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terfs just straight-up ignore a good chunk of human existence, don't they?
like, intersex people? nope, sex isn't a spectrum u silly billy! u can just throw everyone in male or female boxes unless they're freaks who can't fit either in which case uh... those don't exist actually! 😅
or like. ohhh so sad all the transmascs who used to be such beautiful lesbians and now we've lost them. oh what transmasc lesbians? uhhh no those don't exist i don't know what you're talking about!
or like 'clocking' people. oh yeah you can totally always tell when someone's trans because they'll have the Wrong Features. yeah no most women of color are actually trans hope that helps! what, me, racist? Noooo, never! anyways everybody i don't like is secretly trans and i know Exactly How To Spot Them. yeah i'm also always right! isn't that wild?
honey. as someone who's got lots of experience with mental gymnastics (retired - that cult shit does some serious damage), let me be the first to tell you that you're not doing yourself any favors.
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terfs keep mentioning the % of autistics who are trans/nb and that we're 'brainwashed'
and because i'm an asshole, i decided to look into why so many autistic folks are trans/nb. it's not an inaccurate statement, at least the first half, but terfs lie through their teeth so i decided to get to the scientific root of it.
the answer blew my fucking mind.
the study on gender and autism i found said two very specific things about autistic people: we are more mentally resistant to things like social conditioning and binarism. we like our secret third things, y'know.
an excerpt:
“The finding that non-binary identities are most elevated seems to support hypotheses focussed on autistic resistance to social conditioning, which are consistent with existing evidence of the same effect with respect to self-description of sexual orientation. Perhaps elevated rates of trans identity in autism might result from a rejection of the binary cisgenderist norm, which combined with a below-typical concern for social norms could promote the disclosure of the identity.”
94% of autistics surveyed for that paper identified themselves as non-binary.
other studies have found autistic people have higher levels of critical thinking, and require more evidence to maintain or convert to a belief system (hence why many of us eventually fall away from religion) than allistic people.
which means, at least from my perspective, that:
a) the 'brainwashing' terfs are accusing the trans community of inflicting on autistic folks would likely not even work if they tried.
b) the current binary definition of gender flies directly against embedded autistic modes of thinking to begin with.
you cannot brainwash someone into thinking something they already believe.
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hey quick reminder/psa!!!! if you shame lesbians for previously having sex/dating men you can genuinely go fuck yourself!!! not everyone figures out every part of their identity when they're 15 and we live in a heteronormative society that TELLS a lot of us that we have to date/be attracted to/marry men. a lot of us grow up in places/communities/families and where expression of our sexuality isn't safe and are taught that our identity is wrong and bad. so if you're going to shame lesbians who have previously slept with men, take your lesbophobia elsewhere and leave my friends and my community alone!!!!
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women can't even talk about our own anatomy without having to caveat every single thing we say with "i think all terfs should die btw!!!" like i find it so interesting that this was her very first thought after posting. she knew how the notes were going to eviscerate her for it so she had to beat them to it. this right here is one of the reasons i peaked. any discussion about our bodies always, inevitably, is boiled down to "bioessentialist rhetoric" despite the very valid points it's making. the fact that any discussion we want to have about female anatomy is somehow a "TERF dogwhistle" for simply talking about body parts that half the human population has. and that every conversation like this has to be prefaced with "TERFS can fuck off and DIE!!!" or else risk being ripped to shreds by the gender freaks is so telling of where liberal feminism is today.
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mfw a silly little shitpost i made goes off the rails and people start saying "cocks??? in my space lesbian necromancer books😰😰😰??" YEAH U KNOW WHAT THEY ALL HAVE COCKS NOW SHUT THE.FUCK UP
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fandom sexism is real cause if the lodge of sorceresses were men we’d be swimming in content of them in the way that the various witcher schools are. we NEED to be freaks about these despicable and overpowered women who cannot even do one thing right. hold my hand ….
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idkkkkk its just kind of annoying that the erasure of trans men and mascs has gone so far that people will just straight up not mention us in conversations about terfs or trans rights or whatever
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“detransitioners” taking it out on the trans community instead of admitting they took a massive L and were never truly trans in the first place
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So have you managed to develop basic empathy for women yet? Or are you still stuck defending men leeching off of their grieving mothers? 🤗
Me: isn't it nice that Henry Thoreau’s mother cared so much about her young, grieving son, enough that she helped provide for him during a very difficult period in his young life. And yet that kind, loving act is now so often specifically used as a gotcha for antiintellectuals wanting to discredit a book they never bothered to read themselves. It seems like a very bad-faith critique for that purpose.
Very normal TERFS in my tags and askbox: are you saying that you HATE WOMEN and you LOVE WEAK EFFEMINATE MEN??? ARE YOU EVEN CAPABLE OF EMPATHY???
…methinks the lady doth protest too much if you read all of that into my post 🤷♀️
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I just want to make something absolutely ABUNDANTLY CLEAR.
My target audience does NOT INCLUDE Radical Feminists, far-right extremists, Nazis, and TERFS. And FUCK your feelings about it. There’s tons of other blogs out there for you if you subscribe to vile, hateful, exclusionary shit like that; my blog is NOT a safe space for you.
Where I come from, we make space for and take care of people who may be different than us. That means non-cishet people. That means sex workers. That means non white people. Non Christian people. If you have a problem with that then don’t bother following me or ANY of my friends or mutuals. We don’t want you here.
And if you don’t fuckin’ like it, then by all means, don’t let the door hit you where the good Lord split you, scum.
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