#anyway please goD god damn it like. just be nice fr like wht why why why stopppp splitting yhe community up so much

[our-inspire-verse]

"That's not how systems work. You're taking this too far. You don't know what its like to feel so out of control, to have memory blackouts, to wake up years later, to have someone in your system grieve someone they didn't know was dead."

Bec. Becayse... hecause i didnt talk about experiencing it? Or. Because i said that i like my system or that i have a majority positive experiences over negative ones?

Because i did. I absolutely have been thru every single one of these things and I've had multiple people talk down to me as if I'm stupid and perpetuating false information, or just simply being super disrespectful. I never assume, i never make blanket statements, and i go forward knowing that everyone collectively is new to studying this stuff in a modern way, though its been around for a while.

All i want is to demedicalize a part of the community (because OBVIOUSLY some will have need for the medical part) and be honest about myself, and listen to others being honest about THEMSELVES.

Systems are. Extraordinary. Every single one of them, and every individual within them. Talk about your experiences, be annoying. Talk too much. Talk only about the good. Talk about how you adore them. Talk about the bad. Talk about any part of it you deem important even if others think its silly, or cringe, or wrong or bad or stupid or anything else. Whatever YOU think of it, it must be.

I promise you aren't the only system experiencing whatever it is you're experiencing and that there is a community for you. Find the people who will listen, and speak.

#system babbles #mild rant? #idk im vaguing again but like. fuck off this is literally my tumblr blog thats what we do here. #we diary post. #im angry still bc im literally going thru some of this system stuff rn like being a system is so fucking hard and their words are ringing in #my skull. from multiple people who decided i was toxic for being myself in this new age. my new way #anyway please goD god damn it like. just be nice fr like wht why why why stopppp splitting yhe community up so much #literally please god damn relax fuck we're all literally just surviving i had such a nice evening with my headmates #we're going the fuck through some stuff rn and we really need our community but we keep. being reminded. of things. #actually plural #osdd system #did #dissociative disorder #system positivity #kinda personal #kinda negative #idk posting bc ✌😚✌ im just really frustrated rn