#tradgays

[tradgays]

The Alpha male, being a learned man, sat back as he read one of his many classic novels. Meanwhile his charming Beta male spouse prepared the perfect meal for him in the kitchen.

#tradgay #tradgays #gay

[vintagegoodytwoshoes]

Wild to think that they had a been in a queer core punk band before. Leather jackets, shredded t-shirts, Doc Martens, dyed hair, nose rings: absolute rebels in every way. Loud, brash, fiercely independent.

Of course, their neighbor was a different sort of man: older, more traditional. And he wanted the men in his neighborhood to be traditional too. He was a retired parapsychologist, a former employee of the state department who worked on one of those secret programs to brainwash people. He had kept quite a bit of his research.

And so, when he hid the radio emitter in the backyard of the punk boys’ house, they never noticed how their brain waves were being subtly reprogrammed into a much more old fashioned way of thinking. Soon, the tattered clothing and denim vests covered in patches were gone. The boys started wearing nice high waisted slacks that came up to their ribs. Every day they buttoned up a dress shirt so sheer, you could see the white a-shirt through it. And of course, this was accompanied by a well tied bow tie. At first the men were confused by this desire, but soon they gave in as their reprogramming went deeper. Now they thought nothing of spending the afternoon ironing their white briefs for the week.

Their neighbor delighted in the change. As he peered out his window, he saw the boys return from a trip to the barbershop. Gone we’re the dyed mullets, replaced by naturally colored quiffs slicked with so much pomade, you could see the reflection of the sky in them. They truly looked as old fashioned as possible.

Soon, they began acting as old fashioned as possible. Their brash rebelliousness nature melted away as they became polite, timid, and meek. They couldn’t even look their neighbor in the eye as they shuffled past him on the street, saying “excuse me sir.” They called him “sir!” Can you believe it? These former rebels now intimidated by their elders!

And while the men had once been loud and proud about their sexuality, it now retreated as they adopted a more traditional attitude towards it. They were practically in the closet, and too chaste to do anything about their desires anyway.

No longer did they attend concerts; instead they attended church. No longer did they listen to punk rock; instead they listened to polka. No longer did they shred on a guitar; now they played accordions at the VFW to entertain the veterans.

The neighbor was impressed at the transformation. He delighted in seeing his neighbors live every day like obedient nerds from the 1950s. Everything had been a success and made some excellent data. The man grinned, knowing he could increase the amplitude on his next design, and soon, every man in town would be living as traditionally as his neighbors.

#vintage #vintage men #becomevintage #vintagemen #traditional masculinity #1950s aesthetic #1950shousehold #gaytf #tradmasc #reject modernity embrace tradition #thepastisyourfuture #gaytrad #tradgay #cleancut #vintage transformation

[jnd300001]

My husband recorded me churning butter to go with the bread I baked while wearing the gym shorts I sewed. Putting the homosexual in homesteading

#gay #muscle #tradgay

[asatraditionalman]

Why, even a man ought to learn the art of cooking! Self-sufficiency is a worthy goal for every gentleman. Indeed, he may also win the favor of other traditional men whose palates prefer the wholesome tastes of the 1950s.

Good vintage food need not be bland, difficult or expensive. If you’re having trouble finding a recipe, you can browse a selection of diverse cookbooks at archive.org. I for one am a fan of Chicken à la King with Biscuit Patty Shells from the Rumford Complete Cook Book.

#vintage #vintage men #tradmasc #becomevintage #become vintage #traditional masculinity #vintagemen #1950s aesthetic #1950s household #gaytf #reject modernity embrace tradition #thepastisyourfuture #tradgay #gaytrad #vintage transformation #traditional man

[tradgay]

I’m makin some new tags!!!

Hi I’m Connor! I’m a gay trans guy and I love cottagecore, farmcore and things like that. I have looked a bit into the trad community as I had an idea. Because of all the racism, sexism and LGBT+ phobia associated with the tradwife and tradfem tags I thought up some for people like me who want to live on a farm in the woods and grow your own food and take care of farm animals that show you like living traditionally in that sense and not in like having a “traditional marriage” and living to certain gender roles. Things like: #tradgay #tradtrans #tradpoc #tradinclusive. Feel free to make variations on these types of tags to fit you and your identity.

