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swiftfootedachilles · 3 months

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it's wild that you're not sure why people in the gallavich fandom are blocking or not interacting with you when you are out here calling incredibly talented artists "fatphobic" for seeing fictional characters in a different way than you do/where we left them in canon. fandom is a place for everyone to have opinions, and they're not always going to match yours. instead of continuing to call people out for things you don't like, you could try reblogging things that you do and saying nice things in the tags. people are out here creating for the love of it all, and it's really upsetting to see negative attitudes when we could just be enjoying our time online together.

wow you wrote all this and i really dont care! lame as hell that you had to hide behind anon though. i would love to know who you are so i can be sure to not interact with you in the future. i imagine we share many mutuals and are probably in the same discord channels. you might even follow me! very lame of you to send this anonymously because you dont want me and your friends and followers seeing you beefing over blatant fatphobia!

drawing chubby and fat characters as skinny is fatphobic. literally textbook fatphobia. i didnt even call any individual artist fatphobic; just was referring to the act of erasing a character's body type... which like 80% of all artists in all fandoms do... its not a cardinal sin to not know how to draw fat people or anything lol i was just making a pretty basic observation. i can like an artist and still give valid criticisms of their works. but you seem to have taken that post reeeaaally personally... maybe you need to go do some self-reflection or something!

i dunno what to tell yall. ive been in the shameless fandom for barely a year and had this blog for over a decade. i have always been a social justice blogger first and a fandom blogger second. so if you dont like me pointing out flaws and prejudices in fandom spaces then idk, stop interacting with me! :P

#damn i was gonna go work on my gallavich fics but actually fuck yall im gonna start dming my fics instead of posting them publicly bc #bc yall dont deserve to read my shit if all you do is come onto tumblr and fight with me on anon!#anonymous #asks #camryn please come and save me #usercam #the way i post shit on MY BLOG MY PERSONAL INTERNET SPACE and yall act like im out here headhunting fandom creators #also lets deconstruct why you think married people have to be skinny or have abs. do you think ian wouldnt be happily married if he was fat #answer quickly #the way 75% of my blog is reblogging gifs and edits and art and fics that i like. youre a fake fan smh

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badolmen · 3 months

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I am regularly shocked that people under the age of 18 are on this site. That’s illegal you can’t do that. <- joined when I was 15 and the site still had “go nuts, show nuts” in its TOS FAQs, no filtering or blacklist function to speak of, and no community labels.

#ra speaks #personal #legitimately though if you’re like. less than 18 on this site look at me please don’t get involved in discourse don’t make a vent blog #and absolutely do not ever publish anon hate just delete that shit as soon as you get the notif #I was a shit person at 15 but no kid deserves what a lot of teenagers are subject to here.#post about things you like and stuff that makes you happy. never reblog those guilt trippy posts. look at blorbo pictures and rotate them.#or don’t I’m not a cop. do whatever you want forever but know there are consequences (bad and good) to your choices.

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defectivexfragmented · 2 years

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Matt has severe anxiety around rejection. Foggy, Karen, and Claire all reject him because they can't handle his darker half. Stick and Elektra reject him for having a normal life and friends. Frank taunts and gives him hell for not crossing the line and killing criminals. His mother rejected him the day he was born. He has literally no one in his life who accepts him as a whole and it eats away at him.

anytime he opens himself up and he feels rejected, he develops serious anxiety and pulls away from everyone entirely. frantically trying to build those walls back up so he doesn't have to feel this pain, desperately wanting to bury the fact he is not good enough.

#musings: matthew #headcanon #anxiety tw #personal blogs please do not reblog

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incorrecthpjo · 1 year

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I know JKR is an asshole and Hogwarts Legacy sucks and shouldn't be played at all costs but there are more than 20k deaths in Turkiye, and i feel like people care more about cancelling Rowling and pretending to care about human rights than actually caring about people and making help

#i know this is an old hp blog but i didnt buy anything that would support jkr in like 4 years #i pirate movies if i want to watch them and i barely talk about harry potter in general #and i know how much of a transphobic jkr is AS A NONBINARY PERSON #also i was raised muslim and i can empathize with being hated because of the religion you believe in #(im not saying i fully understand what theyre going through but i try to)#but there are people dying #we need money #and a euro is almost 20 turkish liras #so a little help would do SO MUCH difference #im trying to reblog donation links but any single post about that shitty game is seen more than our screams for help #i hear my loved ones dying every day #people i met on the internet i cant even go to their funerals #i know some of them are trans some of them are queer #but no one hears our voices and no one helps #please at least be aware of the situation #please #tw: death #tw: earthquake #tw: transphobia #tw: antisemitism

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daintyspeedwalk-draws · 8 months

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You have no moral obligation to reblog my art.

