Quick reminder:
P-shifters *arent* looking for power, or whatever
We literally just go creature and know we are creatur
some of us practice going creatur, some of us go creatur involuntarily
In past some were bad, but not all of us
now that it's universally disliked are so less likely to find those who want to fake being a p-shifter :b
aint nobody continuing to identify if all of us just wanted "power" (as in why the hell are there still p-shifters if it's seen as bad?)
most of us could completely do *without* the internet to get this so said "power" (I've spent years struggling with my relationship with my device and being my animal self, many can relate with me. It's been a very long time since I've interacted with a power hungry proclaimed p-shifter)
please stop spreading the idea to witch hunt and attack all p-shifters on sight
it also harms others that identify in a similar manner (clinicals, physical nonhumans, etc.) and literally helps no one
Just teach how to identify if people are looking for power and manipulation instead of targeting us
Thank youuu
And regardless
this isnt a post to try and "convince" you to believe or interact with p-shifters
tbh, wouldn't want to talk with you anyways if you weren't willing to listen to me :|
sooo.... DNI if you are going to be an asshole and have an issue with me being a p-shifter? I mean like I'm not here to bother you, but if you are going to bother me, imma just block you
ight bye
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hi just a quick little friendly note: i have no problem with you not loving me, that’s ok, i get it, but hearing you say it and phrase it like that feels so so crushing and so awful, your feelings are your feelings but if they could not be expressed to me in that way that would be great. it’s totally ok for you not to love me but to hear you say it flat out like that is crushing. i like you lots, you’re not an idiot so you know how i feel about you but i can’t hear you say i don’t love you again, please. and i’m not trying to force you to say anything either way because that’s not who i am/want to be as a person, but when you ‘slip up’ like that, please please don’t say oop i don’t love you, just be like oh sorry, i like you lots,
is the message i’ve had to send to my partner tonight because when we were on a call (only a short one) he accidentally said i love you just as we were saying goodbye but then was like ‘oh sorry i don’t love you i mean i like you lots, just goes to show how easy it is to say that to you’ and i kinda had to be like yeah i like you too goodnight because it was my bedtime but like boy, BOY, don’t do that to me, please!! this is the fourth time it’s happened, my sister asked him if he loved me a couple weeks ago and he was like no i don’t but i like them (me) very much and i was like haha same but inside a bit of me died because it’s just not what anyone wants to hear. his hang ups about the word are his and i respect that, i haven’t said it either even though ive felt it since november, but i can’t keep hearing him actively say he doesn’t love me, even if he follows it with i like you lots. has anyone else experienced this? am i being unreasonable? please please tell me if i am, im autistic so i don’t know what a ‘normal’ relationship should look like and yeah
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Ho ho holy shit the amount of family drama lately like. Not even just the usual my parents hating each other shit + my shitty uncle, but all THREE of my brothers being horrible and menaces and problems in their own way and the only one I forgive is bro 3 bc he's 13 and being emo and causing drama is what he's supposed to be doing, the other two are ADULTS
I got (and continue to get!) so much shit as the eldest and parentified child and for WHAT? I'm the only one with my life together who is not Actively Causing Problems and Being A Shitty Person and like, oh no apparently that counts for nothing BC I'm living here to save money/pay off my student loans in 2 years instead of 10 + I'm single, so like clearly I'm a failure and not the only child in this house who has their shit together + is emotionally mature + has done the therapy and is actively working on myself even if it's slow going BC therapy is expensive
But ofc no none of THAT matters and my brothers can be horrible menaces all they want, I'm still not perfect so clearly that's the biggest issue here
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This is satire right? You don’t actually expect people to read this before liking a post do you?
https://www.tumblr.com/mogai-luigi/723411860582547456/dnibyf
I'll answer this directly since i apparently pissed you off so much just by existing that you sent not one but two anons so here you go, the serious answer you weren't expecting. Here's your other anon for info.
My dni/byf is not satire. I'm 100% serious. I didnt right all that just to fuck with someone. As for your rhetorical question, no. I don't expect someone to read all that before liking a singular one of my posts. That's unrealistic and you creating this strawman that I'll simply die if someone on my dni likes one of my posts is laughable. I expect people to read my DNI before FOLLOWING me, which is much less passive. Liking a post out of one the many tags i place isn't a violation of my dni, hell, ive stated before that even reblogging to a hoarding blog is fine too.
That's why it's called a BYF or BEFORE YOU FOLLOW. Its there to tell you things about me before you follow me and me to state who i will outright block if i so choose. If you wanna run the gauntlet of limited time that it takes for me to notice your a nasty(on my dni) and block you, that's your anxious shit, not me.
Here's the even bigger joke, none of that was my triggers, you closeted conservative cuck
I actually have a post in the making that has my triggers and icks in it. It's in my drafts, not even posted. A DNI is not a trigger list, it's a list respectfully asking people with certain beliefs or identities to leave my content alone because i disapprove of said beliefs and identities to such a degree, i don't consider that a moralistic person. It's not about my safe space or triggers or preferred pronouns or wokeness or anything you creep ass fuckers wanna call it, it's a nice thing saying " hey! I don't like racists! Fuck off if your racist!" In the most respectful tone possible.
I have one, 1, uno, singular trigger of mine posted litterally on my pinned. It is one thing, though relatively harmless, that i ask people not show me snowflakes or similar imagery. I'm not gonna trauma dump on you cause your not worth my time but it reminds me of shit that fucked me up. It applies to anyone on my blog. If you can't let go of an emoji, I'd prefer if you left me alone. That's not a big ask.
I have plenty of other triggers, ones that could send me into a full blown panic attack but I'm not making that your problem, am i? I. Am. Professionally. Diagnosed. With. PTSD. And. CPTSD. Triggers are not a woke liberal thing, it's a mental health thing. Its not a " oh no don't step on my toes!!" thing, it's something to prevent unnecessary mental stress. Are you also making fun of veterans who flinch at fireworks? No, your American flag pole sucking ass probably doesn't.
So respectfully, touch some grass. Breathe some fresh air. Don't send stupid ass anons to random victims of extreme abuse on Tumblr who just don't want to have unnecessary mental pain over a fuckin emoji.
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