#I'd unfollow me too

[skylerwitherspoon]

@sizzlingsandwichperfection-blog just followed me by accident and then unfollowed me immediately 💀

#I don't blame him #I'd unfollow me too #coffee company #John Green

[spacemilkbag]

#i lasted less than 2 days without tumblr this is so sad #i logged out from one of my privs a few days ago and yesterday deleted twitter app from my phone #im just so bone tired of constant discoures like (shakes my 2020 self) HOW DID WE GET HERE #anyway my stance didn't change too much i hope she'll find some peace and better friends #not everything is forgotten and forgiven but im glad george acknowledged that she is hurt by what happened #and I'd rather leave on my own when im 100% not interested in their content anymore so yeah im staying #i dont want to be so invested in their lives anymore or at least not as much as i used to but I will watch some of their content #if you're not comfortable with that then you're free to unfollow or soft block me i wont hold it again you

[allgremlinart]

do u ever have a ship thats like. you find it so gross but its also so funny that its even a thing you find the shippers charming . ?

#this is about 2012 Korra/Tarrlok shippers do NOT derail #like god I am going to throw up in my mouth. but also you're having so much #fun with your problematic het age gap ship I cant help but be happy for you. slay ig #and like it doesnt even make me throw up for the age gap reasons like I'd ship s1 Korra/Lin if we #had gotten more antagonism scenes w them but. its cus its TOO real you know ? #its like... its like het zhaoko. eugh. #but I AM SELF AWARE ENOUGH TO KNOW ID SHIP IT IF TARRLOK WAS A WOMAN... UNFOLLOW ME...

[churchydragon]

I should just unfollow the sams tag at this point

#all these stupid fucking people in denial about shipping literal fucking incest and making shitty art for their shitty ship #like. a character being an alternate version of another character from another dimension doesn't magically make it not incest #I'd ask them if they'd date a version of their sibling from another dimension but I'm genuinely afraid of the answers I'd get at this point #reminder that if you ship TSAMS Moon and Solar or TSAMS Sun and Solar I don't want you here. unfollow me and be gross somewhere else. #Ruin too. they're literally a fusion of a TSAMS Sun and Moon. #block me while you're at it. I don't want to see your trash. #churchy talks #churchy vents #churchy tag rambles #tw incest mention #cw incest mention #only in the tags but whatever.

[unnecessarilygrandiose]

buck really said 'she sees me' after 6x12. 'she sees me' after he showed up to eddie's to escape the rotating cast of visitors. 'she sees me' after maddie probably tried to enlist eddie too because he knew buck was getting all those visitors that wore him out but he happened not to be one of them. 'she sees me' after you died, buck. you're going to feel a lot of different ways about that. sometimes all at the same time.

'she sees me. y'know like she really sees me for who i am and what i've been through. i think she might see even more in me than i see in myself.' after eddie sees him for exactly who he is, after he expects buck not to be anything for anybdy else's sake.

like, okay.

#i would apologize for making like the hundredth post about this but i've accepted that i cannot shut up #and i think it is in everyone's best interest that they accept this too and simply unfollow me🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 #911 fox #buddie #i just. i'm having Way too many feelings about this. and if buck had said this Any other episode it'd have been fine #but for him to say it in the episode where they show us that eddie is lonely? a plotline that completely blindsided me btw because #i did not expect an eddie storyline at all when we got one just last episode #yeah i am. not okay #thank god i wasn't around for season 5 i'd have died from seeing the eddie breakdown

[ewamosaart]

#drawing eva helped me notice dark circles under her eyes #tired girl #wip #eva #i missed her dropped eye corners haven't i #i think i can work it out with some scalpel work #too bad i didn't photo the face a few steps back it looked atrocious and i'd use a reminder things sometimes look bad halfway through #and it doesn't mean it's ruined #ooh the nose definitely need work too #some elongation #that's why i post so much wips you just don't see things unless you post it #if there's too mych wips feel free to unfollow i WILL post the finished version on toyotaprius no way im not after working my ass off

