#so shut up and stop whining

[mangostar]

im so glad its illegal to hate leafpool/squilf/dovewing/sparkpelt <333 

#this also goes for literally any female wc characters #theyve been hated by the fandom for so long #so shut up and stop whining #sure you can dislike what they've done or whatever(even if ur wrong) but if you also turn around and praise crowfeather/ashfur/etc then ur #annoying as hell and misogynistic #anyway. my birthday is in 3 days!! woo!!!! turning 19!!! #turning 19 on the 19th of the 9th !

[bunnihearted]

being in pain is so isolating nd alienating lol >.<

#bc the thing is nobody cares abt your pain. like that's simply human psychology #so even if that's how the human mind is built nd it's understandable. it still sucks to receive so little sympathy nd understanding #like i mean ppl get sick nd tired of u when u talk abt the pain nd just want u to stop complaining nd be positive #nd they're rlly unsympathetic nd just want u to shut up nd do the things you're supposed to do without whining #so yes idk having to shut up abt it makes me feel like im stuck all alone inside this miserable bubble #either way im getting better nd better at not talking abt it!!!!! even on here i dont say like 80% of what i wanna vent abt sksksks #ppl always treat me as if im exaggarating or just anxious nd worried nd that i need to relax nd that everythings fine #so i've gotten way better at keeping it inside nd not bothering anyone w it!!! thats good #i mean it hurts nd makes me feel isolated buuut it's better than being a burden nd a bother nd making ppl roll their eyes nd sigh at me #but it's also so hard for me to seek medical attention for anything bc i feel like im just being dramatic nd annoying #idk... anyway so many things i wanna complain abt rn pain wise but im doing so good at shutting up abt them i need a gold star ⭐️ #hand in hand w this im getting better at just shutting up nd doing what ppl want me to do nd think im supposed to do even if im in pain

[chemdisaster]

think we need to bring back "if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all". because like, as much as that saying gets used by stuffy older relatives to shut up anyone who has an issue with anything they do, and as much as it's healthy to complain sometimes, i personally prefer to always try to find something positive about any given thing, and i've found that i'm happier for it. complaining is fun and all, but the way that people will go out of their way to nitpick every little detail, the way that they'll end up repeating all the same old things day in day out just sucks all the joy out of everything. like okay, we get it, you hate this thing - have you considered shutting up about it any time soon? or maybe instead of harping on about how much you hate it, go, "huh, i don't like this, but it's great that different people find joy in different things". it's not hard. or ask yourself if you do hate it at all, and are not just shitting on it over and over in an attempt to feel something in your pathetic, boring, miserable life.

#this is about all the people whining about decked out and martyn's lore and desert duo angst #AND. again. stop calling every angsty desert duo depiction you see abusive #stop fucking misusing the word abuse #i don't care if you can't handle a fic where the characters' emotions are any more complex than a fucking cup of water #stop accusing authors of mistagging fics just because you're oh so sensitive and fragile #stop calling every relationship you see abusive #the word abuse is not your fucking buzzword to make people agree with you #it has real meaning beyond just 'relationship bad relationship hurty' #so shut the fuck up about abuse #prattledisaster

[verved]

im so tired of being too tired to socialize w people and then suffering bc im so lonely and my social needs arent being met. but im literally too tired to socialize.

#all my fiends are playing game #im not #bc im so tired im sobbing too hard to be in vc #lineko.txt #im so tired im so tired im so tired #im so fucking tired #i feel so pathetic #like this is my fault #just talk to ppl #stop crying and whining #shut up #you can try harder #but i cant im so tired im so tired

[snail-speed]

Tournament poll brackets will be like

Pick from these two options:

Option A which you should vote for absolutely lest you want me to hate you forever and you don't want to make me mad, do you? You enjoy this blog and my takes you owe me this.

