindergarten teacher'' i am a stranger to All of you and-#-just another tumblr user and i dont owe you fucking anything just like nobody Here owes me anything besides base respect#n base respect includes watching what you say to people. i dont have to put up with strangers faults. im holding everyone here accountable-#-for their actions and words because i believe that you are capable of being a good considerate human person n acting sensibly#what would happen if i blocked a person on Tumblr Dot Com. the goddamn apocalypse? please. blocking isnt controlling people around you-#-its Boundaries. you can get over some random bitch blocking you on the internet. its not my responsibility if someone decides that their-#-entire emotional wellbeing depends on a *Stranger*#i have P@NSEAR blocked cuz i just Dont like their content. if someone ''gets an F'' from me for behaviour then MAYBE theres a REASON?#''ur grading people'' goddammit man who Isnt judging the people around them and the interaction they have with them#HOW many times ive said ''feel free to block me!'' in a positive way cuz of smth as small as a too gorey design. what do u think-#-blocking is ysee??? ''you are acting entitled'' because i AM! i AM entitled to having a good comfortable experience on the INTERNET#just like ANY OF YOU. please anon! you dont like my way of treating myself on the Internet do just that! block me! i wont throw a fuss??#if Anyone here doesnt like the smallest aspect of me judge me. i invite you to. judge me and if that aspect is too loud for you Block me#to get along with this anons absolutely correct n in place anecdote: Grade Me. give me an F. boot me from the school whatever That means#keep yourself safe and make your experience on the internet comfortable#i cant tell if youre one of those dumb anon askers who r just lookin for attention or fight Or a reasonable person but heres my look at it#entertain it before you disregard it. got me pissed off from the moment i wake up u dont even know bout my whole blockin system dear god
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emathevampire · 8 months
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Life hit the chaos button again, but I have found the calm within the storm to tell you: I am absolutely slain by both of your choices for blood. Just. **Oh.** I sucked in a breath while reading them.
I must ask, are you still playing the guessing game??? I've been having so much fun!
You flatter me anon, you really do... I mostly write extremely self-indulgent stuff for a target audience of ME, so it's a real treat to know someone is enjoying my work this much and I'm honestly at a loss for words. Possibly because I put them all in this fic xD I am HAPPY to continue the game if you wish, there are 18 pages worth of sentences (so far) to choose from after all, so it's not like I'm liable to run out before I'm ready to post the final draft!
If anyone else would also like to play, or reblog so I can send YOU a guess, the fanfic WIP guessing game post is here! The fic I am presently working on is quite angsty, smutty, and bloody, however, so asker beware... make your guesses at your own risk >:)
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slowips · 1 year
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Ayato for Candy: favourite thing to eat on a date?
I think that could be a fun prompt for him
-Mimikyu/Andromeda (I just got his TCG card woo)
Ayato: Bubble Tea is a great drink to accompany a great dish that is Handmade Onigiri. It’s easy to make yet requires attention and dedication when shaping the rice. I do appreciate that effort, and the dish is adjustable to one’s taste buds making it easy to accommodate to any date.
character ask game
congrats on getting his tcg card btw!! that was really quick??? the patch dropped today and i haven’t even logged in yet. amazing, HAHA
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mobsplainer · 2 years
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for your trip!! -> can you draw some mp100 characters in 2000's outfits? like the myspace//webkinz//ipod era :o) i love ur art btw
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here’s a teru for your troubles (modeled after the QUEEN of 2000s fashion: Ashley tisdale)
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pape · 9 months
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yo bro u holding the @ ? whats your bin lmk
um????? yeah i guess but im actually *using* this. you cant have it and i dont even have a bank account, im a minor.
so like sorry ig? but, you snooze you lose. i dont care and i will never part with this name
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fillinforlater · 9 months
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i kinda agrer w the anon like ig the older members r fine but if u plan on writing for new jeans rhe maknae is 14/15…
A measured Response
While I think the other anon who send the initially accusation is still the one sending asks to my inbox, I also think that you are another person. I will strengthen and steel-man your concerns/argument, though it will always baffle me that y'all have these ridiculous spelling errors. Seriously, guys, at least try to type coherent messages/a literal paragraph with no mistakes.
