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actually; i get why everyone is disappointed with the sequencing of the beginning, the shift. and i agree 13829%

Book spoiler: in the novel, it's paced nicely and really given it's time. they dont end up going all the way after the first kiss too. and that kiss, akdjas, it is upsetting they dint flesh it out better. the part where, qian realizes he doesn't even know how to kiss properly, yuan snapping out of his stupor of being caught off guard and going in, the waist grab, and subsequent thoughts going off in qian's head (awareness of lack of flexibility, waist being strung like a bow etc etc.) idk, those were really significant imo.

#you're soo right #it's what i was most curious about too #to see the way qian would act around yuan after they get together #cause he's been in the processing phase for so long even i was struggling to imagine scenarios of how they'll work once #its all out in the open on both sides #i wish they'd done it the way you describe😭

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actually; i get why everyone is disappointed with the sequencing of the beginning, the shift. and i agree 13829%

Book spoiler: in the novel, it's paced nicely and really given it's time. they dont end up going all the way after the first kiss too. and that kiss, akdjas, it is upsetting they dint flesh it out better. the part where, qian realizes he doesn't even know how to kiss properly, yuan snapping out of his stupor of being caught off guard and going in, the waist grab, and subsequent thoughts going off in qian's head (awareness of lack of flexibility, waist being strung like a bow etc etc.) idk, those were really significant imo.

#it was a little less rewarding in the show the way it played out #tho after the excruciating wait i dint even mind at the time of watching past my initial confusion >_< #unknown the series #chris chiu #kurt huang #thingamabob #aa mine

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tbh i just imagine le ge and dr. lin were best friends at some point. or some ganster equivalent of that. dint strike as a romantic plot to me, also i hate it when minor characters are shipped of unnecessarily, so

#unknown the series #chris chiu #kurt huang #thingamabob #aa mine

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shoutout to slow growers, late bloomers, people whose plans got derailed by circumstances beyond their control or their own choices, people who never had a plan to begin with, people who have had to start over when theyre too old to feel like theyre supposed to be where they are, people who cant pretend theyre built for the environment theyre in, and everyone who's not living the life they thought they would. im proud of you for making it this far and i hope you keep going until youre happy ♡

#hopepunk

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guy sitting in front of me in class was vandalizing wikipedia and i kept reverting his edits as soon as he made them and he couldn't figure out why it was happening

#😭

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Arogender is such a neat label because it doesn’t necessarily specify what a person’s gender is (although it can), but rather that it’s connected to our aromanticism. It can be varied, dynamic, vague or specific, a descriptor, an umbrella term, or a gender on its own. For me, being arogender sometimes means experiencing all genders, as though my lack of attraction has allowed me take on all the imagined “other halves” that society says I need to be happy. Other times, it feels like I don’t have a gender at all because so much of society’s understanding of gender is tied to attraction and how we relate to others romantically. And sometimes it’s a singular gender–just “aromantic” or “green” or “evil <2” Anyway, I love being arogender and experiencing aromanticism across different aspects of my identity

#so frickin coool #arogender #aro #aromantic #aromanticism

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given how highly gendered dating and romance is, it’s not surprising that aromantic people don’t have as easy of a time fitting in with their gender or having one/knowing what it is at all. idk food for thought

#aromantic #pinned post

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my friend's trying to find her old tumblr account and she asked me "can you search for people or just posts?" and i had to tell her "well you can't really search for posts actually"

#bonkers actually lmao #revolutionary social media~ #this is why posts i gotta save end up in my drafts

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ahaha no don't call me heartless... nooooo that's so mean... no really it would hurt me sooooooo bad if you said it again... you should say it again

#😭

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#Girls can wear jeans and cut their hair short and wear shirts and boots because it's okay to be a boy #for girls it's like promotion #But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading #according to you #because secretly you believe that being a girl is degrading #<prev tags keeping

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The key shortcut of "windows key" and "." held together has changed my life

like

emoji access? supremely powerful 🙂💖

But

Kaomoji ?

The year is 2013 and I am unstoppable ヾ(•ω•`)o o(*￣▽￣*)ブo(*°▽°*)o

#surprised this isn't more well known actually #ctrl + d goes straight to desktop for those with multiple tabs open #and many more

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in the hour or so it took me to draw this op turned reblogs off

#dont come for the GREENS #aromantic #aro #you dare imply green the colour of forests and leaves and shoots and vines and unripe fruit is UGLY? #not in this dwelling #but most importantly not in this ARO dwelling

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rick riordan off the shits

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the science bitch urge to correct all common misinformation when it appears vs the knowledge that people hate that bitch actually

#fantastic post #in case i get the science bitch urge any day

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AROACE LIGHTS???

#LETSGOOO #aroace #aromantic #asexual

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“When you feel perpetually unmotivated, you start questioning your existence in an unhealthy way; everything becomes a pseudo intellectual question you have no interest in responding whatsoever. This whole process becomes your very skin and it does not merely affect you; it actually defines you. So, you see yourself as a shadowy figure unworthy of developing interest, unworthy of wondering about the world - profoundly unworthy in every sense and deeply absent in your very presence.”

— Ingmar Bergman

#when you lose your ability to discern what is and what isn't #reblog #aa mine