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[system-hottakes]

Hi! We saw your reply, wanted to thank you very much and say that your explanation makes perfect sense to us. Deeply appreciated! /gen

-🔥🧷

no problem! i'm glad i made some sense, lol! we appreciate you taking the time to hear us out ^^

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[system-hottakes]

Hot take for some fucking reason

Doxxing is bad on both sides and me acknowledging the fact endos side is HORRIBLY over run with racism ( as a POC sys) isn't "false accuations" its literally just acknowledging their freaks

doxing is horrible no matter what yeah and i notice a lot of endos are racist and try to use their pretend alters as excuses to say slurs they cannot reclaim- its a fact and honestly if they think it's "false accusations" maybe they should try look around, because the evidence is everywhere

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Big hot take when it definitely shouldn't be:

DISCLAIMER & CW: I'm strictly speaking on systems in adult bodies and only about littles who are stuck presenting as a little despite not being mentally one. Also, mention of pedophiles.

People need to stop being weird about littles who are dating other alters, adult presenting or not.

We personally have littles who can do anything an adult presenting alter can do and sometimes even more. Some adult alters can be even more mentally a child than some littles. Stripping the alter of the right to personal autonomy just because they're stuck presenting as a little is messed up. Especially making them or their partner feel like horrible people for doing so. No, it does not make anyone a pedo for anything. Like actually grow up.

It all depends on the specific system and alter whether or not their little/littles can or cannot do certain things. If it just so happens that a little presenting alter is not stuck mentally at a little age, it is no ones else's business besides their own system and themselves on what that they get up to.

Sometimes these types of littles being able to have that personal autonomy is healing, and making systems feel horrible for that is not only terrible to do but is also super anti-recovery.

Everyone's different and the community needs to stop harassing systems for healing in their own unique way.

Thanks for coming to my ted talk.

^^ yea. All littles are different , some littles aren't actually children, only appear as such. Some littles are kids, sure, but not all littles are and it's important to keep in mind the difference between alter age and alter maturity. They aren't the same. sometimes an alter may appear as an adult age wise but may be as mature as a kid and thats fine! same goes for alters that appear as kids but are as mature as adults.

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as a little i hate how infantilized we inherently are. like being a 'little' is sm more of a spectrum than just 'i am mentally regressed always and literally 5' and i feel like a lotta people think we can't stand up for ourselves or do anything (which is sometimes true, sure) but it makes me so mad bc i feel like i have to choose which part of myself i want to acknowledge because if not i am seen as weird by others :/

nod, nod. We don't like when people assume all littles are immature and incapable of acting older. Like yes, they're 6, but they've also experienced more than an actual 6 year old would have, they've been around for longer and have gone through more years of life (e.g, a 6 year old in an 18 year old system is likely to have experienced 10+ years of life than an actual 6 year old)

some littles are genuinely kids, yes, but not all littles are and it's important to keep that in mind. And anon, you aren't weird and it sucks that people see you that way or that you feel you have to chose between different parts of yourself. I hope you manage to find a safe space where you can just be you without having to hide or pretend to be someone else

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Hey - I wanna be clear and say this is a 100 percent genuine question but we have always heard in the past that an alter calling themself transfem in an AFAB body or calling themself transmasc in an AMAB body, is not okay. But we saw on this blog someone mentioned that and we would like to get a viewpoint/explanation I guess, from you, why is this not a bad thing? /genq

I REALLY hope this doesn't come across as rude at all, if you feel not up to answering then that's perfectly okay, I'd just like to hear what you have to say because we have never heard this side of the argument

-🔥🧷 (if we could reserve this tag then that'd be really nice but no pressure ofc)

Well I think our first belief is that transfem ≠ tranwoman, like they could easily be a feminine non-binary person or demi-girl and count as transfem, that means they're trans (same for transmasc). Second, we just don't really care how people call themselves, being trans is not limited to suffering and it never should be, as long as they aren't hurting anyone (which they're not) then we believe they can call themselves whatever

Also yes, you can have that tag, and don't worry anon, it's doesn't come off as rude to me ^_^

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Hey sorry to bother but I was wondering if you had gotten my hot take? It was the one a bit ago that was talking about mature littles in adult bodies. It had a couple of content warnings I put just in case. I was wondering if it was going to be posted or if it was okay to post at all? I understand if it was a bit much! But I'm just wondering what you planned to do with it. Sorry for the bother /g

its scheduled to post later today, don't worry anon! ^_^

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i dont like people calling insys romantic relationships "self love"

the two fictives making out behind me in headspace are not the same person man. sorry.

yeah,, sometimes we do it to ourselves as a joke but we don't like when other people do it to us, especially without asking. Like we're very different people, do not assume we're the same person

