#and I appreciate your honesty!

[alwida10]

Hi. I'm not sure what's going on right now, I just saw you had a mean anon lately and it seems you're going through hard times.

I will admit I've definitively made some assumptions about you and not always been the nicest when discussing some posts of yours with friends. But just because I found some things you said offensive doesn't mean I think you are a bad person. Words we say often take a life of their own in other poeple's head. Also anger and hurt makes us all agressive and without a filter. On both sides.

There is a lot of gossip in the Loki fandom, but behind the vitriol, some poeple care about you and are genuinely worried when things seem hard. Whether it's about you or other "antis" recieving hate anons (sadly the whole point of anons is that we'll never know for sure who sent them). We're also not stupid, a lot of poeple who are angry have been through hell in their life and healing will always be far more important than fandom wank.

I just wanted to say you deserve to feel safe and to have a space where you can express yourself, even if it won't make everyone happy. Poeple are free to block you, or ignore your posts if they end up in their recommended section. Nothing has ever been achieve with hate and petty games.

Sending you my best wishes.

A cowardly anon ^^

Thank you! This message made me cry, in a good way. 💚 thank you for your kindness!

And yes, you are right in many ways. We never know who the anons are, and I admit that in my mind I tend to conflate them, assuming most are from one single person, who just never knows when to stop.

When I first came to tumblr, I found the anon-function weird. I thought “we are on the internet. We are already anonymous!”, but I guess that’s not entirely true. While this sphere is (more or less) separated from our offline life, nobody is free from expectations of their mutuals, followers, and even critics. And since we all get trained to act according to the expectations people have, some things would never get said without the anon function. But being anonymous brings forth how we really are in that moment. And hurt, stress or rage has made me say bad things in the past, too. That said, at most times I DO mourn the split in the fandom, and I am aware that echo chambers make opinions grow more extreme. So, should you come across something I have written which is offensive, please let me know, so I can check if I’m a victim of my own rage once more, worded things badly, or applied faulty reasoning. You can always point me this post if you fear a harsh answer, so I will remember I, too, was gifted with kindness.

I am sure we all just wished the fandom wasn’t so torn apart and everyone could thrive in the community. I admit, the only other fandom I participated in was supernatural, so my expertise isn’t the best, but I would bet any day that the Loki fandom is full of people who take strength from his story for their own healing and growth. So, in a way it’s even more heartbreaking that there is so much fighting about him. Because interpretations of his motives and morality are never just that. They can always be perceived as an invalidation of another person’s suffering or healing or hopes. And while you might be able to cope with an attack of an fictional story, an attack of one’s trauma or hope is much more personal.

So, yeah. It’s always better to take a step back, remember this isn’t about oneself alone, and that beyond the screen other people are humans, too, and deserve the benefit of a doubt. 💚

Also, i kinda think it’s a shame there is so little communication between the “two sides”. The last debate opened a new perspective for me, and helped me to put some things back into context. Sometimes I wish for a friend on “the other side” to discuss things in a appreciative way, where no one tries to convince the other or feels the need to defend their view. Just a comparison of perspectives, to open up new points nobody considered yet. There could be a lot of cool meta buried there. But alas, I guess the topic is too close to the heart for most of us, and I don’t exclude myself there.

#anon asks #thank you Kind anon #also #I don’t think you are acting cowardly #this was a very good and nice way to talk without any prejudices getting in the way #and I appreciate your honesty! #also sorry I answer only now #I was so overwhelmed when I got your message I had to take my time until I could put my thoughts into words #thank you so much! #💚

[downtherabbitholewithlucy]

||WES AND HIS MANY SIDES||

#and if you don't think I'm dead serious about the last two pics in the “your daughter calls me daddy too” category #then I dunno what else to say bcuz those two pics are the most serious in that whole damn category. periodt. #just an appreciation post for my favorite human chameleon #and sort of a throwback/shoutout to one the first posts I made on my blog touching upon a similar subject with Wes #you may even recognize similar pics in this post if you have seen that post before. #that is still one of my favorite posts 'til this day #but in all honesty Wes is DADDY 100% of the time no matter what #Wes Borland #Limp Bizkit #nu metal #Black Light Burns #Wild for Wesley on Wes Borland Wednesday #down the rabbit hole

[incorrect-hs-quotes]

Vriska: No, when I said I’m “open to feed8ack” i meant you can g8ve me a compliment!!!!!!!!

