Wait wait wait okay so are there actually people who think being nice is gendered then? I'm so curious about this now sjsnsms
what im referring to generally speaking is specifically the word Soft getting miscommunicated as meaning soft spoken, nice, submissive, shy, cute, wholesome (morality flavor) whatever in contexts where it very much should only mean soft colors, pastels, wholesome only in terms of being not punk/edgy.
And then from there the people who are using soft to mean quiet/shy stick their word soft onto other things and imply that soft=feminine (see "softboy" ). It's generally a lot of not self aware either sexism or sometimes racism (example: hmm why are you calling an east asian character soft when there is also the stereotype of quiet passive and submissive asian characters)
Essentially if you notice something soft also implying that the person or character who is soft cannot get angry ever or is babied when angry thats like- not what soft is supposed to mean. I hope this makes sense?? The main thing is don't worry about it you're all good.
I can’t believe my auntie lied on me to my shitty uncle about me being disrespectful just because I told her that I didn’t like the obituary that she put together at the last minute for my cool Uncle’s funeral sjsnsms
hi it's your unianon again! first i just wanna clarify that while i absolutely believe wooseok could own a sexy concept and deliver, i just personally would not be able to view him as sexy LOL it's just me!!
for week three, i put together a playlist of songs that i've been loving lately that i think you might also like! hopefully there's a couple of songs here that you like/hadn't heard of before! i kept it in the kpop realm just to be safe, outside of kpop i mostly listen to hyperpop, general pop music and 00s pop punk/hardcore.
here it is! sorry it's a little long
popping - onf
one day - monsta x
changer - a.c.e
talk you down - a.c.e
bottom of the ocean - golden child
cool cool - golden child
salute - ab6ix
stereotype - stayc
after we ride - brave girls
diamond heart - monsta x
you can't sit with us - sunmi
younger - omega x
gam3 bo1 - seventeen
veronica - onewe
go & stop - astro
all good - astro
wave - cix
off my mind - cix
I took eternities to reply I'm soooo sorry shsjsjj I wanted to make sure I'd be at PEACE to listen to all these songs specially the ones I don't know!! I hope you have fun cause I'll talk about every song individually ❤️💀
1) popping by onf!! She IS ICONIC! I love it :( I've listened to it since it came out cause it's onf so obv ❤️ and I loved it since then!! Super catchy!
2) one day by Monsta x: it's their new eng song? I saw that they were dropping something new but I didn't got to check it 😔 I just did and I think this one is probably my fave eng release from them? I remember I listen to the eng album some time ago and I was like meh but this one song is nice
3) changer by ace: I love it so much... Ace always delivers, always always always ALWAYS,, there's not much to say... I loved it the moment it came out 😭😭😭
4) talk you down by ace: first time listening actually and what the fuck djdnsmsm this is EXACTLY my type of song stop... When I tell you these mfs ALWAYYYSSSS deliver djdjskks god djsmsm I love this one a lot sjsnsm also wow and donghun 💔💔💔💔
5) bottom of the ocean by goldcha: first time listening and jsnsnznz this song reminded me so much of 1D... Also these lyrics sjjsjsnssm it's not my type of song but it's really fun!
6) cool cool by goldcha: first time listening and okay this one slaps actually shshjzzj very g👀d
7) salute by ab6ix: really like it,, in general I really like their music NGL,, ALSO very g👁️👁️d
8) stereotype by stacy: actually liked this one! I didn't really vibe with their previous title tracks, even though the last one was huge but yeah ahshjsjs BUT I actually enjoyed this one!!!
9) after we ride by brave girls: love it, adore it, if I could marry a song this would be it djxnxnxn QUEEN SHITTTTTT
10) diamond heart by mx: first time listening and this one goes hard damn dndndndmzmz can really see myself headbanding to this lmao
11) you can't seat with us by sunmi: ofc I love this song,, it's from the royalty herself queen Sunmi so how can I not 😳 shsnsjn it's super catchy... I LOVE ITTTT
12) younger by omega x: first time listening and 😳 okay alr alr I see I SEE 👀👀 really enjoyed it.... Might go check their album because of this song bsnsnsnsn I actually checked their debut title song when it came out cause yt recommended me dnxmsm and I wasn't really that captivated to check more about them BUT. This song?? Hello??? 👀 I'm looking now
13) gam3 bo1 by svt: svt is my second ult group hello djnddmdm really like this song :( it's so FUNNNNN my beloveds....
14) Veronica by onewe: first time listening,, 😳😳 heart eyes for this song ngl sjjsjsskkz me never listening to this is a crime... It really is....
15) go & stop by astro: it's such a seksi song... Big 🥵🥵 also fun fact my favourite voice of K-pop is Sanha sbsbznjsns
16) all good by astro: how can you send me go & stop FOLLOWED by all good ..... The WHIPLASH this gave me djdmxmzmmz anyways,, they're lovely I love them 😔
17) wave by cix: I checked it when it came out and I was kinda disappointed ngl shjsjssk I loved their previous title track so much but this one didn't keep up with my expectations 😭😭 ofc it's not a bad song tho
18) off of my mind by cix: very groovy!! I like it! In general I like cix music and I'm thinking on stanning because of that but then I'm like DO I WANNA FALL FOR ANOTHER GROUP... hshsjsjsns but one day mayhaps 👀 really like their leader... He... Yeah...
Anyways let me know what are you thoughts on this!!!
WHAT? YOU HAVEN'T SEEN WTFOCK SEASON 2?? OMG VIV IT'S AMAZING WATCH IT PLEASE SJSNSM I'M LIKE 85% SURE YOU WON'T REGRET IT
omg i know i want to watch it so bad even though i really do hate how all the noorhelm couples start off but at least senne gets actual character development and they're probably one of the healthiest noorhelm ships so i'm dying to watch their s2 because this one gif set already looks so amazing. also i'm in love with zöe so i might start watching today or smth and liveblog about it🥺💖
summary: a young gay man describes in-depth his love and yearning for a man named john. sometimes he writes only a sentence and bombards the tags with the rest of his thoughts. in between, he posts a lot of very funny memes, and sometimes he explains how he jerks off. he writes amazingly, though. he should do it more often.
I WISH I COULD WRITE MORE OFTEN but the stars just do not align in my favor sjsnsm also this is a very good summary DHKSKS
Its honestly not the worst, but the transition from winter to spring s u ck s bc last week we were in the 40's (farenheit) and earlier tjis week we were in the 80's and 90's. Today we be in the 60's and 50's and sjsnsm feels nice man.