#anyway I’m glad I could make u smile anon 🥺 this made ME smile

[carpisuns]

i love your art! it always brings a smile to my face <3

oh this is so kind 🥺🥺🥺 thank you so much!!

#this was so nice bc I have been really struggling with my art lately #and it’s been hard to make things turn out the way I want and I keep getting frustrated and not liking it #so yeah this is just nice to hear<3 #also it’s just. idk when people say this to me I’m like ??? really ?? 🥺 #cause there are so many really cool art styles/artists out there and my stuff to me is not very standout #I mean I have a good time making things and I’m glad other people like the things I make #I just assume it’s like ‘oh yay my blorbo!!’ rather than like my style specifically haha #which is fine!! like obviously I love my blorbos and I get excited seeing them djdjdj #and I don’t necessarily feel *bad* about having an art style that is less flavorful than others #I like my style (usually haha) #but still it just makes me like !! when someone like my art specifically idk! #it feels special to me #like if the style is nothing to write home about and some people still write home about it djjdd im jusf<3 Aw thanks for including me. #thanks for thinking of me #it’s meaningful to me to know I hold space in people’s thoughts #anyway I’m glad I could make u smile anon 🥺 this made ME smile #and sorry for the uncomfortable tag rambling I’ve been weirdly emotional the past few days most like due to shark week #werewolf time if you will #lmao #anon #ask #nice things

[love4hobi]

hi :) i’ve been reading through your recent conversation with an anon about hoseok, and i found myself smiling because i felt represented. since i was little, i’ve found myself being afraid of most men for no particular reason. as i got older, it’s like my vibe detector was charged and my younger fears just kind of escalated. now i have a hard time trusting men in general. my distrust has been impacted by a number of things, but something i deeply admire about hoseok is his softness and how approachable he seems despite intimidating me with his beauty lol. i imagine him to be someone very honest and his aura to feel the same, like you can be comfortable around him and feel safe. i have no doubt that plays into why i bias him so strongly. he’s not my only bias in bts, but he does fit my ongoing pattern of men i’m attracted to. you mentioned being attracted to scrawny, sweet and quiet boys when you were younger, and i’m the exact same way. obviously strong men are not all bad, but the softness they may possess is harder for me to outright see in comparison to someone like hoseok. regarding sexuality, it’s also interesting to read about your perspective in addition to the anon’s because i’ve been questioning my sexuality since i was 14 (now almost 22). i’m either straight or bisexual, but i feel like i’m bisexual, and my attraction to hoseok makes even more sense when i think about it in relation to the feelings i’ve experienced towards women and the kind of women i am attracted to. i also bias yoongi and jungkook, and there’s a clear connection in my mind between the three which all correlates to comfort, protection, and trust. (sorry if this was an annoyingly long ramble! it was just cool to see a conversation i could relate to, and i wanted to share my feelings as well <3)

im glad it made u feel seen🥺🥺 and i feel everything u said! and i also think that in addition to the lack of bi representation in media, the dominance of the “male gaze” in media (tall men with big muscles, just to generalize) as opposed to the female gaze (or what women actually like to see in men, not just what men assume they want) adds a lot the confusion of trying to figure out if your bi or not. but im so glad it could maybe help u understand ur own sexuality more🥺 because for the most part were all kinda left to just figure it out on our own.. i wonder if theres literally ever been like a rom com written about an explicitly bi woman dating a man🙄 because i really think theres a big difference in the whole dynamic of the relationship between a straight man and woman, and a bi woman and a straight man or vice versa (not to mention the added complexity when one or both people are gender nonconforming). but anyway sorry i kinda rambled as well lol but i love talking abt this kind of stuff!! thank u for sharing this made me really happy to hear💕💕

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