#“But he's cishet!” And you're a dumb bitch

[sluttylittlewaste]

I feel like a huge part of the "Are cishet aro men queer?" "discourse" (they are btw, this is barely even discourse. People are dying, stop making up bullshit hypotheticals for people to argue about online) is that there's this underlying vibe that until this point the exclusion of cishet people (men) from queer communities was a built in layer of comfort. I get it. My patience for cishet men is razor thin on a fucking good day, and they do tend to function like an invasive species when put in queer spaces.

But babes - y'all can't gatekeep queerness because it makes you uncomfortable. You can't dismiss an entire group's experiences because the actions at large of their gender/sex demographic is shitty. And for my fellow cis-queers: If your queer identity is defined by who you're attracted to, why wouldn't the same apply to a lack thereof?

#aromantic #arospec #asexual #tumblr fucking loves fake discourse #you literally have no say in other people's self identifying #shut the fuck up #also no one is lying about being aro to trick women into casual sex #i promise you most people without a twitter or tunblr avcount have never even heard the term #“But he's cishet!” And you're a dumb bitch #next question

[pcrfectstorms]

if eddie was supposedly queer then what was "chrissy this is for you" lol

Oh little anon, when i tell you, you picked the WRONG bitch, I mean you picked the wrong bitch! firstly, cowardly to hide behind a grey face and not expose your blatant homophobia with your whole chest, but we move...

Let's take this in two parts, shall, we? Lets look at Stranger Thing's use of the word 'Freak' which from season one of the show has been used as a replacement for 'Fagg*t' the first instance being against Will Byers, when Joyce is reporting him missing and goes onto to explain to Hopper how Will's been bullied by his peers and his own father, where she explicitly uses the F slur to explain it, and from there it's been consistently used as a placeholder for it. Will is canonically confirmed gay by Noah, and to everyone else who knows how to read queer coding in his coming out scene to his brother in the pizza shop in volume 2. Eddie refers to himself on more than one occasion as a 'freak' - particularly in the boat house scene where he looks directly at Robin, a canonically confirmed lesbian and says to her, 'hunt the freak, right?' you can see the fucking pain in that boys face as he says it, and the gentle look Robin gives him in nodding, it's very clear to read that as them both having the understanding of what that meant, because while your little cishet brain may be incapable of critically reading subtext in media, us queers are very well versed at recognising our own, both on screen in queer coded storylines and off-screen in real life, and in this scene those two things meshed perfectly to demonstrate it.

Also, whether or not the nod to Queer Flagging was intentional or not, it was absolutely read that way by most of the Queer audience. Hanky Code was just one of the methods of Queer flagging that existed (and still exists today) which is predominantly used by Queer men (read: gay, bi, pan etc) to flag their sexual positions and interests at a time when it wasn't safe for them to be openly out without endangering their lives. Of course, bandana's were a big part of Metalhead culture too, but subcultures like metal, punk, etc, all these counter culture movements have a extensive and rich history of intersecting with the queer community. They are not mutually exclusive. Metal has massive ties to gender nonconformity and queerness, with bands like Judas Priest (who's lead singe Rob Halford was a gay man who came out in '98) who Eddie has a pin of on his battle vest, and while in '86 he wasn't out publicly, speculation about his sexuality had been around then too.

And all that is before we look at Joseph Quinns performance as Eddie and the little way in which he shamelessly flirted with both chrissy cunningham and steve harrington - which joe has confirmed at multiple convention panels that Eddie was flirting with Steve - he even, at the German con last weekend said that him and steve would have been a good fit, romantically.

BISEXUAL PEOPLE EXIST, PANSEXUAL PEOPLE EXIST. And if you can't see that not only are you homophobic, participating in bi/pan erasure but you're also just frankly fucking dumb.

And finally, if you think 'this is for you chrissy' meant he was somehow harbouring romantic feelings for her rather that he wanted to avenge for her murder you are delusional, and honestly giving Eddie ZERO respect if you honestly believe that it was because he fancied her and not because he was traumatized and guild ridden over not being able to do anything other than run away. This was him saying, I'm sorry Chrissy, I wish I could have saved you, but fuck it, your death won't be in vain we're going to save this goddamn town and burn the fucker who took your life.