If you enjoy my work in such a way or to such a degree that you wish for other people to see it, then that’s what reblogging is for. If that’s the case then I’m flattered!! And, also, if you saw a piece of mine that you thought was neat but for whatever reason at all you don’t want it on your blog, then that’s fine. That’s what the like button is for. And I’m flattered by this as well! (Or perhaps you don’t like my art, in which case, have a lovely day. Ya can’t win ‘em all)

I have seen many posts harping the “likes do nothing” aspect of tumblr, which is true: the algorithm is strictly opt-out on tumblr, and nearly everyone does opt out. So the only way to help the spread of a post is to reblog it. But the thing is that you aren’t under any kind of obligation to help the spread of people’s art. I’ve seen a bunch of these posts imply that liking a post inherently equals wanting it to spread, some going so far as to paint liking without reblogging as an insult. Pardon my bluntness but this seems very silly to me. You’re not my marketing team. You’re just existing, and presumably just trying to have fun on a silly little website.

Scroll through this blog. You’ll see that most of these posts have less than fifteen notes. I’m fine with that. Well, actually it’s very irritating. But like. You do not owe me your love. In terms of my art, you don’t owe me anything. So I’m fine with not getting notes even on my best stuff, because my other option would be to declare it a moral requirement to love my art. Which would be silly.

I do urge you to consider sharing the art you like. I mean. Obviously I would. Look at this blog. But I guarantee you your friends and mutuals will also find that art neat, and it would be cool to share that joy with them. But at the end of the day:

Enjoy what you enjoy, share what you feel like sharing. I will continue to create what I wish to create. Maybe these things will line up, maybe not. C’este la vie.

#ps: if you want to share art but don’t want it on your blog #for literally any reason #you can make a side blog or alt account #p.p.s: artists please learn to appreciate likes #they do not help the spread of your art #but that’s still a person that enjoyed your work #if that’s meaningless to you I think you need to reassess your priorities #I get it #it’s frustrating #and I do wish more people reblogged #but it’s not a requirement and we shouldn’t act like it is #I generally have a very hard ‘only images’ rule on this blog #this is like only my second exception #reblogging #discourse #art discourse

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throwawayaccount3482348873289 · 4 months

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Thank you to Jade/Lolthia @/edens-gemstone for replying to the previous post. I will make an exception in replying as yes, there was a part I forgot to add, which is additional evidence to prove that all your accusations in the comments below are completely false. Allow me to address them one by one.

At the end, I will include some follow-up questions to add additional context for other users.

THE ACCUSATIONS

“Also you literally stalked my tumblr after this, rb posts about Adam that I wasn’t comfy being rb and possibly sent me harassing anons (idk for sure)”

I do not have a Tumblr. This account is made by someone else, posting on my behalf. But if you really are confident that it’s me reblogging these posts and sending harassing anons, post the blog and the anons. If you don’t know for sure, why did you post this?

“You literally just… didn’t want me included because I wouldn't let you ship your OC with Ibara.”

As seen here, this claim is completely false. I explicitly mentioned that I had no problems with the pairing, but asked them to let me know prior next time to ensure the RP is consistent. I may have vaguely talked about an original story I was writing with my OC and Ibara outside of RP, but within the context of the RP, I have clearly stated that I was fine with the direction Lolthia wanted.

None of what they had mentioned was communicated to me at all before the start of the RP. They didn’t even acknowledge what I said, just responding with ‘well I figured it would be obvious’.

Lolthia’s behaviour here is consistent with their stated intention in the previous post: to RP not because they want to collaborate, but because they want other writers to expend time and effort to fulfil their self-ship fantasies, without giving as much in return. Therefore, they didn’t bother giving context, let alone asking if their RP partners were okay with it.

“You even stopped our RP after getting mad about me dating Ibara.”

Lolthia stopped the RP themselves after I confronted them for ranting on their public blog about a communication issue they were unhappy with in this server.

Someone alerted me that they were talking about their RP server on their blog. I was concerned about those in the server who were on Tumblr. As their RP partner, I requested that they delete it and talk to us first in the future. We then had the following conversation.

The conversation ended with this rude remark and Lolthia proceeded to be inactive for a long time before starting the argument in the previous post.

“I got tired of constant pings asking me for stuff”/ “I… asked to stop being pinged because I was going through enough”

I need you to understand that you are the admin of the server. We needed your help to create threads to hold our RPs in. Instead of not saying anything when we pinged you only to throw a tantrum about it, why didn’t you pass the permissions or moderator roles to someone else, or at least notify us that you’d be inactive for a certain amount of time?

In the post where we were planning an RP and pinged you - If your interpretation of ‘maybe they can come in later to keep the narrative consistent’ is us excluding you, that’s honestly a you problem, mate.

TO LOLTHIA/JADE

Only one of the claims you have made against me is correct. Yes - presently, I do not like you. But it’s not because you are whatever you identify as, or that you ship with a specific character.

