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genderfreakxx · 2 years
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If people could stop using the term “transmasc” as synonymous with “trans man” that would be fucking phenomenal.
#I’m transitioning because I want to have more masculine traits just by default#but I don’t consider myself a binary trans man. the binary makes no fucking sense to me. fuck the binary#this is I think why I feel so sad when people get angry at ‘transmascs’ for relating to and having gender envy over Gerard way#because I absolutely have gender envy over Gerard- but it has fuck all to do with ‘being a man’#Gerard isn’t binary. they don’t like labels but they’ve expressed admiration for they/them pronouns and said ‘I’ve always liked he/they’#and they do a hell of a lot of relating to she/her pronouns and girls in their music#no fucken part of me is envious of Gerard in a Man Way™#because neither of us are binary Masc-y McMascerson men#I admire g for their entire vibe in every way they’ve presented it to us#just because I’m transmasc doesn’t mean I only admire men. I’m nonbinary#I admire queer people in every form. I’m hesitant to call g queer because idk how they feel about it#but you get what I mean#if Gerard came out as a trans woman tomorrow I would still have gender envy for them. I have gender envy over cis women sometimes ffs#I love them (parasocially yada yada) however they identify. I love them even more because they hate fucken labels. ME TOO#I just love the way they put themselves out there.#I’ve just seen a lot of folks hating on transmascs for relating to Gerard and I think it’s a misunderstanding tbh#it’s all pure love and admiration and inspiration#I can’t speak for everyone but I would never want to push a label on G when they clearly fucken hate it.#that being said; I think the way they express themselves and the art they create is inspiring as hell!!#for me gender envy goes deeper than just surface level aesthetic sometimes#wow this has been a rant. and idk if I’ve even gotten my point across actually#oh well!#gender#blithering on
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salted-caramel-tea · 2 years
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“i can’t be queerphobic! i’m queer!”
and you called a gay celebrity ‘f*ggot’ despite not knowing them and not knowing how they feel about that word being directed at them from ANYONE
And you said she’s less of a lesbian because she had a relationship with a man before she came out
and you said he’s not really trans because he didn’t come out until his mid 40s
and you harassed someone you don’t know online for using the word queer to define themselves
and you said bi women shouldn’t sleep with men because men are gross and they can control their attraction to men
and you said trans people are infringing on “lgb” spaces
and you said bi people in straight relationships are basically straight
and you refuse to use peoples preferred pronouns especially if they’re neopronouns
and you think asexuality and aromanticism aren’t real because ‘you’ll meet someone eventually’
and you said that nonbinary people, especially those using he/him pronouns, can’t be lesbians despite being attracted exclusively to women and not identifying as male
and you said pansexuality is biphobic because they’re ‘basically the same thing’
and you tried to decide an unlabelled persons sexuality for them despite the fact they’re content being unlabelled
and you police the way other people refer to their sexuality because it’s not how you view yours
and you think trans women shouldn’t compete in womens sports leagues because of ‘unfair advantages’
and you think everyone who doesn’t refer to themselves as gay is automatically straight
and you push heteronormative standards onto same sex relationships
and you fetishise same sex relationships for being hot or your ‘uwu little gay babies’
and your queer representation and recognition starts and ends with white queer people
being queer doesn’t automatically rid you of the internalised queerphobia that you absorbed from the world around you throughout your life. you will continue to have bigoted opinions until you learn to recognise those behaviours and unlearn them.
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tr3ns-d3ath-d3ity · 2 years
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"LGBTQA+ is one of the most accepting communities, you're not being targeted by other queer people!! 😤​😡​"
Aight, time for the list of things related to my queer identity I've been yelled at for by other LGBTQA+ people (for context: I am an oriented aroace, trans, queer, and polyamorous dude):
・Being a trans man.
・Identifying as queer/calling myself queer.
・Saying that gay And mlm are two different things, just like wlw and lesbian are two different things
・Saying that trans women are women.
・Being attracted to men.
・Not being attracted to women and people on the genderqueer/nonbinary spectrum.
・Being oriented aroace.
・Not being monogamous.
・Talking about genuinely loving men.
・Being aspec and having npd (quote the girl who yelled at me for that: "your npd made you aroace, you're just to selfish to commit to genuine love lol.").
・Not being lesbian.
・Not being pan.
・Saying that I support mspec gays/lesbians because it’s not my place to judge other people’s identities just because I may not fully understand them.
・Saying mspec, the multi spectrum, or multiromantic/multisexual (to include ply, pan, omni, bi, neptunic, uranic, and every other pluralian sexuality) instead of just bi.
・Saying that nonbinary people can present themselves as masculine, androgynous, neutral, or feminine as they want, and still be nonbinary.
・Literally just. wearing green eyeshadow????? (quote the person who yelled at me for that: “t hat's a lesbian color, bro, you're literally appropriating lesbian culture by that.")
・Presenting masculine.
・Using he/him pronouns.
・Referring to the D-Slur as tThe D-Slur (y'all want me to say a slur I can't reclaim?????).
・Saying that the og polyamory flag (the blue-red-black one with the yellow pi symbol in the middle) looks neat.
・Not using any of the new polyamory flags because I prefer the blue-red-black + pi symbol one.
・Asking if there’s a word for nonbinary people who are exclusively/only attracted to other nonbinary people.
・Hating non-men who fetishize achillean relationships.
・Being specifically Half-Asian and queer.
・Writing books about exclusively queer men/non-women, mostly to cope with trauma stuff (apparently if your writing doesn't consist of a trillion sapphics, two gay fathers that get three seconds of screentime, and the occasionally non-human nonbinary person, it's automatically bad writing???? Okay damn. Sorry for focusing on my own experiences, I guess?).
・Not necessarily wanting to get married or have a romantic/sexual relationship.
・Shipping two characters in a queerplatonic way instead of a sexual/romantic one.
・Headcanoning a popular fandom character as aroace.
・Mentioning aroallo people.
・Saying that straight asexuals and straights aromantics are LGBTQA+ since that's what the A stands for.
・Not being T4T (I just wanna love men in peace fuck off with your "but cis men are horrible!! 🥺🤢😱 Limit yourself to trans men because I said so!! 😤🤬🤬"-Bullshit).
・Using someone’s neopronouns.
・Supporting xenogender people.
・Headcanoning a canonically lesbian character as trans female.
・Saying that I want more representation of achillean, aroace, trans, and asexual men in media.
・Asking asking someone who knew I used he/him pronouns to not refer to me with they/them (like, girlie, that’s called misgendering).
・Mentioning that women can be aroallo.
・Saying that people who don’t label their genders/sexualities can be LGBTQA+ too.
・Saying that two pan women I know in reallife dating each other aren’t lesbians because... they’re both pan?
・Mentioning that queer men should always be welcome in queer spaces.
・Saying that amab nonbinary folks can be lesbian.
・Wanting to go on T.
・Jokingly referring to my tiddies and my pussy as boys.
And last but not least,
・Saying "people", "y'all", "esteemed guests", or "everyone present" instead of "ladies and gentlemen".
I dunno, homie, I actually do feel a little targeted here.
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allzelemonz · 10 months
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Romeo and Tybalt: Sean MacGuire X Male Reader
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Pronouns: he/him, Reader is referred to as ‘man’ and ‘lad’. Physical Sex: AMAB Rating: M/Smut, violence Warnings: Sean never shuts up, Sean is loud during sex, top Reader and bottom Sean, Reader is an O’Driscoll, smut, anal fingering, handjob, anal sex, kissing, marking, yes the title is a Shakespeare reference Summary: Being stuck in a cell with a member of a rival gang doesn’t turn out how you might expect.