(To those of you who do, thank you <3)
For some fucking reason I feel like I have to make this a thing. I should not, really. These accusations are baseless, I'm not the thing he wants to frame me as, so on and so on, but because I think you are genuinely kinda worried what I meant, I'll explain it to you.
(I'm not sorry if I sound condescending or anything, because I am)
It started with this ask, which basically asked me:
"Do you plan on writing NewJeans in the future?"
Now, being human and (probably) understanding English as well as context, this is what I (and probably 99% of other people with the right context) assumed this person meant:
"Do you plan on writing a fic about any of the 18+ NewJeans members in the future?"
bUt tHaT iSnT wHaT tHeY aSkEd!?
You cannot possibly reach that conclusion. Seriously, go look at literally every fic I ever wrote. Age of the idols? Ranging from 30 something down to 18, the absolute hard legal and (I guess) moral minimum, the line I don't cross.
If you go to my page or just open this weird ass tab from Tumblr (fuck Tumblr), you see stuff like "18+ Girl Group fic writer" or "No minors" or (from my Biaslists & Writelist & Requests tab) "Remember that I said most and 18+. This automatically excluded all 18- idols... I won't write those." This is easily understandable, obvious context to the message from above.
Or did you think I would just write about literal new jeans, like an review or something? No, of course not.
Oh, you can also look at my response, like... I specifically mention Hanni and Danielle, two 18+ idols, very popular, probably the two (including I guess Minji) the asker probably meant.
Now the point where I might look like an idiot if I take you seriously:
I responded to the baseless accusation with a GIF of Hanni, the focus on an easily identifiable part (her ass). The response of the accuser (still in my inbox):
"You just admitted you're a pedo"
Wrong and cringe.
Granted, you did not know this message (if you are a different person), yet you still, after seeing the Hanni GIF decided to say this. Either you are fucking stupid or this is maliciously framing me. Pick your poison.
(BTW: You are stupid because Hanni is 18. International age. Whatever the fuck Koreans use/used to use does not count, but she is also "19"/an adult there)
If you now need it black on white (or white on black), here it goes:
I'm not a pedo. I'm even against idols debuting under the age of 18.
(Why did I even bother? I dunno man, now it's out of the system)
With that said, I got some ideas for a Hanni fic (still very basic, but god, she is gorgeous and hot) and for a Danielle fic (funnily, it's not even a smut).
Everyone, have a nice day and some pretty Minji <3
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lillonvia · 11 months
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Ayyy mama! guizhong asker is back! (I couldn't use my phone for a while, anyways-) part 3 bAby. So like I said guizhong is alive and well in the game, still pretty cheerful but kinda off for r e a s o n s we already know. (I think it would be pretty cute if both zhongli and her disguise as mortals together as a couple) traveler doing the story quest and all, But it's a bit different. I like to think at this time and age of liyue lots of people would know reader's story and would incorporate it to lantern rite and just other things in general (like how in the game zhongli asks traveler to get the perfume and glaze lily as offerings, I think this can just be coincidence but guizhong). Like how superstitious farmers and shepherds putting bells on their flock of sheep so they would be able to find them, and people putting bells on graves so their deceased loved would be able to find their way home, heck the story itself could be a use for parents for their children to not stray away from them. Okay enough story building and on to the actual ask- ghuizhong meeting a reincarnated reader as a shepherd using the bell for his flock (reader is a teenager in this) how they met is because traveler and zhongli was trying to convince reader to give them the bell for a discount. (since I also wanted to add that bells are really only sold by farmers/blacksmiths since other than for spiritual reasons aren't really sought out for) oh yeah- the stuff that zhongli needs are different in the game it's now like- a toy, the bell, and jade
i have been procrastinating too much i hate myself- IM SO SORRY ANON I CANT WRITE A FIC ABT THIS I AM PHYSICALLY INCAPABLE OF DOING SO </3 but ill share my thoughts and interpretations on it utc instead if that workshsj
guili stepping down from their pedastals and instead posing as a mortal couple is just so adorable to me <3 i have LOVED (platonically) guizhong and guili ever since i saw the lantern rite 2023 cutscene on youtube YOU DONT UNDERSTANDD why did hyv kill off such beautiful and wonderful ppl 😭 first tomo, then signora, makoto, then bonanus, menogias, and guizhong?? WHY. ok thats enough outta me-
and the shepherd bit is also really interesting, since we don’t really have any sort of hint of agriculture yet and i think that it’s really intruiging and unique <3 i love the fact that reader’s story is still well known across liyue to the present day, and i’m sure guizhong is happy that reader’s memory is preserved via the usage of bells.