#tradgay #tradtrans #tradpoc #tradinclusive #tradfem #tradwife #trad community #farmcore #cottagecore

[twofacedbitchesneverlie]

#tradgay #religious #amen 🙏🙏🙏

[r0kita]

i wonder if TradGay is a thing

#txt

[mitigatedchaos]

The year is 2064.  It has been 26 years since the United States of America collapsed in the Justice War, replaced by the Special Action District by order of the World Court as punishment for its sins.  The last surviving members of the Alt Right are a group of buff tradgay paramilitary cyborgs existing in the forgotten Undercity of New York.  They have just radicalized a group of trapwives into spreading the WHITEOUT virus into major Population Replenishment Centers...

You are detective GEOF BAILEY, an agender multiple system cyborg and member of the New York SAD Police, tasked with ensuring the interjustice of the last metropolis in the land that used to be known as America.  Can you stop the last fascist remnants of a dead country from destroying the diversity of the city?

Shining Darknet Entertainment presents...

W H I T E O U T

#shtpost #the year is #augmented reality break #mitigated fiction #mitigated future #don't take this seriously

[tradgays]

When the softness of a beta male combines with the resilience of an Alpha male, those two halves make a whole.

#tradgay #tradgays #power exchange

[tradgays]

Christian Domestic Discipline for Gay Married Couples

Today we’re discussing an important and exciting topic: setting a Godly foundation in your marriage. It’s completely natural and understandable that, as two men, you might worry about whether or not your marriage is deemed as Godly. But we’re here to tell you that it absolutely can be, and the way to do that is by creating a relationship in which one person is the leader and the other is the follower.

Let us start from what the bible tells us about a godly marriage. In Ephesians 5:22, it reads 'Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord'. This means that there must be a certain hierarchy in the relationship. It is the husband that has the authority and is to be obeyed. In the same way, this concept can be applied to gay couples. One should be the head of the household, and the other the obedient follower.

Introducing Christian Domestic Discipline (CDD) is a way to ensure obedience and submission from the follower. In a marriage, CDD is used to discipline the follower when certain rules are broken. It can range from mild spanking to harsher punishments such as paddling or birching. As it is written in Proverbs 13:24 “Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him”, it is important for the leader to maintain his authority.

When the follower has been disciplined by his husband, he should submit obediently. He is to remember that he is not being punished for no reason. No matter how intense the physical punishment gets, he should take it and never rebel against his husband.

It is also important for the follower to serve his husband in other ways. He should be putting in an effort to keep the house clean and tidy and to help with any tasks that the husband needs help with.

Serving sexually is also essential to a Gay Christian marriage. The follower should always be willing to meet his husband's sexual needs. As it is written in 1 Peter 3:7: “Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers”.

When the follower serves his husband, he serves God and is blessed by God. As it is written in 1 Peter 4:10 Criticizing “For whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength which God supplies–in order that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom belong the glory and the dominion forever and ever”

It is very important for the follower to have a sincere obedience and submission to his husband as it pleases God. As it is written in Ephesians 5:24: “as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing”.

We hope that this article has helped to shed some light on Christian Domestic Discipline and how it fits into a Gay Christian marriage. Having one man as leader and the other as follower is essential to a successful marriage. The follower should accept his punishments obediently, serve his husband sexually, and obey whatever his husband asks of him as it in turn pleases God.

May God bless your marriage and may it be a happy and successful one.

#tradgay #tradgays

[tradgays]

How Gay Men Can Embrace Traditional Masculinity

Part of a tradgay lifestyle, at least for the Alpha male, is to embrace traditional masculinity.

Unfortunately society has often boxed gay men into a certain stereotype. You should be empowered to break through these constraints and realize the manly power you truly have.

Here are some tips for fully realizing your masculinity:

Be Authentic

As you choose to embrace a more masculine way of being it should be done in a way that is authentic for you.

Don’t be that guy who is always trying to prove something to everyone- you’ll only look like a fool.

Each man is unique, so find the masculine qualities that work best for you. Make a list of your most feminine and most masculine attributes.

Accept your “feminine side” and don’t try to change it, then focus on how you can further develop your most masculine traits.

Masculine Aesthetic

Adopt a masculine way of dress and grooming. Grow some facial hair, hit the gym and tone your body a bit.

Don’t wear any obnoxious clothing with bright colors or androgynous presentation. Think neutral tones for t-shirts, hoodies, sweaters, and jeans. Invest in some nice boots or a leather jacket to complete the look.

Masculine Interests, Hobbies, & Skills

Many gay men were deprived of traditionally masculine activities growing up. Adulthood can be a time to explore your manhood freely.

