#thats okay!

[catgirlcrisis]

whoopsie-daisie hit reblog too fast

#supporting mental health conditions is not the same as enabling them but god forbid anyone on tumblr have fucking nuance. or care #Please brush your teeth and take a shower and clean your bedroom #if you cant do these things all at once or have trouble doing them #thats okay! #but You have to do them #Ok #You have to do them. And you have to recognize that not being able to them are harmful behaviors #hygiene isnt just about like... its not just superficial? you know? #and youre going to get really sick if you dont! okay! #same with cleaning your room! it can be super dangerous to your health if you never clean up #AND living in clutter is not good for the mental all the time! trust me ive been there #if you have trouble cleaning your room *takes your hand* its okay. so do i #if you have trouble keeping up with your hygiene *takes your hand* its okay. so do i! #but we shouldnt continue to enable these behaviors #and anyone who does and claims to be doing so in interest of supporting 'mental health' is #just a fucking liar #who needs help themselves #imho as someone whos in recovery :/ #Please andastand sometimes you gotta do things that are hard that u dont like because they are good for you and your physical health #as well as your mental health too

[cauli-flawa]

RAGE. AUGHHH. AUUUGHHH UAHGHGHGHGHG UUGHGHAHGAHGGHHHHHH. 

YANDERE DEV DOESNT EVEN KNOW WHAT SENPAI MEANS. HE DOESNT KNOW HOW TO HOLD CHOPSTICKS THE RIGHT WAY. WHAT THE FUCK. WHY.

#yandere simulator #yandere simulator neg #sorry but seeing this stuff makes me SO FUCKING MAD. #its fine if you mispronounce japanese words #its fine if you take your own spin on certain japanese things #thats okay! #but THIS SHIT #MAKIGN A GAME. THAT TAKES PLACE IN JAPAN. WHILE NOT KNOWING WHAT THE WORD SENPAI MEANS #AND HAVING YOUR CHARACTERS CROSS THEIR GODDAMN CHOPSTICKS. IN JAPAN #WHAT THE HELL

[greyeyedmonster-18]

(academics who are officially on holiday break raise your glasses)

#i am so tired #i dont think how much i can repeat that #i am a new level of tire #and i am very much looking forward to just going to work like a normal person #i dont have a day off but #thats okay! #im just going to work! #this is premature #as i am still in zoom class as we speak #but.

[loopie-louy]

TW/CW:scopophobia

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"I..." He paused. "I'm aware now." It whispered. "I just didn't really expect it to be this way!" He continued.

Kuhuhuhuhoo! Isn't L's new hairstyle cute‽ Yeah it's short but it's so cute and curly wurly!! I'm sure Julie would love to help style L's hair, especially for events and occasions! Maybe You would like to join in too?

#welcome home #welcome home oc #I'm here #Hello #Ive seen the others #I like some. they're funny #except for that one #he's so scary when he's sick #but I think it's cute when he's frowny! #Red really suits him! #:) #I also thought poppy being brave was cute! #Sally's cute as a moon #they also wore black too #but they were a bit mean #thats okay! #i still love them! #I kinda miss how things used to be though. #digital aritst #Persona #I #am #aware

[ghostsxagain]

//merry christmas to all those that celebrate today! also happy hanukkah, happy kwanzaa and all the love to every other holiday that happens this time of year that I have not listed. if this is a hard time of year for you (as I'm sure it is for many of us) then I'm sending hugs & kisses to all of you, if you so consent. hang in there lovelies, you got this//

#they say its the happiest time of year and I just dont think thats realistic #I hope everyone tries to have as great a holiday as they can #spend time with family #self care #eat yummy food #do whatever you can to smile today folks #and if you cant? #thats okay! #theres always tomorrow or the day after #laughing my anxiety off {ooc}

[likeawitcher]

Respectfully, some people on here need to learn the difference between bad writing and personal preference

#you dont like something? #thats okay! #that doesnt automatically mean its bad writing tho #op talks

[inkskinned]

what is with men being mad any time a woman raises her voice where did that even come from. someone posted a video of a small electrical explosion, and the top comment was of course the woman screams. the second comment is women try not to scream challenge, level impossible. i had to go back and watch the video again. there is, somewhat fainty, a little gasp emitted off-camera, more of a yelp than a scream. it is mostly lost in the crack of the explosion. afterwards, you hear her voice, shaken, say, are you okay?

i am helping one of my friends train her voice pitch lower, because she wants to be taken seriously at work. she and i do each other's nails and talk about gender roles; and how - due to our appearance - neither of us have ever been able to be "hysterical" in public. we both appear young and sweet and feminine. she is cisgender, and cannot use her natural voice in her profession because people keep saying she appears to be "vapid". we both try to figure out if our purposeful voice lowering is technically sexist. is it promoting something when you are a victim to it?