AND M O R E FOUND FAMILY TROPES W/ GUI AND REINCARNATED READER?? YES PLEASE‼️ i feel like at first, guizhong would try to stray away from helping to find the bell that once belonged to reader, bc she most likely feels that if she did come along (not to mention zhongli was so understanding of this JSJSJSJJ), the memories would come rushing back and theres a chance she can’t hold it in anymore. you has always been so very special to guizhong and by extension, zhongli, after all. <3
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the moment guizhong realizes that reader was reincarnated in a mortal body is probably when she notices how similar current you’s speech mannerisms and little habits—that no one else really noticed but she did, shes your mother after all—greatly resembled the traits of the half-qilin!you.
and the final nail in the coffin is when they asked to spend a moment with guizhong in private, and they dropped a BIIIGGG bomb by saying,
“ its nice to finally be able to see you again, mama. ”
HEHEUJTLRB im so delulu when it comes to mama!guizhong <3
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teeth--thief · 3 months
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Hopefully not flooding your inbox too much, yes? I intend to read the INSAG-7, whether online or in incremental printings. Notes? Thoughts? Forewarnings? Thank you.
-R
Hi R! Sure, let's get into INSAG-7! And don't you worry about flooding my inbox - it gives me a purpose :D and I get to look more into things (because I'd rather chop off my left hand than half-ass a reply, in case it's incorrect)! And I can finally be like all those popular people when I'm on the bus. Except they're texting their many friends and I'm typing up Chernobyl related posts... hmm...
Obviously, it is the "updated" version of the report made by IAEA - INSAG-1 (the newer one is called INSAG-7 because it was released 7 years later. Or at least that's why I think it's called that). It certainly got a WHOLE LOT better, lacking the needlessly harsh and untrue criticisms of the operators as well as most of the official government narrative the first one was mainly based on. That said, it's certainly not without its faults.
The thing is, some of these faults are faults because we just don't quite know everything. It's pretty odd, you'd think stuff like this could be possible to figure out and then... and then you don't know. And quite possibly will never know. There are certain assumptions made by the authors of INSAG-7, same as in any other scientific writing about the disaster.
There is an article written back in 1995 by A.S. Dyatlov himself (am I starting a Dyatlov cult? Why do I ALWAYS mention him?) this report available here. Now, you can think whatever you want about him but he was an expert in the field and he stood firm with his defence of the workers when so many others failed to do so. All in all, I'd consider him a credible source.
If you'd like to see a bit more of INSAG-7 "in practice", then I'd recommend the more technical videos from That Chernobyl Guy, such as this one about the control rods and this one about the coefficients. He references certain parts of INSAG-7 in both (and in many other videos), either as a source to back up a certain claim or to say that this or that may actually be wrong.
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jefferythejelly · 1 year
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I adore how I can post something foolish-related and 49 times out of 50 your like and reblog are my first notes in a matter of seconds <3 i love seeing you in my notes <3 it's like a little 'yes!!! I made moss's day a teeny bit better!!!' <3
aww thanku anon☹️🫶
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deadduvznap · 11 months
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Transmasc reader with an abusive Schlatt who noncons them constantly and gaslights them about them enjoying it or deserving it
Like Schlatt pinning them down after a hard day, keeping their wrists in his fist above their head as he slams into them, attempting to ignore their pleas for him to stop.
