#he'll open up by himself

[blistering-typhoons]

joan asking sherlock what's wrong: i love you so much but if you don't tell me what the fuck is up with you this instant i swear to fucking god-

sherlock asking joan what's wrong: hi :( if you wanna :((( talk :((( i'm here whatever you need whenever you need, you're my best friend, if anything happens to you i will literally die

#to be clear- i love both of these approaches #I LOVE THEM #THEY'RE BESTIES AND I LOVE THEM #also sherlock learning to relate his own personal experiences to joan's and lilewise joan learning that if she just leaves him for a bit #he'll open up by himself #GROWTH! #sherlock holmes #joan watson #cbs elementary

[basilbots]

I already liked the idea of Sun having a short temper and having the capacity to be petty/passive aggressive/etc so my idea of him isn't as completely changed as it may be for other people

Buuut the new lines have given me a new idea for a young Sun freshly transferred from the theater who's pompous and sassy and kinda just unpleasant to be around if you're not a good kid on a good day, who will inevitably be hit and humbled by the horrors

#he still doesn't like moon here buuut also he's totally willing to let moon out himself when he's fed up enough #because moon isnt dangerous he just doesnt like him #until the horrors anyway #which! on their own just give him a lot more anxiety fcgfvhb #but he'll be less full of himself and open to other people #basil rambles #help wanted 2 #sundrop #daycare attendant

[dungeons-and-dragon-age]

Hiii everyone, say, how do your Hawkes go go about sharing their estate? If they do it at all? Is everyone free to come and go or are they more private? Or do they only invite their LI to stay? I'm curious!! :)

#lay rambles #my ocs #oc: liam hawke #oc: lilian hawke #both my hawkes are very social w their friends but i love comparing their boundaries around it #theres variation in rules for specific ppl with both of them ofc but theres still general differences #with liam its all very open and everyone can p much come and go whenever #they dont get extra keys (theyll get lost and he doesnt want randos finding them lol) but they know where to find the spare key #and bodhan and sandal and orana know to let them in whenever #hes very lenient in this this regard but he does have rules abt what he does and doesnt want them to do #mostly its about not making too much of a mess lol bc liam prefers to clean himself #(he doesnt trust the crew with his household and also he has particular ways of doing things and Hates when theyre done differently) #so things like keep your dirty garb at the entrance dont cook by yourselves (this was banned after they did it one (1) time lol) etc #also no fucking allowed. do that somewhere else for the love of the maker he does NOT want to walk into that in his own house #(and it also comes back to liam not trusting them with cleaning but also Not wanting to clean that up lol) #also he is not fond of them going into his room uninvited. most of the house is chill but that is *his* space #he accommodates these rules by e.g. having spare slippers and a little washing basin in the entrance hall for dirty shoes/feet #always makes sure to have snacks in stock that he knows they like #food will have notes abt what to leave for leandra/orana/etc but otherwise food is prepared with his friends in mind #and in general he'll make sure to adjust the space/routine in little ways to accommodate them #(air out when fen isnt there cus he doesnt like drafts; keep curtains open cus anders prefers open spaces; etc) #lilian on the other hand doesnt like when her friends come into the estate without a heads up (cept for emergencies) #but once they have her 'ok' its basically mi casa es su casa #dont yknow. overdo it and get too rowdy but otherwise do whatever #however. she also expects everyone to clean up after themselves. she aint here to play maid and youre all adults #also liam has a general 'please try to not be too wild when leandra is here' and lilian doesnt #not cos she doesnt care but cos leandra is bothered by sth she can speak up herself #oh and lilian uses the basement space as temporary refuge for anyone who needs it (mostly escaped mages) #also side note: both offered gamlen to stay but he refused (out of pride/remorse) #...this got long and i ran out of tag space lmfao so this is it for now xD

[lil-vibes]

hc that dazai only eats food that 1. came from a can that he just opened or 2. food that he can confirm was made by chuuya. sometimes he'll wait until chuuya takes a bite out of dazai's food because he is paranoid enough to think that it's poisoned