a storm almost sends a pole through a car window. in the dashcam, you can hear the woman passenger say her partner's name twice, crying out in alarm. she sounds terrified. in the comments, she is lambasted for her lack of calm. how is that even fucking helping?

in high school, i taught myself to have a lower voice. i had been recorded when i was genuinely (and righteously) upset; and i hated how my voice sounded on the phone speakers when it was played back. i was defending my mom, and my voice cracked with emotion. it meant i was no longer winning the argument: i was just shrieking about it.

girls meet each other after a long summer and let out a little joyful scream. this usually stops around 12-14, because people will not tolerate this display of affection (as it has the effect of being passingly annoying). something about the fact that little girls can't ever even be annoying. we are trained to examine each part of our lives (even joy) for anything that could make us upsetting and disgusting. they act like teenage girls are breaking into houses and shrieking you awake at 3 in the morning. speaking as a public school educator: trust me, it's not that bad, you can just roll your eyes and move on. it does not compare to the ways boys end up being annoying: slurs in graffiti, purposefully mocking your body, following you after you said no. you know, just boy things.

there's another video of a man who is not allowed to yell in the house, so he snaps his fingers when he's excited about soccer. the comments are full of angry men, talking about how their brother is unfairly caged. let him express himself and this is terrible to do to someone. eventually the couple has to address it in a second video: they are married with a newborn baby. he was trying not to wake the infant up. there is no comment on the fact women are not allowed to yell indoors. or the fact that it could have been really alarming or triggering for his wife. sometimes i wonder if straight men even like women, if they even enjoy being in relationships with them.

for the longest time, i hated roller coasters because it always felt inappropriate and uncomfortable for me to scream. one of my friends called me on it, said it was unusual i'm so unwilling. i had to go to my therapist about it. i don't like to scream because i was not raised in a safe situation, and raising my voice would have brought unsafe attention towards me. even when i am supposed to scream, it feels shameful, guilty. i was not treated kindly, so i lack a basic form of self-protection. this is not a natural response. it is not good that in a situation of high adrenaline - i shut up about it.

something very bad is happening, i think. in between all the beauty standards and the stuff i've already discussed - this one feels new and cruel in a way i can't quite express. yes, it's scary and silencing. but there's something about how direct it is - that so many men agree with the sentiment that women should never yell, even in an emergency - it feels different.

is the word shriek gendered automatically? how about shrill or screech? in self defense class, one of the first things they tell you is to yell, as loud and as shrilly as you can. they say it will feel rude. most women will not do this. you need to practice overcoming the social pressure and just scream.

most women do not cry out, even when it's bad. we do not report it. we walk faster. we do not make a scene. what would be the point of doing anything else? no matter what we do, we don't get taken seriously. it is a joke to them. an instagram caption punchline. we have to present ourselves as silent, beautiful, captivating - "valuable."

a woman is outside watching her kids when someone throws a firecracker at them. she screams and runs towards her children. in the comments, grown men flock together in the thousands: god. women are so annoying.

#warm up #writeblr #this one has bothered me for a bit #any time a woman does something even passingly annoying we treat it like a fucking crime #hey man. women are allowed to be annoying. everyone forever is allowed to be passingly annoying #as long as they aren't hurting anyone/thing #like u wanna know something? i find it super annoying that men don't wear seatbelts #why arent there thousands of comments on driving videos thats just like : men try not to die in a car crash challenge #''this briefly annoyed me''. okay??????? AND????????????????? go get ur self a cookie and calm down about it #ur not entitled to control other ppl's experiences and emotions just so u can maintain ur own peace #if being briefly annoyed ruins ur whole day! you! need! therapy!!!! #men try not to become immediately angry about nothing challenge: level impossible #ps author is nonbinary. we didn't even get into the gender presentation thing #the fact men think it's SEXY that my voice is on the lower end....

[dillyt]

Great news for uninsured adults in the USA who want a COVID-19 booster! It now appears that ALL CVS locations are now active participants in the Bridge Access Program. The Bridge Access Program gives out free Covid-19 vaccinations to 18+ adults who otherwise can't afford one, so if you have a CVS near you, please go get one! For others who don't have a CVS near them, please go to vaccines.gov, click on "Find Covid-19 vaccines", fill out which vaccines you prefer (you can mix different vaccines if you have to so i reccomend just marking all of them for the age groups you need), and when the next page loads mark the "Bridge Access Program Participant" option to see only locations that are Bridge Access Program participants. Hopefully, other places that aren't CVS will start participating soon, so just check back every so often to see if there are any updates. The CDC Bridge Access Program website also has more details on what locations will be participating, but only CVS is appearing as an active participant on the vaccines.gov location finder at the moment.