[sureuncertainty]

at least now i've gone through an important tumblr rite of passage, watching a longtime mutual become a radfem :/

#the thing that really got me was that they were talking about their morality ocd triggering them about it #bc of the way tumblr and the internet in general has this black and white approach to things #and one of those i guess was 'transphobes = bad' which like. is not what i'm ever talking about when i say that things have more nuance #that said i DO think that the way this website prioritizing hating terfs over supporting trans people is kinda gross #but anyway this person was so anxious about it and it just was depressing bc i related to that #they were SO afraid of losing friends or being cancelled over it and i was just like damn i wonder if all terfs are that miserable #but they acted like they just had no choice but to believe this 'thing' that they constantly alluded to but never talked outright about #which i am pretty sure now is just that they're a radfem or at least believe in a lot of radfem ideologies #and honestly? i go back and forth between genuinely feeling so bad for them and being like well that's what you fucking get #i wish i'd had the courage to talk to them about it but whenever i thought about it i got immeasurable anxiety #sorry for the very long tag ramble i just haven't been able to talk about this and it's been eating ME up too for a long time #i just feel horrible. i know in the past they've mentioned too how they want people to tell them why if they unfollow/block them #but i can't. i cannot. and then i'm afraid of just feeding into their victim complex by doing this #i just can't win. and it's like. i'm trans i am literally affected by their bigotry that they're acting like is just not even a choice #ALSO I REMEMBER HOW THEY MADE A POST ONCE ABOUT HOW PEOPLE IRL DON'T TALK ABOUT TRANS STUFF #LIEK IDK WHAT PLANET YOU ARE LIVING ON MY DUDE BUT I HAVE LIKE 5 TRANS COWORKERS AND EVERYONE IS VERY NORMAL ABOUT THEM #like maybe YOU live in a bad area #but you're just a really loud minority #anyway. yeah. just. oof. #still feeling some kind of anxiety about it #win rambles

[bsaka7]

i need you guys to keep following me/unfollowing me at the current rate to keep my following count ending in 69

#To be fair if I were an f1 blog I'd be unfollowing me too lol

[i-seeaspaceshipinthe-sky]

the more wrap party pics i see the more questions i have 

#i love that we all hate tua stylists just in case #BUT i'd excuse it if there was a) drug relapse arc b) klave c) klaus ending up in the void #klaus changing his last name to his birth last name would work too #pls unfollow me for your fandom experience to improve im not kidding #my THOUGHTS on s4 will not get any better until i've watched it #unfollow me. it's free.

[astagfirulah]

unfollowed for having an insane wrapped

#I'd unfollow me too lol #neesh.chat

[mythvoiced]

-. no matter the circumstances i’m under, in regard to the people i’ve met here, i can only ever be grateful, even though in most cases all i give does not amount to all i receive, the guilt doesn’t overpower my appreciation enough to keep me from vocalising how wonderful you are, some of you have genuinely recovered me from certain places simply by turning towards me and being kinder than i would have dared ask for and i shall never find words to repay this not big enough to come close to the kindness shared but know that i shall never take it for granted it and thank you sporadically like this for as long as i’m on this site and mentally for aeons after that

#;ooc #i've still posts of alex to reblog who went out of her way so massively for my birthday and there are not enough stars in the sky #for me to rob and turn into a resource priced enough to come close to a worth remotely similar to her time being used for me #and that's not just her munnie sara nassy hope/naka bun to name a few bc i'm highkey drunk and brain isn't fully functional #slow typing loadsa atypos #you've really picked me up on so many occasions in ways i hadn't thought possible and thoroughly sometimes helped me through #phases of life you weren't even aware of thank you for extending kindness like this thank you FERRE YOU TOO oh godness i'd never forget #i just hadn't typed it in in that tag ohmogd but seriously you people just by being kind you've thank you okay just thank you #never worry about posts such as these i just am eternally grateful #i will continue showing alex's skills down your throat unfollow me if you'd rather not be subjected to this because no amount of begging #will keep me from forcing my friends' Wonderfullness into your face

[mcmcntomorii-later]