#chuuya figured it out bc dazai kept eating his food. even tho dazai ordered his own that is slowly cooling on the side #and so he tested it by 'stealing' some of dazais food and what do u know ? the mackerel can eat something that he ordered for himself #so now he just does it without thinking #oh dazai opened a sandwich across the room? better go take a bite. #in restaurants he'll casually pull dazais dish towards himself. sample it. and then slide it back without looking up #i think that in the 2 years dazai had to lay low some dots connected in his brain and #and he didnt sleep for days bc his brain started replaying every shared meal he had with chuuya #now hes blushing and his heart is gonna beat out of his chest and how dare that slug make him so miserable even when bes not here !! #they are so embarrassing good god #bsd #skk #chuuya my love #dazai #personal hc #my hcs #skk headcanons #pebbles (me) ramblers

[wildstar25]

G'raha looked so serious while he pleaded his case to venture into the World of Darkness with the Warrior of Light. The sudden conviction in his tone had Arsay at a loss for words. Still, she did not hesitate to meet his request with an accepting nod. He was an important friend and in the passing moons that they'd come to know each other, a strong fondness for him had taken hold of her. The prospect of helping G'raha find the truth behind his mysterious inheritance made Arsay's heart pound. It was the perfect venture for them to embark on. The first of many, she hoped. The two turned towards the impossibly tall spire that dared to pierce the heavens above. Arsay's resolve strengthened in its presence. When they next find themselves gazing at the tower -with their quest completed and the world no longer under threat of total destruction- she'll properly ask G'raha to be a companion in her travels. A grin crept its way onto her face as her gaze shifted to him. If Arsay could find it within herself to bare her heart to others so readily just as he does… perhaps their future adventures will find them together, hand in hand.

#ffxiv #wolgraha #WOL posting #G'raha tia #Arsay Nun #graharsay #idk just a random passage in my head that I needed to get out #im not a writer and im not pretending to be one but it was in my brain so sorry if its not as readable as I think it is #anyways imagine you are the loneliest catgirl in the world #and you meet a guy who is so swagless and cringe but in a charming way and he connects with you on a fundamental level #and you become really good friends and every time you show up he smiles in a way that makes your heart do somersaults #and you start thinking that maybe people actually like having you around not just when they need you to kill and destroy things #you let yourself open up a little and you're met with kindness and you realize you are very in love actually #but because you're still figuring out how to talk about your feelings you wait a little too long #and that guy seals himself up in a tower and tells you he'll think about your heroism in the future #and you are very sad and angry about this but thats not allowed so instead you put that energy to being the hero of all time #and every day you go to work you see the structure that reminds you of him and you cant let go of those what if feelings n ur cursed 5ever #would that be fucked up or what

[meowmeowmessi]

im having such a hard time swallowing the fact that barça didn't take a second to launch a smear campaign against messi and will proceed to take him back like nothing happened and he will go WILLINGLY

#xavi straight up lying saying it's up to him confusion the hell out of messi and he'll just... sweep all that under the rug? #like is messi actually mentally okay? pique managing to stab him in the back the way he did makes so much sense now actually #messi leaves himself wide open. he even voted for laporta btw who then proceeded to kick him out lol #he always hands his executioners the knife dfkm it's kinda sad

[bigweldindustries]

tried to record a video of Trent washing his face (they wash their face like cats do it's the CUTEST thing) and instead just captured this shaky footage of him refusing to go to bed because he'd rather climb the wall

majestic old man

#axel grinds on #mantisposting #'bugs are stupid and uncomplex' trent literally knows if he sits up on the corners of the lid when its opened i cant close it lol #also knows not to get on my hand from the lid bc i WILL put him back in #he will however get on my hand from the wall because if he's out for trent free roaming time sometimes ill handle him #he seems to like being handled he flings himself off the desk and sometimes he'll use my hands for leverage to fling himself off of #but usually he'll settle down and sit on the backs of my fingers or my palm for a while #hes a fucking sweetheart hes so silly #hes not got long left and its gonna devastate me lol

