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Could you please tell the story of how you and Madame Curator got together? I love those kinds of stories!

ah! a wonderful story that i love telling!

see, me and Madame Curator met on tumblr! no surprise there. i was just going about my day when suddenly i started getting all of my queerplatonic yearning posts on my main blog spam liked. i looked to see who was doing it and noticed she was also reblogging a lot of them. i went to the blog she was reblogging them to and noticed her pinned post was all about wanting a qpr, and she specifically wanted the exact same things i wanted!

so, because i’m socially awkward and don’t know how to just message people, i opened my ask box on my main blog. and by some miracle she sent an ask in! specifically saying that she hopes im able to find a queerplatonic relationship one day. after that, i messaged her and was like “heeyyyy so you seem super cool!! we should talk moooore” and then we did talk more! and like… two weeks of constant messaging later, i messaged her and was like “hey so i kinda maybe possibly want to be in a qpr with you!” but in a super vague way. she said she wasn’t interested and we went about our conversations like normal

the next day! she messaged me being like “okay actually remember when you asked me out? well i think we should revisit that because i maayyybe realized i like you too.” then a couple days later we had a detailed discussion about what we would both want out of a queerplatonic relationship and setting boundaries and then we just ended up together!!

i’ve never believed in “soulmates” (i’m too aroace for that) but after everything that’s happened with her… i’ve started believing it. she’s just amazing and i’m so glad that i met her!

#♡ ♡ ♡

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when you and your queerplatonic girlfriend meet for the first time and spend several hours cuddling and being so incredibly close to each other

#aaaaaaahhhh tis wonderful and lovely and aaaaaaahhh #tis the most wonderful aaaaaahhhh #♡ #aroace #queerplatonic #qpr #sapphic qpr #our aroace adventure

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qpr culture is MEETING MY GIRLFRIEND FOR THE FIRST TIME IRL THIS MONTH I CANT WAIT TO SEE HEEERRRRR

ahhh good luck!! /gen

#YESSSSSSS #IM SO EXTREMELY EXCITED!!!!!! #I truly cannot wait aaaaaah ♡ #qpr culture is #qpr #our aroace adventure #♡

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The AUREA team is excited to announce that the 2023 Aro Census is open!

The Aro Census is a community run survey that helps collect data on the demographics, identities, and experiences of the aromantic community. Participation is encouraged for people identifying on/with the aromantic spectrum and those who are questioning whether they are on the aromantic spectrum.

If you would like to participate in the Aro Census you can find links to different language versions below. There are instructions on how to complete the survey in each form. Please complete only one form in one language.

We will be accepting responses from September 1, 2023 to December 31, 2023.

Català: https://forms.gle/EHjFtdYS1ZzCE2G88

Nederlands: https://forms.gle/ERXWwR6xhiEpGZPb6

English: https://forms.gle/2repLLgsYW3yKS2L8

Deutsch: https://forms.gle/3ThgjhRCvp4YSG6C6

��λληνικά: https://forms.gle/Ld4MSQmLqCsJAzqr9

עִברִית: https://forms.gle/4ctV9pVUKCDLtgx58

Norsk: https://forms.gle/H1BUZ3hDSe88BBHy5

Polski: https://forms.gle/P3a59oj7vAqC3F6UA

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Italiano: https://forms.gle/gpJmJjjJENf5MWpF7

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Disclaimer: Due to the recent wait time and staffing issues at the Trevor Project, we ask that participants use the Trevor Project resources linked in the survey at their own discretion.

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#aromantic #aro #arospec #aromanticspectrum #arocensus #arocensus2023 #actuallyaromantic #safeforaro

#yes I did just spend 40 minutes doing this lol #aromantic #aro #arospec #aromantic spectrum #aro census 2023

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my girlfriend described our queerplatonic relationship as Fancy Friendship Plus™

god i love her

#it’s what it is!! #fancy friendship plus ™ #bc yeah!! #tis silly goofy fun and wonderful and aaaaahhhh!!! #our aroace adventure #♡ #qpr #sapphic qpr

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i heart today is aromantic spectrum visibility day!

so i just wanna take this moment to say I LOVE BEING AROMANTIC ITS SO COOL AND FUUUNNNN

i hope all my fello aros enjoy being visible today!