— aww :( i’m a little bummed, a blog i was having a fun thread with just soft blocked me :(((

#【風変わりな】 ᴋᴏᴏʙɪᴇ ᴏʀ ɴᴏᴛ ᴋᴏᴏʙɪᴇ — OOC #\\ oh well #\\ they're free to follow/unfollow/softblock me whenever so im not super upset #\\ but it does feel a bit cruddy #\\ and i'd make a joke about it because of me posting about fortnite a few times now lol #\\ but it was like two posts and hardly mentioned lmaoo #\\ i really loved their content and art too #\\ bummer :(((

[ricoka]

I'm so salty about everything in this fandom, i should probably either find someone to be salty with or remove myself to a bigger extent

#I'd love someone to be salty with #i love you @sywen but i feel like I'm too salty for you 😂 #funnily enough tumblr fandom is more manageable because i just unfollow and block people who annoy me lol #or who spam the tag with their rping 🥹

[marrow-bone]

I know it's only my problem and it's not fair to others but it sucks to like;; care about people instantly and without reason. To be like 'Ah yes, I actively care about this person just because they're a person who I know, and I will go out of my way for their health and happiness' but it seems like most people aren't keen on doing even mildly inconvenient things for your peace of mind or health back.

It feels nice to be useful, but hurts so bad to be just convenient or tolerated.

#this is about many people in my life #if you follow me dw this doesn't apply to anyone who follows me #unless you *are* just tolerating me in which case I'd rather you just not follow me #I don't want people pretending to be nice and only following because they feel too awkward to unfollow #this is your permission to be rid of me #vent #I'd prefer this not get reblogged unless you can relate to the sentiment; not much point to do so #and again #I know I shouldn't expect my peers to love me the way I love them #but I've always been way too freely trusting and willing to be friendly and that's why I only have like 3 friends #been burned plenty and I don't like saying 'friend' first and nowadays even after that I am cautious because plenty of people #I thought were 'friends' were either vaguely nice sometimes or actually actively hostile to me in secret #plenty of times as a kid I only got attention because of something I *had* #even though we didn't have much compared to the rich kids #so weird to be 'friends' with someone one day hanging out and doing things and trying to be a good host #and then the next they're talking shit about you for things *they* also did?? #like yeah maybe I'm still collecting mlp as a 8-yr-old 'girl' but you got no reason to talk you're the one that wanted to play with them?? #anyway public school is hell and it's funny the little things from it you suddenly realize are deep emotional scars #things I learned in public school: education 0 #how to be paralyzed in fear over rejection and potential lies: 1000000% #delete later

[snekdood]

idk how or when i got 700 followers but cool and hi i guess

#why are you here #im literally just here yelling #i was at like 200 last i checked #gotta be a lot of bots bc idk #its just that i hate this website so i dont understand how theres a portion of this website that wants to follow me #either its bots or cowards taking screenshots of my posts w/o saying shit to me directly #or ig the rare few of people that genuinely like me ??????????????????????????????? #but qhy #i am starting to get anxiety about this revelation. i fear power. #one of the worst fates i'd hate to fall unto me is becoming powerful and misusing it. becoming what i hate. #so i try to push power away all the time. its why im so nasty on here dsjhbvdhgfbs im trying to get people to HATE ME #pls dont do this. i Will just hide away from humanity if i have to #*begins stabbing in the air violently in all directions as if trying to fight off a very quick small ghost* #yelling on the internet about your problems is all fun and games until ppl actually follow u and start to like u and become somewhat #swayed by what you say through no real attempt of your own and thn its a decision if you're going to let a drunkenness for that power to #over take you or reject it like the hideous manipulative shit it is #and then i end up deleting my social media accounts for a while bc the responsibility of power is too overwhelming and it keeps #trying to fucking come bACk to me and i DONT FUCKIN WANT IT #google how do i make people hate me and unfollow me so things can go back to normal and i can be a nobody yelling online #people who are following me and especially young people listen up: you do not have to be like me or do anything like me #you can be disgusted or annoyed with some of the ways i operate and generally like me anyways #dont feel pressured to do anything i say ever im yelling to what i was hoping was the void but ended up being 700 entire people #im literally just some guy who sits inside and thinks all day and likes to garden and do art sometimes and im only 26 #i am not someone who knows everything or anything like that i share from my own experiences and thats it #and i am not always correct on anything ever and im always open to being wrong and i especially love it when people ACTUALLY #directly point out to me when im wrong and correct me and please oh god please do not try to be like me sdfbhfsdvhgfsdhgc #you are your own person with your own life i can be a guy you look at and be like 'how can i be more like or less like this dumpster fire #of a man' but dont be like me in every way or think like me in every way just dont please have your own opinions #okay im glad i got that off my chest sdnjfsdhvgsdhvgfhvgfsd #also if you're a minor you SHOULDNT be following me anyways

