#glasses are a spectrum

[nat-20s]

I'm not aromantic but I believe in their beliefs

#trying to push out amatonormativity from at least their little corners of the universe...they are So Right for that!!!!! #also i say im not aromantic but tbh honestly tbh im probably on the aro spectrum #'who were all of your childhood crushes! who was your first love that you definitely already had! how many times have you fallen in love!' #um. uh. well. you see. *knocks over a glass of water and runs away*

[k1ranishf4]

I’ve been thinking (surprising, really)

And I’ve come to the conclusion that Bildad the Shuhite and Nanny Ashtoreth give off the same vibe on very different ends of the spectrum

It’s like:

If you don’t like you don’t deserve

me at my me at my

1827 Edinburgh Crowley is in the center of it all

Something like this

*vine boom* girlhood is a spectrum.

#is it the glasses? #nahhh #girlhood is a spectrum #gender? oh that’s her right there #for context my melatonin meds work too well #good omens #good omens 2 #crowley #bildad the shuhite #nanny ashtoreth #1827 crowley

[eightiesfan]

the Ethical Society of St. Louis (Missouri)

#Ethical Society of St. Louis #missouri #Harris Armstrong #60s #stained glass #colour spectrum #awesome #rainbow #peaceful

[catocappuccino]

Snork design by me real?!?!

Bro doesn't know what a hairbrush is...

#it's his natural hair colour please believe him it just is like that for some reason please believe him ple #he broke his glasses at least five times for various reasons #the bits of flowers in his tail and mane are 97% Snorkmaiden's fault </3 #I think Snork's fur would change colours more slightly than Snorkmay's does as I personally headcanon that Snork has a harder time #recognizing his emotions at all even if it's something very simple and more common for him #I imagine both of the snorkblings are autistic but on like drastically different parts of the spectrum in most cases 😭 I think it's funny🔥 #snork #moomin #moomin books

[gr3nlite]

ok the amount of layering for richie's costuming is soso silly to me but i fw it bc he and pete are just opposite ends of a swagless transmasc fashion spectrum (affectionate)

#source: hs me bc i wouldve ate that up when i was younger before realizing my body type doesnt fit #ehen i see short sleeve button ups and thick glasses i get war flashbacks #i have aquired drip since then but man. if this show came out while i was 14 there couldve been so much irreversible damage #grn scream #the swagless hf adults are on a different fashion spectrum in my mind

[fisheito]

i saw the tag first and was so confused bc i could not think of which post it was referring to but then i saw the post and i went OOOHHHH and i giggled bc

i imagine 2 versions of the "I'm a healer, but..." meme 1 is oli in his magnificent assassin robes, looking determined and fierce with his essence regulator 2 is yakumo in front of eiden, lookin resigned while pulling his dick out

#the tags tho #that image with yakumo cry emoji reacting to eiden's demands for sex #no i don't know where yakumo lies on the sex menace grid spectrum to this day #i love seeing tags on the reblogs i live for this. i live for reading surprise comments with my tiny opera glasses #yakumo #i @ the intended user then once i have their attention i remove the @. in case of notifs? i do not know if this helps or not but WELP

[unhelpfulfemme]

CHECKMATE SPOILERS DON'T READ IF YOU HAVEN'T READ CHECKMATE

Hot take: Francis’s insistence on not being able to control himself in Checkmate is a textbook example of intrusive thoughts and shouldn’t be taken at face value the way so many people do. He has OCD tendencies throughout the entire series (perfectionist neat freak, moral OCD as well), and they’re clearly coming to a head as his mental health deteriorates, so he tries to excessively police his own and others’ behaviour to alleviate the anxiety that comes with the intrusive thoughts. The way OCD sufferers do. (And I mean, you know it’s bullshit because if you actually pay attention to the last couple of pages of the book, he checks in with her or waits to be absolutely sure she won’t pull back before reciprocating or escalating every time. He’s very clearly 100% capable of controlling himself.)

I for one love the Sevigny chapters because I just love vicious cycles where people’s mental illnesses feed into each other and this section is an A+ example of that. You have a person with PTSD caused by sexual trauma and zero non-traumatic sexual experiences and then you have her partner, the only person she’s interacting with, repeatedly and obsessively emphasize how she must always be on alert and on her best behaviour because he’s a disgusting uncontrollable monster a hairbreadth away from basically raping her if she makes the wrong move. Of course she will be constantly MASSIVELY TRIGGERED by this and of course at some point her healing would plateau or even regress. She’s constantly tense, her HPA axis is in overdrive, she can’t relax because one wrong move = more sexual trauma. According to the one guy she trusts and connects with. And of course her lack of progress will feed back into his own issues, because if she's scared and repulsed by his desire that confirms that he is Bad and that he must stop desiring her and thinking about her in a sexual way, which intensifies the intrusive thoughts and his attempts to control them.