I don't engage in ship wars, I don't give a fuck if you ship hellcheer, or steddie, or whatever other eddie ship, but i do give a fuck if you're going to come into my house and disrespect my son like this. DO BETTER.

#❛ shit talking ❜ [ ooc ] #sorry for the long rant my mutual pals but fuck me this anon PISSED me off #also to anon don't bother sending anymore they'll be deleted

[yogpetshame]

It's been a while since I studied law (and not in Norway), but Your assessment of the Ridgedog situation is pretty sound. Even assuming the authorities don't presume that Cannibalcow is under the psychological effects of spousal abuse, they wouldn't be able to hold him this long without due cause. To the best of my knowledge Norway isn't the kind of place to imprison a cishet white guy just for funsies.

I'll always look back on the time Mark Turpin called me an "armchair lawyer" and laugh at the irony. What a dumb fucking bastard.

Her claim that she was just "hormonal" is really the obvious lie. I've heard "manic" or "high" or "giving as good as I got" in that slot before but "too pregnant to think straight" is not a coherent analysis of irrational past behavior. Like I said I'm not doubting that she was pregnant in early 2022, but it does not make you hallucinate. At best it would explain a breakup or a misunderstanding. Not alleged domestic violence resulting in at least a year running of jail.

Another possibly too technical point to add - she was talking about there being some upcoming hearing which I guess was yesterday. This is kind of hard to explain using baby words - if the state has enough evidence to hold him but maybe not enough to convict but enough to scare him, the strategic result of this is usually that he spends a good chunk of time in jail pleads guilty to something and then leaves early. That might also be the current situation, which is why she wants the restraining order lifted, because her testimony in his defense is irrelevant and they're both just waiting for his bad boy time to finish up before pleading out and she doesn't want to spend that time out of touch.

And maybe I'll backtrack for a moment - I'm laying into her but it's not on principle. It's because Cannibalcow mocked women who Ridgedog was abusing, while he was abusing them. She insisted that they were making up lies to take from his fame- his fame, can you imagine - and that his funhouse harem was all an elaborate ploy to pick her and only her in the end. I don't think anyone ever deserves to be spousally abused, but when you're putting a ring on a bloody-mouthed-wolf going "stop crying you jealous bitches are just upset that I get to marry this sheep," I can only say, "please fucking think" so many times.

[hushed-muses]

Because how can a group of cis straight men who "is a good people too" deep down make up those manosphere Red Pill threads calling women all kinds of super dehumanizing terms, advocating for things like no age of consent, fantasizing about locking women into breeding pens, wanting to abolish rights and gleefully wishing for Gilead to be reality, wanting to shoot and rape them or championing the men that do, and think “yeah this sounds pretty reasonable”…there's something seriously wrong with that. It's so cute how women think that men think and act just like women deep down, men not different is one of the biggest lies a girl can ever fib up. Women seriously have very little inkling of how much men hate them. Men and women; cishet or not; who are pro abuse, rape, want to trick women, use Red Pill/PUA flirt or Play With Emotion Highs and Lows/Act Amused and Cocky with a hint of playful like talking to your little girl, etc don’t seem to change. They don’t suddenly lose their entitled, dishonest and hateful ways.

Also, who’s to say they won’t change back later on? Say if he gets in a relationship and his partner is vulnerable and more trapped. For example after marriage or a baby. If they could genuinely change it would of course be great, but I’m suspicious of their motives if they are proclaiming they have. It's like they didn't even see women as human or "not inferior" or "not a tool to use" in the 1st place!

The PUA Manosphere isn't just an incel hovel, most regular men you'd consider average and you're familiar with (even with girlfriends) use platform to blare their unfiltered thoughts too. You do know how many men and ex-incel Nazi women have been part of the manosphere before, even the ones you're dating hooking up?

But would anyone ever encourage a woman to enter a relationship with a “reformed” incel or MRA? Not bloody likely. Which hurts her even more because we men don't think of women as people and don't respect them tbh. Men don't think of women as unique either, just replaceable and disposable if over 27.

