so there is an actress I follow on Instagram who posted a story of some artwork she had on her walls and she had a Ladynoir print! And I recognized the Ladynoir print! I already followed the artists and they're relatively small—only a thousand followers or so—and I thought it was so cool that this actress with 6m+ followers had their artwork on her walls! So I send the story to their DMs explaining that it's their artwork in the photo and how cool that is before realizing that, while the artwork looks very similar, it is not...the exact same...
Of course, I immediately try to unsend the message, but Instagram won't let me! There is no unsend option! Apparently you can only unsend a message after the person has accepted the message (WHY??) and just deleting the whole conversation on your end does nothing to delete it on theirs.
I feel like I am fully going insane at this point, I'm so embarrassed and anxious I feel sick, so I make my roommate do a series of experiments with me on her own IG account so I can figure out a workaround to get these messages deleted. Long story short, I have now blocked an artist I really like and can never unblock them lest my embarrassing messages become known :')
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I decided to give a go to @niennanir’s lovely print-your-own-fic recipe on my Inside and Out as a test run and I’m quite pleased with the results as a first pass :D
I wish I’d taken a few more process pictures but there was a slight lull as I had to go shopping for 12x12 cardstock lol, but! I do have a couple closeups/extras that I added for funsies :D
I went with freehanding the title and I think in the future I would opt to not do that lol, at least not without a printed template. That said, both LibreOffice and SAI refuse to recognize my SCII fonts >:0 If you notice on the first page, I used the Ace Attorney font in italic haha, it’s an okay alternative even if it’s not what I actually want |0 I am happy with the gold detailing tho :3c
I did have an unconscionable amount of fun freehanding the ship caption tho ahh <3 <3 Immediate happy stims upon completion, their names together look so pretty ♥ Credit to Zarla’s original minicomic on that one :3
I also managed to get the last sentence of the fic isolated on the last page thanks to the formatting haha ♪
I was also able to add a bookmark! Ma happened to have a couple very thin ribbons to choose from and red ended up complementing the green very prettily!
It reminds me of VUX tongues hehehehe ❤️💕💖💞
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Big shout out to the reddit user who went to Anime Expo and picked up a whole bunch of these exclusive posters for those of us who couldn't attend. Mine arrived today (on ILY day no less!!!!!!) and SOBS it's sooooo SOOOOOOOO pretty I'm gonna frame this and hang it in my office so I can stare at it whenever I'm screaming into my ILY Brainrot tag 😭😭😭😭😭😭💕 I'm so, so overjoyed 🥺
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My friends can never say I don't love them because I'm taking my ass to church tomorrow because one of them is singing
This will be the third or fourth time I've gone to church for her. Praise jebus hallelujah etc
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silly gcse art class art dump thing
idk i just thought i should put these somewhere other than my school book
the last two are art studies, originals and other info under cut
(both Roy Lichtenstein)
mediums in order: pen, monoprinting/ paint, graphite/ pencil, lino printing/ paint again, acrylic paint
I've done more since and am going to (at the teacher's suggestion) paint the mona lisa so yeah uhh yk will maybe update when that happens
its 1am and i may have gotten a concussion or at least a bloody great whack to the back of my head this morning so don't feel that great and have been trying not to fall asleep all day but im getting pretty tired now and the random adrenaline rush i get in the evening is running out so uhhh night ig
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Ooh i love asking silly fic questions so im gonna jump in! (If thats alright :))
Which of all the couples you wrote in your fics is most likely to be end game and which the least?
Ofc it’s alright!!! I love silly fic questions!! Thank you for asking!! I will say, I never really think that much about my guys long term. I’m just showing you a little snippet of their lives, y’know, and I don’t have much clue what happens afterwards. So I’ve never really thought about this question before!!! And it was a lot of fun (and a little sad lmfao) to scroll through all my fics and go “oh you guys probably breakup don’t you?”
Anyway, I think the couple that 100% stays together and never breaks up are cashton from Subject Line and also lashton in Portable Player. I feel good about those guys; I don’t see them ever going their separate ways. Honestly, I always write my fics with kind of the assumption that the guys in the main pairing are “made” for each other in a ways.
That being said, the guys in Bittersweet totally break up and stop talking after high school, sorry.
And lashton in Paint Me never really get together in the first place; they just fuck a couple times and then subsequently go their separate ways :)
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When I was in ninth grade I wanted to challenge what I saw as a very stupid dress code policy (not being allowed to wear spikes regardless of the size or sharpness of the spikes). My dad said to me, “What is your objective?”
He said it over and over. I contemplated that. I wanted to change an unfair dress code. What did I stand to gain? What did I stand to lose? If what I really wanted was to change the dress code, what would be my most effective potential approach? (He also gave me Discourses on the Fall of Rome by Titus Livius, Machiavelli’s magnum opus. Of course he’d already given me The Prince, Five Rings, and The Art of War.)
I ultimately printed out that phrase, coated it in Mod Podge, and clipped it to my bathroom mirror so I would look at it and think about it every day.
What is your objective?
Forget about how you feel. Ask yourself, what do you want to see happen? And then ask, how can you make it happen? Who needs to agree with you? Who has the power to implement this change? What are the points where you have leverage over them? If you use that leverage now, will you impair your ability to use it in the future? Getting what you want is about effectiveness. It is not about being an alpha or a sigma or whatever other bullshit the men’s right whiners are on about now. You won’t find any MRA talking points in Musashi, because they are not relevant.
I had no clear leverage on the dress code issue. My parents were not on the PTA; neither were any of my friend’s parents who liked me. The teachers did not care about this. Ultimately I just wore what I wanted, my patent leather collar from Hot Topic with large but flattened spikes, and I had guessed correctly—the teachers also did not care enough to discipline me.
I often see people on tumblr, mostly the very young, flail around in discourse. They don’t have an objective. They don’t know what they want to achieve, and they have never thought about strategizing and interpersonal effectiveness. No one can get everything they want by being an asshole. You must be able to work with other people, and that includes smiling when you hate them.
Read Machiavelli. Start with The Prince, but then move on to Discourses. Read Musashi’s Five Rings. Read The Art of War. They’re classics for a reason. They can’t cover all situations, but they can do more for how you think about strategizing than anything you’re getting in middle school and high school curricula.
Don’t vote third party unless you can tell me not only what your objective is but also why this action stands a meaningful chance of accomplishing it. Otherwise, back up and approach your strategy from a new angle. I don’t care how angry you are with Biden right now. He knows about it, and he is both trying to do something and not doing enough. I care about what will happen to millions of people if we have another Trump presidency. Look up Ross Perot, and learn from our past. Find your objective. If it is to stop the genocide in Palestine now, call your elected representatives now. They don’t care about emails; they care about phone calls, because they live in the past. I know this because I shadowed a lobbyist, because knowing how power works is critical to using it.
How do you think I have gotten two clinics to start including gender care in their planning?
Start small. Chip away. Keep working. Find your leverage; figure out how and when to effectively use it. Choose your battles, so that you can concentrate on the battle at hand instead of wasting your resources in many directions. Learn from the accumulated wisdom of people who spent their lives learning by doing, by making mistakes, by watching the mistakes of their enemies.
Don’t be a dickhead. Be smarter than I was at 14. Ask yourself: what is your objective?
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