#submission #homestuck #incorrect homestuck quotes #vriska serket #mod terezi #i appreciate your honesty i guess

[peaches2217]

I enjoy your mareach fics and you seem like a nice enough person! If I can be honest thiugh you come across sort of sheltered and even a little prudish so following you is sort of a mixed bag. (in response to the “why are you following me” thing)

Admittedly I’ve been sitting on this one for a while, and it’s what triggered my unblocking/higher filtering spree today. So to you anon, I wanna say 1.) sorry to keep you waiting and 2.) I’m so sorry that I’ve sent that sort of vibe to you. I’m going to work hard to improve! So please do stick around, and I promise I’ll do my best to overcome my prudishness. 💗

#peaches’ prodigious prompts #I won’t lie and I’ll admit seeing this hurt #but thank you so much for your honesty!! unlike that ‘just say you’re a transphobe’ anon this actually gives me a better idea of #both what I’m doing wrong and how I can improve because I totally get where you’re coming from! I appreciate you anon 🫂 #phew! taking a nap now.

[nom-central]

say i was following you before you stated you were an 18+ blog and im a minor; should I unfollow??? i don't want to be breaking any boundaries :(

for your sake, you probably should. i can't personally clean my followers list since i have over a thousand of you guys around, but for your safety/my comfort you should stick w your peers!

#answered #anonymous #not like i have any idea who you are. you could just lie #so i appreciate your honesty ngl #i staunchly believe that if youre a minor you should explore this interest privately and w your peers #not a 24 yr old fart like me lol #i have SO many horror stories i could share about my time when this blog first started. i was 16 #good luck and godspeed anon

[ispyspookymansion]

tumblr isnt the communism leftist utopia website. get real. a third of you wont even wear masks at all anymore

#its grim. idk. #kora.txt #im actually a little surprised thats wining the poll. like lol youre just pretending to be empathetic on here?? i appreciate the honesty tho

[innocence-wont-save-you]

Ok quick question, can you like, confirm you’re genderfluid? I know that I should technically already know this since I’m your overseer and we are connect to you, but I’ve been headcanoning you as a boy this entire time. Have I like, been misgendering you?

You give your overseer a long, bewildered stare. "Yes? I am genderfluid? What do you—why are you asking me to confirm I'm genderfluid?"

#ANON THE ASK IS MUCH APPRECIATED BUT THIS IS SO FUCKING FUNNY #I'VE BEEN LAUGHING AT IT SINCE YOU SENT IT #YES THEY'RE GENDERFLUID #any and all pronouns are fine for them! my default is just they/them for simplicity #i encourage you to get weird with their pronouns as well! #as a point of clarification: IWSY innocence is genderfluid but they're fluid between wholly non-human genders #so technically they're never a boy. but also like. it doesn't matter that much #just have fun with their gender and pronouns #god can you fucking IMAGINE #iterator has their overseer pop up and go 'can you confirm your gender to me' WHEEZE #in all honesty though this is like. part of the reason why this is written in second person #with wind i took the no pronouns route #i needed something else for innocence that would also eliminate the need for me to choose pronouns #and it wound up being writing in second person. pronouns simply never come up #so any pronouns you already use for them are technically applicable! #unparalleled innocence #whispers for innocence #innocence won't save you #rain world #every time i think about this ask i start cackling. holy shit it's so funny. thank you for sending this anon

[fairydriver]

#me #data #i appreciate your honesty in this matter #i will genuinely be upset if you pick the mean option tho #so please dont pick that #im required to hang swords of damocles everywhere i go #not permissible in court #i dont know if its obvious that tag just means im high

[ratcandy]

ok so that poll got a fair amount of Yes votes so um...........

well the server may or may not exist, maybe. in which I am thinking about what other channels to add outside of ones already accounted for. and i'm having to re-teach myself how to discord server because i haven't messed with the settings on my other one for a while hgHKH

#like if/when i open this thing people will come in and the first thing i'll hear is ''oh yeah [this] is mega broken you goofed up'' #and i will explode on impact #clamtalk #also thank you to the people who voted no on the poll i appreciate your honesty and also it made me giggle

[crimescrimson]

Are the gifs you post free to use? I'd love to use some for my edits, but I wasn't sure if you'd be okay with it.