But he just tells them "I wouldn't do this if you were a good boyfriend!" Or "your little cunt is soaked, you're enjoying this! Don't lie to me you little slut!"
And they try to protest but he just keeps drilling it into their head, using it as another way to release stress
Yes, I'm mentally ill, why do you ask? -💀
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YES YES PLSSSS OKAY I LOVE THIS ???? he loves to use it against you too !!! esp out in public i think he has this look he gives you if youve done smth "wrong" (its smth normal he just looks for any excuse to noncon you) so you never know what it is that makes him pissed and sometimes he will hit you if you continue to be bad maybe just a "light" hit on the back (it leaves a red mark) and hear me out (based on a zosanami fic i read) he has a little clicker and he clicks it when he gets pissed even if its not you and the more clicks the more mean he is. so like either way hes nonconing you but sometimes hes meaner and will beat the shit outta you saying some "you shouldnt act like such a fucking annoying bitch it makes me mad" and he literally beats the shit outta you before he rapes you i mean punching you kicking you in the ribs while ur on the ground and breaking bones n shit and then he maybe wraps the broken bone then fucks you telling you that if you were more obedient or we werent such a whore or dare i say he calls you a fa- maybe maybe not he dropping slu- anyways yeah the first time yall fucked he didnt prep you nd your cunt was bleeding and you had to go to the hospital (yourself) and he didnt fuck you again till you were (mostly) healed bcs he still cares about you somewhat but fr hes an absolute cunt and you should break up nd get a restraining order
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sitp-recs · 1 year
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Hello live, it's me :3 the anon who asked about having troubles with a common drarry dynamic. I just wanted to thank you because i didn't expect to feel so seen 😭 or find someone who felt the same way. I didn't get to speak much about it, but YES i also do feel very strongly about emotional imbalance. It's so important to me. Thank you so much for that kind and understanding answer.
This has encouraged me to really look at some of your personal recs knowing they're from someone with similar sentiments. I'm not saying this to put pressure on your personal recs! Please, this is your blog and i can really simply fuck right off, it's so not on you. the same way it's not on authors to write what makes me feel comfortable 🥂. It's just that i think your answer has given me newfound courage to look at some of your tags and faves with gusto~ I know some recs are made specifically for the askers and some works won't be in line with my preferences so I'm still very careful.
ALSO, thank you for reccing me authors!!!! Gosh! DID YOU KNOW THAT I'VE YET TO READ A FIC FROM TACKYTIGER?? Liv u rock.
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regarding my previous ask, i guess then, do you have lengthy wholesome fics or those that end wholesome-lly 💛🍂☕? Feel free to recommend absolutely anything on that regard hahahha. And please only answer when you feel up to it, I'm good over here 😌 ✌. It's the holiday season, you shouldn't have to do things u don't feel like doing.
In light of our kinship regarding a certain veritaserum scene, i shall call myself, veritaserum anon.
