#socially acceptable when

[doccywhomst]

#i’ve been thinking abt that cringe post #i think the latent feelings behind ‘cringe’ are shame and sometimes envy/bitterness #same vibes as when six year olds say ‘those toys are for babies’ if they’ve been shamed for their age by older kids #anyway. i think part of the healing process is realizing that shame puts you at war with yourself bc part of yourself is a social being! #and that part of you wants community and acceptance (maybe love). shame is the absence of acceptance #unlearning shame means learning self-love and gaining the confidence to find your people #jerma #cw jerma #(someone asked me to tag lol)

[bigfatbreak]

Birds of a Feather previous / next

#my art #feralnette au #birds of a feather #long tags #sorry I went apeshit in the tags #LETS SAY IT ALL TOGETHER NOW #I - M - A - G - OOOOOOOOO #its fun drawing marinette's back to Alya and having her appear stout and unstoppable and totally logical #and then you see her face and she's like two seconds from completely snapping and is keeping it together by a thread #as a note just because mari feels very certainly abt smth doesnt mean she's right. feelings can be valid and also irrational #in the throes of grief she decided it was better to be alone than to lose someone again so she started pulling away #and lila made pulling away very very very easy to do #shes also vaguely aware she's being unfair in pinning this on alya which is why she started spinning the drain on cockmoth again #legitimately all the shit that's happened to her wouldn't have been so catastrophic if he was never in the picture and she knows it #but the bitterness of her bestie choosing a fantastic liar over her at the worst of times stiiiiiings #alya's personal timing was bad but lila really took advantage of the fact that marinette had been acting off and weird #she basically clocked marinette as being unstable from SOMETHING and made up a lie about her #knowing she wouldn't have the strength to defend herself #between her social life going tachy bc of lila and losing fu in a way that felt like personhood death marinette was really put on the spot #and alya doing her thing of busting in there and assuming her bias is correct was a terrible combo #essentially marinette is highly unstable and alya is just realizing that #busting in and giving her a lecture when she's slightly hysterical and definitely delirious from exhaustion is NOT the way #to show her she's self sabotaging #cuz thats just gonna make her double down on self sabotaging. bc marinette will not accept that she is also a CHIIIIILD

[coyoxxtl]

theres smth So funny about how shuro was crushing so hard on falin but Cannot Stand laios despite them being the same. like i KNOW falin wasn’t aware of how shuro felt, i know she was thinking to herself “wow hes so nice to me :) what a good friend” , when laios would wedge himself in their private convos and hangouts i know falin was like “yay my brothers here :D now we can all hang out!” like shuro u never had a chance with her lesbian ass and her autism was just as dense as laios’s and u were too down bad to notice

#if she was dont tell me i cannot accept a socially aware falin who knows when shes crushed on #dungeon meshi #txt

[egberts]

what do fatphobes think they're doing though like why are they mad that we are fat and they are not? just get fat if you want special airplane seats so bad and leave us alone, damn. wait, what? can't get fat? it's too hard to gain weight with your metabolism? huh. sounds like a familiar problem, maybe you're just genetically predisposed to being both skinny AND an asshole. damn.

#genuinely wish being so vehemently hateful to fat people wasnt as socially acceptable as it is #people are BOLD bold when talking to and about fat people because theres no shame behind it yet #genuinely from the bottom of my heart if youre skinny then callout fatphobia when you see it or this will just get worse

[boinday]

I am so normal about the way they interact what do you mean

#can't i be a little obsessed with my own ocs? (the answer is yes) #its about. the fact that I know. that literally every time they are together roha is fighting the urge to touch her #its about. the hands #how close they get #how close he lets them get #how fleeting the indulgence is when he lets himself have one #how rose has not been raised in an environment where social touching is accepted outside of blood relatives #and even then tends to be minimal #and how roha expresses affection pretty exclusively through physical touch with his crew family #its just. about how i feel :) which is normal in case you were wondering #rose tide rising #rtr comic #my art #webcomic #webtoon canvas

[mantisgodsdomain]

He has canonically been boiled in oil before.