#happy aromantic visibility day #!!!!!! #and prev- #happy aro day to MY queerplatonic girlfriend and we are SO crushing amatonormativity!!! #aaaaahhh!!! #our aroace adventure #♡ #aromantic visibility day #aromantic #aro

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aroace? more like aerospace

#aroace #our aroace adventure #our automobile adventure #cars 2 (2011)

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✨qpr goals✨

making fun of the allos together

#prev tags -> #in a silly goofy fun way #my girlfriend’s parents did a very allo™ thing #are the allos okay /j #aroallos and alloaces are cool tho this doesn’t include you #<- #AAAAAHHHH #my parents did SUCH an allo thing😭 #like seriously whyyyyyyyy #sapphic qpr #sapphic aroace #qpr #queerplatonic #our aroace adventure #♡ #qpr goals

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sapphic who has no mind’s eye x sapphic who has way too strong of a mind’s eye

#hi it’s meeeee #I have the no mind’s eye😭 #my girlfriend’s mind is so extremely wonderful like seriously #our aroace adventure #♡ #queerplatonic girlfriend #sapphic qpr

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living with your queerplatonic girlfriend is like a ✨forever sleepover✨

#prev- #I too cannot wait to actually experience this irl🥺 #somedayyyyy one dayyyyyyy #it shall be marvelous and fantastic and magical and perfect and aaaaaaaaahhh!!! #our aroace adventure #♡ #sapphic qpr #qpr #queerplatonic girlfriend #queerplatonic relationship

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i need me a life partner in the most aromantic way

#our aroace adventure #♡

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tis a ✨wonderful wonderful feeling✨🥺🥺♡♡

when you and your girlfriend leave the call on all night for 12 hours just so you can imagine you’re sleeping together

tis a ✨wonderful feeling✨

#prev tags are so so sweet and adorable and AAAAAAHHHH🥺🥺😭 #I have no words except I so so so sincerely wish she and I could stay on the phone for a whole day🥺🥺😭♡ #and also #love love love love love love love ♡ #aaaaaaaaaaaahhhh🥺🥺♡ #our aroace adventure #♡ #qpr #sapphic qpr #queerplatonic girlfriend #queerplatonic relationship

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The universe: "okay, let me make the most perfect girl imaginable, make her your soulmate, and then let me put her on the other side of the planet. :)"

#ignore me ​sobbing😭 #tis so so true aaaaaahhh🥺😭 #sapphic qpr #our aroace adventure #♡ #queerplatonic girlfriend #qpr

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my girlfriend just called called me “found family” and that caused me to once again burst into tears

#aaaaaahhh I have no addition🥺🥺 #other than I agree this relationship is so healing and I feel so lucky and aaaaaahhhh🥺🥺😭 #our aroace adventure #♡ #queerplatonic girlfriend #sapphic qpr #qpr

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my girlfriend just filled me with such unimaginable joy and love i actually sobbed 5-10 minutes

that was such a strange experience

#prev- #I experienced this happening live on the phone and just aaaaaahh i’m so in awe and honored I can make someone feel this much joy and aaaahhh #literally reading this is making me cry too aaaaahhhh #I love love #I love this #I love my girlfriend ♡ #aaaaaahhh #our aroace adventure #♡ #sapphic qpr #queerplatonic girlfriend #queerplatonic relationship

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sapphic who gets very excited while watching her favorite movie x sapphic who isn’t actually paying attention but is enjoying the cuddles

#me it’s me #i’m the second one #I absolutely cannot wait for this to happen irl aaaaahhh #our aroace adventure #♡ #sapphic qpr #queerplatonic girlfriend #qpr #queerplatonic relationship

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I heard someone call barbie disappointingly heterosexual and I've never disagreed with anything more strongly in my life