That idiot that got you caught is going to pay when you get back to camp. Billy was never very bright but he could’ve at least stayed and fought. It’s in the past now, you’re stuck in a cell and there’s not much you can do other than relax on the bench and wait for an opportunity.
“Come on ya filthy pigs!” A man yells from upstairs. “Ya cowards can’t handle me without tyin’ my hands.”
The stairs creak as the deputies bring him down the stairs. Gray suit, red hair, unmistakably that Irish idiot that runs with the Van der Lindes. MacGuire, if you remember right. You know he’ll see the bandana around your neck that they didn’t bother to take, an almost universal sickly shade of green that identifies your loyalties to Colm O’Driscoll. They’re rough with him, much more than they were with you. Probably because he has yet to shut his mouth.
“Ya ain’t gonna hold me long, boys.” He says as they untie his wrists and shove him inside.
They rush up the stairs and lock the door behind them, not interested in dealing with the mouthy outlaw any more than they have to. His gaze wanders to you and it lands on your bandana quicker than you thought.
“O’Driscoll.” He hisses.
“Van der Linde.” You state plainly.
“Fuck off.”
You laugh a little at that. “Straight to the point then?”
“Yer sick fuckin’ dogs, the lot a’ ya.” He says, crossing his arms over his chest as he leans against the wall.
“Just making money. We are outlaws after all, MacGuire.”
“Course ya know my name. Probably got little spies everywhere.”
You shake your head. “You’re just stupid enough to make yourself known.”
“Stupid, am I?” He chuckles. “Me?”
You smile. “Never met a bigger idiot.”
“Oh, fuck off, fuckin’ O’Driscoll.”
“Make me.”
He stands up straight. “I just might.”
You sigh, standing from your somewhat comfortable spot. “Come on then, Van der Linde. Let’s get this over with.”
He runs at you and you catch him, forcing him back against the wall. You grapple for a bit before he manages to knock you on the ground but you pull him down and get over him, beginning to land blows to his face. He catches your wrist and you can feel his breathing beneath you. Against your better judgment, you stop and sit back on the floor to let him sit up. He glares at you, a hand cupping his jaw.
“You gonna shut up now?” You ask, catching your breath.
“Lucky I don’t got a gun, O’Driscoll.”
You groan, leaning back against the wall. “We’re gonna be in here for a whole night, MacGuire. Let’s forget the O’Driscoll versus Van der Linde before we kill each other.”
He laughs. “‘Fraid I’ll best ya next time, are ya?”
“Just don’t wanna deprive the town of a good hanging.”
He shakes his head. “Suppose we could go without bein’ at each other's throats.”
“Say that again.”
“What?” He asks, looking up at you.
“Throat. Say it again.”
“Fuck off.” He waves, turning so he can lean against the opposite wall.
You chuckle. “I’ve heard plenty of Irishmen in the gang, but they don’t say it like that.”
“O’Driscoll’s ain’t worthy a’ bein’ Irish.”
You put your hands up. “Fine, fine. Whatever you say, MacGuire.”
“Sean.” He says. “Call me Sean.”
You give him your name and it sounds strange when he says it, not the accent but the fact that a Van der Linde knows your name now.
“So what did you do, Sean?”
“Bounty hunters.” Sean groans. “Bloody army of ‘em. You?”
“Friend got in a fight, ran off.”
“O’Driscolls.” Sean laughs, shaking his head.
“Billy’s not so bad. Dumb but not a bad guy.”
“An O’Driscoll not bein’ a bad guy? I find that a little hard ta believe.”
You laugh lightly. “Fair enough.”
Sean looks over you. “Ya don’t seem so bad, I suppose.”
“Is that right?”
He shuffles, leaning his head back against the wall. “Easy on tha eyes at least.”
You sit forward, looking over Sean. He’s not bad looking for a Van der Linde, definitely better than most of the O’Driscoll boys. He has a bruise forming on his jaw, but other than that he has a softened edge about him.
“You’re not bad yourself.” You mutter.
Sean tilts his head forward again, meeting your eyes. “Damn good chance we’re both hanged tomorrow.”
You nod. “Very good chance, yeah.”
He clears his throat. “It’d, uh, it’d be a shame to waste our last night. Wouldn’t ya say?”
“Scandalous, Sean.”
He grins, scrambling over to you. “I don’t really bloody care.”
He presses your lips together as he settles himself in your lap. His hands hold your face as your rest on his waist, happy to let him do the work. It doesn’t take long at all before his hips rub against you and he tries to make friction for himself.
“I think you like the scandal, Van der Linde.” You whisper.
He hums, more focused on trying to feel something good. You push him back roughly so he lands on the ground and your hands make quick work of his pants. Sean scrambles to get his shirt off as you undress yourself. He pulls you on top of him so he can kiss you and run his hands over your bare chest. You bring your hand down to tease him, slowly stroking him and earning a moan. He brings a hand to his mouth and sucks at his fingers before he lifts his hips so he can prepare himself. You’re content to watch him for a minute before you press encouraging kisses to his neck, making sure to leave a few marks for him to remember.
“Fuck me good, will ya, O’Driscoll?” He says, a groan to his voice as he fucks himself on his fingers.
“You want that, Van der Linde?” You smirk, looking down at him as he squirms from the squeeze you give his dick. “You wanna get fucked on a cell floor by a member of a rival gang?”
“God, yes.” Sean moans, removing his fingers so he can pull you closer.
“Not afraid of what your boss’ll say?” You ask as you spit on your hand to slick yourself up before aligning with him.
Sean laughs. “Are you, big man?”
You chose not to answer because it’s very much a yes. Colm would shoot you the second he found out. You’d be a traitor. So you focus on the needy man beneath you and slowly push inside. He squirms, so you hold his hips. He wines, so you move one hand to cover his mouth.
“Fuck, O’Driscoll.” He pants when you remove your hand. “Fuck do ya feel good.”
You lean down and kiss Sean to keep him quiet as you move your hips at a quick pace. You can feel his little whines against your mouth with every move you make so you only give him the occasional second to catch his breath. He starts to move with you, his hips meeting yours in time and you bring your hand down to jerk him at the same pace. The slick feeling, the little noises he makes, fucking Sean MacGuire may be a death sentance if your gang ever finds out but it is one of the best decisions you’ve ever made.
“Be quiet now, Van der Linde.” You whisper in his ear. “Don’t want the law to hear.”
Sean bites back a moan as you continue to slam into him. He wants to say something witty back, but he’ll scream if he does. He’s dizzy, utterly blissed, and close to his end. When suck another mark into his neck he cums with a hand over his mouth to stay quiet. You keeping pounding into him, fucking him for all he’s worth as he becomes more sensitive and he has to really hold his hand in place to keep the whines in. You bite at his skin lightly as you release, filling Sean entirely. He squirms under you, finally removing his hand and sighing in relief as you slide out of him.
He laughs, his hand slicking back his sweaty hair. “We can’t die now, we gotta do tha’ again.”
You press a soft kiss to his lips and he gladly returns with the same lasting gentleness. Then you pull away and sit back, letting Sean sit up with you.
“No one can know.” You say with a serious tone. “Colm would kill me.”