Option B which is for poopy shitty people with BAD TASTE. Look at the image that accompanies it God isn't it such a bad option to take??? You wouldn't pick that would you? Look at how little votes that option got it's because it's so SHITTY! Not in any way because I'm manipulating your choice :)

BTW if for whatever reason you decide to be contrarian and pick the one I don't want you to pick I'm going to put in the loser back again until you do. Fuck you.

#they're so inconsequential and such a non-issue but dear god it's so fucking annoying like shut up and set it up fairly #and if you don't stop whining when the voters decide to get in on the Electoral Fraud too

[judasisgayriot]

i promise I’m a huge proponent of blocking and curating your experience etc and yet it also seems like I complain all the time sorry asdgjkhkl but this fandom has genuinely made me paranoid about following or reblogging anyone new lest I be blockt n cancelled yet again for the associating w the wrong ppl crimes I seem to have committed several months ago when I got into foblr. which is kinda a bummer

#sorry I genuinely feel like I whine all the time and I really do believe in blocking n curating lol #but like I’m a chill nice person I just want to see content of the thing I’m into and I’m getting gradually cut off from a huge chunk of pp #so its just making me feel like a crazy person man!! #Truly I have block me if you want in my bio and I stand by it lol but it feels like it’s never ending and idk man #i maintain my relative innocence here! I’m just here for a good time! how did I end up at the pariah table #sigh thanks chill freaks n weirdos for being chill. promise I’ll shut the hell up now don’t get hurt don’t u get hurt. lol #also sorry if I like reply to your posts n act like I’m your friend but you’re actually like uh stop #talking to me you’re not my friend go away. i just like genuinely want to have friends and I’m awkward as hell #god this is so stupid and long and I feel like a cringefail fool but what can you doooooo #I’ll make some gifs or something this weekend. i like making things I like being in fandom! but man. it’s been a bit of a struggle here #(foblr lol) #anni rambles #I’m not actually sarcastic and cool and disaffected enough to fully be like LOL WHATEVER IDC even though I partially have that spirit #I’m too earnest and soft for the real haters n freaks n too much of a freak for like. the clique I guess lol

[lobotomyladylives]

I can't take it seriously when celebrities are talking about the "struggles" of being rich and famous. like ok let's swap places then you ingrate

#''waaah being rich & famous is so HARD'' ok give it all up for a 1 bedroom apartment & doubleshift at mcdonalds #whats that? you wont? THEN SHUT THE FUCK UPPPPP #99% of ppl would do anything to have what you have i dont feel sorry for you. die #king in the castle complaining about how hard it is to be worshipped to the starving peasants #this isnt about taylor btw. she gets a pass despite being a main offender because um 😋 because uh 😍 #no thats a lie she doesnt get a pass i need to stop letting my gay colored glasses get in the way of my hatred of the rich #i actually would pay good money to see her work as a janitor for awhile with no access to her bank account. imagine the album #ok disclaimer i do empathize somewhat with the struggles of famous WOMEN that come from misogyny bc duh. i care abt misogyny. but liiike... #i dont enjoy seeing ppl im jealous of complain. if i become a famous writer/director you will never catch me whining about the fuckin #trials & tribulations of being fabulously wealthy with many adoring fans. i will be GRATEFUL

[curiositykilledtheradiostar]

loving how every single conversation between Arthur and as of yet unnamed eye snatching ghost both of them sound like they're trying to herd cats

#Discount Jimmy Magma In Arthur's Head: arthur. arthur please don't do this arthur this is such a bad idea tell me you see how bad an idea #this is arthur I am literally begging you to not do this we have much better options #Arthur: shut the fuck up and tell me what I'm looking at we are doing it my way for fucks sake deal with it. stop whining so much #malevolent podcast #malevolent #liveblog #curio chatter

[very-lost-hobbit]

I'm so sick of dick measuring about carbon pricing in Canadian politics!!! I never want to hear the words "carbon tax" ever again!!!

