#we don’t judge also us

[archivomeow]

“We don’t judge!!!” also us:

#memes #criminal minds #criminal minds memes #criminal minds evolution #jennifer jareau #spencer reid #best friends #we don’t judge also us #jennifer jareau and spencer reid #jeid #jeid memes #meme

[coffeeandcalligraphy]

I love literary fiction sm but sometimes it got me overthinking the most basic sentences of all time like ma’am it’s not that deep I love unimpressive sentences I love basic language I love sparsity I love simple imagery I love letting the connective moments in a story be connective

#this is a me issue it’s not a blanket about all literary fiction looool #maybe it’s also part writing school and wanting to make every sentence impressive #but like no #no one is judging u for a simple sentence #at least I don’t ever think abt that or judge other ppl’s writing because of that???? #like I don’t judge writing period LOL but #I used to be such a literary fiction little shit oh god I wanna push the old me overboard #so it’s not really literary fiction that makes me feel this way more the culture in which we talk about it #and the culture in which a lot of writing craft in the west was steeped in

[gaytobymeres]

York train station, a cold November Sunday 2023

Taken on Rollei 35S on Ilford HP5 film

#I got my first roll of black and white film back!! it was fun but I’m not used to thinking in black and white. if that makes sense. #also I love colour so much but I’m really thrilled with b+w and I’m excited to use it more #photography #my photgraphy #rollei35 #photographers on tumblr #<- I feel weird using that tag but. oh well. now the requisite tags are out the way let me carry on my ramble #again I’m not sure if I got the exposure right because once again I was just going by vibes #which is fine when it’s brilliantly sunny but it was pretty overcast when I took these #and it was freezing. so no way was I fumbling around with my camera and my phone when I couldn’t feel my fingers #I love taking pictures so much guys #very fun #might post more we shall see #I won’t spam you or inundate you #maybe :) #oh my god I think tumblr has killed the quality </3 #okay might repost when I’m home #don’t judge me pls

[enigma-the-anomaly]

average meta follower realizing characters often have roles and different things they excel at and can usually be viable if you know how to utilize them

#saw smth saying himeko was the worst five star but is now top tier #she was always good we just didn’t have a lot of opportunities for erudition to shine on release #I don’t have himeko but it’s like this with sampo too #Sampo was always good yall just didn’t bother using him until you needed a dot dealer to put in a team w kafka #she didn’t make sampo viable she just made you realize Sampo is good #I have a fully built sampo and no Kafka and guess what? he doesn’t need her to be good #also I feel like a lot of ppl judged him on his immediate dmg output. like the dmg he does immediately after striking #when most of his dmg output actually comes from dot which you have to wait to see happen #and gamers have short attention spans and this didn’t know Sampo’s dot was destroying enemies as soon as it was their turn

[night-triumphantt]

Top nine shows!

@cashweasel beloved tagged me, this list absolutely is suffering from recency bias but also I have adhd don’t ask me my favorite anything’s I don’t know (also like, right after posting I got tagged by @sysba nd @likesomethingblooming beloveds mfhskdjskd) 😘😘

I feel like, I don’t know who to tag, so sorry fjskdjsks

#the last two tag games I’ve been tagged in are half finished sitting in my drafts I’m so sorry Erin and Ross #I will do better for y’all lolll #@ Lou #bint el hotel was on urs and has to be on mine for the sole reason that I enjoyed watching w u #it was shit and there was entirely too much time spent not in the hotel #but it holds a special place in my heart shout out the the gido we love him #also himym is a comfort show don’t judge me lolll #I don’t watch the last season #OMG NEW GIRLLLLLL #WAIT #I forgot ab itttttt #new girl is another comfort show #the rest I feel like are actually just good shows that I would rewatch again 10/10 #had to use S2 bridgerton poster bc it is my favorite #their chemistry was insane

[ohlovxr]

Cleo in my head is a calico with pretty green eyes! But I can totally see her being solid black too, but she totally has little spots on her belly that Steven loves to poke when they are playing together. If Marc is fronting, he says the amount of belly spots she has equals the amount of brain cells she has. Jake doesn't pay much attention to the spots, he prefers to give Cleo head scratches or just chill with her on his lap.