Sean’s smile falls. “So I’m just a quick fuck?” He asks. “Tha’ sure felt like more than a quick fuckin’ fuck!”
You shush him, glancing back at the stairs. “It wasn’t. I want to do this again. As much as I hate you Van der Lindes, I want to do this again.”
He relaxes slightly. “Come with me then.”
“Just ‘cause I wanna fuck you again doesn’t mean I’m betraying my gang, MacGuire.” You snap, then you take a breath. “I like you, but the O’Driscolls are my life.”
“I think ya wanna do more than just fuck me, big man.” Sean laughs, bringing himself closer to you. “I got a sense fer these things.”
You put a hand in his hair, tugging him towards you for a kiss, soft like the last one. “We gotta get out of here first.”
“Worry about tha’ later.” Sean says, climbing into your lap again. “I’m good fer another go.”
You smile as he kisses you again, a little more hungry this time. Your hand tangles more into his hair as you feel yourself hardening again. Then gunshots from upstairs make you both freeze. Both of you know what they likely mean, a breakout. You scramble for your clothes as Sean does the same, managing to get them on before two masked men come down the stairs.
“Sean? Ya down here?” One of them calls.
Sean rushes to the bars, his pants only halfway buttoned. You move slowly, acting natural and sitting back on the bench as you were when Sean first came. In your hand you hold your green bandana and you slowly stuff it into your pocket as a larger man with long hair comes to the cell.
“Let's get you out of here.” He says, looking over the key ring.
“A sight fer sore eyes, Charles.”
More shots ring out and you can hear a few familiar shouts from outside.
“You should hurry.” You say to Sean.
Charles opens the door and nods to you. “Who’s your friend, Sean?”
“He ain’t a friend.” He grins at you. “Ya heard the lad, let’s go.”
Sean pulls his friend up the stairs and you hold your breath, waiting for more shots. They never come, just footsteps running down the stairs. You stand and meet the familiar O’Driscoll faces, Billy at the front. At least he came back for you. At least he didn’t see Sean.
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Dude, I crave more Conner Kent x Male/FtM reader content. Your recent fic is amazing.
Conner Kent/Kon-el x ftm reader
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As always im basing this off my own experience as a trans man. I wasn’t imagining either young justice, Titans or Comic Conner for this, so imagine whoever you want.
-          I don’t think Conner is the type of person to really care about gender identity? He might for some time after coming out of his tube and learning about society, but then he would learn the whole “gender is a construct” thing and how gender is different from person to person.
-          If he was going off of Kryptonian beliefs things like gender are pretty fluid and its up to the person what they identify as, as long as they are happy (this is a kryptonian hc of mine)
-          If you first come out after you’ve started dating Conner would just be happy you told him and ask what he can do to help make you feel more comfortable, as I don’t think he would be going through any difficulties with his own sexuality and identity as I think hes pan or bi.
-          He would spend time looking up treatment and other sources about the trans experience and what he can do as a partner to make it easier for you in life.
-          Conner would make sure he was using your preferred pronouns and name if you have a different name you’d like to go by. He would also make sure others are using the right words if you are comfortable with it.
 -          He can’t say he completely understands gender dysphoria, but Conner struggles with some body issues and struggles with his own existence since he is a clone, at times he doesn’t feel like a real person or his own person, so he can relate with feeling uncomfortable in your own skin.
-          Conner would gift you a binder if you don’t own one, and would also make sure you don’t wear it for too long and take rest days. Because of all his research he knows all the medical stuff and why you should remember to rest your body.
-          He lets you borrow his clothes to wear if it helps you feel less dysphoric or if you just wanted to wear it. Conner would be slightly embarrassed about pet names in the beginning, but he would call you stuff like Handsome, baby boy, pretty boy, and things like that.
-          He is also ready to throw down with other people if they try to treat you badly because of your gender, he won’t stand you being insulted or mistreated. Especially if its other heroes or leaguers, he will go on about how they are supposed to be good guys right? So why aren’t they acting like it.
-          Conner doesn’t care about being big or little spoon so its all up to you, if that kind of stuff can make you dysphoric. He also leaves the room when you need to change if you need him too, he doesn’t see the problem others would have with this since its just common courtesy.
-          He would love you no matter what honestly, if you make each other happy nothing else matters.
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dark-mnjiro · 1 year
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unholy :: tokyo revengers oneshot
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author’s note: so - it’s finally here. my three some collab piece for @/sweetbbyshion collab. time to remove another notch off the wip list so I can add another!
warnings: sano shinichiro x afab!reader x imaushi wakasa, nsfw, smut, reader is identified as female (they/them pronouns used), threesome, explicit sexual content, explicit language, slut shaming, name calling, hair pulling, spanking, choking, blowjob, throat fucking/face fucking, edging (m!receiving), unprotected sex, breeding, meandom!waka, switch!shin, throat bulge, throat fucking, swallowing, overestimation, reader is mentioned exotic dancer, casual/hookup relationship with wakasa mentioned, smoking mention
collab: sunday spitroast by @sweetbbyshion
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“F-fuck.”
Panting, Shinichiro’s dark gaze fell on the sinful sight in front of him. His hips bucked forward, earning a desperate whine from you as you felt his cock move further into your mouth. His hand tangled in your hair before gripping your tresses, tugging you further down his length. Your tearful gaze met him as another whine vibrated against his cock. You could tell he was almost spent… You managed to pull away, gulping air before your eyes darkened. 
“Not yet,” you told him. 
A shaky breath fell from Shinichiro’s lips as his fingers moved through his damp hair. “Y-You can’t just-!”
Shushing him, your hands moved back to his erection, stroking him as your tongue moved from the base to his leaky top. Shinichiro practically winced at the stimulation as he tried to keep his hips from bucking. It felt as though this edging had been going on for hours.
“They’re great, right?”
Shinichiro felt his face burn as he opened one eye to catch his best friend standing behind you. “Waka… what the fuck?”
“What?” he drawled. “You can’t hog one of my booty calls all to yourself.” He paused for a moment before playfully smacking your ass. “On your knees, princess.”
A giggle bubbled from your throat as you sat up on your knees before playfully wiggling your bottom for him. The metal from his belt unclasped before you heard his pants hitting the floor. 
“That’s it,” he teased. “Pay attention to my friend, princess.”
It was hard to recall when the lines between being Wakasa’s favorite exotic dancer and booty call at two am began to blur. You were far from his only “one”, but you had to admit - you did enjoy all the attention you received. Especially when Wakasa would offer your body up to his closest friends. Shinichiro, being your newfound favorite… 
Your tongue ran along the tip of Shinichiro’s erection, earning a groan to rumble from his chest. “Shin,” you cooed. “You sound so pretty. Do you like this?”
His face flushed once again as you took his length into your mouth again. “Y-yes,” he managed to say in between pants. 
Moaning, you swirl your tongue around his girth before feeling Wakasa's hardened length begin to push into your dripping core thanks to the constant edging of Wakasa’s innocent friend. You could tell by how flustered he was, he didn’t get around much (not only that but Wakasa had told you the horror stories of Shinichiro’s constant rejections).
“Look up,” Wakasa ordered as his hand gathered your hair into his grip before tugging your hair back. “Show him those pretty eyes - it’ll help him cum.”
A whine escaped your throat, causing another groan to escape from Shinichiro. You looked up at him, tears forming in the corner of your eyes. His breathing was becoming erratic before shyly looked back at you. His hips stuttered for a moment before thrusting further into your throat, earning a gag. You steadied your hands against his hips as Wakasa began to thrust into you. 
