christ im so bad at this. idk maybe there's something wrong with me but it's seriously mindblowing how some people are just out there expressing their emotions so openly and daring to ask something of another person and trusting someone enough to actually hope and even plan for a future together and not living their lives just waiting and trying to prepare for any good thing to end and genuinely being surprised when it does and i think im gonna stop right there because as im typing this i realise that yeah this is actually normal innit there IS something wrong with me after all sjshsjsvdjsjsksjsshsjshdhsksj
okay cause cheating is wrong, obviously. but some people are really out here going, no it’s okay that they’re a murderer who killed your family and ruined your life and straight up abus5ed you and also is significantly older than, no that’s okay they had a secret reason they never told you about and a tragic backstory - oh wait they cheated? how dare they????
like i’m sorry but cheating is not the worst thing in the world compared to what i listed above and sometimes in media it can actually be understandable why a character cheats but everyone calls them a monster - which yeah cheating sucks - but then turn around and in the same breath go, oh that terrible abus!ve p!ece of sh!t that’s hot and has a villain aesthetic but does sh!tty things for sh!tty reasons?? they’re my faveee how dare you hate them for valid reasons??
Things that made me cry today: (1) a little 18 month old baby boy waving hi to me, talking to me, and wanting a high five; and (2) my bad baby cat letting me give her scratches for 15 minutes while she purred on my chest then went to sleep when I *almost* pushed her off instead