Hi again, anon! I’m so happy you felt seen and validated 🫂 I noticed some comments on that post sharing the sentiment so we’re not as few as you might have thought! I’m very excited to hear your thoughts on those lists but I’d maybe start with the ones below and see if they work for you. Most explore Draco’s redemption arc in ways I personally found satisfying and without belittling any character. I avoided fics that deal with hardcore emotional imbalance (I love the secret identity trope but I didn’t want to take any chances) and tried to include some recent, lesser known fics in case you’ve already read the popular ones. Also - I’m biased af when it comes to my pal @tackytigerfic but imo you should definitely start with Modern Love then make your way through their superb catalogue! Happy readings, and Happy New Year :)
8th Year/War Years:
Like Lightning at Your Fingertips by potterwatch (T, 43k)
The July Tree by @oknowkiss (E, 51k)
Seeker, Chaser, Keeper by VivacissimoVoce (M, 59k)
The Promise of Summer by Omi_Ohmy (M, 66k)
Right Hand Red by @lqtraintracks (E, 73k)
At Your Service by Faith Wood (E, 95k)
Changing Tides by carpemermaid (E, 109k)
Far From the Tree by aideomai (E, 112k)
Eclipse by Mijan (T, 287k)
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Meet Me at Midnight by @the-starryknight (T, 57k)
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The Compact by astolat (E, 64k)
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Follow the Water by @xanthippe74 (T, 38k)
In Dreams by @moonflower-rose (E, 38k)
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thekrows-nest · 10 months
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I don't know if I sent it wrong or not sure, but I also asked the same question as winndycakes
Ok, can I ask for some domineering words from a jealous or sticky Krow? please?
No you didn't!
Like I said, basically what I do to answer anon questions (because I have turned anon off for this blog for a multitude of reasons, but mainly so I do not truly get anon hate like I have seen far too many other people get) is if the asker wants their ask to be anonymous, I copy it and resend it from my main (winndycakes). The asker remains anonymous to everyone else, but I am given the security of seeing WHO sends in asks, so it is win/win I think.
Now uhh... for some domineering words. Bruh I am so so sorry if I fail at this. I probably will dfgnd;ksf
"D-Dove...?" Krow holds you close, and even pushes you up against the wall. Despite his small size, unassuming appearance, he has you quite pinned. You're sure if this is thrilling in a good or bad way. "I-I saw how you were looking at t-them. Y-you need t-to look at me. Me. ...P-please. We are t-together. Y-you're not with them. It is us." he manages to keep you pinned, whilst reaching up to cup your face, turning your head so you are looking at him. The iris's of his eyes were still that beautiful floral violet, yet the pupils... an unsettling shade of green. Was it possible for pupils to change color? "D-don't look at anyone else. T-there is only us. R-remember t-that."
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prettylucifherr · 7 months
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This is a reply to the CNC anon asker. It may seem illogical and 'contradictory in itself', as CNC is an oxymoron -like silent scream, cruel kindness, deafening silence. Two contradictory words are used create an emphasis and a new meaning. The emphasis here is on consensual. The new meaning is to do with multifaceted aspect of sexuality that has become increasingly common in recent years.  Even if you disagree with established terminology or the exact naming of kinks, is it really worth it arguing about semantics in this way?
At its core, CNC involves consenting to role-playing scenarios in which one partner relinquishes control while the other takes charge. This can manifest in many different ways, however, CNC is always based on trust, communication and, yes, consent.
So where does the 'non-consensual' element come from? The person gives their consent *prior* to the partner(s) performing s*xual acts on them, usually *without their explicit- in-the-moment consent*. This can take different forms- surprise elements (within limits) for increased excitement, unexpected timing or place of initiation, during sleeping or even under influence in some cases. Nevertheless type, limits and boundaries are *always agreed in advance* (some people only like sleep cnc with their partner, while others are into detailed  kidn@pping role-play scenarios or some pain infliction, etc).
But CNC and the so-called r@pe kinks have nothing to do with trauma or real r@pe.
CNC is a way to explore s*xuality, own desires, and role-play in a safe manner.  Or be fully submissive in a way different than, or outside of, traditional BDSM play. People also find it appealing because it gives opportunity for a complete shift in power dynamics. In many relationships, one partner may be more dominant or assertive than the other, but CNC allows both parties to explore different roles and play with power. For others, it is an escape from everyday life or routine in long-term relationships, giving full immersion and a heightened sense of pleasure.
It allows for a level of trust and vulnerability that can deepen the connection between partners or add new, exciting elements to their s*x life. With that said, it’s important for everyone to do their own research and educate themselves on the risks and safety measures involved in CNC play before engaging in it.
Hope that clarifies it.
Thank you for taking the time to write out such a well explained answer!
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