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Oh also I’m 18 now fun fact

#tc.txt #turned 18 like two weeks ago forgot to change my bio #but i mean im also rarely on here now so yeah

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I can write essays sometimes too i deserve it

#tc.txt

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anyway im thinking about this post again! I feel like a very important detail you're missing when you're making your point is that the phrase "trans men are hotter because they're trans" has very different meanings and connotations when a trans person says it vs. when a cis person says it. Cis people fetishize trans bodies in a way that ostracizes us and reduces us to our bodies, "abnormality", and sexual appeal. Their fetishization hinges on the fact that they don't think we're like them; to a cis fetishist, we're not men, we're trans men, and that's appealing to them. In this fetishization, they draw a line between us and them, separate us from our genders, objectify our bodies for not being like theirs, reduce us to the traits they want us to exhibit, and then use this all as jack off material. What that basically says to us trans people is "the only worth trans people have to me is whether or not I find them sexually appealing" and that is a shitty message to send, whether they intend to send it or not. This is how cis people who think of themselves as "allies" can justify being transphobic towards trans people they find unattractive or treating trans people who don't fit their mental image like shit. This is something I, and pretty much every trans person ever, is super fucking uncomfortable with. So when a cis person says "trans men are hotter because they're trans" it should DEFINITELY set off alarms in your head. But, that cis fetishization is NOT there when a trans man says "trans men are hotter because they're trans" which is why alarms DON'T go off in my head when I hear them say it. While I will definitely admit that there are some trans people who fetishize other trans people (usually with identities that aren't their own, look at what rcdart does to trans men and what some trans men say about trans women, for example), that is generally not what's being implied, especially since when we say the phrase "trans men are hotter because they're trans" it's usually in a joking context or in a context where we put ourselves above cis people in a way we usually aren't allowed to be. The meaning of the phrase isn't meant to be sexual; it's meant to be empowering. You can replace hot with any word and the meaning is the same. Trans men are smarter, trans men are better, trans men are cooler, trans men are stronger, trans men are braver-- these are ALL phrases I've heard in trans spaces and they all carry the same amount of weight when they're said. For a group of people of people as unrepresented and ignored as we are, it can be empowering to call ourselves hotter. So often, trans people are written off and ostracized. When we're not being reduced to our individual sexual appeal, we're scoffed at, told we're wrong about who we are, called deluded, treated like monsters, and far worse shit. To turn around and say that we're hotter, smarter, better, cooler, stronger and braver for being trans men-- for simply existing-- is meant to be an act of love for both ourselves and our community. By saying it, we're trying to empower both ourselves and other trans men who may be reading. When we say it to ourselves, it's meant to be assurance; It's a way of saying that we can be these things even though cis people seem to believe we can't, and that there is merit in our existence. When we say it to other trans mean, it's meant to uplift; It's meant to say that you're great for existing in a society trying to kill you, and you're better for it too. It's pride at it's purest. I understand that some trans people would still be uncomfortable with this language, though, as the phrasing of it is similar to cis fetishism if you're unaware of the intent behind it and, even if you're aware of the intent, you may still be uncomfortable with it. That's fine. It's not my job to tell you what you can and can't be okay with. The trans experience is deeply personal and while some trans people may find the language empowering... it's perfectly okay if you don't. But, what I can't stand for, is you lumping prideful trans men in with the cis people oppressing and fetishizing them. It's a harmful misunderstanding at best, and purposeful maliciousness at worst. You're helping no one, not even the trans people you deem "valid". By saying that forms of pride you personally are not comfortable with are comparable to our oppressors objectifying us, you separate yourself from large chunks of the trans community, large chunks of the trans community from you, and lots of trans people from each other which... is just yikes. What can I say other than this isn't it, I'm looking away, that's real cringe fail of you buddy, and it's really not a good look? I know you don't agree with every trans person (hell, I don't agree with every trans person either, reading your posts makes me cringe real hard) but I don't think arguing with fellow trans people is going to do anything for any of us. There's power in numbers and we have a LOT more reasons to stick together than we do to push each other away. We all face a lot of the same issues, y'know? Getting caught up in the little details keeps us from getting anywhere. To make posts that create a divide in the trans community, whether you intend to or not, isn't really... a good thing to do? I feel like this should be obvious, but solidarity with those suffering the same pain as you, with other people combating a transphobic society, is almost essential. So just. idfk. think about that or some shit. Just because you disagree with people doesn't mean you have to treat them like shit. Anyway, all that shit being said, trans men are hotter because they're trans lmao

"Trans men are just so much hotter cause they're trans!!!" Nasty fetishizing ass bitches

#long post #is this essay even for op? i dont know #does this even make sense? i dont know #this is for anybody who reads it and finds some meaning in it lmao #tc.txt

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Anyway trans men are hotter because they’re trans

"Trans men are just so much hotter cause they're trans!!!" Nasty fetishizing ass bitches

#also we have the same name we legally have to date now #you're sam the transmed im sam the tucute..... we can have a homoerotic rivlary with lots of tension

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Mental breakdowns. I’ve had them. Anyway does anyone wanna hear a cool fact about trees?

