#and idk given some minor alterations ppl can relate both to me and the woman who sent the letter

[rowanhoney]

my favourite way to remind myself I’m just like other girls is to read an ask polly sent by someone entirely individual who’s current experience resonates so deeply with my own and know that even if heather havrilesky’s words are directed to that person, they’re for all of us because so many of us will relate deeply to that one person again and again and again

#I’m reading the one abt not knowing what to write but knowing what they want and how do they seek it out #and fr so relatable #like I too have many holes in my life #I’m suffocated by the city I live in #and my closest friends are the furthest away so I feel very lonely sometimes #and I’m not longer interested in dating cos I’ve never enjoyed it but also I do want a family of my own #but MOSTLY I wanna be a book writing bass playing bee keeping barista babe #I feel so I’m touch with the niche and creative sides of myself and it’s such a gift #I’m so in love w myself that it balances the missing aspects and I can throw myself into it #if anything it’s the reward on the other side of the loneliness coin #like I really enjoy spending time w myself and just. thinking freely . my brain is fun #and idk given some minor alterations ppl can relate both to me and the woman who sent the letter #I Love ask polly