#covid19 #covid #coronavirus #vaccines #covid vaccine #bridge access program #CDC #signal boost #please share #coronavirus vaccine #covid19 vaccine #covid 19 vaccine #novavax #moderna #pfizer #also interesting side note but i havent been able to find any vaccine other than novavax near me #perhaps this is just a regional thing or maybe novavax is cheaper to make so those are the most common? #anyway thats why i made sure to tell people its okay to mix up because im going to have to bc i got moderna every other time lol #mayyybe other vaccines will become available in the future??? but ive had close family catch covid left and right so im not waiting #also does anyone know why the bridge program only bridges access to 18 or older individuals? #like i knew the gov didnt care about children but god damn lmao

[jewishfalin]

Hey uhh @/nativenews has been posting antisemitic shit and platforming sketchy tweeters can we maybe stop rbing from them

#they post shit like antisemitic conspiracies and #shit that basically boils down to 'its okay to hatecrime jews on hanukkah cuz thats what they get for a state using jewish imagery to kill' #and then afterwards post a bunch of randomized 'good jews' content to cover for it #like no guys i didnt post antisemitic shit haha look i like THESE jews #yeah thats antisemitic bro

[saintforan]

Oh no, he's turning him into bread!

#art #artists on tumblr #digital art #digital illustration #poppy playtime #poppy playtime 3 #poppy playtime chapter 3 #catnap #dogday #smiling critters #i really need to know how animators do this #i nearly died on this like 2 second gif 😫 #but thats okay tho i learnt how to do something new

[justarandomart]

That's fair

a little comic based on this post by @existencebringsonlypain

#deltarune #dr #kris dreemurr #susie deltarune #kris deltarune #comic #deltarune comic #deltarune fanart #this post got stuck in my head so i had to draw something based on it i hope thats okay #NRart

[sleepis4theweak]

Apparently when my younger brother was just born my mom found him napping with his blanket fully covering him, and she pulled back the sheet (worried he couldn't breathe or something) to find him fully awake staring at her. It scared the shit out of her and she still talks about it to this day lmao

#also in case anyone was wondering about raph and leo having swapped blankets: #I imagine that Raph stole Leo's blanket before nap time so Leo just took Raphs #Then Raph stole Leo's blanket again lol #also Mikey's baby blanket is inspired by mine <3 #<3 <3 <3 #tmnt #tmnt mikey #tmnt raph #tmnt donnie #tmnt leo #tmnt 2012 #raph 2012 #leo 2012 #mikey 2012 #donnie 2012 #tmnt splinter #master splinter #I actually hate drawing splinter he was so hard to draw #this is not as funny as it was in my head but thats okay #sleepy art

[rusticfurnace]

biker ghost from my reckless chains au teehee

#cod mw2 #simon riley #simon ghost riley #call of duty mw2 #biker dudes from tiktok been giving me brainrots lately #also scheduled post cause i will be busy in a couple of days #okay thats it byeeeee

[thatscribblingrat]

dishes time is popworld time stay out of the fucking galley

#one piece #opla #op sanji #op zoro #roronoa zoro #blackleg sanji #dishes time is ho time okay thats just how it is #comics #zosan

[arundolyn]

today i bring you aba stimming. tomorrow? who knows

#aba #paracelsus #guilty gear #guilty gear strive #crow.gif #guilty gif #i love her so bad. fucked up silly little girlthing #huge fan of her and her illness #just hanging around. being sillay #took way too long to notice her shirt is pants it made me giggle. just chopped up some shorts and went Yeah thats a shirt #50 notes in under 20 minutes. i see were all not okay here JFJSJJFX

[verflares]

(click for higher quality!) draconified link concept ive been chipping away at this past week ..... here's my funny little compendium concept for him:

"A heroic spirit has taken the form of this bestial dragon. Unlike it's kin, this creature exhibits an extremely aggressive disposition. It appears highly territorial, and will relentlessly chase down those who disturb its skywide patrols - of which it seems to be endlessly searching for either a long-time vassal or foe. Unfortunately, it seems the spirit within has long since forgotten exactly who it was looking for…"

#now. how on earth do i begin to tag this. um. #link #loz #totk #totk spoilers #light dragon #dragon link #loz au #totk roleswap au #there . i'll add more if they come to me LOL #um i can talk about some of my insps i guess?? might make another post too #so mostly i just dont really like turning him into 'light dragon but male' and giving him slightly darker colours or something like that #this also obviously isnt exactly like the botw dragons either though and its a bit more of a mix of other creature concepts i enjoy #since everyone agrees he'd have a farosh horn i wanted to make him a kirin/unicorn :) which is why his tail looks like that #aside from the obvious eastern dragon insps and what ive picked and chosen from the botw dragons #and obviously this looks a lot like wolf link. thats on purpose #i wanted to give him some fierce deity design refs too but because this is so dark/earthy they didnt look very fitting #but honestly you could do a whole fierce deity dragon design on its own i think #okay lots of tags but IVE THOUGHT ABOUT THIS FOR A WHILE. okay. let me have this. #my art