“That’s it,” Wakasa grunted as his pace quickened. “Fucking look at what a slutty girl we got Shin. Fuck… she clenches every time you fucking moan.”
You managed to whine, embarrassed by Wakasa's words as you continued to look up at Shinichiro, wishing he would stop holding back. 
“Oh come on man,” Wakasa groaned. “Fuck their face already. They’re begging you. Look at’em!”
He was right.
It was hard to admit with Shinichiro’s cock in your mouth, but Wakasa knew your body better than anyone. And he could tell, you wanted Shinichiro. A strangled whine tumbled from your throat as your grip on Shinichiro’s hips tightened. You were begging, almost pleading now. While you knew Shinichiro was fairly inexperienced with sex. But, you knew from personal experience with men that a bit of edging seemed to flip a switch in their brain, but you just hadn’t reached that peak yet. It seemed Wakasa had other plans to move things along a bit faster.
“Fuck.”
It wasn’t Wakasa’s voice. 
Shinichiro grabbed Wakasa’s hand, tossing it away earning a chuckle from his best friend as his thrusts into you quickened again. Instead, Shinichiro’s hand found its place tangled in your locks again before forcing you to look up at him. Your body shuddered from the delicious mix of pain and pleasure from his sudden dominant energy. He pushed his cock further into your mouth before his other hand moved to your throat, encircling just enough as he pushed his length just enough to feel it under his grip. 
“Right there,” Shinichiro growled. “Can you feel me right there?”
A desperate cry of pleasure vibrated against his cock before he pulled out just enough before unleashed a mind-numbing pace.
“About fucking time you joined in, dumbass,” Wakasa countered before slapping your ass again. The tip of Wakasa’s cock began to hit your g-spot causing the tears in the corner of your eyes to start falling down your cheeks while Shinichiro's pace quickened. 
Twirling your tongue around Shinichiro’s cock, your eyes rolled back while pleasure began to wash over your body. You were nearing your breaking point as Wakasa struck your ass again, sensing your walls clenching around him. 
“What a dirty slut you are,” he growled. “Gonna cum all over my cock already? You like my friend shoving his cock down your throat huh? Fucking slut. Fucking tell’em Shin. Tell’em what a slut they are.”
Shinichiro's breathing at this point was erratic as his gaze never broke away from yours this entire time. His climax was coming closer - he knew he couldn’t hold out much longer. He thought, why did you have to be so cute? 
“Fuck baby,” he groaned in between pants. “I’m so close… I-I-”
Wakasa bucked into you harder. “Spit it out!”
Shinichiro shot his friend a frustrated glare before his gaze softened when he returned his attention to you. “I’m going to cum in your mouth,” he managed to finally say. “Don’t swallow until I say.”
Your eyes widened as you felt heat creeping up the back of your neck. But you couldn’t stop yourself from nodding, wanting anything more than to make him happy. Shinichiro’s hips stuttered again before he grunted and shot his cum into your mouth. Whining, you forced yourself not to swallow until he let you.
“…nnngh-show me…”
Your mouth fell open as Shinichiro took in the lewd sight of his cum pooled on your tongue. 
“Swallow…”
Immediately, you followed his order before your body finally succumbed to the growing pleasure inside of you. The coil snapped in your gut before you cried out as pleasure washed over your body. 
“Fuck!” Wakasa growled as he felt you clench around him again from your orgasm. His hips slammed into you one last time before releasing inside you with a grunt. Overwhelmed with exhaustion, you collapsed onto the floor, panting.
Wakasa smirked as he watched his seed start to leak out of you before glancing up at Shinichiro. “Want to go again?” He asked. “This time I’ll let you fuck’em.”
“…let’s give them a break first.”
Wakasa scoffed. “Fucking fine. You’re no fun.”
He rolled his eyes. “Dumbass. They’re almost passed out.”
“Oh please,” he snorted. “I’ve fucked them right to-”
“I get it jackass.”
Wakasa merely smirked before picking you up and laying you on the couch and throwing a blanket over your body to rest. He glanced at his friend over his shoulder. “Wanna go for a smoke then?”
“Fuck yes.”
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nerves-nebula · 5 months
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hi there, i want to ask about your usage of it/its pronouns, sorry if this might make you uncomfortable or if its weird or confusing
are your it/its pronouns any different from it/its pronouns for an object? I don't know how to word it sorry, I'm just trying to understand more about other types of pronouns
It’s fine. They aren’t different from an objects it/its to me, because objects & animals & concepts aren’t inherently inferior to humans, so I wouldn’t really mind being in the same group as them conceptually.
It’s a mindset I haven’t fully gotten into but I’m trying to rework the way I see the world, inspired partially by the things I’ve heard native Americans say. Like, I am not better than the food I eat because I’m human. A bear isn’t better than me because they can eat me & kill me. Humans are a part of the earth and would do best to work inside of it and with it than to try to control it or put ourselves on a higher level than it’s other creatures.
I mean clearly we can’t be all that much smarter & more important, what with what we’ve got going on.
But anyway, my pronoun change was at first honestly just the most logical conclusion.
Here’s my train of thought: I didn’t like he or she, Im not a man or a woman. and they/them don’t tell you anything about my gender. If you hear someone call me they/them you aren’t even gonna know I have a weird gender!
Similar to how man and woman are genders, but Non-binary isn’t. Non-binary just describes what you aren’t, its an umbrella term not (inherently) a specific gender. it’s very broad and most nonbinary people I’ve seen & met still identify in parts with man and woman. They/them is so vague that no one would bat an eye if you slipped in a they while describing a cis person who clearly reads as their assigned gender.
And I’m too forgetful & lazy to use neopronouns so, it/it’s was the natural choice. It’s easier to integrate because people already use it/it’s for stuff all the time.
And see, here’s the thing: I have a gender, I’m not vague or in between or a mix. And it’s much closer to like, the idea of a Third Gender. This was something that frustrated me a lot in high school because I would go looking for labels and most of them were about proximity to manhood & womanhood. Or about being agender or neutral. Or about concepts I fully did not relate to. I am not one of those things.
Another issue I had was that a lot of these gender labels had “-gender” at the end which doesn’t make sense to me at all. It’s not mangender and womangender so I didn’t vibe with this naming scheme.
I was also hesitant to use a label a white person made because I’d noticed that white people kind of have a different experience with nonbinary gender than people like me.
Luckily I found the perfect label! Maverique! It had no weird -gender suffix and it was made by a black person who created it online after realizing neutral/agender didn’t fit right.
And yea so it/its is a signifier of me as a third thing. not male, not female, not neutral or in between or lacking gender- just a different kind of person.
And this isn’t even getting into all the ways that I related to monsters in media, which were frequently called by it/it’s pronouns. Or how being abused factors into seeing myself as a non human THING and how embracing that makes me feel much more alive & like a person.
So yea, that’s the run down :)
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coochiequeens · 1 year
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“What could I have done without using physical contact to stop [him]? And then that could have been me in the wrong by using physical contact to stop [him].” The girl she couldn’t fight off a fully grown man and she wouldn’t be seen as a victim if she did try to fight him off
A man who identifies as transgender has been convicted of committing a rape just weeks after his release from prison for child sex offenses. Lexi-Rose Crawford, 24, had previously been given a four-year sentence for raping an underage girl that he groomed online. 