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this might be a take too hot for tumblr but I think that some people should just be banned from drawing trans men all together. doesn’t matter if you’re trans yourself, if you’re doing this I think you need to stop

#and this isnt to say that drawing trans men with breasts or more feminine bodies is wrong #no its fine to do that #but when its so fetishistic............ get some help #put the pen down and reevaluate your life #tc.txt #ask to tag

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Oh shit which picrew was that if you still know I'd rather not make/keep making ones from that person either

its this one >https://picrew.me/image_maker/220823 i looked a bit into the creator but then stopped because I felt sick lmao I can't stand gore

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idk man i dont think this bullshit could exist on any other site

Hey, I know you had no way of knowing this, but I looked into the creator of the first picrew you used since I thought the art was nice and it's all... very very yikes to say the least, I wouldn't recommend posting the guy's stuff anymore. In fact, I'd even go as far as saying you should delete it. Turns out he's an ace exclusionist, posts uncensored and untagged irl gore as an aesthetic, kins from kil/li/ng st/al/kin/g, and just... yikes its so bad

what the fuck what the fuck what the fuck what the fuck are you kidding me this is all so incredibly real why are people always such genuine fucking freaks what is wrong with people

#this is why im so inactive #why are we here? just to suffer? #everyday I log onto tumblr and I see killing stalking kinnie ace exclusionists who fetishize irl gore

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Hey, I know you had no way of knowing this, but I looked into the creator of the first picrew you used since I thought the art was nice and it's all... very very yikes to say the least, I wouldn't recommend posting the guy's stuff anymore. In fact, I'd even go as far as saying you should delete it. Turns out he's an ace exclusionist, posts uncensored and untagged irl gore as an aesthetic, kins from kil/li/ng st/al/kin/g, and just... yikes its so bad

what the fuck what the fuck what the fuck what the fuck are you kidding me this is all so incredibly real why are people always such genuine fucking freaks what is wrong with people

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As someone who ain't used to cold I feel your pain about freezing one's ass off

I'm super used to it lol it's just hitting the negs consistently where I live now so there's not much I can do to escape it anymore lmao, no amount of layered sweaters and parkas can keep me warm enough to do a whole trail it feels like. but then again im like all skin and bones basically the wind goes right through me

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Its been a while since you've posted, how are you doing? (Not to say you're obligated to post on here, i just hope youre well ^^)

No need to worry! I'm alive and well, just haven't been caring about tumblr bullshit as much. I think it's really unhealthy, and, idk, while I like having followers and all I wasn't exactly in a great place when I was super active on this blog so it can be hard to bring myself to post ngl buuuut that being said I'll probably start being more active again now that it's winter since I can't really hit the trails as much anymore without freezing my ass of lmaoo

#anonymous

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I feel like I’m a billion years late to this picrew thing (like I am with most things) but uh. I made myself in a few. (1, 2, 3)

#tc.txt #picrew

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I'm non-binary and it was recently pointed out to me I show symptoms of autism I am dying how am I meant to exist at school next year?

The same way you existed before duh. I don't want to be rude but your "signs of autism" where always there and always part of you, so nothing about the way you function is going to change and, yeah, you're probably going to get misgendered but welcome to school that's just how it is on this bitch of an earth. You're gonna do assignments, go to classes, walk around the halls, eat lunch, and then go home and wait for the weekend every week it's going to be normal. Not fun, but normal. You won't die it'll be alright. School's school. It sucks for everyone.

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I saw a screenshot of one of your posts on /lgbt/ (regarding you being nondysphoric binary trans) and am intrigued. Im truscum dysphoric nonbinary and wanted to ask a couple q's. first: most non-crazy truscum don't deny the validity of nondysphoric trans people (you know maybe not counting the ones that dress with their agab depending on the individual). They just say "well they are just mis-classifying their gender dysphoria as something else". What's your opinion on that?

My hot take is something I've explained at length on here before and it's that none of y'all are using the medical definition of gender dysphoria and are instead using dysphoria to mean dissonance/disconnect

Gender Dysphoria is a medical term defined by being distressed about your biological sex because there is a disconnect between it and your gender. If you have a disconnect between your sex and gender but you don't feel distressed, you don't have dysphoria. It's that simple.

I'm just using words properly.

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I love you too

Me: is a feminine trans guy

Tucutes: (break in through my window and draw me like this)

Cred @/too cute foryou

#dude wtf

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This post is literally a year old what happened NOW

Why does everybody suddenly hate that fish guy? Whats going on with this tungle user i-am-a-fish discourse???

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I can't stop thinking about that freak tord blog

#tc.txt #every now and then i check back to see if its real or if i hallucinated it