[mx-myth]

(nsfw kind of)

Okay yeah fdb would enjoy bondage in a sexual situation but the one who would like it the most full stop is dfs. Once he overcomes his trauma and/or modern au it like. I don't even think it would be sexual for him. Yes I think he could find that subspace would be good for him and bondage could be an element to that. I also think he buys two thin little red ropes and every morning has llh and fdb tie them for him. One for each wrist; one for llh to tie with his god-awful knot, one for fdb to tie off with a pretty little bow. It's not a master's leash and collar and it's not jiao liqiao's chains. They retie them every morning and he wears them every day and when he looks at them he knows that he is loved.

#I think a large portion of his time in subspace would be nonsexual #He'll drift with his head in llh's lap as he reads #He'll let fdb spoon-feed him meals #For dfs it transcends sex. It's not about the control it's about the trust he has in them #He keeps up the facade of di-mengzhu but sometimes he just needs to be a-fei #I believe that every type of intimacy is based on trust #Dfs' journey to get to a place where he is okay with putting himself in their hands is long and hard #But in the end he can do it. And maybe he likes it more than he thought he would #A world that hates him and hunts him down and these two simply let him know that for him their doors will always be open #lian hua lou #mysterious lotus casebook #mlc #di feisheng #li lianhua #fang duobing #feihua #fanghua #difang #difanghua #liansanjiao #mlc brainrot is real

[todayisafridaynight]

The way masato could’ve used tape or something instead of a binder but I like the idea of him being so determined to be a miserable piece of shit that he didn’t out of spite (spite for who? I don’t even think masato knows atp)

BIG AGREE.....

#snap chats #i now get liberty to share all my toxic thoughts <3 #internalized transphobia moment except masato is Perpetually The Moment #when it comes to something like tape i just feel like he'd think it's such a 'sham' so to speak #or moreso that he's a 'sham' since he has to even do things like that #at least with a binder there's an excuse that it's like clothes but. but masato likes his open shirts so LOL #like its so Painfully obvious of what hes doing and he hates the fact he HAS to do that to feel comfortable with himself #so like Forgo It he'll be miserable either way so why bother #i feel like if arakawa found out masato was using tape he'd be concerned too #mostly just cause That Must Hurt Doesnt It <:) esp cause he'd prob be using Not Proper Body Tape. like duct tape ☠️ #NO STORY TIME because I Like Sports i get hurt a lot and i got hurt a lot growing up #so my mom would always use this 'rock tape' or atheltic tape on me aaaaaandd OWWOWOWOWW #TAKING IT OFF SUCKED. didialsouseitforrelatedpurposes UNIMPORTANT POINT IS the concern. the pain. #IM TRULY SPEAKING TOO MUCH NOW i must focus on class.....

[dutybcrne]