Appearing in Bristol Crown Court on March 10, Crawford initially claimed to have been suffering “blackouts,” and said he could not recall the sexual assaults. Disturbingly, the formal indictment used in court referred to Crawford’s genitalia as “her penis,” according to The Daily Mail.
Despite Crawford’s plea of ignorance to his own crimes, the jury found him guilty of rape and sexual assault after less than two hours of deliberations. Crawford’s victim cannot be named for legal reasons, but is known to be particularly vulnerable. She told the court that Crawford came to their home in April 2019 to play computer games.
Describing the attack, the victim stated that Crawford had attempted to have her lay next to him before forcing himself on her. 
“[Crawford] wanted me to lie down next to [him] and then tried to start… cuddling me, which I don’t feel comfortable with anyway. And then [he] started removing my clothes, which I didn’t want,” the victim said in court.
Despite repeated protests, Crawford removed the victim’s clothing and raped her. When asked why she didn’t fight back more aggressively, she said: “What could I have done without using physical contact to stop [him]? And then that could have been me in the wrong by using physical contact to stop [him].”
Responding to Crawford’s statements that he suffered from a lapse of memory, Prosecutor David Scutt pointed out that he had no medical basis to support this, and called the claim a “convenient excuse.”
Scutt asked Crawford point-blank: “It appears you can remember the good stuff, but you cannot remember the bad stuff. Are you pretending that you can’t remember?”
Following the guilty verdict, Crawford was released on conditional bail until his sentencing on May 10. He was referred to with feminine pronouns throughout the trial, and was addressed as “Miss” by lawyers and Judge Michael Longman throughout the four days of proceedings.
This is not Crawford’s first time being convicted of a grisly sexual attack on a vulnerable victim.
In 2017, Crawford was jailed after raping a teen girl he had met on the internet and groomed into his trust. At the time, Crawford was 18 and his victim was a 15-year-old girl he had met online. After developing a relationship, Crawford took the girl to a secluded area in the woods. Just before he assaulted her, he told the girl: “You are going to get laid.”
Following his release from prison in 2019, Crawford began using a female name and feminine pronouns. Just weeks later, he committed his latest sexual attack.
Should Crawford be handed a custodial sentence, it is believed he will be placed in a men’s prison as a result of recent prison policy reforms in the UK with respect to the handling of transgender prisoners.
On February 27, the Ministry of Justice and Her Majesty’s Prison and Probation Service announced new guidance for housing male prisoners who claim to identify as women. The updated framework states that “transgender women offenders no longer housed in women’s prisons if they have male genitalia or have committed sex crimes.”
The decision was made after ongoing controversy surrounding male sex offenders identifying as “women” and then demanding transfer into the female prison estate. In the month of January, four male sexual predators made headlines after identifying as women and either requesting of transfer to a women’s prison or being granted a move. The most notable case involved Adam Graham, 31, who began claiming to be a woman called Isla Bryson after he was charged with raping two women. Like Crawford, Graham was referred to with feminine pronouns both in the court and in UK media coverage, and court documents had charged Graham with raping the women with “her penis.”
Graham was found guilty of rape in both cases, and was initially green-lit to be held in a women’s prison for up to a month while awaiting sentencing. But the approval was short-lived after the incident sparked international outcry that led to the involvement of Scotland’s First Minister Nicola Sturgeon. Sturgeon was ridiculed by critics and journalists for her refusal to call Graham a man, and, in February, announced that she would be resigning from her post. Sturgeon will remain as First Minister until a successor has been elected.
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Thinking about the headcanon that Della and Donald are both trans and they took each others names as kids.
I’d like to imagine it started as pretending to be each other when they were really young. Like, “let’s swap places today” because they’re twins. And they can.
Something about being seen as the opposite gender had them confused and yet excited. For kids, they don’t tend to overcomplicate stuff like gender, and so they probably just thought “it feels better to be a boy/girl, so I should be one”
At first, people thought it was just some funny play pretend thing that the twins would get over in a week, but they persisted with it.
I think that Della would be much more adamant about the name swap. If anybody called either of them the wrong name, she would be quick to correct them. Donald would probably shrug it off and act like it didn’t bother him, even if it did.
After awhile, people started to just accept it. Since the two seemed like they really liked it, why not just allow them this? It’s not hurting anyone, and it makes them happy. That was what mattered.
As they grew up, they found it quite easy to simply excuse the names on their records as “a mistake”, since “that’s my bother’s name.” — or they would tell people that their birth certificates got mixed up in the hospital.
It was almost like some kind of long running joke the two had. Yet at the end of the day, it went much deeper than humour. They felt so much more comfortable and confident in themselves after changing genders.
Everyone realized this fact too. Clearly it is much more than a silly scheme done by mischievous children. Clearly they genuinely feel good with this change. And certainly, as the two would come to know later on, there is a term for feeling this way. Not only that, but a community too.
Nearing adulthood, the two understand their identities far more than they could ever as children.
Della sees herself as a transfem nonbinary person. Mostly, she’s chill with her gender. It doesn’t really matter to her what she’s seen as, as long as it’s not a man. She would be fine with lots of different pronouns, but mostly uses she/they.
Donald would be a lot more strict with what he wants to be seen as. I can imagine him identifying as purely trans male with he/him pronouns. To him, if there’s not a solid identity to cling onto, it will make him feel like he’s nothing. Which, to Della, would be okay. But to Donald… he can’t.
Of course this leaves plenty of plot holes, such as how Della could have had the kids, but hey. I’m not a magician. This is a silly headcanon for my own enjoyment! Sit down and eat my trans autistic twin propaganda and LIKE IT!
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sammie-scribbles · 6 months
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LoZ Gender Ideas
Note: These are my headcanons! I just like to take details from the canon and run with them as far as they will take me. Feel free to use these ideas if you want! Also only the OoT Link and Saria one has images because I’m tired. Put some Subway Surfers on if you get bored of all of the text /lh /j
Zelda/Sheik (OoT) - he/him
In Ocarina of Time, Zelda disguises himself as Sheik for seven years. That is a very long time to purposefully disguise yourself as a different gender. I don’t believe he even knew how long it would be until Link woke up. For all he knew, Link might never have come back.
He could’ve disguised himself as a Sheikah woman, but seems to have chosen to be a man.
The manga version is a little iffy, but Zelda seems to agree to Impa’s plan of having his conscience rest to “become that of a Sheikah boy”.
“Now, what about when he reveals himself as Princess Zelda and stays that way for the rest of the game?” You might ask.
I think it might’ve been to quickly relay information to Link.
He revealed himself as Zelda in the Temple of Time right before Link was to go defeat Ganondorf. It would’ve wasted valuable time to explain that he had transitioned from Zelda to Sheik. (Also, he was immediately kidnapped by Ganondorf)
He is also the one who sends Link back to the Child Timeline, so he probably knew that  they wouldn’t stay to get to know this particular version of himself.
Zelda/Sheik (HW) - they/them
In Hyrule Warriors, Zelda seems to disguise themself as Sheik for no apparent reason.
They are constantly referred to as the “Sheikah youth”, no gender being assigned to them.
My headcanon is that Zelda saw a chance to temporarily escape the shackles and expectations of “Princess Zelda”, and that they could truly explore themself for a little while.
Sheik has many lines talking about how they will be playing some sort of music, or even historical uses of music. Zelda’s lines mainly focus on the others around them. So, maybe their dream was to be a historian or bard?
