I really really really don't need my blorbos to "come out". I already know they're gay because I read their stories and applied a little critical thinking.
For example💖💜💙:
You know what's "queerbaiting" in my book? Shitty stories with no nuance or thoughtfulness that read like a wikipedia article but who's selling point is a rainbow flag or boys kissing on the cover because queerness can be profitable now. I'm looking at you DC Pride😠. So how do I know X character is gay? Not because I read into and analysed their story, but because their factfile told me🥴 (implying that the rest of the universe is straight I guess).