When Cleo was a kitten if she wasn't hanging on Steven's neck, her favorite place to be was in his shirt pocket. She loves the attention and the ability to see what is going on, or to curl up and sleep. She is much bigger now but totally still stands on shoulders. Much to Marc's displeasure, considering she uses extra claws when she jumps up, and usually happens when he is leaning down to kiss you.

no bc cleo as a calico cat with literal sparkling green eyes is so cute too omg!!! the belly spots thing pls that’s so steven and marc accurate - but seriously, jake’s so chill with cleo. they literally just vibe 24/7 and no one can tell me any different.

the shirt pocket!!! also also also when she was little kitten, you and steven would wash her in a mug in the sink - if that cat could have a core memory, it’d be of her getting cooed at by her two kitten-lovestruck parents whilst floating in a warm water and soap filled mug. every now and then, now that she’s bigger, she hops up onto the counter and stares at the sink longingly whenever someone’s using it. you, steven, and even jake find it cute, but she’s knocked over one too many cups of marc’s coffee for him to find it anything other than irritating (it’s never knocked over on accident. it’s because she purposely nudges the cup a bit too hard in retaliation when she’s trying to communicate “put me in there and wash me, dammit!” and doesn’t get what she wants).

#fun fact my dad used to have a calico cat #sadly he had to give her up bc my sister’s allergic to cats #don’t judge the mug in the sink also I CAN EXPLAIN #my second dog used to be so small when he was a puppy and we used to wash him in a mug so we didn’t overwhelm him with a huge tub and stuff #lol that’s it #disclaimer: the mug was only used for that purpose from then on #i think my mom kept it as a keepsake bc she’s obsessed with him specifically lolol #steven grant x reader #marc spector x reader #jake lockley x reader #the cleo-verse

[rosicheeks]

Dhxnsnskxmsksnkxnx

#idk what emoji to even use right nowwww #so my new friend???? I think I can call her that now #ahhhh I haven’t had a new friend in agesssss #but she texted me a lil bit ago super randomly and invited me over to her place to get high and do some Halloween props for her party #and she invited me over on sat cause she’s having people over for grilling and games #and I’m like #?!?!?!?!!!!!!! #I have a friend #???????? #but idkkk now I’m getting anxious over what I texted lmao #I’m like rereading the texts and thinking what I should have said #but at least I sent a funny gif #so I give myself points for that #it was the cute lil girl who says ‘it’s frickin bats - I love Halloween’ with paper bats above her #I thought it was a perfect gif lol #but hopefully she thinks I’m funnyyyyyyy #I also said something about her bf and I hope they don’t take it the wrong way? #he said he would help and I made a joke and was like ‘well if he gets bored he can always play games while we get high and do the props’ #cause he doesn’t smoke #I don’t think he judges but then sometimes he says things and I’m like ?????? why would you say that lol #cool dude but he’s way too smart for me so most of the things he says goes right over my head lmaooo #ok ok ok #Rosie #calm yourself #it’s okayyyyy #if they didn’t like you they wouldn’t invite you over it’s fiiiiiine #gonna smoke a lil bowl and play my adventure time Bloons game cause I addicted 😇 #hope you guys are having a good night!!! (or morning/day depending on where you are) #if you read all this send me an ask and tell me what you’re doing and what you’re thinking about and uhhhhh your fav color 🥰🫶 #shut up rosie

[pepprs]

ok mutuals be honest. should i “break up” w my counselor over these texts yes or no

#purrs #i don’t have the spoons to type much let alone reply to anybody ESPECIALLY not him bc this fucking pissed me off so bad i have been too #angry to reply. like what the fuck is this. im going through a hard time right now so why are you judging me for wanting us to talk about #that instead of me doing your stupid little homework assignment. i just feel so judged by him all the time and i can’t work up the courage #to tell him or end things. but i am actually dreading talking abt this new development / topic w him anyways bc the last time we talked abt #it he judged and pushed me so hard and i got SOOOOO angry but also maybe he was right and just saying thigns i didn’t want to hear and then #his supervisor got sick and he said he had this plan for us to do the erikson thing and we’ve barely started it and i feel so bad bc i #genuinely think it could work but i just don’t mesh well with him. but it’s like i should give it a try and stick it out bc there’s only a f #few months left and what if things get better. and also ihavent given him any indication of how unhappy ive been w him as my counselor and i #don’t want to spring it on him out of nowhere. but no we’ve been working together since October and i don’t feel seen or supported by him at #all an di know i have to leave bc i deserve better but things are so bad rn and my brain has been broken all weekend and i just don’t have t #the strength and idk what to reply or if i should but i think everyone is probably gonna say i need to leave him and i think you’d be right. #delete later #i truly do not have the mental capacity to rn but if u go thru my other purrs posts i talk abt some of the shit he’s done that has just been #building and building and i know i need to do smth about it bc it’s not okay. but im so scared.

[touchlikethesun]

my flatmate uses 4chan a lot and tonight he wanted to share with me some of the fucked up threads (just titles) mostly just to try and shock me. i really hope i’m a convincing actor, because i’ve spent way too much time on the internet for anything he said to shock me.