Link (BotW/TotK) - he/they
In Breath of the Wild, Link is very androgynous.
However, I noticed that he doesn’t seem to identify as a woman in any way.
They seem to like traditionally “girly” things (ie. nail polish, being called “pretty”). But, when someone asks him if he’s a woman (Riju wonders about the Hylian Champion being a vai), he seems to become possibly uncomfortable and corrects them. They also seem shocked and scared when someone realizes they are not a vai (the one Hylian in Gerudo Town, the shopkeeper in the secret shop).
He doesn’t even keep the Gerudo Vai set in Tears of the Kingdom.
Fado (OoT/WW) - he/him
In Ocarina of Time, Fado is a Kokiri that seems fairly cryptic during the medicine quest.
In Wind Waker, Fado is the Wind Sage.
Interestingly, even though they share the same name (and in my opinion, look similar) they use different pronouns.
Lots of people (myself included) see this and head canon that they are indeed the same person, but he transitioned to a boy between the events of Ocarina of Time and Wind Waker.
Bonuses!
Or, more accurately, fun things I noticed that I have no clue how to interpret, lol
Link (FSA) - idk I avoided assigning pronouns cause I can’t decide
In Four Swords Adventures, Link is able to go into Gerudo Town without any problems whatsoever.
Granted, this seems to be a point in time where the Gerudo are trying to forge relations with the rest of Hyrule, and they could’ve gotten rid of that law. But, that law is in effect in BotW, and I doubt that the Gerudo would get rid of the law only to bring it back later. So, it would make sense that the law is still in effect during Four Swords Adventures.
So, either, the Gerudo assumed that Link was not a boy (possible) OR that Link is not a boy in this incarnation (also possible). I don’t know which of these options I will be using, but feel free to use this as you want to!
Link and Saria (OoT) - they/them?
In Ocarina of Time, the Kokiri all wear very similar clothing.
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The girls wear a tunic with a brown belt, brown boots, and a headband. The boys wear a v-neck shirt with shorts, green boots, and a cap.
Interestingly, Saria and Link both don’t follow these rules.
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Saria wears shorts, green boots, and a headband. Link wears tunic with a brown belt, browns boots, and a cap.
This seems to suggest that Link and Saria don’t fall into the gender binary. What gender does this make them? IDK, this is just something interesting I noticed.
Link (AoL) - he/she?
In the Adventure of Link, Link is able to transform into a fairy. This fairy form looks identical to any other fairy, including the feminine body figure.
This seems to suggest she’s genderfluid to an extent? Since it’s only when she is a fairy?
He also seems (relatively) fine with becoming the king of Hyrule? (though, I guess that Elizabeth Swann from PotC was a king as well, lol)
IDK. Just an interesting thing I noticed.
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crosscalipso · 7 months
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South Park Character Headcanons (Tweek + Craig)
Tell me if you want me to do more of these
Craig ★
• Transgender FTM (He/Him and It/Its Pronouns)
• Autistic
• Literally so gay, like, man has never liked a woman
• Peruvian + White, was darker as a kid but his skin got pale as a teen since he didn’t go outside much anymore
• Ayesha Erotica fan
• He’s chubby!!!
• In elementary school he’s the tallest boy, and second tallest kid overall behind Bebe, but once they hit high-school he’s mid-way between tall and short. Tweek is taller than him.
• Other than Guinea Pigs he really likes cats!
• Chronic pains in his back, hips and legs
• Wants to be an astronaut, ends up being a veterinarian
• Can’t draw to save his life, still draws silly pictures for Tweek
• Calls Tweek the dorkiest of pet-names like “Honey, Cupcake, Pookie” etc
• Love language is Physicalness and gift-giving
• Adopted
• Was four when he was adopted by Laura and Thomas
• Thomas gave him his hat when he first came home, and now he never takes it off
• Came out as trans at 7, started his social transition soon after
• Gets top surgery in his late 20’s
• Decides to not get bottom surgery
• had braces his entire childhood all the way till he was 20, his parents didn’t have the money to get them removed so he suffered, had to get them again at 25 but they still wouldn’t straighten.
• Crooked teeth for life
• tooth gap!!!
• Doesn’t smoke like the fanart shows, this kid would vape
• An utter dork, literally obsessed with Space his whole life
• Hyperfixations switch every 2-3 years
• Has a crooked nose, he broke it during the fight he had with Tweek when they were kids
• Can play the piano a little bit, he learned from Tweek
• Has a flat affect
• Picks up in Tweek’s vocalizations and makes them himself sometimes, not noticing where he got it from
• twitches his nose like a bunny
Tweek ★
• Gender-fluid (He/They/It pronouns)
• Identifies as Queer, has only ever had feelings for Craig
• White
• Autistic
• Pulls at his hair so much that he starts developing bald spots in middle school, Craig buys him a hat that looks like his own for him to wear when stressed
• Can’t button his shirt well due to shaky hands and disoriented vision, so Craig does it for him their entire lives
• Picks at his skin, eyelashes, eyebrows and finger nails, lots of scars and scratches
• Gets clean of his meth addiction at 19 after going to rehab as soon as highschool lets out
• Ends up owning a bakery
• Despite being clean he still lets out grunts and vocalizations at random times
• can play the piano exceptionally well
• Love language is words of affirmation and gift-giving
• Can speak English, Dutch, German and French
• Bakes things and does chores for Craig all the time, usually when he’s asleep and can’t protest
• Chubby!!! He gains weight after being clean and is very happy with his build
• Takes up boxing in middle school, helps get frustration out
• Feels terrible for breaking Craig’s nose, but finds the after affects cute nevertheless
• Wakes Craig up by peppering his face in kisses, Craig doesn’t oppose
• Uses “Dude, Man, bro” on Craig until they’re engaged, then he uses cuter nicknames like “Honey, Baby and Puppy”
• Had bad baby fever from 22 and onward, constantly wanting to have kids with Craig
• Has a collection of glued together Lego sets from his childhood, he keeps them down in the basement on a wooden table he built for them
• “Death metal soothes me to sleep!”
• one if his vocalizations is whistling and then making a *pop!* noise with his mouth
• Lost one of his incisors during his fight with Craig, got a fake one pretty quick, he wore the actual tooth on a necklace for a while
• They still have that tooth somewhere in their house
Silly Quotes I think they’d say
Craig : “The hat stays on during sex.”
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Tweek : “Dude can I turn on some white noise, it helps me sleep.”
Craig : “Sure honey.”
Tweek : *Turns on Cannibal Corpse*
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Craig, happily : “Honey I made you cupcakes!”
Tweek, chewing a cupcake that’s practically still batter : “They’re great honey.”
Craig, offering him another : “:]”
Tweek: *Bites into it and it’s rock hard.*
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Tweek : “Craig you can’t keep eating candy all the time! It’ll rot your teeth.”
Craig : “So does coffee and meth.”
Tweek : “Touché, fucker.”