And the situation is set up the way it is because one of his fears (as stated during their afterparty fight at his place in Paris) is that they won’t be able to let go even if they become bad for each other. So now you have a situation where they are undoubtedly bad for each other and they do, actually, let go of each other and separate because they deem it best for them both. The structure of Checkmate reminds me a bit of a really nasty game of Tetris where the weird shapes are just stacking up and it seems unsalvageable but actually it was all being arranged for one piece to come in and solve 5 rows at once.

#I mean there's also a big element of that meme where the text goes #“why don't you open up?” #and the picture behind is that glass cupboard with all the plates about to fall out if it's opened #and I also think he's somewhere vaguely on the aro spectrum (Kathi genes) and isn't used to the vulnerability that comes with feelings #but those are my headcanons and aren't necessary for the section to work #lymond chronicles #lymond chronicles spoilers

[moe-broey]

But like biggest reason I wanted to share all those is like. I love Alfonse so much it's unreal. This isn't news to anyone BUT. For all the times I love drawing him silly and sweet and charming and kind. I also DESPERATELY. Want to capture his sharper side. Whether it be just a little jackassery or full-fledged Fucked Up Alfonse moments. Like. Esppp in that Alfonse/Lif WIP, I wanted to capture him trying (and failing) a manipulation check. I also wanted to capture his temper. He HAS a temper!!!!!! He's just!!!! Well. I wouldn't say Good At Hiding It, but somehow, the way he carries himself, he's able to convince everyone that he Is. Dude is fucking INSANE. He's fucking SCARY. And sometimes he just sucks. But I Love Him he's so epic he's so cool I need to fucking maul him sometimes and that's. Just the Alfonse experience. AND I NEED TO CAPTURE IT!!!!!!!! I NEED TO‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

#i am so deeply in love w him. i am so worried about woobifying him due to rose tinted glasses. #and esp cause a lot of my work is silly and playful and comfort based anyway!!!!! I'M NOT CAPTURING IT!!!!!!!! #I'M NOT CAPTURINGBTEH WHOLE SPECTRUM OF WHY I LOVE YHIS GUY AND IT FEELS!!!! BAD‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ #it is SO IMPORTANT TO ME. that he just fucking sucks sometimes. #fe alfonse

[golden-west]

#spectrum glass #fern flat #acid memories

[kejay1]

Finally, I transferred the sketch to A4 format for the future stained glass with painting!

(This is an approximate landscape with the Tree of the Spectrum of Feelings according to my AU "Sleepy Forest". Of course, in the form of stained glass, I simplified the style, so.. heh)

#art #traditional drawing #sketch #stained glass #undertale au #dreamtale au #Sleepy Forest dreamtale #SF dreamtale #Tree of the Spectrum of Feelings #landscape #kejay1

[v3nusspeaks]

4-15-24 (I sure am a yapper)

Have a good night, everyone!!!! <33

OKAY! So, here's what happened to me today!! Well, I left school early to pick up my new glasses!!! :))) I got out of geometry, too, so it was worth it. However, I'll have to take finals now since I technically missed 3 or more days. (Finals are something you must do at my school if you miss 3 or more days, so it gets people to attend school more. It's basically like a huge test your teacher gives you every block on the last day of school, and anyone who doesn't have to take them starts summer a day early.) When I got back, I sat at my friend's table for lunch! Well, I used to sit up away from everyone since I had bad anxiety, and there was this group of kids that also sat there for that same reason. I stopped sitting there recently because of an ex-friend (who I will write a post on another time). Anyway, my friend (who I will call "Kady") told me I could sit with her and her friends! (some of the theatre kids) Yes, that's right. I am A THEATRE KID: DDDD ANYWAYS, I just sit there and don't say much because I don't know everyone fully yet, and it's a bit hard for me to make friends. I just kinda stare at them and laugh awkwardly every so often, which kinda sucks. Does anyone have any social interaction tips? I'm trying to be more social and less AWKWARD. I mean, I have a huge debate in my science class tomorrow. I actually got picked as the leader. I'm pretty nervous, but I have the speech and everything written, so I think I'll be okay. Actually thinking about asking my science teacher if she would sponsor me and start a debate club! I enjoy debating and whatnot! Well, that's enough nonsense yapping today; sorry to bore you :((( Please leave social interaction tips if you have anyyyyyyy!!!