#we speak #dungeon meshi #chilchuck tims #we would apologize to our followers for The Madness but we're not sorry at all actually #it's great how much space anime fandoms have for being really insane over a character. really fun to be with #been a while since we've been somewhere it was so much more socially acceptable to just bark at a guy #we find that anime fandom in particular tends to have very little restraint in what sorts of shit you can just Say #and that is a double edged sword at times sure but we fucking love seeing people saying whatever comes to mind #we love it when people are unshakingly genuine in their stuff. forgot how nice it is to have some wild dogs in the space

[strangesickness]

okay i know we all love big brown doe eyed eddie but. can we please talk about how he has blue eyes in the book.

because like yeah in the book he's described as having greyish blue eyes. but like. eddie kaspbrak with weezer blue eyes. imagine it. right now. imagine tiny eddie like staring directly into richie's eyes to deliver an impassioned speech about infections. just staring. staring right into his very soul. now that would make the IT movies scary. or in the scene where henry stabs eddie and eddie's closing the shower curtain and he's like half laughing. imagine that scene and he has just. freakishly blue eyes. TERRIFYING.

#i imagine eddie to be the kind of person who makes really intense and prolonged eye contact #like not normal socially acceptable levels of eye contact #but staring directly into your soul not blinking eye contact. #and i feel like when he has brown eyes its kinda cute but also unnerving but if he had blue eyes it'd be like “is he plotting my murder???” #i am always talking shit about the “staring into your soul” blue eyes but i've never met someone with blue eyes that gives that vibe #EXCEPT for myself. i am so bad at eye contact (make it too intensely) and i have weezer blue eyes. match made in hell <3 #eddie kaspbrak #it 2017 #it 2019 #it stephen king

[givethispromptatry]

“So, how many times have you lied about traumas you supposedly have so people won’t take deeper looks at your character?”

“Oh, several.” They shrugged. “I lie about it because my actual traumas are really too dark to bring up in casual conversation. Learned that the hard way.”

#writing prompt #story prompt #dialogue prompt #when you want to fight jokes at your expense with awkwardness but your traumas make people cry #so you make up more socially acceptable traumas to own a-holes in pissing contests #✌️

[kindahoping4forever]

Luke @ When We Were Young Fest - 22 October 2023

📸: Yising Kao

#rather than try to come up with tags that are both comprehensible and socially acceptable i will instead just fling myself into the sun ok #5sos #5 seconds of summer #luke hemmings #luke #when we were young fest 2023 #kh4f post #for normal reasons #i have passed away #but just to be safe #i am still launching myself into the sun just to be safe #⚰️ 🚀 ☀️ #🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️👹👹👹👹👹👹👹👹👹👹 #🤖🫦🤖 #🤖 is because i have been reduced to an error code because of this #404 bitch #idk what I'm saying #this is a normal post #maybe I'm the one who needs a hiatus

[mintharasthrone]

more “gay” pages posting complete homophobic garbage claiming bisexual women are lesbians

#tra homophobia #drop the t & b #of course there’s a comment calling us actual lesbians trans/biphobic 🙄 #all lesbians are terfs bc homosexuality is only real if a woman is a feminist or political like what kind of homophobic logic #they think they’re so different than het men who argue all lesbians aren’t real and want a male and piv #the obsession with also equating toys to wanting a man is never ending #and i remember the poll here that showed most lesbians of course want to eat pussy most of all #and bi women wanted to use toys #like lesbians don’t want anything that looks like a dick when they have sex only bi women do and i know from experience #why the fuck would we #i wish people would stop fucking obsessing over and disecting how lesbians have sex and why #they always have to make it about males and dick #it’s socially acceptable to make creepy perverted comments always talking about or mocking lesbian sex #bi women are like why do lesbians hate us? you literally are with whole ass men calling yourselves lesbians and dykes and bonding over how #much you hate real lesbians and insinuating we aren’t real and can be fixed with conversion #therapy #people hate us so deeply for loving only women and only the female anatomy #they genuinely believe we can’t be happy being homosexuals and bring up toys as some kind of proof #the same people who can’t make women come unlike us

[ohitslen]

Teamwork!