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regarding your post about keeping your feminism a secret:
im dating a TIF. we started dating before she transitioned (six months before and about a month and a half since) and there’s been a huge change in her personality. she knows i’m anti porn, pro misandry, etc. but she’s suddenly gotten wayyy more openly misogynistic and started calling every woman she disagrees with a bitch? i told her i genuinely despise that word but she refuses to stop saying it. i looked at her twitter and she even called a female conservative politician a ‘hole.’ i hate this politician as well but a HOLE ??? that’s fucking vile.
her transition kind of came out of the blue as well especially because she makes no attempt to ‘look masculine’ and still wears makeup and skirts. she only started talking about her dysphoria after she transitioned (she came out on her instagram story with they/he pronouns so i found out at the same time everyone else did) and it just seems totally out of left field.
i’m very much a radfem. i’m very open about my ‘more easily acceptable’ feminist opinions like abortion rights and sapphic rights, but i have to keep my more radical opinions to myself irl. a lot of my friends are TIMs and TIFs but i just can’t bring myself to see them as anything other than their birth genders. i use their preferred pronouns, but i have to consciously make an effort not to slip up. i used to identify as non-binary and later ftm for about six years as well, but detransitioned before i went through any major surgeries when i was eighteen.
i hate how so many of my friends don’t see prostitution, autogynephilia, cosmetic surgery, etc. as problems because they’re ‘women’s decisions.’ i hate how i can’t say anything about my negative experiences with being groomed as a child under the guise of ‘sex work’ or my experience with detransitioning without the fear of being labeled a terf. it’s like they don’t even see the ‘radical feminist’ part and just see radfems as conservatives.
i don’t want to break up with my girlfriend, but it feels like she’s just hating other women to feel more like a man at this point. my former connection with her is not worth ditching my feminism for.
Hello, thank you for sharing your story!
I’m sorry to hear that your girlfriend has been acting so misogynistic… Sadly many trans men are becoming misogynistic to “pass” as a men. These women think that hating on other women will make them a man, which is extremely sad. They hurt themselves and other women.
I hate “Choice Feminism” with a burning passion. “Choice Feminists” are in reality people who don’t care about women’s liberation, they pretend that they do. Calling yourself a feminist, yet seeing nothing wrong with, for example, prostitution makes absolutely no sense - how do these people think that they’re helping women while supporting one of the biggest forms of oppression?
Don’t even let me get started on how Sex Work most of the time is not a choice. And even if made by choice, it (very) often still traumatizes Sex Workers.
TRAs are close minded which results in them believing that RadFems are same as Conservatives. Practically there is NOTHING similar about RadFems and Conservatives. Yes, technically Conservatives are Gender Critical too, but Conservatives still uphold stereotypes about women and men - woman has to be warm, caring, be submissive for her husband, take care of her children and do housework. Meanwhile RadFems are against what Conservatives think about women.
Stay healthy and safe! 💕 I hope you will be able to be more open about your beliefs! 💖
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l3viat8an · 9 months
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based off of, but otherwise completely unrelated to, levi anon’s transfem levi n satan stuff
transfem lucifer what than ? + transfem beel
maybe luci doesnt realize shes transfem cause shes too stressed taking care of brothers n being loyal to diavolo, due to this she never really had the time to question her gender
luci eventually realized that shes transfem late at night, when shes trying to go to bed n her thiughts started to drift towards her gender n gender presentation
she realizes that she does NOT like identifying as or appearing masculine, that she didnt wanna be perceived as a man
it took luci a while to come out to her brothers, her pride getting in the way, but she eventually did over dinner, letting herself blurt it out, making her brothers stop whatever it was they were doing
they all supported her immensely, immediately asking what her pronouns, what name she likes, etc, asmo even told her the hes gonna take her shopping tomorrow, which luci accepted w a sigh, knowing that, w asmo in tow, shopping is gonna be a day long event
she felt relief that she no longer had to live as a gender she no longer felt comfortable as, not w her siblings aggressively affirming her gender at any given moment
this also indirectly encouraged beel to realize that she might be transfem beel as well, cause while luci explained how she felt n how she came to the conclusion that shes trans, beel realized that applied to her as well, most of it at least
she decided to take a lil while to think about it before saying anything, wanting to gather her thoughts n feelings n what she wants to say before coming out
belphie was the first beel told, it was late at night n both was talking about just about everything, from their time in the celestial realm, to their favorite shows n games, everything, eventually when it was silent, beel let it slipped that she was transfem, that she wants to be a girl
belphie was surprised but supportive, quick to accept his twin sister n repeated the questions he heard when luci came out; what pronouns do u use, what name do u wanna be called, etc
she quickly told the rest of her siblings the next morning, all of which quickly accepted n supported her, n asmo, like w luci, immediately told her that theyre gonna go on a shopping trip later on today
beel ended up tearing up at how accepting her siblings were, even tho she already knew that they were gonna accept her due to how quick they were to accept their eldest sister, but either way she was extremely happy n fortunate that shes in a family that supports her
~ t4t anon
I’m not even adding anything cuz I just can’t think of any it’s already perfect dhjshs
But I did talk about transfem! Lucifer before! It’s just mixed in somewhere with everything else 🚶🏼‍♀️
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howlsofbloodhounds · 10 months
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Since it’s Pride Month, I figured I’d talk about how I think Killer views his sexuality/gender. And how those views might differ a bit depending on what STAGE their soul is in. (So this would obviously lean more into a “system/plural” Killer interpretation.)
At first, I don’t think he gives these things much thought. Things like that aren’t really at the top of his lists of importance while he’s working with Chara.
It isn’t until Nightmare shows up and takes him from his timeline that things start changing. He’s exposed to a lot more opportunities and social interactions that isn’t just killing, fighting, bloodshed and violence.
He can make the choice to be gentle with people. Even if he has a hard time doing that.
Any type of gentle physical affectionate is odd for him—platonic or romantic or sexual. He’s used to the affectionate that Chara gave him, which involved squeezing so hard bones broke and surprise touches and sometimes even some stabbings as a treat.
STAGE 2 doesn’t understand it, and STAGE 1 doesn’t want to be touched at all. Sometimes STAGE 3 seems to register these touches as some type of threat, and Killer has to leave the situation or force that person to stop touching them.
The SOUL is off limits to most people. (Can’t really stop people like Dream and Nightmare from influencing it.)
I think it’d be hard for Killer to find safe opportunities to explore things like sexuality. And due to his difficulty with his own emotions and trauma, he has a hard time experiencing anything like sexual attraction to anyone.
Not exactly because he himself is Asexual (although he knows Sans probably likely was), though. He flirts with people freely, because he finds their reactions amusing (especially Nightmare’s), and because that’s what the books he’s read say is romantic.
So for the most part, he contents himself with books and videos and his own imagination. His fantasies lean more towards the romantic side than the sexual side, although they do still wander there sometimes, but it feels like a safe way for them to explore those things. I feel like STAGE 2 would definitely be down for experiencing new things like romance and sex.
He’d probably seek out partners who, not only could he trust, but could potentially overpower them..should things get hairy. They mostly do this because he doesn’t want a repeat of what (could’ve) happened with the Toriel he met in LustTale. Wouldn’t be fun to be triggered into STAGE 3, thinking it’s about to be killed or hurt and defend itself by dusting Killer’s partner(s).
If you were to ask Killer, he’d probably just say he doesn’t care about labels. He doesn’t care much for the sex or gender of any of their potential partners, nor how many partners it has.
I think Killer would probably identify with Unlabeled, at least at first. Maybe one day he’ll decide to find a label, but for now they’re more content to just go with the flow.
I think STAGE 0 (AKA Sans) is Biromantic Asexual. I like to HC that Sans is FtM Trans, so therefore Killer is bodily ftm, even if Killer himself may not exactly identify as a man. Sans uses he/him.
The Chara in their head—who I’ll just call Something—is Chara. Something is Non-binary, using they/it pronouns. Since they are a child, despite being in an adult body, it will not be involved in any sexual or romantic situations.