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Yes

I feel like number names shouldn’t be a way to basically display ur trauma. I understand they’re only for RAMCOA victims but it’s honestly just dangerous imo

honestly we don't think they're only for RAMCOA victims, singlets use number names all the time, why is it different if an alter uses it? As long as they're not mocking the name I think it's fine. And I agree, having number names be RAMCOA only is very dangerous, it reveals their trauma to people, which can expose them to those who wish to take advantage of them

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I feel like number names shouldn’t be a way to basically display ur trauma. I understand they’re only for RAMCOA victims but it’s honestly just dangerous imo

honestly we don't think they're only for RAMCOA victims, singlets use number names all the time, why is it different if an alter uses it? As long as they're not mocking the name I think it's fine. And I agree, having number names be RAMCOA only is very dangerous, it reveals their trauma to people, which can expose them to those who wish to take advantage of them

[system-hottakes]

I feel like number names shouldn’t be a way to basically display ur trauma. I understand they’re only for RAMCOA victims but it’s honestly just dangerous imo

honestly we don't think they're only for RAMCOA victims, singlets use number names all the time, why is it different if an alter uses it? As long as they're not mocking the name I think it's fine. And I agree, having number names be RAMCOA only is very dangerous, it reveals their trauma to people, which can expose them to those who wish to take advantage of them

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No idea if this is a hot or cold take but like

Don't be surprised if people leave you if you don't take system accountability! Or shift it an another alter's responsibility!

yeah,, system accountability is important. I don't expect you to feel guilty or be sorry for what another alter did, but please at least take accountability for it! And don't be surprised if people get mad at you or leave you when you refuse to do that

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im unsure if this is a hot take, but alters who do not want to be recognized as an alter/part of a system and/or never want to be interacted with/want to be fronting are just as valid as any other alter

also, i hate reading medical research on CDDs and the people writing them acting like we are one person whos split up and it clearly shows that in their wording. treat me like i am multiple people you asshats, i dont fucking care if its delusional this is how i fucking cope (that last part was not directed towards you)

yeah,, I don't like when people treat us like one person who just thinks we're multiple, because we are multiple. That is our coping mechanism, that is how our brain works. Our identity is literally fragmented, we're not a single person, we're multiple people. Yes I know alters aren't "technically" real people, but they feel like it to us.

And also we agree, alters that don't want to be recognised as a part of a system and instead just as a normal person or not at all are really valid and I wish people were more understanding of it. We have a group of alters in our system that don't want to interact with anyone outside of it and don't want anyone to know about them (like their info, they don't care about people knowing they exist, but they don't want their names or anything out there) and it gets really frustrating when people try ask who they are anyways

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[system-hottakes]

hello! sorry we haven’t been on tumblr for a bit, forgot it existed lol (and forgot to make an edited version of our hot take, thank you for understanding though and adding the tw tags, we really appreciate it (:)

this won’t really be a hot take so feel free to ignore or respond, whichever you feel like

(TW mentions of being front stuck, not sure if it can be triggering though just in case, take care of yourselves <3 /p)

we’ve heard of being front stuck before though it’s never happened to us (at least not that we know of) so we were wondering what to do when/if it does happen or if there is anything we can do

(thank you for reading, also could we maybe have the anon 👾 or void? whichever is easier for you if your good with it (:)

well, personally we don't really do much when we're front stuck but we've heard of other systems trying to trigger out other alters. Though that's about all we heard of tbh, for the most part we (and most other systems we know) just wait it out

Also no worries, we don't mind adding tw's when necessary! Even if it's not considered "necessary" to some people we'll gladly add them if requested (with a few exceptions such as names and stuff)

And yeah, you can be 👾 anon !!

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Hot take 🤠 but systems need amnesia and trauma in order to be DID. No amnesia. No DID. It's not "gatekeeping" it's diagnosable criteria

Mhm, it's also important to keep in mind that it doesn't have to be blackout amnesia, it can be grey-out, emotional, partial, ect. As long as you have amnesia it fits the criteria. It's also important to keep in mind people will have different levels of amnesia (especially those with osdd1-B who have little to no amnesia)

[system-hottakes]

^^

Hot take 🤠 but systems need amnesia and trauma in order to be DID. No amnesia. No DID. It's not "gatekeeping" it's diagnosable criteria

Mhm, it's also important to keep in mind that it doesn't have to be blackout amnesia, it can be grey-out, emotional, partial, ect. As long as you have amnesia it fits the criteria. It's also important to keep in mind people will have different levels of amnesia (especially those with osdd1-B who have little to no amnesia)

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hot (luke warm) take:

i fucking hate singlets who wish they were a system. you do not want this disorder. it is hell.

^^^ definitely . I hate when people say they want this disorder, it's not fun

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also gonna put this out there cause I got an ask on it:

I support people with low/no empathy. Personally I have very little empathy and it's usually very conditional, so yeah. Having no empathy doesn't make you a bad person, being a bad person makes you a bad person

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