Tune in to some sporting events and see if any appeal to you. Find a local gay recreational sports team (plenty of cities have gay rugby, bowling, or baseball teams).

If you like the outdoors consider camping, hiking, fishing, or hunting. Farming, yard work, and gardening can be an integral part of a tradgay life, too.

And don’t forget to learn some traditionally masculine skills: carpentry, home repairs, and car maintenance.

Wear the Pants in the Relationship

In dating relationships, remember it’s imperative to take charge and lead. You’re the Alpha, your partner is the beta.

Be chivalrous: open doors, pay the tab, talk sweetly to your boy. And be the one who makes decisions, plans dates, and subtlety lets him know who’s boss.

#tradgay #tradgays #gay

[tradgays]

10 Qualities of a Good Househusband

Being a stay-at-home househusband is no easy job. It requires dedication and an abundance of specific qualities that can make it a successful and rewarding endeavor. As a submissive gay man, if you’re contemplating taking on such a role, here are ten qualities that can make you an exceptional stay-at-home househusband.

1. Patience – Patience is essential as a stay-at-home househusband. Whether faced with challenging recipes or stubborn stains, having the ability to remain calm and persevere is a huge plus. Without this, your role as a househusband could be filled with frustration and regret.

2. Creativity – An imaginative and resourceful mind is just as important as patience. The ability to come up with innovative approaches to everyday tasks can make your role as a househusband an enjoyable one.

3. Attention to Detail – As a stay-at-home househusband, it’s invaluable to be able to pay attention to the details and ensure that all tasks are completed to exact specifications. It could take some time and practice, but being able to notice things others don’t can make you efficient and precise.

4. Multitasking – When tasks pile up, multitasking becomes a necessity. It’s important to be able to handle multiple tasks at once, as well as prioritize and delegate appropriately. This way, you can get everything done in a timely fashion.

5. Flexibility – Flexibility is key in a role as a stay-at-home househusband. Possessing an open mindset and the willingness to adjust to last-minute changes or surprises is important to ensure success.

6. Resilience – As a stay-at-home househusband, life can be hectic at times. It’s important to be able to take on setbacks and failures with resilience and use them as opportunities to improve. Having a positive attitude makes for a better househusband.

7. Humility – Being humble is a virtue, and it’s a particularly important quality if you’re a stay-at-home househusband. Recognizing the limits of your role and humbly serving your husband and your home is invaluable for the success of your role.

8. Punctuality – There’s nothing like being late when it comes to house chores. Punctuality is an important quality in a stay-at-home househusband as it can create a sense of stability and security in the home.

9. Problem Solving – A problem-solving mindset is critical for a stay-at-home househusband. Being able to come up with creative solutions to challenging tasks or making the most of scarce resources is essential for a successful househusband.

10. Compassion – Last but definitely not least, having a compassionate and understanding attitude towards the tasks that await you can make all the difference. Showing empathy can collective add up to make your stay-at-home househusband journey a rewarding one.

Being a stay-at-home househusband is not for the faint of heart. It requires an abundance of specific qualities, but with the right attitude, these qualities can be nurtured and refined. Remember, with enough patience, practice, and dedication, you will be a successful and proud stay-at-home househusband in no time.

#tradgay #tradgays #1950s #gay #lgbt

[tradgays]

Interview with a Tradgay Beta Male

Can you tell me a little about yourself first?

Sure, I'll tell you a bit about myself. I'm a gay man living a traditional, conservative life, and I prefer to have a monogamous marriage with my husband. My husband is the Alpha male, and I take on the role as the beta male. We strive to live a tradgay life, which involves homesteading, limiting our use of technology, attending church, and embracing vintage aesthetics. We both identify as progressives and reject far right politics, but I still enjoy my role as the husband's beta and I'm proud to be a tradgay in the modern world.

How would you define a tradgay life?

To me, a tradgay life is one that strives to make the traditional masculine and feminine roles part of a committed gay relationship. We view our marriage as mutual and equal, where my husband and I each take on roles that serve each other. The Alpha takes on the responsibilities of providing, leading, and protecting, while the beta takes on the responsibilities to serve, obey, and submit. To us, this isn't oppressive or regressive, it's our own unique way of achieving harmony and balance, as well as a powerful demonstration of marital commitment.

The tradgay movement takes inspiration from tradwives, who are associated with the Alt-Right. You’ve described yourself as progressive. How do tradgays differentiate from far right politics?

