#it would be so much funnier for Andrew to do anythinf neil asks ever and neil to just one day go 'hehe u love me' and andrew's like 'kys??'

[kevindavidday]

THANK YOU for your “andreil doesn’t actually need to say I love you bc their actions speak louder than words” tag bc I’m right there with you. They don’t *say* I love you, bc it has no meaning to either of them. They didn’t hear it growing up. But actions? Those have meaning to them both. And so it says I love you deeper than words ever could.

you're welcome alsjalkdkss i was so scared to type that cuz ik most of the fandom thinks otherwise which makes sense i mean its their perception but as someone who didn't grow up with a lot of 'i love you's' and the ones that i did hear were tinged with excuses for abuse i kinda understand why they wouldn't say it???

there's so many other ways to express love to say 'i care about you' or ' i DO care' or stepping up when times are rough, sacrificing sleep for someone just to stroke their hair after a nightmare, holding their hand, knowing also how alien the words would be to the other person in the first place

i always thought that actually knowing and accepting someone loves you deeply changes you more than just hearing the words would

i see their i love you as more of a reverse game? the way they confessed in the first place with neil's 'you like me' and andrew's 'i hate you' response it would be so much more meaningful to me if it's a situation where neil says "you love me" and andrew just stays quiet one day yk he doesn't deny it sure but he doesn't need to say it and that's alright!!!

#idk if this makes sense at all but honestly they're too far gone to care about i love yous #it would be so much funnier for Andrew to do anythinf neil asks ever and neil to just one day go 'hehe u love me' and andrew's like 'kys??' #its like 5 am rn and i know i understand why people would want them to and if u think that way then stand by it yk! #but #i persoanally don't care much for it #so i can see them not caring too #aftg #tfc #andreil #andrew minyard #neil josten