#pretending i don’t know what these words mean smh #people irl now have such a different image of me and that’s funny to me #in my head i’m still that really cringe chronically online weeb that i was at 13 #but apparently people irl don’t think that of me #one time someone was like oh i’m not sure if we should say this around you in case you judge us #and like… i’m hurt that you’d think i’d judge you anyways but also if you knew the things i’ve seen growing up online… #…let’s just say there’s no way you’d be worrying about MY judgement

[chryzure-archive]

“omg, terrifier is a great movie to watch at our halloween get-together!” it’s not. you were terrified of autopsy of jane doe. you were terrified of malignant. terrifier is way gorier than both and also way bleaker than both.

#also one of our friends is terrified of horror movies??? there’s a reason i was recommending coraline and corpse bride #it’s okay to love horror!! but also be cognizant of other ppl’s preferences and boundaries #like i think from beyond is a great horror movie… but i’m not showing that to a 14 year old #i love hereditary but i’m not showing that to my friend that was scared reading coraline #and i don’t judge ppl that get scared from that sort of thing #it lets me watch a more chill horror-adjacent film. sometimes hardcore horror is fun and other times it’s not #idk i jst think my friend’s sibling sometimes hears that i love horror and leans too far into it #i like horror but i’m not like…. a Horror Fan ™️….. i jst like watching fucked up movies about fucked up things with fucked up ppl #because of the narrative choices and concepts they use #i also think there’s a difference of taste to be had between the movies we like because i… HATE terrifier #it’s so empty and devoid of soul (intentionally—i think that’s part of the vision and i appreciate it) #and it doesn’t make me feel like i’ve left happy… #i’m rambling. but essentially: be aware of your friends’ limits and don’t try to enforce your own upon them #esp not at a friendly get together……… #in the end that friend watched hereditary and said she couldn’t sleep for a while and i was horrified her friends made her watch it #i had so many other horror movies i could’ve shown her first that wouldn’t be as jarring #the others for one!!! the conjuring for another!!! like the others isn’t frightening so much as it is a mystery #and the conjuring has a very optimistic ending!! like!!!!! #please please please talk to me before other friends convince you to watch a horror movie 😭 i’ll give you a realistic understanding of how #that movie will fuck you up 😭 #memorie.txt

[richardnixonbutagirl]

my crush asked me if I was a cheerleader when I was in high school and I had to admit that I didn’t even go to high school <3 just normal girl things

#it was because I mentioned pom poms and bringing in my old toy ones to cheer on my friend #we were sitting on the same table #I asked if I could move his backpack so that I could sit down because I was tired and had cramps and he so sweetly said ‘yes of course!’ #and moved it himself which is the bare minimum of decency but like he just was so soft spoken oh jeez #I told him that I wasn’t homeschooled because of any weird religious reasons #and he jokingly said ‘tell us about the flat earth Natalie’ #just some very normal things that gave me butterflies today!! #he also was judgmental of dudes that date way younger women so wonk wonk I don’t have a chance #and he imitated a raccoon and ate candy like Warren Beatty ate that carrot in bugsy #just to make me laugh <3 #and I took off my pants again today and he didn’t even flinch because he’s already seen me naked oh silly Natalie #also I was modeling for my friend and he took some test shots while I was talking incessantly about Clint Eastwood go figure #and he was concerned about my lack of sleep! and he said that he hated that some dudes had made me uncomfortable! #and he HARSHLY judged the middle aged man I was trying to have a thing with when I was 19 #and uh uh uhhhh #what else #you know I really should just keep a diary like a normal person #whatever anyway it was a nice day even without him because I had fun with my friends even though I was dog tired #also the boy who asked me out before is messaging me and he BEAMED when he saw me today but idk that’s also just how he smiles #so maybe it means nothing #personal

[quibbs126]

Out of curiosity, where does the Cookie Run fandom generally stand in terms of the writing of the series, whether we’re talking about Ovenbreak, Kingdom or both?

Like, is it considered good, great, does is have good elements but there are some flaws in the execution, is the writing flawed but with some good bits here and there (basically the more negative version of the last one), is it just considered bad? What’s the consensus on the quality of the writing?

I’m pretty bad at judging for myself so I just want to know

#also judging the quality of the writing is useful for theory crafting #so you know how likely a series will go down a good or bad route with the potential plot points #I’m pretty sure we’re on the more positive end of the spectrum #but I can’t be sure #I don’t see a lot of things discussing the writing of this franchise #it’s usually about either analyzing a character or pointing out flaws in how the fandom reacts to/interprets a character #so I don’t really have a good grasp #I would love to know though #cookie run #cookie run kingdom #cookie run ovenbreak #I mean personally I enjoy the writing #and I like how we have characters with nuance and complexity to them (even if that doesn’t apply to all) #questions

[starlooove]