Because Killer is made of Sans’ soul & the Determination soul, I think all of the STAGES by default use a range of he/they/it pronouns.
I feel like STAGE 2 would be Gender Apathetic. He wouldn’t care what pronouns are used for it, they mostly just use he/they/it only because that’s what he’s used to being referred as.
I feel like STAGE 3 uses it/its only. This is due to the dehumanization trauma from the actual Chara, though.
I feel like STAGE 4 would use it/they as a reflection of Something and the actual Chara.
I don’t think STAGE 3 & 4 would really understand gender. But 4 might identify as Non-binary too, because Chara & Something do. I feel like STAGE 3 would probably identify with Xenogenders more than anything else. Not exactly sure which one though.
And I don’t know why, but I feel like STAGE 1 uses they/he. Because STAGE 1 is like a bridge between Sans & Killer, one who’s a trans man & the other who’s Gender Apathetic, I HC them as a Demiman. Mostly Agender, but with a partial connection to masculinity.
I feel like STAGE 1 is Panromantic Demisexual. No real reason for it, I just see it. He will struggle with most physical touch, though. As a result, they will likely only consider doing the Devil’s Tango with people whose touch doesn’t feel like a death sentence or an attempt to provoke a fight.
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lillified · 10 months
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Hello! I hope you don't mind this, but I've been trying to better understand He/Him lesbianism, but google isn't very helpful and I've heard a lot of explanations and I wanted to hear your side of it since your Megatron seems to align with that? Your explanations tend to make more sense to my neurodivergent brain 😅
-Bi lady trying to better understand the peeps around her ❤
I mean, I’m probably not the best person to explain this and you’re probably better off asking someone who is one, since everybody’s reasoning and experience is different. I’ll try to give a basic overview to get you started, but I really can’t claim to speak to everyone, if even very many, people’s experience:
The basic principle is that pronouns are social arbitrage and are indicative of how other people in society perceive you, but they are limited to describe the scope of gender experience. you may not be a man, but still identify strongly with masculinity and “benefit” from some of the social consequences of presenting and performing masculinity—or, in many cases, the rigid expectation of femininity is just way too narrow and suppressive. The tragic fact is there really isn’t a lot of precedent or understanding for women who aren’t feminine or perform feminine roles, and those expectations are so ingrained that they infect the core of people’s expectations of womanhood. I’ve heard butches describe that sometimes it’s just easier to use masculine identifiers because it helps people understand, which is something I’ve experienced to a lesser degree (even now as I’ve become less ambivalent with my gender I still frequently call myself “guy” and “man” and similar things).
All that being said, presenting socially as masculine doesn’t necessarily change who you are, or how you experience the world. Butchness is very performative and masculine, but deep down most butches have a connection to women and femininity that is extremely strong. Womanhood is an isolating and often dangerous experience, and, historically, lesbianism isn’t JUST about relationships, but the effort of women to find protection and support from sexism, oppression and violence within themselves. Being butch, even to the point that you “pass” and don’t experience as much targeting for being feminine, doesn’t erase your connection and experience with the feminine, and with womanhood. Whether you are cis or trans, your experience of the world and your treatment at the hands of other people has, and probably will always be, affected by that overarching social expectation, and often detriment, of womanhood.
Being butch is a personal celebration of the fluidity of one’s gender and the performance of masculinity, but just because it rejects the appearance of the feminine, that doesn’t mean it dislikes or “rejects” femininity. This is something I’ve struggled to reconcile for myself, but it feels demonstrably true. Your physicality, appearance, and social role may appear masculine, but manhood is more than just short hair and pants, just like womanhood is more than long hair and dresses. They’re simple blanket statements intended to describe a range of human experience that is extremely vast, both socially and biologically. Your pronouns can describe you to strangers and peers, but they don’t always represent your experience and reality, and that’s where you get he/him lesbians, who are masculine in performance, but feel a connection and allegiance to womanhood that is far deeper than someone who identifies as a man might.
that being said in Megatron’s case (can’t believe we got here from a transformers question), while I use he/him pronouns for him, they aren’t his only ones, nor are they even the ones I’d say he’d choose. I see him as ambivalent, and a performer; he presents a very exaggerated, masculine persona to hold power and communicate strength, so masculinity is something others see and expect from him. In a situation where power games weren’t mandatory, I could honestly see him preferring other pronouns. I guess that does kind of tie in with what I described, lol.
Anyway, I hope this helped, at least a little bit! I got kinda rambly there, apologies. I feel like the nightmare scenario of guy whose interests include gender study nonsense and transformers. once again, I am just one person and I’m definitely not the best qualified, so please seek out other material if you’re confused, and remember that everybody’s relationship with gender is completely different!
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sir-klauz · 1 year
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Really hate when people still call Yuka just a girl when he explicitly identifies as a bi man who likes cross dressing, blatantly (as far as I’ve watched in the anime) directly in the anime.
"So you told him that you're a guy"
not "that you're a trans woman"
He is called a crossdresser, and he doesn't correct him on that. He speaks of how he loves cross dressing. And why can’t he love as a gay man doing this.
At this point he identifies this way and that shouldn’t change until it might be different in the future, and forced assumptions of “having to be trans” now if anyone wears anything that isn’t binary, isn’t acceptable.
He doesn’t lie about his gender. That’s transphobic terminology in itself so get lost with that as well. And he’s not a “trap”. That’s also transphobic. This is people not bothering about people’s identity once again when it comes to not being cishet with binary presentation.
It doesn’t help that the “female pronouns in MC's dialog was Netflix taking their own liberties with it. Yuka's entire thing is basically not wanting to be labelled and conforming to society's expectations. Yuka is also exploring and isn't entirely sure about his own identity at this point”. Netflix decided to translate it like that, that’s it. For some reason. But Netflix is known to be problematic with anything to do with gender. The original doesn’t appear to be that, and at the end of the day the original content is canon.
If I’m totally wrong, please mention, but from my experience he’s not said he’s a girl at all, and he’s open with himself being a guy who decides to wear women’s uniform regularly to class? And was very upset about not being able to date a man like any other person because of clothing preference. I haven’t read to manga yet in honesty, so is it saying something different there? But numerous people are getting concerned about why this is happening, and why translations are being so disrespectfully messed up. There’s a limit to how badly you dub something ahaaa….
It makes him feel absolutely awful when he’s rejected as a guy who likes men just because he likes wearing clothing that isn’t binary.
Even in lgbtqia+ character wikis (unofficial to actual wikis, just random run) he’s being misgendered there as well. Not to mention with how he’s written about when you Google it, there’s a mess of pronouns and assumptions everywhere, with people saying he “seems to be a girl” anyway??? Probably only based on him wearing “women’s clothing” and ignoring what’s been said or maybe they haven’t even watched it. You can barely find anything accurate about him from the actual canonical sources?
Just because someone wears this kind of clothing, it doesn’t mean they’re a girl, nor transgender. It means their presentation may be non-binary in some way, but that doesn’t = being a whole other gender to what they identify as.
It’s hard enough as it is being gay in the first place. I have this happen often and it’s been hard to see, it’s close to my heart (especially as he also cares a lot about doing his art) and I’m glad it’s being depicted though, and talks about how hard to can be to date if you’re not simply “binary”, even within queer circles.
I haven’t watched every episode so if he comes out later in the manga or anime? Please say. But so far it’s been stated pretty clearly tbh.
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