As long as you use them in things that wouldn't be uncomfortable for me to see, I've had people use them on like hard-core smut fics before and because tumblr sends me a notification every time someone uses them I have to see that shit 😭 Another thing I wouldn't recommend is using or reblogging my sets to negatively comment ON the set or game I made a set about in the first place. You can easily just scroll or make your own post for that instead of being disrespectful in my tags like I've had recently experienced. Aside from the aforementioned points you're good to go! I don't mind at all and I actually appreciate being asked for once! No-ones actually asked me before lol

#Crimson Answers #Im actually so happy to have someone ask man #I wish tumblr would allow an automatic removal of the reblogs of your posts if you blocked someone because those tags were ridiculous like #if you hate something that much dont take it out on a post appreciating it if that makes sense #as for the x readers and smut I honesty kinda find it funny but also I dont wanna see that shit man #I get theyre aesthetically pleasing but if you're gonna make specific content like that use your xbox to record a game #and put that footage through giphy or something. I mean no disrespect but its uncomfortable to be basically tagged in loads of smut content #Normal x readers I dont mind so much like I said I think its hilarious #Anyways again thank you so much for asking it means a lot! I swear people just assume this is a bot tumblr or something but I ramble in tags #quite a lot so maybe they just pay no heed to em??

[obstinatecondolement]

Try though I may not to get invested in people who are Perfect Strangers to me just because they have an affable online persona, I do find myself very endeared to Brandon Sanderson. I have read none of his books, but I think his YouTube videos are very enjoyable and I am much relieved that he has both vocally affirmed his support of LGBTQ+ people in general, and trans people specifically, and has apologised (in a way that seems very sincere and earnest to me) for clumsy and unintentionally homophobic things he has said in the past. Which is, like, more than can be said of some fantasy authors.

#I knew vaguely that he was a member of the church of lds and was like... wary #but he seems to be taking the position that if mormonism is going to get less hostile to lgbtq+ people #that can only be accomplished by sincerely devout lgbtq+ allies staying in the church and making it a more inclusive and welcoming place #which I like... feel is misguided #but also I was not raised mormon and do not have a mormon spouse and family and I am not a sincere believer in the mormon faith #so it is very easy for me to say 'just don't be a mormon anymore' #he also says some stuff I feel is reeeally misguided about how it's good actually that dead people can be baptized mormon #and that mother theresa was good #and communism is bad #but like... I think he is a sincere and kind person who is trying his best #and I appreciate the honesty of him saying 'I believe these things and I won't pretend I don't' #I like when people don't humour me and really do try to be my ally instead of just repeating the party line so I don't think they're Bad #and given that his views on the queer community have evolved #I don't think it's impossible that he could realize a few years down the line that it is not okay to baptize the dead into your religion #but also as I said up top: brandon sanderson is a complete stranger to me and I should not devote this much time and mental energy #to trying to better understand his true character‚ values and beliefs #because that is not relevant to me or something I can ever know #@me just enjoy him being enthusiastic about writing fantasy novels on youtube in an unreflective and uncomplicated way‚ you big weirdo

[saintxgerard]

Whenever I throw up I think of Gerard because I know he’s into vomit

#tw vomit #okay anon thank you #i appreciate your honesty #i assume the cubicles post prompted this #saint answers

[biillys]

this is how billy and max talk to each other btw

#max: thank you! for your honesty! oh So Much do i appreciate you for that! that must've been hard for you [It Was] to say! #max: also you're going bald. #billy: i'm going BaLD ????????? #OKAY YOU KNOW WHAT! I CAN ACT! #YOU ARE A WRINKLED BITCH.

[killmekittenxx]

You're actually one of the funniest people I know

eating your ass for an hour immediately

#asks #i appreciate your honesty

[anywaymuahahahaha]

Hey! I just wanted to let you know that your blog is pretty hard to read and is hard on the eyes... I would suggest maybe making the red a lot darker or blue lighter so it's not as eyestrainy?

Sorry if this sounds rude, I just wanted to let you know! Have a nice day!

AHHHHHhhhhh no it’s not rude at all!!! Thank you for bringing this to my attention. I changed some colors to (hopefully??) something not so hard on the eyes. I had no idea 😭 I’m sorry friend

#crafty answers #IM SO SORRY #please let me know if the new layout is better ! #and thank you again for your honesty i appreciate it !!!

[fushigurro]

@kannra21 you’ve been matched with… mammon & satoru gojo!

character matchups (closed)

#⋆ 「 matchups. 」 ⋆ #first of all you’re BEAUTIFUL! #these two are on their knees #i think both mammon and gojo would appreciate your honesty! #they would also LOVE going shopping or club ing with you #and they’re definitely gonna watch chick flicks LMAO #they might not be thrilled at first but they get sooooo into it