I think Dick Duke and Damian would be a hilarious trio

#them as a trio would be so funny #bc ppl UNDERSTAND why Dick has to wrestle to control Damian #they get why he has to coo at him that murder is not a proper punishment for a thief but he’s glad that he’s not suggesting torture now #they don’t get why he has tell Duke that maybe he should go down a few more stories before jumping off that skyscraper ok? #hey signal maaaaybe we should shoot the grapple before we jump? or at least before we’re seconds from hitting the ground? thanks. #and it’s funny bc dick himself is a terrible role model for all these things #do as I say not as a I do headass #and I fully believe Duke goads him into doing more stupid shit #it didn’t work when Jason did it bc alll that history… #and it doesn’t work with Damian bc dick will forever see him as 12 smh my head #duke tho? absolutely 100% let’s his responsibilities drop around Duke #they can just have FUN together yknow? #like Duke is part of his family and he cares Abt him but he’s also not privy to all the unspoken things in Wayne manor #and he doesn’t care to be #that’s how the entire family honestly feels about Duke #they can let their pasts go and just be themselves around him #bc he WILL judge heavily #but he also looks at them NOW and knows they’re better than they used to be #that they’re trying #and that’s enough for him #not on some therapist Duke type shit btw don’t bring that shit here #something something dukes powers almost being a literal extension of himself and the way he sees people for what they can be despite who #they have been. there’s a fic Abt that I just remembered I need to go reread it now #anyways yeah Duke is everyone’s favorite but especially dick and Damian’s and they get up to all sorts of fuckshit together #oh but this can go even further actually bc part of Dukes hope for his parents IS the future but he’s also tied down by the past bc he knows #with each passing day week month they get more and more different and things will never be the same and he’s tied to the past in a way he’s #never been before and he’s not used to it. Duke has ALWAYS been about what he can do for tomorrow how he can change now if he doesn’t like #it. #he’s stuck in the past and he doesn’t know how to get out because it’s NEVER been like this before #I think Jason would help a lot here. my Duke is to Jason what Damian is to dick agenda

[persimmonlions]

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#i genuinely genuinely think that louis has the best possible team /for him/ around him rn #they understand his goals and are willing to make them happen #(afhf could not have happened if his team were not totally onboard. festivals are incredibly hard) #(esp since seven7 and wasserman were directly involved in it) #plus matt vines is doing a LOT of introductions for louis. a bunch of writers on lt2 are people he knows well #and at least one member of louis’ band also knew matt vines first #i think the main thing we don’t like is very likely something louis’ team has no direct control over #(remember how matt vines was talking about louis x factor judging?) #louis has made it very clear he wants to be an ‘indie’ artist #and that means that his promo strategy is going to look different from what pop fans are used to #// #louis tomlinson #seven7 #wasserman

[overbearingstruggles]

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#had to serve jury duty for the first time and people are dramatic but it’s not that bad! like if it’s not a hardship it’s whatever #but the case involved a convicted felon allegedly having possession of a gun and ammo which is illegal in my state #and a handful of men (only ever men huh) got tossed for saying they believe so strongly in 2A that this particular law is not one they feel #they can abide by. because despite the prior felony they believe people should still have a right to a gun #and so the lawyers and judge would always ask everyone else on the panel if they will abide by/make judgements based on laws as is #even if they don’t believe in the law #and guyssss if ending Roe taught me anything it’s that laws can fucking change and quite possibly for the great bad! #I didn’t bring this up because I knew I was getting booted for ACAB vibes but it helped me understand that one day you might actually have #to break a law to save a life. laws can be fucking bad and morally you have to do what you have to do #idk maybe this is a dumb epiphany and I’m late but I’ve thought about it a lot #also. a few years ago I would’ve hated these 2A dudes but after ~the world I don’t anymore #I mean we have a real fucking problem with guns no shit and the laws don’t even try to regulate #but aye you might need to protect yourself from the protectors one day and maybe we can change the culture of guns #instead of whatever I used to think #anyways I have a bit of a moral dilemma ab not actively trying to be picked but having to lie about trusting cops wasn’t gonna be it for me

[haml3t]

10 minutes away from her putting me under to sterilize me the anesthesiologist asks “so you’re done having kids?” and I say god no - I have none, and the point of the surgery is to make it permanently this way. She gives me a dirty look and says “I used to feel that way” I don’t care how you feel about anything, much less this procedure or childless women, but it is pretty great to imagine this bothering her all night that she had to be a part of this 😸

#fuck you #in contrast the surgeon said verbatim: 'you don’t want these parts. you’re not using them. let’s get rid of them! 😁’ #also: 'it sounds like you never want kids and you’re sure. great! we are not here to judge you it's your decision‘ #‘our job is only to deal with the medical side of this and explain any possible complications' #a childless bisexual woman in her early 20's sterilized by an openly gay man it was a beautiful day!