wait you understand that kinks are ok because they're fantasies that make you happy right? you all get that you don't need to have trauma for your kinks to be okay? right? like none of you think i witnessed a tragic accident on the pool toy assembly line right?
Every one of you needs to read Going Postal by Terry Pratchett right now. Especially if you do anything related to tech, finance, or public services. I am not kidding.
guard dog femmes. femmes whose nails accidentally digging in when they grab someone to keep them from falling over. femmes who seem incredibly docile with their partner but their hackles raise as soon as a perceived threat makes itself known. femmes that like having a person to protect. femmes that seem intimidating or mean at first but welcome affection when offered. femmes who just want to keep their people safe.
I think one of the reasons modern romance stories don’t resonate with me is because they’re too focused on the deep conversations and the sexy bits that the I miss out on the actual connection between the characters.