Thunderings are happening, my brain has funneled off into hcs mode

#//Aka; guess who am I gonna ramble on abt rn lol #☆ ┆ ( .ooc. ); #hc; kaeya #//That's right; babes! #//Anywho; Kae is NOT a fan of thunder #//If it's not tales of the Electro Archon from his father; then it's the circumstances in which they'd parted #//The moment the storm rolled in; he was terrified esp of the sound and ran himself ragged trying to find a place to escape it #//Damn near ran himself off a cliff had a strike of lightning not made him stumble back from it #//Managed to find his way to the winery where he hid for a bit before Tunner found him and Crepus managed to persuade him to stay #//After damn near running the man winded bc he thought he was trying to chase him off or worse #//The fear lingered and festered more the longer he stayed in the Land of the Anemo Archon; out of guilt for 'deceiving' the Ragnvindrs #//For letting him stay there; for not telling them why he was here. Grew up half expecting to get Smote or smth at any time #//Esp whenever Luc dragged him into mischief or he went to the Church with them for whatever reason #//Mostly the former; but bc it was Luc asking him to clown; he didn't mind the 'potential risk' #//Even as a knight; he tended to get extremely skittish and quicker-tempered when it came to patrol during storms. Still does #//Tho at that time; thinly veiling the fact that he very much felt like a cornered animal every time he had to go and couldn't get out of i #//Esp if Luc was the one who asked him to come with; bc like before; he really didn't ever want nor like to say no to him #//The aversion got worse bc thundered the night of his Confrontation with Diluc too; absolutely increased how much he hated it #//His aversion tends to manifest in a drop in temperatures or frost formation; as well as him pausing and quickly glancing about #//As if he's half expecting a threat of some sort; really he's quickly locating things to distract himself with #//If he's with a trusted person; he'll tend to wordlessly press against their side; then either brush it off like he just wanted to #//Or mutter a quick 'thunder' and Not Elaborate whatsoever. Either they get it or they don't #//He WILL get annoyed if he's teased about it. And it will take him AWHILE before he lets the person comfort him during bc of it #//Bc from that point; he will assume it's done mockingly or bc they feel they HAVE to; and he hates that #//If they let him be or even support him more instead; he will make a passing mention abt how much he hates thunder to start cuing them in #//They just gotta show they are a Safe person--bonus is this opens up a LOT of doors when it comes to trust later #//It doesn't help that he already hates dealing with loud sounds as is; even the blasts from Klee Jumpy Dumpties set him on edge #//But the bad memories he has to thunder make it the worse by far to him

[jrueships]

sauce and/or stef for bingo please!!

TWO FOR ONE!!! here's sauce <3333

and diggs!

#sauce would call u an L to ur face #and then u punch his in ear and he films himself crying at the medbay #diggs wouldnt try opening a water bottle for u and he wont ask for help opening his own either #he'll just struggle rlly badly then get upset and give up and take his anger out elsewhere #hes kinda pathetic but first he has this air of aloof superiority first #it's like a cat balancing on the tub watching u look like a wet rat and judging you #until his fascination with swiping at the faucet accidentally gets him falling into the tub with you #no fake smile for him bcs i think he would rather spontaneously combust than go a second without his opinion being heard #cough his yells and indirect tweets @ allen #NOT SAUCE GETTING AT LEAST EACH IN EVERY CATEGORY HELP #us meeting (parasocially) was Destiny. #It just rang all the right bells when i saw his 'im the best in the draft.' (picture of me looking cool) twit post #mirror mirror on the wall. whos the Coolest of them All 😎 #zero likes #ted tumbunity things #love this mental illness double whammy it“ #it's like getting diagnosed with narcissm and bpd

[meownotgood]

Does aki dislike being vulnerable? like for example, in the beginning of a relationship and such or even in the duration of the relationship..

aki doesn't necessarily dislike it, he's just a bit hesitant to show his more vulnerable side to people, even those he trusts very closely. he tries to keep it to himself, because he doesn't want to burden another person.

it's why he cries, but only in secret. he understands that he's weak, but he doesn't want to show that weakness to anyone else.

#he isn't really putting on a tough guy front #but he's also not quick to show his emotions to people #but I think that in a relationship with someone #he would eventually open up and be able to show those sides of himself to that person #he doesn't want to hide anything from them #he still feels a bit of guilt about showing this side of him to you #but he'll feel better if you reassure him that it's alright #ask mags

[ccaptain]

let me assign you a love language

a knife called grief.

   you have left your house, you have left those people behind, but what are you going to do about the memories which have taken root in you? you can run but not without them. you want someone to sit with you on this cool marble floor while the sun burns everything. you want them to cut your rotten heart and theirs too. you want to sit with it in front of you, let them see you with all your flaws, which haven’t been your fault but you have been made to believe so, and you want them to love you anyways. because you know you’d do that for them.

