So I’m having a thought.
I’m almost to Lemuria now, and one of the things that’s struck me about arc 4 so far is how quiet it is. There’s so many places where I click on something and there’s no narration, even though it feels like there should be. I know why, obviously. Grandmother Raven retired to the Husk with Spider, the Wizard is on their own.
I just wonder how that feels for them!
You spend your very traumatic formative years with a literal goddess on your shoulder, and then suddenly that’s just gone. You’re completely on your own, stuck with a very important universe preserving job at a really tender age! If you graduate Ravenwood at 18 like most assume, that makes the Wizard in their early 20’s ish by arc 4. And as someone who is currently 21,
Yikes
If I, a player on the other side of the fourth wall feels the loss of Raven this much, just imagine how the Wizard feels!
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Accessibility *sigh*
I do yoga as a means to handle my anxiety. I've had a yoga place that I've been going to for years, but they closed. This week I tried a new yoga place.
I got to the class, settled in and took my glasses off as usual. Past experience has taught me it's safer to keep them off when doing yoga.
And the entirety of the class was hearing the yoga instructor say "and now do this" from a distance way to far away for me to see what "this" was that she was doing. Worse, the (blurry) people around me seemed to be doing different things (I don't think I was the only one struggling to know what we were supposed to do). Occasionally she'd say something like "now do downward dog" which, okay, I know most yoga moves (the only one new one for me was "tadpole") but I kept thinking, what if I didn't? By the end of the class I gave up and just did my own thing completely.
After class the yoga instructor came up and asked what I thought of the class. I asked if she was open to constructive criticism. She said yes.
"When you are demonstrating a move, you should also describe it rather than just say 'do this' because anyone who can't see you can't tell what we are supposed to do. I couldn't see you and I couldn't follow you. That's why I started doing my own thing." I said.
Her body language immediately got defensive. "I don't appreciate you assuming things about me."
"I'm not assuming anything about you. I'm just informing you that your class isn't accessible."
"Well thank you," she said in a very unthankful, sarcastic voice.
*sigh* I mean, I realized on the car ride back I did make an assumption about her. I assumed she wanted to reach all her students. My bad, I guess.
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i was thinking about how it took me a while to figure out i'm aegosexual (which basically means that there's a disconnect between yourself and being the subject of attraction) and i thought about how much i really dislike and just cannot see myself in slash reader fics. i tend to dislike these fics for multiple reasons, but some of them include that the reader self insert is usually really boring, has no personality outside of being lovey dovey and isn't unhinged enough for certain characters for reasons outside of contrasting personalities for my tastes (like spamton for example, why are you writing a normal protagonist to pair with fuckin spamton of all characters). but another reason is that i literally cannot connect myself to the reader self insert. like i cannot imagine myself in their place at all, it's always another stand-in that i imagine instead and thinking about myself in their place makes me uncomfortable. i can't see myself in their place because i don't see myself as a subject of attraction, and i'm repulsed to that idea. so i imagine someone else instead because that's better to me. and also because of the aforementioned reasons that have more to do with the writing of the self insert, i just cannot imagine myself acting the way the self insert does because I Personally Would Not Fucking Do That™. like i would not be romantically kissing a guy on a date, i would be infodumping about my special interests for 3 hours and then start ranting about how funny cars are while he just smiles and nods lmao
this is why i've never really self-shipped with any character. like i can be attracted to them and be like "i wanna hold his hand/kiss him/do inexplicable things to his psyche", but in reality i could never actually see myself as a subject of attraction by this character, so i'd either ship them with another character i like or imagine a sort of stand-in that has some of my traits and lives out my fantasies but still isn't me. i can fall in love but i can never connect because ew that's gross and weird. watching from the sidelines by reading fics and looking at fanart about characters being shipped with others and being intimate with each other is more my cup of tea.
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obviously different people say different things and you can support something existing while still complaining about things not being to your taste as long as you don't comment it on actual creationssss
but sometimes it does get mentally chaotic seeing posts saying you should be allowed to write whatever you want and bad art is okay etc etc and then i scroll down a little more to see people having incredibly high expectations for things that people make for fun and for free in fandom spaces and it's like...
i think there is a gap between seeing our tumblr peers tm as people and creatives having fun, but ourselves as consumers expecting perfect content. you are demanding perfection from those same people you claim to want to support.
???
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After mulling over what I wanted to do for my team, I decided Gardevoir's Physchic/Fairy typing would be better for balancing my team as opposed to Mawile, so I went all the way back to route 4, and instead of running into the 5% chance for a Ralts, I get THIS 1% encounter rate FOOL who REFUSED to be contained in ANYTHING other than a Luxury Ball
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okay so I’m searching for a part time or full time job alongside my freelance stuff mostly because I wanna move out soon (living alone in gdansk made me realize I Cannot live with my parents anymore even though I love them because I need the independence and solitude) but my friend now asked me if I want to take over her apartment when she moves in with her bf!!! and idk if I’ll still need a job to get it or if I can move in anyway, because I definitely can survive for a couple of months on savings + my freelance business if I haven’t found anything by then but idk if that’s “smart” or if I should wait??
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