[aromantic-pantyanarchy]

It's me. I'm the cis, heterosexual, aromantic man. I will never marry, I will never be married, I will grow into middle age and elder age and I will die unmarried. I will be forced to support a household of myself on only my wages alone for the rest of my life. I will be asked about women and marriage and children by my family for the rest of my life (or men, the progressive ones might say). I may not ever come out to them. I feel like I burned my coming out on something stupid. I don't want to explain it. I don't want to run them through the definitions and intricacies. I don't want the acceptance without understanding, placating me with ceased questions and poor explanations to other, drunk adults.

I like my hair to be long, I spent a year with it dyed a golden blonde with dark roots because I like the trashy party girl aesthetic. I want to dye it again with pink tips. I like painting my nails, black and blue are my favorite colors. I like wearing chokers. I also like wearing baggy jeans and ratty hoodies. I like having stubble. I like having chest hair. I like having a square jaw and broad shoulders. I wish I had a flatter stomach and a thinner profile frame. I don't know what this makes me, perhaps this is something no more GNC than Machine Gun Kelly. I think about this a lot, how queer my appearance truly is. I should think about it less. I have thought long and hard about if I could be trans or if I could be non-binary or if I could be genderqueer and the conclusion I ultimately came to is that I most enjoy being a man open to whatever self-expression I want.

I don't date, but I've thought about it. I would like to meet people, and I would like to have sex with them. But I don't want to hurt them. I fear if I explain what I am beforehand it'll scare them away. I fear if I explain after they'll feel manipulated or abused. I don't know how many people in the dating scene want what I want. I fear my own lack of experience will make me a bad lay, an embarrassing story to tell to confidants in hindsight. I fear my own virginity, a boundary to those I wish to be like. All of these fears are baseless, as I've not been able to even begin a single relationship in my life. Despite this I still heavily identify with terms like "slut" and "manwhore" and "thot" because my interests lay so deeply within casual sex, sex without great intimacy or emotion. This may be some form of stolen valor. I hope the true sluts are not too mad at me.

I made this blog several years ago because a mutual of mine reblogged memes making fun of aro and ace people, making fun of the concept of aphobia, and in addition well known aphobes. I didn't feel comfortable talking about aro stuff on my main blog, for as little as I talk about it. Living through the ace discourse of the 2016 era has largely caused me to cringe in embarrassment any time I am forced to discuss my orientation with people who aren't aro or ace themselves. I no longer follow this person. I unfollowed many people I was mutuals with from that time, most of them because they posted too often about how much they hated men and I didn't want to see that, some because our interests simply drifted too far apart, only one for explicit aphobia reasons. (Also one because they became a "both sides are bad, any vote is wasted" libertarian, but that's unrelated.)

I guess at this point I don't care deeply about what strangers on the internet think of me. If a trusted friend told me that they don't think I'm truly queer that may hurt. But I am going to continue to use the word for myself. I take up no resources. I go to events that are open to me. If an event was not open to me, I think I'd not want to go anyways. I am not a hypothetical, I am not a strawman, I am a person with lived experiences both within and exterior to the queer community. If you hate me, I will permit you to continue to do so. But ultimately, I am who I am, I cannot change these facts, and I would not choose to do so even if I could.

#aromantic #aro #aro positivity #reference to aphobia