I do not like you because you vagued your own server members, including myself, on your public blog. When I found out and asked you to edit out the mention of our server at minimum, you still had the gall to try to convince me it didn’t affect anyone but yourself.

I do not like you for insulting my friends and I as writers by saying we were ‘just an alternative to character.AI’ all along. And as people, by comparing us to the hate anons who had sent you death threats when we did nothing of the sort. Then, twisting the above into these accusations, without a shred of proof to go with them.

I am a ROLEPLAYER. Ibara to me is no more than a character and piece of intellectual property.

You:

Explicitly conveyed that your position was to use us to help you get validation for your alleged ‘relationships’ in a similar way to Character.AI.

Took out your jealousy towards other fandom members onto us, even getting emotional when we merely talked about and shared screenshots of characters you liked.

When we didn’t give you attention to your liking, accused us of ostracising you and wanting you dead.

Threw a tantrum at us for pinging you for basic admin duties as the server owner, because it wasn’t attention or praise.

The only irrational one here is not myself, but you, and the hard evidence in these two posts is overwhelming.

I won’t be entertaining any further responses. Please be reminded that any attempt to post my personal information publicly will be met with action by me.

TO OTHER USERS

Q: Did you make both these posts and the document?

No, these posts are follow-ups to the document containing evidence, made by a different person.

Q: Why did you feel the need to engage them rather than leave the server?

We had already talked only amongst ourselves, ignored any vents they had and began our own server long before these events.

Engaging them was at first a personal choice to defend my friends, who had done nothing wrong. At the time, I was not aware that this was common behaviour for them.

The comparison between us and the death threat anons, which could affect my friends’ reputations, was the most compelling reason for me to attempt straightening this out.

Q: Why has this post been made almost a year later?

Yes, I do agree that from the looks of it, Lolthia’s actions are old news. After I was informed, I personally did not want anything to do with them, and decided to let it go.

However, recently, my friends in the same fandom spaces have not had the luxury of curating their own online experiences because according to them, they are constantly remaking blogs. Furthermore, it was not easy for them to work up the courage to make this post, as being wrongfully accused of wanting someone’s death is not easy for anyone. So, I decided to back them up with the hard evidence they lacked.

Thank you for reading.

#ok to reblog #ok to rb #I may as well also say something in the tags (I am the one posting on someone else's behalf):#I myself hope this is the last post made on here as well. There is nothing more to add honestly.#This is honestly getting tiring. I know you will read this Jade one way or another. You will come across it.#If you have evidence for the contrary and can prove that you are in the right please do so (I already know you can't).#You will claim to be 'harrassed' but that is not our intention (anyone sending you harrassment or threats is not behavior we tolerate).#(Also no we are sending no one after you nor 'stalk your blog'. Don't act as if we don't have anything better to do... Because we do)#Let me tell you a secret Jade: You are NOT important. We only had enough of your behavior online since it does not change. At all.#It affects others - It affected us and it is affecting the communities you are in as well as a good portion of their members.#Please let it go already. But you can't. Because... As you said yourself 'Any attention is good attention'.#And some of your current mutuals will try to say 'it adds fuel to the fire'. This is not the intention in any way.#The only intention is to document Jade's online behavior and warn others. Because they have already gone too far.#This is to document and prove that they are no different no matter where they go. We only want to spread awareness.#It is not just me and the other person who are sick of it. Many others are sick of it as well. We want it to stop.#Their actions affect others nowadays as well. Only last month there was yet another incident heavily affecting another person.#Why? Because Jade thought it was necessary to make a 'callout post'. Even though the situation was long over.#This should have been long over and everyone involved is trying to move on. But you Jade make it impossible. This has gone on far enough.#Not to mention having been exposed to your drama and graphic vents (which at least sound suicide baity) have also stressed me out.#I kept out of the drama but it was affecting my mental state as well. All because you manage to land yourself into so many controversies.#I moved blogs because I had enough of your shit. Seeing it day in and out does a lot to a person.#'But no one cares about me' - We do not wish you ill (that is the truth) but this has to stop somehow. You are not the victim here.#It's always others but honestly... Given how much shit you got yourself into maybe you are to blame. This isn't normal after all.#Maybe ask yourself what you are doing wrong. But you won't. You never will. You will paint us as 'the bad ones' here.#That's the only thing you know how to do. You cannot owe up to anything and you are proving it time and time again. Even now.#Why do you get defensive now and not when the document dropped? Because there is solid evidence for your bullshit. That's why. You know it.#Deleting because you will throw a temper tantrum? No. Forget it. But again if you have proof for your claims come forward.#To me personally if you wish. But beware: This is not the first time I have dealt with this bullshit. I know this behavior all too well.#You are pulling bullshit I have already seen. My advice is to just log off already and sort your problems out.#This is not the first time I dealt with your type. You show the pattern I honestly expect and you will react as I expect.

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