#BAN the damn priemiers and poilievre from talking about it!!! #(I don't actually believe in that I'm just very irritated) #SHUT UP! Shut up or PUT UP and give us YOUR plan and it'd better be at LEAST as effective as carbon pricing #I'm so SICK of hearing about it and the ones that are doing it are chasing popularity with it. Well guys guess what #it makes me HATE YOU MORE #It's EASY to bitch about something! So easy! Do your damn job and do the hard work of thinking of alternatives if you hate it so much!!!!! #stop whining nonstop and DO something then you USELESS LOSERS #canadian politics #cndpoli #kat gets personal #me

[theleafling]

I will never understand people who dislike bly manor because its different than hill house. because they're part of the same anthology people just automatically assume they are 1:1, and go into bly manor with standards and expectations that are not anywhere near fair because the shows are so vastly different. I think that if you don't like bly because you expected it be like hill house that's fair, but if you're going to be an ass about it and post about how bad it was, it's just ridiculous. I have seen so many people on the hill house subreddit say bly is not good for this reason, and its hilarious honestly because its just the same copy and paste post of people being butthurt that bly manor is not an exact replica of hill house. I even saw one person post on the subreddit a few days ago to ask whether bly and hill house were the same (they were wondering if they should watch bly), to which many people replied no; one person even commented specifically begging the op not to compare the two of them. then, today I saw a post from the op saying that bly manor was "such a disappointing waste of time" compared to hill house, to which the person who commented previously was just like "didn't I tell you to not do that?" which is honestly funny

#but seriously like these posts are so frequent im starting to wonder if theyre trolls #anyway bly manor is an acquired taste and if you dont like it shut up and stop whining about it #the haunting of bly manor

[jingledbells]

oh my god can we not have this fucking argument again istfg

#I don’t even care anymore just no more discourse please I am so sick #people are allowed to dislike ships the same way people can like them #i obviously don’t ship b*llford because the way bill used/treated ford really makes me mad #as someone who once had someone treated similary(not to the same extent ofc but) #it’s also ok if you ship them ig but you have to understand how evil bill was to ford #like he’s a cool villain but a downright terrible person #and also I know fiddauthor isn’t the healthiest too fiddleford did use the memory gun on him #but like. what fiddleford did to him was never on the same level as what bill did to ford #they were also to properly make up at the end #bill just continued to torture ford till the end. that is something else #like it’s ok to ship them but please please understand how abusive bill was #and don’t act like it was healthy or on the same level as ford/fiddlefords relationship #or don’t like it because you think toxic abusive relationships are hot #but honestly I am so fucking tired I just wanna stop fighting I just don’t care anymore #just no more discourse oh my god #anyway sorry for whining #time to shut up Bella #I may turn off rbs

[quietwingsinthesky]

even is not a masochist, not because a carefully chosen and controlled way of being hurt wouldn’t hold some kind of appeal to them, but because they are a little baby with zero pain tolerance.

#and specifically not in a ‘i’m hurt and i should get to whine and complain about it’ way because that would be. much healthier and normal. #no in the ‘quietly holding in every response until this inevitably (and quickly) gets beyond the point i can handle and then bursting into #tears and sobbing until the pain stops’ way #(they also wouldn’t know what masochism was anyway.) #none of this is helped by their main associations with injury being the major times they got so hurt that they woke up afterwards with body #parts missing. or replaced. #and the only. ‘good’. part of those situations was. well. when you don’t have anaesthetic but you *do* have someone with very powerful #telepathic hypnosis skills. those can come in handy with shutting someone’s brain down completely. #kink idea: ur bleeding out and trying to fight something thst isn’t there and i have to hold you down and hypnotize you into not feeling any #pain and knocking you out cold so that i can perform impromptu surgery on you #that’s very sexy of the two of them and not weird and messy at all #dw oc

