#y’all preach acceptance and breaking the binary

[vampstel]

LGBT discourse will never not make me both uncomfortable and pissed off

#꒰ v’s rambling ꒱ #This is specifically about an actor who got forced to come out as bi because people were accussing him of queerbaiting #It’s just #so messed up #no one owes you their sexuality #or gender identity #That’s all that needs to be said #but also #It’s just weird seeing so many queer people throw this term around assuming someone’s straight simply because… #they aren’t queer-presenting enough?? #or aren’t labeled/haven’t come out yet?? #Like what the fuck?? #y’all preach acceptance and breaking the binary #but then try to force heteronormativity on anyone that doesn’t fit your criteria of being queer #Do you hear yourselves?? You’re saying the same bs homophobes spout #‘break the binary’ but god forbid if you see a person you suspect to be cishet break gender norms #‘break the binary’ but also ur gonna use it as a guide to invalidate others and force them into a box #which is literally what you say you’re against #Please just… make up your mind? #I’m just. yeah no I’m done