(P.S.: MY FRIEND KADY MADE ME A BRACELET WITH THE LESBIAN COLORS ON ITT!!! POGGER FRIEND RIGHT THERE)

#yapping #ramblings #oh well #idk #autism spectrum disorder #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #asd #autism #autistic #social anxiety #glasses #social interaction #issues #new blogger #awkward #debate #friends #i need friends #bored af #new friends #bored

[smolsleepyfox]

Every time I go back to my extended family I am abruptly reminded recreational alcoholism is a core part of socializing for most of society

#foxy speaks #tell me why drinking three beers and then driving a car before coming home and drinking two more or something stronger isn't alcoholism #glass of wine and a beer because you're eating out before driving home? that's on the lower end of the spectrum #thing is. nobody is drunk because they do it all the damn time and have developed a tolerance #doesn't make it alcoholism. welcome to germany

[calamitys-child]

Key to the ability to keep the heid especially in tourism and customer service especially this month is knowing that 1. For every customer calling me names or insulting my colleagues or being condescending there are a dozen shaking my hand and thanking us for being helpful and fun to talk to and being delighted to have had a fun holiday cause of what we do and 2. The more sneery or obnoxious a complaint the funnier it is to all of us once we close the bar and share a post-shift pint and chat

#like. 'hey just so you know the bathroom is out of toilet roll' ? gets 'oh cheers for the heads up we'll get more have a fab day' 'you too!' #on a spectrum up to 'you are disgracefully incompetent for [minor hiccup] and ill personally be seeing you fired' #gets you laughed at the second you turn your back and permanently more ice than drink in your glass forever #we will refund you a purchase or give you a free snack or something and then you will be a laughing stock forever #i hope yelling at a student was worth it bestie !! #anyway ask everyone else in this room I'll have you know that the person you yelled at is a very helpful woman with good taste in music #and im a very polite and competent young man. i have twenty testimonies to swear to it #now kindly leave i need to talk to the people waiting patiently behind your tantrum

[vounoura]

I still have a really big soft spot for ESO's class design tbh, I think having to realistically make every spec able to perform every MMO role while also having to make every one of those classes feel noticeably unique and different even in the same role was a really fun design decision

#saint.txt #in other words ESO has the really fun aspect of not being locked to a specific class to play a specific MMO role (tank / dps / healer) #and even better while each spec shares certain things all of them to some extend feel unique from each other even in the same role #dragonknight might be the typical tank class but NB tank is still a genuine choice that relies on different tanking tools #mag!NB and stam!NB are on completely different sides of the spectrum when it comes to DPS roles. #Stam!NB is your prototypical glass cannon RPG rogue class w/ high DPS but no self-healing (outside of vigour from Cyro.diil) #while mag!NB is entirely DoT effects and is one of the easiest classes to solo on bc of free invis + incredible amounts of self-healing #NB healers are basically vampire-style healers or are cutting into their own HP to heal which makes them noticeably different #from say DK!healers which have a lot more shield/barrier options to straight up prevent damage in the first place than other healers. #and so on. even in the same role each class has its own feel and gimmick(s) which means even with limited classes you're incentivized #to make a lot of alts to play around with. it's such a fun departure from the typical systems and classes aren't pigeonholed into XYZ role #that being said the system also = gear itself being pretty cookie cutter bc everyone has to run to same basic things and core abilities so. #pros and cons y'know. but I still think it's a super fun system.

[harmonyrosesaga]

Does anyone ever get annoyed with the sun when driving? (Speaking to my autistic comrades who are sensitive to bright lights)

Do you find it extremely difficult to see even if the sun isn't shining directly toward your point of view but in your general direction?

Speaking from experience, if the son is shining anywhere near the vicinity of my front windshield, I have to put my visor down, even if it doesn't help.

I want to start driving with sunglasses to help combat the constant sun shining in my eyes but I have to wear my normal glasses to see. (No contacts are not an option because I have ADHD as well and I'll leave them in for weeks, forgetting to take them out.)

Do any of you have a solution to this, that helps you or someone you know.

P.S. No, I can't drive without my normal glasses because my eyesight is horrible and it's unsafe for me and others for me to do so.

#actually autistic asking autistics/people with autism for a solution to block the sun from my eyes while driving with glasses #actually autistic #autistic things #autistic spectrum

[autisticdreamdrop]

new glasses. we haven't worn glasses regularly in a while. now we have to get use to the sensory experience of wearing glasses all the time again. yes, i can see better, but i actively can feel the weight of them on my face and ears. just something we will get use to. i am okay with our new glasses, i hope the other system members will be able to get use to it as well.

#void #glasses #autism #autistic #asd #actually autism #actually autistic #autie #autism spectrum disorder