#read me like a book; will you? ━ (headcanons) #mmmm this hits so fuckign. hard. thank you #haven't had one of these quizzes give me feels like this one bc yeah this is how kaeya loves #he wants love raw. with both people exposed to the very core while he struggles to do it. he wants his lover to see him struggling #and appreciate it. because it's so difficult for him to do that that when he does its like seeing an unique flower bloom #he'll also appreciate the fuck out of his partner for opening up to him! mutual opening and comforting and healing! #kaeya can be the best lover you ever had in terms of patience and love. on the other hand... #refuse to see his efforts to open up? close up to him? treat him like garbage and abandon him? you're in for a FUN time #and by fun time i mean an absolute loss of love from his part to endure the betrayal :) #knowing that he isn't worthy of love if he opens up. the other person loves the façade. the strong charming person he pretends to be #and... kaeya can't really keep the entire jig up for long. he wants to relax and be himself and leaving when he tries to do that... mmm #nukes the entire trust that was built. if kaeya had any love for you once you do that? it's gone. you're most likely not getting it back #or getting back a severely skewered version of it when he keeps you around to not get lonely. which is payback for leaving him #but get him to open up? treat him with patience and love? then he fucking BLOSSOMS #punches the desk in tears and leaves the dashboard to go cry somewhere

[serendipetite]

thinking about yoongi and jimin's bond (again) and made myself cry (again)

#it's the fact that they will bicker endlessly #and yoongi will tease him CONSTANTLY #but then jimin is one he allows himself to be vulnerable and open in front of #and when he himself was sttuggling through so much pain #he made sure jimin knew just how good he was #and put so much into lifting him up #and how the same is with jimin #he'll bicker and instigate #but you can see the protectiveness he has over yoongi in a way #it's just.....i love their bond so much

[flowered-mp3]

y'all i'm exhausted but like... happy and so emotionally overwhelmed :')

#i met my bf's dad. my bf's cousin and gf #and my bf's best friend #all in a single day. i'm absolutely exhausted and drained but happy at the same time :) #they were all so welcoming #his dad is pretty quiet but his mom seemed to like me alot. she hugged me and kissed me on the cheek before i left his house :') #and my bf said that that's the first time that she's ever done that to any of his gf's so far :') #plus his cousin's gf said that i'm good for him (my bf) #and that the only thing that he has to be careful about is to not try all of the fancy dancer shit that i do because she's worried that #he'll break himself lmfaooooo #and my bf said that his best friend seems to like me as well #and that he's happy that i was laughing with his best friend #and he's happy that i had a really long conversation with his mom and his cousin's gf :) #and then when he was driving back to my house #he said thank you to me. for being so open to trying new things/meeting everyone and he sounded so sincere and sweet and appreciative... #i said that he doesn't need to thank me because i'm doing my due diligence as his gf and that since they're all really important to him #they're important to me as well. i really mean that and i think that he took it well. #idk i'm just so overwhelmed with emotion that i just started tearing up in his car. i can't believe that this is my life :') #i'm just glad that his closest family and friends seem to like me and that we get along well :') #now he has to meet my friends and sit down for dinner with my family lol #now THAT'S going to be the challenge lol #e.txt

[clericlost]

" he's good at hiding " is thee w.ill b.yers thesis btw

#out. #mobile. #spoken like what is it episode 1??? #life has taught him time and again that hiding is how he'll survive whether it be from lonnie or bullies or demogorgans #hiding is how he made it through #and the FEW times we saw him Try to stand up for himself it went so so wrong #a shadow monster the size of a skyscraper Posessed him. he felt like he made such a fool of himself re: s3 over dnd #when the mind flayer was still around and melting people #and now in s4 he feels like he's being an ass to jane if he lets himself feel ignored like he did back in s3 #and honestly i think he was kind of being unfair? but it's bc he has NO practice finding the balance of kindness toward others and yourself #he's always swinging between one excess or another bc he bottles things up until they Have to air out #so they do and they're big messy feelings cause he never expresses them in short healthy bursts #idk i just have so many thoughts. he's TOO good at hiding and i need s4 to let him express himself in a healthy and open way #with people he's always known he can trust but hasn't let himself truly participate in that trust when he's so used to hiding as a default #i am rambling <3 let him stop hiding please@suffer bros.... hasn't he suffered enough.....