The tradgay lifestyle is not a political agenda; however, I do want to set the record straight regarding our similarities and differences from tradwives. Our ideas of traditional gender roles and marriage are based on different interpretations of the same values, to which we both pay respect. For example, we both agree that monogamy is an important part of marriage.

The big difference is that tradgays and tradwives adhere to their lifestyles for different reasons, which explains why our lifestyles take on different forms. Tradwives typically have political views that I disagree with; for me, the tradgay lifestyle is a personal and meaningful way for me to be a committed husband to my husband, rather than a political or religious one.

Why does it mean to serve your husband?

At the core of a tradgay lifestyle is the concept of service and obedience to one's husband. As I mentioned before, this isn't about oppression or submission; instead, service is an expression of obedience and commitment between husband and wife. To me, it's about honoring the bond between husband and wife and providing her husband with the support and assistance he needs to pursue his endeavors. It's an expression of love, respect, and devotion, and I take great pleasure and pride in this role.

Some would see submitting to a man as regressive- how would you respond to that?

I reject the idea that submitting to my husband is regressive. As a tradgay, I believe that the traditional model of marital roles is just as relevant in the modern world as it is in the past. I find fulfillment and a sense of purpose in serving my husband; my submission doesn't mean that I'm any less of an equal.

Are the relationships roles in a tradgay life part of kink or BDSM? How are they similar to this?

No, the relationship roles in a tradgay life are not related to kink or BDSM. From my perspective, the two lifestyles have some common values and principles, but they involve different activities and practices. Kink and BDSM are about exploring desire through power and control, while living a tradgay life is more about expressing commitment to your partner, even if there can still be discipline involved.

How does your husband discipline you?

My husband has a few ways of disciplining me, but he typically does so within the same context of service and devotion. He has set a few disciplinary measures for me, such as withholding certain privileges or assigning additional responsibilities. He only uses these measures when I fail to adhere to an agreement or when I make a mistake that might hurt our relationship.

What’s your typical day like as a “wife?”

My typical day as a beta male is pretty straightforward. I do most of the chores from taking the dog out for a walk to cooking dinner and keeping the house clean. I usually take time to spend with my husband, whether it’s talking about our day or having a calm dinner together. I typically don't have a lot of free time, between taking care of the house and obligations from my day job.

What’s the most fulfilling thing about living a tradgay life?

The most fulfilling elements of living a tradgay lifestyle are the bonds that we create with each other. My husband and I value our commitment to one another; living a tradgay lifestyle helps us to reinforce that commitment each and every day. Through the roles that we each take on, I feel loved and respected because I know that my husband cares for me and always has my best interests at heart. And it's a beautiful thing.

#tradgay #tradgays #gay #power exchange #1950s #lgbt #vintage

[tradgays]

When Your Husband Gets Home

If you are a gay stay-at-home husband, there’s some things to do to get ready for your better half’s arrival. Depending on the dynamics of the relationship, there are certain expectations you’re expected to meet.

First of all, it’s important to make sure your husband comes home to a clean and tidy home. This means taking the time to clean and organize the areas of the house he is most likely to see first—the living room, kitchen, and bathroom. This could include running the vacuum cleaner, wiping down the counters and appliances, and making sure the furniture is put back in its place. It’s also important to pick up any clutter lying around the house.

Next, you want to make sure that there is a nice meal prepared. Depending on the size of the household, this could be something small like a stir-fry or something more elaborate like a three-course dinner with a starter, main course, and dessert. Show your husband your appreciation by cooking his favorite dishes and using special ingredients or cooking methods. The presentation of the food should also be taken into account—serve the food in a pleasing way, making sure to use nice plates and utensils to set the right mood.

Finally, you need to make sure that you are physically and sexually available for your husband. This could mean anything from simply giving him a massage after a long day at work to full-on sexual services. If your husband prefers, you can start off his evening by offering him oral pleasure. Make sure to do it in a manner that is pleasing for him and make it clear that your satisfaction comes from pleasing him.

All of these efforts should ultimately show your husband that you are devoted and committed to providing for his every need. When he gets home, if he sees a clean and inviting home, a delicious meal, and a submissive partner, the evening will be off to a great start and your Alpha husband will be sure to appreciate the effort that was put in.

#tradgays #tradgay #gay #gay men #1950s household #1950s housewife #househusband

[tradgays]

Let gay Alpha men be men.

#tradgay #tradgays

[tradgays]

AUDIO SUNDAY SERMON: Trading Pride for Modesty

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#tradgay #tradgays #gay #power exchange