[heaven-dope]

this is a gifted kid-free blog/j

#jk i know you guys have your struggles #but some of u have the knack of complaining about being considered gifted when some of us were never “good” to begin with. #not to say you can never talk about your struggles since the education system is broken and rarely does anyone win!!! #but some bitches dont know when to shut up and stop crying about struggling from success and how bad they have it. #this brand of gifted kids always whines about their struggle while talking down to me. dont do this. #it must be so terrible to be considered “average” or “bad” huh #if you dont do this this post obviously isnt about you and youre fine #talk tag

[timeisacephalopod]

I saw a post like, awhile ago now that was mad about "like shaming" because people obviously would like Tumblr to function like Tumblr and not like Instagram or Twitter (no I will Not call it That) and it's like breh. If you see "reblog stuff because that's how this site works" and you get offended enough to call it "like shaming" then go back to a site where likes actually spread shit around instead of whining people would like you to use Tumblr as intended. Fucking "like shaming" no, for the last like seven years on this site the existing user base has repeatedly had to explain how Tumblr works and instead of just using the damn site that way you whine about like shaming??? If you want to use a like based social site then get off tumblr- like obviously you don't even like it here if you cannot use the site as intended without it being "shaming" to you??

#winters ramblings #like obviously likes are a lovely thing but theyre much more for individual users to find posts THEY INDIVIDUALLY would like to find again #if you actually want shit on your tumblr dash then shut up about LiKe ShAmInG and actually use the site as intended #i like shit semi frequently but thats not how anything gets around on here why are you MAD people are pointing that out?? #i will forever be baffled that people get MAD you expect them to use tumblr as its DESIGNED to be used #like if youre THAT allergic to reblogging stuff you dont belong on the reblog site go back to instagram #because CLEARLY that is the type of social kedia you prefer and theres no shame in that its FINE #but whats not so fine is whining up a storm that old ass tumblr users who remember the days where people werent ALLERGIC #to using this site as its MEANT TO BE USED only for somewhere along the way STOP using tumblr the way its intended to be used #only to then COMPLAIN as if the whole od your dash is not constructed by reblogs. do you have ANY idea how dry a dash is #if all the people you follow EXCLUSIVELY like shit??? because i do i watched the change happen and it's ANNOYING #that people want to whine that using a site as intended is HARD WORK or something like ???? then leave!!! you dont even like it here!!! #why are you complaining about how shit is INTENDED to work if you dont like it this is not the only social media opinion go find one #ACTUALLY suited to you instead of INSISTING tumblr needs to work the way YOU want it to not the way it was BUILT TO FUNCTION

[steinwayandhissons]

why do i do this to myself every time (reading comments under am posts)

#can people just shut the FUCK up #i can’t believe they’ve taken valuable time out of their day to write the most horrible unprovoked shit #like who the fuck asked whether you don’t like their new music #jesus christ im angry #everything they do goes against them somehow and im tired of it but i know it’s not ever gonna stop #fucking assholes don’t deserve them #idk how they can just say the most hurtful spiteful not to mention rude comments about them #all they’ve done is make music and stayed true to their ideals and followed their hearts #if you don’t like something that’s fine but you don’t have to whine about it on the internet to a bunch of people who don’t give a shit #what are they thinking? that commenting hate is gonna make them change? #go touch some grass get some fucking sense knocked into you #im gonna stop now bc I’ve got myself worked up it’s just so shit that this is what they get for just existing #and trying to accommodate to stupid fuckers who need to get their heads out of their assholes

[padfootastic]

why is it my lot in life to fall in love with characters who are consistently treated like the scum of earth :(((

#sirius black #tony stark #can’t even trust their fans half the time #why do u have to be apologetic about liking them smh #i don’t see caveats like that for others #‘yeah he’s a flawed man but’ #‘ok he has flaws but so does everyone else’ #ugh shut up shut up stop bringing this up everytime #once again i saw a post where my baby is written like shit for no reason #just to prop up a character who must not be named #like !!! #ugh #pen’s whining