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#what does a healthy frienship look like? is there meant to be a GOAL here? is a healthy frienship supposed to serve a PURPOSE?
hopefullyababe
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2 years
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i have no clue if im doing any of this right.
#daphnes talking again
#LIKE BESTIES. WHAT IS A FRIENDSHIP SUPPOSED TO LOOK LIKE.
#how much informantion is like. too much information. and how much leaning is too much leaning?
#like? i dont want to bog anyone down. but i dont mind it when people tell me about their struggles. is that an uneven balance?
#people seem so uncomfortable when i try to talk about MY shit tho. ukno? maybe i just made a rep for myself being optimistic
#shits been. kinda rough. and i cant make it feel better and i feel like i cant talk to anyone.
#or like. i guess i can. but when then? now ive just spread my shit and i STILL feel like garbage. i dont need advice so why would i. ukno.
#share.
#ugh. im being such an asshole. im sorry :(
#i just feel generally like garbage.
#anyway. i dont. really know whats supposed to be a healthy friendship. i like supporting people but i dont really know where the line is
#supposed to be. where are you supposed to draw your boundries? how much leaning is too much leaning?
#im so bad at finding the balence btwn being overbearing and being absent. like. jesus i had no idea i was my mother until i started having
#friends. this is so fucking difficult for no reason.
#i love havibg friends. i just don't know whats healthy and what isnt. what are the patterns youre supposed to look for?
#what does a healthy frienship look like? is there meant to be a GOAL here? is a healthy frienship supposed to serve a PURPOSE?
#is there a singular right answer?
#or is there a whole bunch of archetypes i can base things off of? are there friendship catagories?
#what are the traits of a toxic friendship? and further: is it possible to fix one?
#I GENUINELT DONT KNOW. are there friendship experts? are there people who know about these things?
#what is someone meant to gain from a frienship? is there a gain? or is it simply a 'this makes me less lonely' type of thing?
#what sorts of things am i MEANT to be talking about with friends? am i meant to talk about myself more? am i meant to listen to them more?
#GOD. GOD /FUCKING/ DAMMIT.
#SOMEONE GIVE ME A FUCKING LIST TO CHECK OFF.
#hi sorry i should tag this actually
#negative vibes
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