My bitch have a very dim view of men who have been steeped in that kind of hate. She been through some pretty angry phases of abuse and breakups in her life, but never once thought of killing men, taking away their rights, raping them, tricking and abusing them, etc. At her most angry she just wanted not much to do with them outside of family circle.

Exactly. Unfortunately I‘m not so sure that these types of supposedly reformed, toxic men are very capable of change at all. Its more likely they just say they are, because they’ve discovered their behaviors weren’t getting them what they wanted. They want to keep doing the same things, but without any of the stigma attached to it. Seriously, how could a man who gets off to suffering ever have love?

Women must be hormonally very dumb, sadomasochistic and so self-destrucktive to want cis straight men even when he uses and destroys her before 30. The sad times of a SuperStraight woman. Being born a man better.

Hi first of all I just want to ask: are you okay?

I don’t mean that in a joking, sarcastic way. I admit I’m having some trouble following everything you sent, but you seem angry about the differences between men and women and/or how women perceive bigoted men?

I will address the bizarre last paragraph though: if a woman wants to be with a cis straight man, let her! It’s 2021 and it’s no one’s business who they’re dating/fucking. People of every sexuality and gender have the right to be in a healthy and happy relationship, and that includes whatever group of people you’re beefing with in my ask.

Three things bother me about what you sent me: you’re making stand up for cis straight men in the first place (I have plenty of issues with them but this rant is a little much. even for cis straight dudes), it’s not fucking cool to shit on women dating non-incel cis men like that, and super straight isn’t a real thing.

Idk I’m not straight and I’m not super sober so this makes my brain hurt

#long post #I don’t know what I did to deserve this #ask #wait omg is this my first anon hate #I’ve been waiting for this moment for so long 🥺

[blue-mood-blue]

Toby's actually bisexual but like. SO dumb about it. Like sure Ms. Toby "every time I meet a new woman im going to describe how heart-stoppingly pretty she is" Daye, you're DEFINITELY cishet.

Toby and Tybalt are having a quiet afternoon of bitching about the politics that surround their lives (mostly the Divided Court politics that surround Toby’s life and Tybalt’s by association), and Toby sighs with frustration. “You know what the worst part is? Even the assholes are so goddamn, ridiculously beautiful. Every single one of them. How is that fair.”

Tybalt stares, because he thought he knew everything there was to know about October. But this is new.

She denies it of course. She can appreciate that people are beautiful, that’s all! It doesn’t mean anything! Everyone in court is gorgeous and it’s annoying, it’s Faerie’s fault anyway and if Tybalt wants answers about why that is he can find Oberon and ask him.

When he brings it up with May, she shrugs. “I figure she’ll let me know if she figures it out.”

Grinning like the cat he is and watching Toby walk down the stairs with bedhead, Tybalt replies, “Unfortunate for everyone else that I found her first.”

#october daye #listen Toby is VALID #that is my exact bisexual experience #'everyone's attractive BUT THAT'S JUST FACTS' #'IT'S JUST A FACT I HAPPEN TO KNOW' #thishazeleyeddemon

[miquellaslily]

parabatailost knows who know better than you about mlm reationships since he's an openly gay man, you dumb bitch. You're just good at worshipping a pairing written by cass clam and white cishets. Go watch some other shows and movies with better representation. You're probably het anyway.

“you’re probably het anyways”

MKGDF LESBIAN IS IN MY URL

#THIS IS SO FU NN Y #Anonymous

[lyssafreyguy]

"Dan said he likes the label queer and that aphobia is bad and that microlabels are okay so there are probably exclusionists that're gonna go through all his social media to make accusations against him :(((" literally no one is doing that you fucking weirdos also for the love of God stop calling people who don't want to be referred to by an actual fucking slur and who don't want cishets in LGBT spaces (so you know normal and sensible) "gatekeepers" especially since he mentions that not everyone likes the label queer because it's a slur in the fucking video you nerds are so fucking dumb like we get it you have made up beef with LGBT people who don't agree with you but maybe stop using a popular YTer's coming out video as a means to start more of it? which is what you're accusing us of trying to do? you musty bitch?

#q slur//