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The urge to just stick out my tongue at someone when I’ve been arguing with them for hours and now they act hurt as if they didn’t come after me,

I swear sometimes I just want to be immature

I want to be the one who gets to pitch a fit and act like I’m the victim, but instead I get to be mature, I get to “understand” because I do understand, but I don’t accept the way others treat me, I know it’s not really about me but it still baffles me.

#writing #bad parenting #petty #i just want to scream #i need a hug #screaming crying throwing up

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Just a reminder not to make a mountain out of a molehill!!!!!

Also just look at this cute little mole <3

#mole interest #mole #animals

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The other day my mom told me I was “handling things well” and “I didn’t seem all that upset”for some reason that upset me, I couldn’t figure out why though. Today I figured it out.

Just because you don’t see when I’m in pain does not mean I do not feel it, just because you don’t see me cry, does not mean that I haven’t . It hurt for her to think that I was instantly fine. Because I’m not fine, I just process differently than others do, I don’t cry for a few weeks and then I’m fine, I might not cry for months but then I’ll see something that makes me think of them and I see my whole relationship with that person replayed in my head and I miss it bitterly .

Grief for me is not linear, and I think that we need to be kinder to ourselves. Give yourself permission to feel, to feel the love, joy, pain and sadness. Feel, even if it’s just for a moment.

Acknowledge it. Name it. Say yes, I did lose something, and it is ok to be upset over loosing it. Life goes on but how we respond determines whether we grow from an experience or not.

-Love

#coping with grief #frienship #love #writing #sort of poetry #fall #idk what to tag this as #self help #help i dont know what im doing

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“Never wish them pain. That’s not who you are. If they caused you pain they must have pain inside. Wish them healing.”

— Najwa Zebian

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After years of seeing second hand tumbler posts on Pinterest I finally decided to make a account

#tumbler #fandom #pintetest #I hoard art like a little dragon with its coins #my meme dealer cut me off so now I’m here

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That’s why it’s important to have interests, aspirations and personal goals in life outside of your relationships. The most important relationship you can have, is the one you have with yourself!

“Some people are going to leave but that’s not the end of your story. That’s the end of their part in your story.”

— Unknown

#quotes #motivation #relationship quotes #love yourselves #breakup #not the end of the world