#obv ppl who refuse to listen are even more of a problem and im glad it’s being discussed first it’s just

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#okay i just need to vent about something idk if anyone feels the same and even tho i guess ive known im not cis i still feel illegitimate #known for ages* #but i guess im leaning more into a fluid identity and that’s a way ive been seeing myself in harry #and i think it’s too bad that some ppl who support the possibility of him being non cis erase a whole part of him #it’s a minority but it stuck with me how some don’t think he love dresses just as much as ‘masculine’ things #or that he can’t identify with being called a man and he pronouns if hes not cis when he could #cause there’s so many ways to not be cis and even more ways to experience it so of course we’re gonna recognize ourselves in different ways #and i think that’s pretty cool #so why push a label or details as the 'right' one #obv ppl who refuse to listen are even more of a problem and im glad it’s being discussed first it’s just #tell me if im saying bullshit but as someone still navigating through all of it ive found some takes a bit limiting to someone’s identity #being black or white or that one side was a lie #i hope what i mean makes sense english is hard and im sleep deprived