What if I did this and never finished it. What then.

#first and foremost. quoting myself directly from Twitter: #can we talk about how WW definitely has some HUGE THIGHS?? Think abt it #the crazy poses and squats he pulls while handling the punisher #my man is bulked up fs but THE THIGHS??? CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE THIGHS????? #end of quote. now. as I was saying. big thighs WW agenda #I don’t really have a story behind this one it just popped up in my head and I gave up not even halfway through #maybe I will finish it someday. but I’m pretty satisfied with this so no probably not #me when they fight back to back:AAAUGGHAUHQHAAACCKAUGAUGHA #totally normal and socially acceptable reaction for all I care #trigun #vash the stampede #nicholas d wolfwood #trigun stampede #trigun fanart #vash #nicholas trigun #wolfwood #vashwood #nicolas the punisher #lenssi draws

[hetalia-club]

Ah to go back in time and re-live the 2016-2018 Hetalia fandom…

#Hetalia #everyone was so much more chill then #I miss my friends #*looks at my 10k followers* where did you all go babes #rip most of you. you would have loved to call Italy daddy with me #maybe I cling to this fandom because I miss what it used to be #I just wish all the other big Hetalia blogs from back then would come back and keep me company #we could reminisce together… #eventually illl have to accept it’s nothing how it used to be… #but when I do accept that I’ll probably leave for good #for now I will continue to be delu delu #if I knew their real socials best believe I would go drag them back kicking and screaming. you all can best believe

[ink-the-artist]

I think if I’d known and gotten into the furry fandom as a child Id be in it today, bc like most kids I’d play with friends pretending to be animals, but I’ve since lost that part of myself the same way I’ve lost the ability to play with stuffed animals the way I naturally did as a child. So I think it’s cool there’s people who retain that part of themselves to adulthood. I’ve retained those child instincts too just in different ways, mostly in my art but instead of drawing characters id want to be it’s drawing places and worlds id like to be in. And I think this is true for most people whether they realize it or not that they carry these child instincts of playing pretend into adulthood in various ways, like larping or dnd or playing video games

#probobly a weird post lol I just feel a certain way abt how people are expected to abandon their inner child #and I don’t think that’s heathy I think being a kid is when your human instincts and desires are most obvious #and you can more easily see the core of who you are as a person #I’m making a distinction between just playing and specifically playing pretend #playing in adulthood is not at all socially stigmatized imo the way playing pretend is #it’s more acceptable to be into sports than to be into larping #does any of this make sense lol

[carlyraejepsans]

oguhgh ok. my stomach did not like that. it did not like that at all

#i feel sickkk #no alcohol. no more alcohol i hate alcohol why do i keep drinking it when i go out there have to be like #less stomach ruining socially acceptable alternatives

[reverentwormpriest]

glass animals (you know my favorite band of all time whos entire tracklist i have memorized by heart and whos been my top streamed artist for 4 years in a row) being deeply associated with a certain shitty content creator and his equally shitty friends bc of their most popular song is a hell that the yaoi devil designed just for me

#finn txt #glass animals #and the worst part is its not even just heat waves they got helium and honestly like the entire dreamland album aesthetic too like #never gonna forget the time my friend saw me listening to heat waves on spotify cuz of discord and was like “OMGGG FINN CAUGHT IN 4K- #ARE YOU A [REDACTED SHIPPER] /J WHY R U LISTENING TO THAT“ DAWG BECAUSE ITS THE MOST POPULAR SONG FROM MY FAVORITE BAND #fork found in kitchen #for the record i was ahem. deeply involved with this fandom #and they said that when it was socially acceptable to do so bc they werent openly horrible people yet

[florelia12]

Flora’s Instagram

(Or the winx club equivalent)

#I HAVE WANTED TO DO THIS FOR FOREVER #struggling to do Helia’s one #idk if I should make it angsty or happy #missing the time when quoting vines was a socially acceptable form of humour #winx flora #winx club